{"id":100890,"date":"2020-09-24T12:13:07","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T12:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=100890"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:02:52","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:02:52","slug":"signos-evidentes-de-una-novia-infiel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-evidentes-de-una-novia-infiel\/","title":{"rendered":"28 se\u00f1ales obvias de una novia infiel y las mejores maneras de manejarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Buscando se\u00f1ales de novia infiel<\/a>? I’m sorry it has come to this, but if your partner is indeed a cheater, you deserve to know!<\/p>\n

Lately, you’ve noticed her taking phone calls at weird hours, a sudden change in her busy schedule, unknown guys commenting on her social media posts, and her buying new clothes.<\/p>\n

She’s been spending less time with you and more time with new friends. And now, you’re worried that there are even more warning signs that you’ve been oblivious to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s where I come in<\/strong>. As a self-proclaimed relationship expert, I’m thoroughly familiar with all the subtle signs that some might miss.<\/p>\n

I just need to warn you of a few things. Don’t let this control your life and don\u2019t get too tangled up in her lies and deceit. I am going to help you figure out the next course of action.<\/p>\n

However, you need to be smart about this. Things could turn sour really quickly if you don’t play it smart. Pay attention and follow my lead.<\/p>\n

I’m going to present to you the telltale signs your girlfriend is cheating, help you cope with it, and list things to AVOID doing. So bear with me.<\/em><\/p>\n

Banderas rojas que demuestran que tu novia te es infiel<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Sigue haciendo cosas sin incluirte en sus planes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hace poco, erais inseparables. Si alguna vez hubo un plan, los dos formabais parte de \u00e9l y no hac\u00eda falta decirlo.<\/p>\n

But in the past few weeks, or even months, she’s been making various plans with one notable difference; she’s stopped including you.<\/p>\n

It’s either little road trips with friends, nights out with co-workers or a family night with her siblings. And even though you always used to be her plus one, lately, there’s no room for you.<\/p>\n

If you’re being honest, it has started to really gnaw at you. What the hell is going on all of a sudden?<\/p>\n

Ha empezado a borrar el historial de su navegador a diario<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is something she never used to care about. She’d Google the most random stuff and just leave it there knowing you’d probably tease her (which she secretly loved).<\/p>\n

Pero ahora, en cuanto se levanta del port\u00e1til, sabes que el historial de b\u00fasquedas va a estar vac\u00edo.<\/p>\n

Sure, people do this and it’s not that weird but for someone who never gave a damn about this a few weeks ago, it sure seems suspicious.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to seem paranoid but you know her too well to think it was for no reason.<\/p>\n

Se pasa la mayor parte del tiempo pegada al tel\u00e9fono mandando mensajes a alguien.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Los mensajes de texto siempre han sido su forma preferida de comunicaci\u00f3n, pero la cuesti\u00f3n es que t\u00fa has sido el receptor durante mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n

But now, even when she’s with you, she is glued to her phone and kind of secretive about who she’s texting. If it was a friend, wouldn’t she just tell you because it’s honestly no big deal?<\/p>\n

This is easily a good sign that she’s hiding something. When you’re constantly on your phone but unwilling to tell your partner who you’re texting, there’s definitely something fishy going on there.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo Disculparse Por Ser Infiel: 10 maneras de hacer que tu pareja te perdone<\/p>\n

Evita hablar de vuestro futuro en com\u00fan (\u00a1se\u00f1al de alarma importante!)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Antes ten\u00edais muchos planes y los dos estabais igual de ilusionados. Pero ahora, cada vez que mencionas alguno de esos planes, ella cambia de tema.<\/p>\n

It’s like she feels uncomfortable discussing it but you can’t figure out why. Could she be having second thoughts?<\/p>\n

De todas las se\u00f1ales de una novia infiel, evitar temas relacionados con vuestro futuro en com\u00fan seguro que parece algo de lo que preocuparse.<\/p>\n

Se ha aficionado a un nuevo hobby al que nunca te deja acompa\u00f1arla<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

And frankly, you’re really suspicious. Why would she keep refusing to let you give her a ride, not to mention keep her company there?<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe repente le gusta montar a caballo o lo est\u00e1 utilizando como tapadera para sus actividades infieles?<\/p>\n

