We are all sometimes stuck in a routine of our sexual life.

These things are normal, especially if you are in a long relationship. It is not exciting when you already know which your partner’s next move will be.

Having that sense of anxiety about his next step is what keeps sparkles in a relationship.

So, experiment.

Do things you never did before.

If you don’t like it, you can always quit. But please, don’t be stuck in a routine. Even if you don’t realize it, a sex routine can kill your relationship slowly.

If you don’t want to end up alone, try some of these tips, I am sure you will love them:

1. Massage.

We all know that massage is great foreplay.

It helps us to relax and enjoy things that are about to happen. For some women, massage is more important than sex because it helps them relax to their maximum.

So, don’t be selfish.

Use your imagination.

Light some scented candles, take a massage oil and start exploring your partner’s body.

No woman can resist this, and trust me, they know how to give something in return!

2. Cream.

Is there a better feeling than being all covered with cream while your man is licking you?

It feels heavenly and you don’t want him to stop.

You probably ask why would women feel special and make all that fuss about this?

The answer is these things happen so rarely and that’s why we feel special about them.

So, guys, if you want to make your woman happy and satisfied, you know what your next step is!

3. Vibrators.

It is a well-known fact that vibrators are used mainly for women. But it doesn’t need to be like that.

You both can play with your sex toy and use its maximum potential. Once you realize it can really turn you on, it can bring your relationship to a whole new level!

4. Kama Sutra.

I am not telling you should use whips and chains and hang from the ceiling but trying new cool stuff can bring enormous satisfaction to your relationship.

Try to imitate some of the positions from Kama Sutra and check whether you can do them.

If yes, that is great! If no, don’t cry over spilled milk—at least you had some fun!

5. Be dominant.

Playing roles brings a lot of fun to sex. Try to be dominant and then submissive, but do your roles ‘for real’, like they are supposed to be.

For example, you can blindfold your partner and do some funny things to him. He will not be able to see so he will be hungry for information.

This is a great way to put some spice into your sex life! I am sure you won’t regret it!

6. Try out a feather tickler.

Feather and ring


If you are a more sensitive and emotional type of person, this sex toy is right for you. It seems as if your partner is rubbing his skin against yours, but the feeling is much better.

When you feel chills all over your body, you are totally relaxed and prepared for action!

7. Striptease.

Every man’s fantasy is to watch his partner doing a striptease. Men are visual beings and what they see can turn them on instantly.

So, if you are brave enough (or drunk enough), try to take off your clothes while your man is watching. I am sure it will be an unforgettable experience for both of you!

8. Make love.

Make love because that is what only matters in the end.

You can have sex with anybody but making love is only with your soulmate.

Enjoy all your emotions, say how much you love each other, and that there isn’t a place where you would currently be rather than in your partner’s arms.

This can produce very deep feelings and emotions and you will feel like you can conquer the world with one hand if your soulmate is holding you with another one!

9. Say ‘I love you’.

We hear these words so often but do we really trust them?

If you want to say that you love your partner, you need to find a right moment to do that.

And what is most important, you need to say it so he believes you. Sometimes, it is better to say nothing and just keep your mouth shut.

Do it only when you mean it and you will feel a deeper bond with the one you love!

10. Sleep.

If you were thinking that you need to be active in bed all the time, you are wrong.

Yes, a bed is a place where miracles can happen, but sometimes we need to get rest from all those things.

Just hold your partner gently and fall asleep.

Trust me, that is the best feeling in the world!

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