{"id":10073,"date":"2020-04-12T09:47:19","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T09:47:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10073"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:03:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:03:16","slug":"alejarse-por-favor-alejarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/alejarse-por-favor-alejarse\/","title":{"rendered":"Si te vas a alejar de m\u00ed, por favor, no te acerques"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Querido t\u00fa\",<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If you are planning on walking away from my life, please stay as far away as you can. I won\u2019t be begging you to stay and I will respect your decision. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were probably thinking about that for a long time and in the end you made the right decision. So, don\u2019t think that I will make a scene in front of you or that I will tell you that I will kill myself if you leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estar\u00e9 un poco destrozado, pero me las arreglar\u00e9 para levantarme y empezar de cero.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that it won\u2019t be easy and I know that I will spend so many sleepless nights thinking about you, but some day it will pay off<\/i><\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada l\u00e1grima que caiga dar\u00e1 sus frutos y yo por fin ser feliz.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

But in all this mess that we are currently going through, I want one thing to be crystal clear\u2014if you leave me once, you can\u2019t get a second chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be there to tell you that we can start over and that everything will be fine. I won\u2019t be able to handle months passing by and then you realize that you still love me so you decide to come back into my life again. <\/span><\/p>\n

At first it will be messaging me on social media sites. Then you won\u2019t get enough of me so you will want to see me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me llamar\u00e1s a altas horas de la noche s\u00f3lo para o\u00edr mi voz y pensar\u00e9 que tal vez a\u00fan hay esperanza para los dos.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t handle going through the same hell with you again. <\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stand that you will look at me with those puppy dog eyes one more time and that a spark between us will be stronger than ever before but in the blink of an eye it will burn out, together with our love.<\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t handle your promises anymore. I don\u2019t need them, I need consistency.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to give myself false hope that everything will be fine and then when I least expect it, my house of cards falls.<\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t handle sharing my life with you again. Because if I do that, it will be like a ticking bomb until you shut me out of your life again. <\/span><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t give myself all in because I know that in the end, I will end up broken with so many scars and cracks in my heart. <\/span><\/p>\n

The last thing I want is to have dreams with you and watch them fall apart again. I can\u2019t go through that anymore. I am not strong enough to put up with your crap anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

But most of all, I can\u2019t stand your promises of eternal love anymore.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Una vez me dejaste en rid\u00edculo, pero you won\u2019t get a second chance<\/a> para hacer eso. Si algo he aprendido hasta ahora es a no confiar en quien te ha hecho da\u00f1o intencionadamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, no matter what you do, I will never let you hurt me again. I won\u2019t be the one who will sit and wait for you, being afraid that you will be in a bad mood and that you will blame me for all of your problems. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be the one who will beg for love. Love is not about that. Love should be as natural as breathing and I won\u2019t settle for someone who doesn\u2019t understand that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me merezco mucho m\u00e1s de lo que me puedes dar. \u00a1Me merezco amor de verdad y sobre todo me merezco un hombre que se quede!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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\"SI<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u2018Dear you\u2019, If you are planning on walking away from my life, please stay as far away as you can. I won\u2019t be begging you to stay and I will respect your decision. You were probably thinking about that for a long time and in the end you made the right decision. So, don\u2019t think…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":10092,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/erik-witsoe-364438.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10073","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10073"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10073\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10092"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}