R\u00e1pidamente cambia de tema cuando surge una persona en particular.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There’s this guy you’ve always had your doubts about. Maybe this is an old friend who clearly has a thing for her or a co-worker she seems too cozy with.<\/p>\n

For whatever reason, you’ve always felt a weird vibe around him and now, whenever you mention this guy’s name, she blushes.<\/p>\n

No matter how hard she tries not to, it’s all over her face. She feels deeply uncomfortable discussing him, and what reason could she possibly have for that?<\/p>\n

Rara vez tiene tiempo para salir pero sus excusas no son precisamente convincentes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s okay if you don’t always have time to hang out but at least give a good excuse, right? Well, not according to her.<\/p>\n

She has stopped caring about being convincing. She just blurts something out half-heartedly or says she’s too busy and that’s it.<\/p>\n

You can see her apathy from miles away, but you keep convincing yourself that it’s all in your head (knowing very well that it’s a lie).<\/p>\n

De repente siempre quiere saber d\u00f3nde est\u00e1s y todos tus movimientos.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Obviamente hay muchas se\u00f1ales de una novia infiel, pero querer saber tu paradero exacto se mantiene en el top ten.<\/p>\n

You’re not a paranoid person but it totally makes sense that she’d want to know this so as not to get caught with her new partner.<\/p>\n

You can’t even believe that you’re even saying it, but what’s the point in deluding yourself anymore?<\/p>\n

Le echa la culpa de todos los problemas a su trabajo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Whatever fight you have or whatever complaint you have about her, it’s all work. It’s either the reason for her strange behavior or it’s what’s been keeping her on edge.<\/p>\n

However, that’s just too convenient. We could all easily be blaming stuff on our hectic schedules but at some point, that just becomes absurd.<\/p>\n

She clearly doesn’t even know what the hell she’s doing and she’s desperately grasping at straws, hoping you’d go for the BS. But you know better than that.<\/p>\n

She frequently has to leave abruptly, citing a \u2018friend emergency\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s kind of like those scenes in the movies when an on-call doctor gets paged for an ER emergency. Only she’s not a doctor and there is obviously no emergency.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo una amiga sigui\u00e9ndole la corriente a su mentira, ayud\u00e1ndola a librarse de pasar tiempo contigo.<\/p>\n

Once, you may have even believed her but does she honestly expect you to believe that her bestie keeps having meltdowns every other day? Yeah, I didn\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n

Ver tambi\u00e9n: 15 Cosas que deber\u00edas poner en la lista de necesidades de tu relaci\u00f3n de pareja<\/p>\n

Ha empezado a vestirse de forma diferente completamente de la nada.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Not that she didn’t care about how she looked before, but now, it’s a whole new her. She’s been buying clothes that she normally doesn’t wear and splurging more than usual.<\/p>\n

The worst thing is, she doesn’t even think that you notice these things, but how could you not? You know her better than anyone.<\/p>\n

And naturally, you’d be the first to notice all these sure signs of something being off about her.
\n\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo va a seguir as\u00ed y en qu\u00e9 momento debes hacer algo al respecto?<\/p>\n

Cada cosa que haces ha empezado a molestarla<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Este es uno de los signos m\u00e1s dolorosos de una novia infiel. Cada cosa que haces ha empezado a molestarla de verdad.<\/p>\n

La forma en que masticas, c\u00f3mo te sientas, tu cercan\u00eda y tus rarezas que ella sol\u00eda encontrar adorables.
\nNow, she’s always snapping at you about the littlest things.<\/p>\n

And you have to be honest with yourself. These things don’t just happen for no reason. Something has to be causing them.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t want to introduce you to her new friends<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She has this new crew that she’s always going on about, but so far, not even a mention of meeting them. What gives?<\/p>\n

Could it be because she has another guy and she plans on getting rid of you? Or maybe, she just hasn’t gotten round to it yet?<\/p>\n

It would be awesome if it was the latter, but something tells you that it’s the former.<\/p>\n

