jugadores<\/a>. En cambio, la mayor\u00eda de tus ex novios parec\u00edan agradables al principio.<\/p>\nMientras te cortejaban, te hicieron un mont\u00f3n de promesas y te consideraste afortunado por haberlos encontrado.<\/p>\n
Sin embargo, a medida que avanzaba cada relaci\u00f3n, las cosas empezaban a cambiar lentamente. Estos hombres agradables se convirtieron en monstruos.<\/p>\n
Lo peor es que te trataban a\u00fan peor en cuanto les mostrabas tu lado vulnerable. Cuanto m\u00e1s los quer\u00edas, m\u00e1s imb\u00e9ciles se volv\u00edan.<\/p>\n
Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1l fue el problema? Bueno, el hecho es que probablemente empezaste con mal pie.<\/p>\n
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Ver\u00e1s, cada uno de estos hombres logr\u00f3 encantarte tanto de inmediato que olvidaste establecer algunas reglas b\u00e1sicas. De hecho, parece que te olvidas por completo de tus \"deal-breakers\" una vez que te enamoras.<\/b><\/p>\n
I get your point of view. You think that compromise is everything and you don\u2019t want to ask for too much from the man you care about.<\/p>\n
Al fin y al cabo, si el amor es real, no hay ninguna necesidad de jugar. No te cuesta admitir tus emociones ante tu pareja, ni le exiges lo imposible.<\/p>\n
Bueno, por desgracia para ti, La mayor\u00eda de los hombres ven este comportamiento como una oportunidad para hacerte da\u00f1o. Empiezan a darte por sentada y dejan de esforzarse en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t misunderstand me; I\u2019m not advising you to become hard to get. I\u2019m not telling you to suddenly become a bitch just to get your boyfriend\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n
However, don\u2019t lower your standards for him either. Don\u2019t settle for the things that shouldn\u2019t be acceptable just because you love him.<\/b><\/p>\n
Remember one thing: you\u2019re training men how to treat you.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Every time you put your man\u2019s needs in front of your own, without expecting him to return the favor when you are in need, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n
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You\u2019re indirectly telling him that he is more important than you and that you\u2019re perfectly okay with your well-being coming last.<\/p>\n
Every time he insults you and you keep quiet, you\u2019re telling him that you don\u2019t mind his behavior. You\u2019re showing him that you really do believe him that you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n
Every time he cancels plans without you saying anything about it, you show him that your time isn\u2019t valuable. You\u2019re actually telling him that you can put your life on hold and wait until he has the decency to see you.<\/p>\n
Every time you double or triple text him, despite him not answering your messages for hours without a valid reason, you\u2019re telling him that he has your undivided attention, no matter what.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re showing him that he doesn\u2019t have to lift a finger to win it and that he doesn\u2019t have to fight for your love. You\u2019re indirectly saying that you\u2019re not going anywhere, despite his treatment.<\/p>\n
Every time you catch him flirting with other girls but stay by his side, you\u2019re showing him that you wouldn\u2019t have a problem sharing him with someone else. You\u2019re telling him that you would even accept his infidelity.<\/p>\n
The list can go on forever but I\u2019m sure you see where I\u2019m going. It\u2019s up to you how you will set rules in your relationship and your partner will just follow your example.<\/p>\n
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Whenever you accept this man\u2019s lack of respect, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t respect yourself either.<\/b><\/p>\n
Whenever you settle for crumbs of his love and attention, you\u2019re telling him that even you think you don\u2019t deserve more.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Whenever you complain about him not treating you right but don\u2019t actually do anything about it, you\u2019re applauding him for his behavior.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Cada vez que le das un segunda oportunidad<\/a> for something he shouldn\u2019t have done, you\u2019re showing him that your capacity to forgive is endless.<\/p>\nWhenever you tolerate your boyfriend\u2019s misbehavior, you\u2019re giving him the green light to keep up the good work.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
You\u2019re telling him that everything he does is perfectly acceptable and that you don\u2019t have a problem with his actions. <\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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