{"id":100616,"date":"2020-09-24T11:46:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T11:46:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=100616"},"modified":"2022-01-21T21:51:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T21:51:38","slug":"el-narcisista-invalida-a-sus-victimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-narcisista-invalida-a-sus-victimas\/","title":{"rendered":"4 formas en las que un narcisista invalida a sus v\u00edctimas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cada persona es \u00fanica y tiene su propio conjunto de cualidades y defectos. Sin embargo, todos los que sufren de trastorno narcisista de la personalidad tienen algunas cosas en com\u00fan.<\/p>\n

Each narcissist has one primary goal: To humiliate and put down his victim. After all, it\u2019s the only way they can feel better about themselves.<\/p>\n

Invalidating his victims pumps a narcissist\u2019s ego. It gives him control and incredible satisfaction.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed es exactamente como lo hacen:<\/p>\n

Favorecedor<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Todos los narcisistas se halagan a s\u00ed mismos, sin excepci\u00f3n. Al menos, esta es la forma en que quieren ser vistos a los ojos de los dem\u00e1s, especialmente a los que quieren invalidar.<\/p>\n

Exageran cuando se trata de sus logros. Todo lo que consiguen es grande e importante.<\/p>\n

When a narcissist talks about himself, he\u2019ll always use superlative only. He\u2019ll present himself as flawless and almost perfect.<\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019ll probably admire this man\u2019s high level of self-confidence. You\u2019ll be knocked off your feet by the faith he has in himself.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, esto no es m\u00e1s que una m\u00e1scara. De hecho, \u00e9l est\u00e1 haciendo todo esto s\u00f3lo para demostrar a los dos que \u00e9l es mejor que t\u00fa.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sin que te des cuenta, este hombre en realidad est\u00e1 compitiendo contigo. Est\u00e1 comparando tus \u00e9xitos y te est\u00e1 diciendo sutilmente que est\u00e1 por encima de ti en todos los \u00e1mbitos de la vida. <\/b>En otras palabras, he’s trying to destroy your self-esteem<\/a>. <\/p>\n

When he does this, he doesn\u2019t have to tell you directly that you\u2019re no es suficiente<\/a>. En cambio, su fanfarroner\u00eda te menosprecia indirectamente.<\/p>\n

Luz de gas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard about the term, \u201cgaslighting\u201d. It\u2019s a common tactic almost all narcissists use in an attempt to brainwash their victims.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, luz de gas<\/b><\/a> isn\u2019t typical lying. Instead, it\u2019s more about twisting the truth. <\/b><\/p>\n

For example, after your fight with a narcissist is over, he\u2019ll do his best to convince you that things didn\u2019t go the way you remember them.<\/p>\n

Even though you know very well what you said or heard, he\u2019ll work at changing your memory and making you believe what he wants you to believe.<\/p>\n

If you have never experienced something like this, you\u2019ll probably think it\u2019s utterly impossible. However, trust me, this works more often than you might think.<\/p>\n

This way, your abuser places a tiny voice at the back of your mind. A voice that keeps on telling you that you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/b><\/p>\n

Obviously, you can\u2019t be trusted; you misinterpret things and your brain is playing with you.<\/p>\n

Esto es exactamente lo que este manipulador quiere que pienses. Quiere que conf\u00edes m\u00e1s en \u00e9l que en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Consequently, you\u2019ll start thinking poorly about yourself. You\u2019ll have doubts about your judgment making skills and you\u2019ll fall into this trap.<\/p>\n

Soborno emocional<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When someone does nice things for you, you assume that they do it because they\u2019re kind, or you see it as proof of their love for you.<\/p>\n

However, in the case of a narcissistic person, things are never what they seem. In fact, whenever a narcissist treats you well, it\u2019s all a part of his emotional bribery.<\/p>\n

Es la persona que te har\u00e1 experimentar tanto lo peor como lo mejor del mundo. La persona que abusar emocionalmente<\/a> y luego comprarte un regalo caro.<\/p>\n

The person who will make you feel like you\u2019re good for nothing and then surprise you with something you\u2019ve always wanted.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that he loves you. It\u2019s just this man\u2019s way of playing tricks on you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quiere mantenerte a su lado, a pesar de todo el horrible trato que recibes de \u00e9l. Y no s\u00f3lo eso: Tambi\u00e9n quiere que te sientas culpable por haber dudado alguna vez de sus intenciones y emociones.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, when a narcissistic person is emotionally bribing you, they want to make themselves needed. They\u2019re making you emotionally dependent on them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Also, they\u2019re invalidating everything you\u2019ve ever done for them. Every time a narcissist buys you a fancy present or does something nice for you, he wants you to see that he is better than you.<\/p>\n

Te trata mejor de lo que t\u00fa nunca le trataste. Es el tipo de compa\u00f1ero en el que nunca podr\u00e1s convertirte.<\/p>\n

Refutar sus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u201cYou\u2019re too weak. You\u2019re overly emotional. You\u2019re exaggerating. You\u2019re a real drama queen. You get insulted easily.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

Si alguna vez se ha visto implicado en un manipulador narcisista,<\/a> I\u2019m sure that you\u2019ve heard each one of these sentences. Basically, the problem is no longer his treatment of you \u2013 it\u2019s your reaction to it.<\/p>\n

En lugar de ver su error y hacer todo lo posible por corregirlo, el narcisista refuta tus sentimientos. Le da la vuelta a la tortilla y pone el foco en tu reacci\u00f3n ante su comportamiento da\u00f1ino.<\/p>\n

Instead of apologizing, he tells you to toughen up. Instead of admitting that he is the one who is wrong, he convinces you that you\u2019re the problem!<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 conveniente, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Whatever happens and whatever tactic a narcissist tries to use on you \u2013 don\u2019t ever forget that you\u2019re worthy. Your feelings, thoughts, and memories have value and they\u2019re real, no matter what he says.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s tough, but you have to learn how to recognize these techniques so you can turn on your defense mechanisms in time and run for your life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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