Siempre est\u00e1 distra\u00edda y rara vez ofrece contacto visual.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Your previously extremely attentive girlfriend has become so distracted. You’ll ask her something, and she’ll just blurt out yes, even though it wasn’t a yes or no question.<\/p>\n

She rarely offers eye contact and she never really seems to know where her head is at. It feels like she’s juggling a little too much and it’s really starting to affect her behavior.<\/p>\n

You’ve found new sultry lingerie that she’s never worn for you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Al principio, te hizo mucha ilusi\u00f3n. Encontraste la lencer\u00eda y cre\u00edste que la guardaba para una ocasi\u00f3n especial, as\u00ed que esperaste pacientemente.<\/p>\n

But weeks have gone by, and she still hasn’t worn them for you. I mean, what’s the point of buying lingerie that you won’t wear?<\/p>\n

Unless she is wearing it\u2026 only not for you. You’re not really sure whether you should be heartbroken or mad or confront her about it.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t care about being physical with you anymore<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Le encantaba un buen revolc\u00f3n bajo las s\u00e1banas. Estabais muy compenetrados y rara vez pasabais m\u00e1s de unos d\u00edas sin hacerlo.<\/p>\n

But now, she’s never in the mood. It’s like those clich\u00e9s in movies. She’s either got a headache, she has to get up early or she has extra work to catch up on.<\/p>\n

\u00bfD\u00f3nde est\u00e1n sus necesidades? \u00bfLas satisface en otra parte? \u00bfQuieres saberlo?<\/em><\/p>\n

Se pone a la defensiva cada vez que le haces una pregunta.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las chicas que enga\u00f1an aprenden a ponerse tan a la defensiva que hasta la pregunta m\u00e1s sencilla les parece un ataque. Presta atenci\u00f3n a esto.<\/p>\n

Let’s say you ask her what she was thinking of doing after work. An innocent question, right? To her (if she’s cheating<\/a>), it feels like an interrogation into her whereabouts and she’s not having it.<\/p>\n

That’s how you know that something’s going on. A girl with nothing to hide would simply say: No mucho, quiero tomar un caf\u00e9 despu\u00e9s<\/em>? Pero una novia infiel tiene su sistema de defensa.<\/p>\n

See also: 10 Things To Do If You’re Feeling Disrespected In A Relationship<\/p>\n

Quiere posponer vuestra esperada escapada rom\u00e1ntica<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You’ve been looking forward to this for months! FINALLY, a whole week of just you and her spending quality time together away from the world but suddenly, she can’t go and she doesn’t even seem broken up about it.<\/p>\n

Sabes que si ella realmente<\/em> wanted to go, she’d make it work but she wants to postpone it, despite it taking you months to get it all arranged. Why would she do that unless there was someone else?<\/p>\n

Sus mejores amigas act\u00faan de forma extra\u00f1a contigo<\/h2>\n

\"cuatro<\/p>\n

You can tell a lot about this situation by simply observing her best friends. They likely know everything, so if they’re being weird, cold, or distant around you, something’s up.<\/p>\n

Sobre todo si os llev\u00e1is bien. S\u00f3lo quieren mantener las distancias, porque sabiendo lo que saben, les resulta raro estar cerca de ti.<\/p>\n

Ha empezado a pasar mucho tiempo en el gimnasio<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She never used to care about going to the gym but now, it’s her sanctuary. You’ve been together so long (you may even have survived a long-distance relationship) that you don’t care about her looking perfect.<\/p>\n

Sabe que la quieres sea cual sea el aspecto de su cuerpo, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 se empe\u00f1a tanto en lucir su mejor aspecto despu\u00e9s de tanto tiempo sin importarle?<\/p>\n

Sure, girls like to look good and feel healthy, but it seems like there’s a reason behind this transformation that she’s just not sharing.<\/p>\n

She keeps saying, “I,” instead of, “We”<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Every single, “We,” has now magically turned into, “I”… and it’s probably the most heartbreaking thing to hear.<\/p>\n

Ya no te lleva a visitar a su familia.<\/h2>\n

\"madre<\/p>\n

Siempre la acompa\u00f1abas a visitar a sus padres. Siempre era una escapada encantadora y t\u00fa ten\u00edas la mejor
\ntiempo. Realmente te preocupas por sus seres queridos, pero eso tambi\u00e9n se ha detenido.<\/p>\n

