{"id":10025,"date":"2017-12-11T12:09:13","date_gmt":"2017-12-11T12:09:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10025"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:46:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:46:50","slug":"la-situacion-sentimental-no-define-la-felicidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-situacion-sentimental-no-define-la-felicidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Su situaci\u00f3n sentimental no define su felicidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tendemos a buscar la felicidad en los lugares equivocados. Una relaci\u00f3n es uno de los m\u00e1s comunes. \u00bfY qui\u00e9n podr\u00eda culparnos? El amor es lo mejor que nos puede pasar<\/a>. It\u2019s also one of the most powerful emotions we can experience. It can fly us over the moon and back. But it can break us and crush us so badly that we forget how to fly.<\/p>\n

Necesitamos tener una felicidad interior que nos haga volar incluso cuando el amor nos rompa las alas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tenemos que dejar de buscar la felicidad en todos los lugares equivocados. Tenemos que dejar de buscar la felicidad en todas las personas equivocadas. Tenemos que descubrir qu\u00e9 significa la felicidad y de d\u00f3nde viene.<\/p>\n

Si alguien nos preguntara, lo primero que dir\u00edamos es que la felicidad viene de nuestro interior. Y aunque esa es la respuesta correcta y la \u00fanica verdad, no conseguimos ponerla en pr\u00e1ctica en la realidad.<\/em><\/p>\n

A menudo ponemos nuestra felicidad en manos de otras personas, nuestros seres queridos, esperando que nos hagan felices. Seguimos poniendo nuestro propio trabajo en manos de otra persona.
\nAnd that\u2019s where it all goes wrong.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, presionamos mucho a la otra persona. Si sienten que su trabajo es hacernos felices, les da un sentido de la responsabilidad que nadie est\u00e1 dispuesto a asumir. Eso les asusta y normalmente les hace huir para salvar su vida.<\/p>\n

Secondly, your happiness is your own responsibility. Your job is to make yourself happy. Everything comes from within. And how we feel and what we feel determines our relationships. We can\u2019t expect anybody to make us happy if we don\u2019t do it for ourselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las veces, las personas entran en una relaci\u00f3n pensando que necesitan a su media naranja para sentirse completas. Al hacerlo, no comprenden que ya est\u00e1n completos por s\u00ed mismos, o al menos deber\u00edan estarlo.<\/p>\n

En las relaciones no todo son arco iris y mariposas; hay momentos dif\u00edciles, se vuelven turbias y complicadas. Son dif\u00edciles de manejar. Y si no est\u00e1s bien con lo que eres, te costar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s superar todo eso.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, there are people who believe that the only way they feel happy is when they are with someone. So they stay in bad relationships. They suffer and they put up with all the toxicity and selfishness of their partners. They long for those brief moments of joy their significant other provides, thinking that is love, thinking that\u2019s the key to happiness, when it\u2019s far from it.<\/p>\n

\"Su<\/p>\n

La felicidad significa hacerte feliz a ti mismo. C\u00e9ntrate en el amor propio y si\u00e9ntete satisfecho con tu vida. Nadie puede hacerlo por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La felicidad significa elegirte a ti mismo y dejando atr\u00e1s a toda la gente equivocada.<\/a> It means leaving all the toxicity, having a healthy relationship with yourself and putting yourself as a priority. It means respecting yourself enough to walk away from anything that doesn\u2019t help your growth.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean staying with the wrong people, catching glimpses of happiness. It doesn\u2019t mean having happiness as a distant memory and giving endless chances to somebody who puts you down, someone who only makes himself a priority, while you are always the one who comes last. Don\u2019t be scared of loneliness, be scared of spending your life on somebody worthless.<\/p>\n

Make yourself happy when you are all by yourself surrounded by silence and with nothing but your thoughts as company. Your thoughts create your world. Create that place inside of yourself where you feel worthy of everything, where you have nothing but love and respect for yourself. Where you are your own hero and you don\u2019t need anybody else to save you.<\/p>\n

Your relationship should add to your bliss, not take away from it. Don\u2019t you ever think otherwise. Don\u2019t confuse sacrifice and compromise. Relationships demand compromise, empathy and having someone\u2019s best interests in your hand. Sacrifice has no place in love. You should never sacrifice your hopes, dreams, and dignity for someone. That\u2019s no way to happiness, self-love or love toward another person.<\/p>\n

Cuando est\u00e1s contento con lo que eres, afrontas el dolor con m\u00e1s facilidad. Lo aceptas como una parte inevitable de la vida. Tienes una mentalidad positiva y sabes que se trata s\u00f3lo de un periodo de tiempo, y que no importa lo largo que sea, tiene que pasar. Sabes que eres m\u00e1s fuerte que eso, sabes que te curar\u00e1s como lo hiciste tantas veces antes. Y saldr\u00e1s de todo como un ganador, orgulloso de ti mismo por haber conseguido superarlo.<\/p>\n

La felicidad siempre llega despu\u00e9s de una inmensa tristeza, igual que el sol es m\u00e1s brillante despu\u00e9s de la peor tormenta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Never think there is a person in this world who is constantly happy. That\u2019s impossible because life isn\u2019t like that. Don\u2019t believe all the fake happiness people post about on social media. Instagram photos don\u2019t show the reality, they just show a moment in time when somebody was happy (or pretended to be).<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all fictional and everybody shows what they want to be seen. All of those happy couples popping up in your Facebook news feed were maybe happy at that moment. They will never post pictures of when they fought or when things got bad. Nobody wants to look at somebody\u2019s messy reality and people sometimes don\u2019t even want to face their own.<\/p>\n

All this social media talk here is just to show that you never know the background of every post or picture, so don\u2019t believe everything you see. Not comparing yourself is also one of the right paths that lead to happiness.<\/p>\n

La vida s\u00f3lo pasa una vez, as\u00ed que debemos intentar que sea lo m\u00e1s maravillosa posible mientras dure. Para ello, la felicidad es una elecci\u00f3n. Tenemos que levantarnos cada d\u00eda y tener como objetivo principal ser felices desde nuestro interior. S\u00f3lo cuando eres feliz por ti mismo puedes ser feliz con otra persona.<\/p>\n

So, don’t think that your relationship status defines your happiness. You are the one who decides it. Your happiness is not something that will come to you\u2014it\u2019s something you have to find and work on. It\u2019s something that starts with you and only you.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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