She goes to visit them by herself so as not to \u2018”inconvenience you\u2019 but” she knows all too well that it’s no bother at all.<\/p>\n

Now, you feel like a burden and that everyone knows what’s up but you.
\nProbablemente vaya all\u00ed y discuta la situaci\u00f3n, haci\u00e9ndote sentir a\u00fan peor de lo que ya te sientes.<\/p>\n

23. Todos sus aparatos est\u00e1n bloqueados<\/p>\n

You’re not sure if she ever locked her phone and gadgets before but she sure is doing it now. It’s like deleting her browser history isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

She is making sure to not get caught and she’s covering all fronts.<\/p>\n

When she’s upset, she doesn’t turn to you to console her (like she always used to do)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When she’s upset or sad, you were her shoulder to cry on. You always know what to say and you always manage to make her laugh.<\/p>\n

That was one of your favorite things about your relationship but ever since you got the impression that she is a cheater, you’ve stopped being her go-to person.<\/p>\n

O ya no tiene d\u00edas malos (muy poco probable) o hay alguien nuevo que la sostiene en sus peores momentos.<\/p>\n

Tu instinto te dice que ella quiere romper...<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You know your gut has never failed you before. Whenever you get a feeling about something, it turns out to be right. And no matter how much you want to ignore it, you can’t.<\/p>\n

You have to believe that your gut feeling knows what’s up. It’s heartbreaking to think your girl is fooling around, but you have to be real.<\/p>\n

Isn’t it better to face the music and give yourself a chance for something real? The sooner you do it, the sooner the pain will stop.<\/p>\n

Lucha por luchar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Ella est\u00e1 constantemente buscando peleas. Esto es lo que las parejas infieles hacen con el fin de hacer usted<\/em> romper con ellos<\/em>. Inteligente, \u00bfeh? De esa manera, consiguen la salida f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

However, my advice is, don’t fall for it. Don’t give her the satisfaction of ending it for her. If she really wants to break up, she might as well do it the right way.<\/p>\n

You deserve to hear the whole truth; after all, you’re the one hurting here. The least she can do is be honest and apologize for things.<\/p>\n

Nothing can change what she did, but it’s going to help you heal after hearing her it from the horse’s mouth.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: El ciclo de relaciones push-pull y c\u00f3mo superar esta din\u00e1mica<\/p>\n

She doesn’t laugh at your corny jokes anymore<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You know you’re no Dave Chappelle, but you do have your own special comedic charm. And your girlfriend was your biggest fan before.<\/p>\n

So what if your comedic timing wasn’t the best? That’s what made you so funny. At least that’s what she always thought, hasta hace poco<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Now, you can’t get a glimpse of a smile from her, not even when you genuinely try to make her laugh; she barely forces herself to react.<\/p>\n

And if you can’t laugh together anymore, what do you really have?<\/p>\n

Esto fue lo tuyo<\/em> and now, you’re afraid that there’s someone else making her laugh.<\/p>\n

Se ha vuelto fr\u00eda, distante y desinteresada en su relaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Ultimately, her entire demeanor has become cold and distant. She’s no longer invested. She simply goes with the flow.<\/p>\n

It’s like she’s there but her passion and adoration are long gone. The thing that made your relationship so special has withered.<\/p>\n

She is now someone you merely spend time with but things have changed significantly. Now, it seems like she’d rather be en cualquier lugar<\/em> sino aqu\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer en el futuro?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtete sentir lo que sea que est\u00e9s sintiendo en este momento<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

First and foremost, feel your feelings. Don’t pretend to be above it all. If you feel like crying, cry. If you feel like shouting, shout.<\/p>\n

But whatever you do, don’t keep your feelings bottled up. Believe me, eventually, you’re going to explode and the worst thing for you is pretending that you’re okay.<\/p>\n

Learning that your significant other is a cheater is a big blow. A few months back, you were planning on moving in together, and now, you’re figuring out why you’re no longer enough.<\/p>\n

Date tiempo para sentirlo todo antes de decidirte a atacarla. El tiempo est\u00e1 de tu parte.<\/p>\n

Abstente de tomar decisiones importantes cuando te encuentres en una situaci\u00f3n tan vulnerable.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

One of the worst things people in pain can do is make life-changing decisions. Think about it. Right now, you’re at an all-time low.<\/p>\n

You’re clearly not in the right frame of mind to be making cualquier<\/em> decisiones y todo lo que hagas mientras sufres se volver\u00e1 en tu contra. As\u00ed que ve con calma.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you want to break up, throw her stuff out the window or talk shit about her, don’t. I promise you’ll regret it.<\/p>\n

Wait it out until you’re sure that you can live with that decision and be okay with it in the long run.<\/p>\n

Don’t even think about blaming yourself<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s not your fault. If you were struggling or having any issues, the only right thing to do was talk about it. Cheating is never the way.<\/p>\n

So if she tries to blame you for being the cheating partner, nip it in the bud. You are both adults and you should’ve had the tough conversation if she wanted to break up.<\/p>\n

Pero desde que decidi\u00f3 ir por el camino del enga\u00f1o, toda la culpa es suya.
\nNobody forced her to sleep with someone else so don’t you dare blame yourself for her lousy actions.<\/p>\n

Considera todas tus opciones antes de enfrentarte a ella<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres romper<\/em>? \u00bfQuieres hablarlo<\/em>? \u00bfNecesitas tiempo para resolverlo todo?<\/em>? Aseg\u00farate de saberlo antes de enfrentarte a ella.<\/p>\n

Lo mejor es que entiendas a d\u00f3nde quieres llegar antes de que ella tenga la oportunidad de llenarte la cabeza de tonter\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Prepare yourself mentally before the conversation, so you find it easier to stay true to what you really need. Don’t let her sway you.<\/p>\n

Rod\u00e9ate de buenos amigos que te ayuden a darle sentido a esto<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes cu\u00e1l es la mejor medicina para un coraz\u00f3n roto? Un buen c\u00edrculo de amigos \u00edntimos.<\/p>\n

After all, they are the ones who’ll be there when your partner leaves. They are the ones who’ll pick up the pieces and make you breakfast when you don’t want to get up in the morning.<\/p>\n

Those people will be the ones helping you find a way out of this mess. Remember, they want only the best for you. So be sure to listen to their advice. They know what they’re talking about.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Una relaci\u00f3n disfuncional: Qu\u00e9 es y c\u00f3mo reconocer las se\u00f1ales<\/p>\n

Habla con tu novia infiel y mira lo que tiene que decir<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Once you’ve done some soul-searching, talked to your best friends, and got your bearings, you may proceed to talk to your partner.<\/p>\n

First, let her know how this whole thing has made you feel. Do not let her lead the conversation. She is the one in the wrong and she should be happy that you’re willing to have a calm discussion.<\/p>\n

Ask her whatever you want to know and don’t let her leave out any details. You deserve to know how much of a fool she has made out of you.<\/p>\n

Only after the conversation should you start making a final decision regarding your relationship. Find out all the facts and do what’s best for usted<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Acude a tu m\u00e9dico y hazte pruebas de ITS<\/h2>\n

Este es un paso desafortunado, pero realmente necesita hacerse la prueba. No importa lo que diga (era s\u00f3lo un tipo y ella jura que llevaba protecci\u00f3n<\/em>), nunca se puede jugar con la salud.<\/p>\n

Go do what you need to do and be sure that you haven’t contracted any diseases.<\/p>\n

Trust me, it’ll give you a peace of mind knowing at least one honest thing came out of her mouth about her cheating escapades.<\/p>\n

Nunca permitas que esto cambie tu percepci\u00f3n de ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esto no se refleja en ti de ninguna manera. La forma en que los dem\u00e1s deciden comportarse es cosa suya, de nadie m\u00e1s. Rep\u00edtetelo a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t mean that you’re not enough. Her cheating on you doesn’t make you any less of a man. And it definitely doesn’t mean that some other girl won’t cherish you.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica persona a la que esto perjudica es a tu novia y, te diga lo que te diga, recu\u00e9rdalo siempre.<\/p>\n

Deja a tu pareja si no se disculpa<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If your cheater of a girlfriend doesn’t seem extremely apologetic and with really good reasoning (not that there is any), just leave.<\/p>\n

Volver con un infiel rara vez es la decisi\u00f3n correcta.<\/p>\n

Hay casos concretos en los que podr\u00edas considerarlo (fue s\u00f3lo una vez, estaba m\u00e1s que borracha y es destripado<\/em> about what she did) but if it happened on a regular basis and she is only sorry because she got caught, I’m sorry but what are you still doing with her?<\/p>\n

I know that love can really mess with your head but don’t let it blind you to the point of letting her treat you unfairly twice.<\/p>\n

Deja de permitir que nadie te trate mal (ya sea ella o una nueva pareja)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

After deciding what your next move is, turn over a new leaf and let this be the start of something better. If you’ve decided to stay with her, I hope that you thought it through.<\/p>\n

No matter what, from now on, don’t let anyone treat you badly. No more shady stuff, lousy excuses or secretive behavior.<\/p>\n

It’s all cards on the table or you’re out.<\/p>\n

Once, it was a mistake but the second time, it is a choice. Complete transparency is the only way to go from here, and it’s no negociable<\/em>.<\/p>\n

10 cosas que debes EVITAR despu\u00e9s de que tu pareja te enga\u00f1e<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t publicly trash-talk your cheating partner<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Even though these signs of a cheating girlfriend can be overwhelming, you should under no circumstances stoop to her level. You’re better than that.<\/p>\n

Entiende que hablar mal de ella en p\u00fablico o en las redes sociales s\u00f3lo te har\u00e1 quedar como el malo de la pel\u00edcula y le ayudar\u00e1 a ganarse su simpat\u00eda.<\/p>\n

My mom always told me to keep all issues between our four walls and when you feel like shouting it from the rooftops the most, that’s precisely when you should remain quiet.<\/p>\n

Within a few weeks, once this initial fury and frustration withers, you’ll be extremely thankful you were able to keep it private.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow yourself to fall into a downward spiral<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Okay, so right now, after having confirmed that your girlfriend has betrayed you and trying to figure out where to place your anger, you’re probably at your wit’s end.<\/p>\n

That’s totally expected. How else could a person feel upon finding out that their life partner is fooling around? But here’s the thing…<\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtete sentirlo todo, pero en cuanto empieces a notar que las cosas se est\u00e1n descontrolando, llama a tu mejor amigo. Ve a visitar a tus padres. Pasea a tu perro (si tienes).<\/p>\n

These things will help you regain your perspective and prevent you from being a victim of your own emotions. Find your safe haven and don’t let yourself fall too deep.<\/p>\n

If you have children, don’t get them involved in your mess<\/h2>\n

\"padre<\/p>\n

Your kids (provided you have any) are innocent in all of this. Don’t make them feel your mutual anger and don\u2019t make them pick sides.<\/p>\n

Children are sacred and they should never sense a father’s wrath toward their mother or vice versa. When it comes to them, be sure to never yell or scream at each other when they’re near.<\/p>\n

One day, they’ll remember it all and have really ugly memories of their parents being at each other’s throats.<\/p>\n

Don’t taint their memories. Keep it civil and let them know that they are not to blame for anything. Let them feel your love now more than ever.<\/p>\n

Don’t negate what happened and just hope things will magically be okay<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

La negaci\u00f3n es tu enemigo. Lo que ocurri\u00f3 entre vosotros dos fue muy real y no tiene sentido negarlo. Todas esas horas tard\u00edas y el comportamiento extra\u00f1o eran por una raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

According to renowned psychologist Dr. Paul Coleman, PsyD, \u201cSomeone who must \u2018work late\u2019 all of a sudden at times that go beyond a reasonable explanation may be cheating.”<\/p>\n

So don’t do yourself a disservice and deny the obvious. Things are kind of messed up right now but they will pick up eventually. Just be honest with yourself.<\/p>\n

Don’t overplay the victim card<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This might sound rather harsh but it’s for your own good.<\/p>\n

If you acquire a victim mentality, it’s going to be hard to snap out of it so instead, pick yourself up, brush it all off and keep your head high. Your girlfriend is the one who did something bad, not you.<\/p>\n

Don’t let her make you feel overly victimized, as she’s not worthy of such a substantial effect on you. You know that you’ll get over this.<\/p>\n

It won’t happen overnight, but one morning, you’ll wake up and realize that you’re finally starting to be okay. And that is going to feel priceless.<\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone but you decide your next course of action<\/h2>\n

Nobody but you gets to tell you how you’re going to move forward. Whether you break up, decide to forgive her, or take some time to think it through, it’s all up to you.<\/p>\n

This is your relationship and your life. Don’t let anyone affect your decision because you’re the one who’s going to have to live with it.<\/p>\n

Ver tambi\u00e9n: Reconocer y romper el patr\u00f3n perseguidor y distanciador en una relaci\u00f3n<\/p>\n

Don’t refuse to see a therapist right off the bat<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Seeing a clinical psychologist or anyone with a Ph.D. in mental health might prove to be the best decision you’ve ever made for yourself. They can help you resolve your issues in the healthiest ways.<\/p>\n

Cualquier problema que puedas tener, cr\u00e9eme, est\u00e1n equipados para manejarlo. Vi a uno hace unos a\u00f1os y me ayud\u00f3 a recuperarme.<\/p>\n

There is no shame in deciding to help yourself and whoever makes you feel that way doesn’t have your best interests at heart.<\/p>\n

Don’t forget about the importance of taking care of yourself<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

While you’re hurting, don’t forget that you deserve some tender love and care. You deserve to feel loved and appreciated so don\u2019t deny yourself an opportunity to do something that can help your well-being.<\/p>\n

Surround yourself with close friends and don’t do anything that drags you down.<\/p>\n

Es tu momento de brillar. Deja que esta experiencia te convierta en la persona que quieres ser.
\nI’m fairly certain that you are craving some much-deserved love and warmth.<\/p>\n

Don’t rush things, not everyone heals the same way<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No todo el mundo reaccionar\u00e1 de la misma manera ante estas se\u00f1ales de una novia infiel. Algunos perder\u00e1n la cabeza, otros se quedar\u00e1n paralizados y otros tardar\u00e1n meses en asimilarlo.<\/p>\n

But guess what? There’s no time limit on how long it takes to get over heartbreak. However long it takes, that’s how it should be.<\/p>\n

Take your time and don’t worry about what anyone might think. You deserve to feel like yourself again, no matter when that is.<\/p>\n

Todas las personas son muy diferentes y ser\u00eda muy inusual que todo el mundo sanara de la misma manera y al mismo ritmo.<\/p>\n

Don’t be too hard on yourself, your partner’s actions don’t define you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Lastly, take it easy on yourself. Don’t be too harsh on yourself because there truly wasn’t anything you could’ve done differently.<\/p>\n

Those who want to cheat will do so regardless of how attentive or caring you are. Please understand that her behavior doesn’t define you in any way.<\/p>\n

She made a conscious decision to play with your heart and that’s entirely on her. Don’t take part in her blame because it doesn’t belong to you.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer es seguir siendo t\u00fa mismo y tratar a los dem\u00e1s con amabilidad y respeto. Creo firmemente que el karma se encargar\u00e1 del resto.<\/p>\n

En conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

If you’ve realized that these signs of a cheating girlfriend hit too close to home, it’s time for a really difficult decision.<\/p>\n

Your next steps depend on your partner’s (lack of) apology, her reasoning and your gut feeling. Is this person worth a second chance or has she crossed the line?<\/p>\n

Espero sinceramente que mi exhaustiva investigaci\u00f3n sobre el tema haya facilitado un poco esta desgarradora decisi\u00f3n. Recuerde que nadie<\/em> lo consigue menos t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Reevaluate your situation and see where your heart is, but don’t let yourself fall for the same tricks again. Let this experience be your guiding light from now on.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo que quieres es que te vuelvan a enga\u00f1ar. Te mereces una relaci\u00f3n duradera y comprometida con alguien que te respete demasiado como para andar con tonter\u00edas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que preg\u00fantese lo siguiente: After everything you’ve been through, can your girlfriend really give you that?<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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