{"id":101039,"date":"2020-09-29T19:44:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T19:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=101039"},"modified":"2022-03-07T16:08:53","modified_gmt":"2022-03-07T16:08:53","slug":"salir-con-un-medico-o-estudiante-de-medicina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/salir-con-un-medico-o-estudiante-de-medicina\/","title":{"rendered":"26 Ventajas e inconvenientes de salir con un m\u00e9dico (o estudiante de medicina)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Salir con un m\u00e9dico o un estudiante de medicina puede ser todo un reto.<\/p>\n

They have very little free time for date nights, and if Grey’s Anatomy has taught us anything, it’s that work-life balance can be muy <\/em>desordenado.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re planning to enter into a romantic relationship with someone in the medical field, I highly suggest that you keep reading.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In this article, I reveal what dating doctors and med students is really like, and whether there’s hope to make the relationship work.<\/p>\n

Ultimately, you’re going to be the judge if the relationship is merece la pena<\/a> or not. Just know that dating a doctor has its perks as well \u2013 it’s not all night shifts, long hours, and life-or-death situations.<\/p>\n

A continuaci\u00f3n analizo los pros y los contras de tener una pareja en el campo de la medicina. Averigua si tienes lo que hace falta para que funcione.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ventajas tiene salir con un m\u00e9dico?<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

First, let’s start with the good stuff. As I said, it’s not all long shifts, med school and not having enough time for you.<\/p>\n

All\u00ed son<\/em> Tambi\u00e9n hay grandes ventajas en salir con un m\u00e9dico. Compru\u00e9balas.<\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1 su propio m\u00e9dico de guardia a mano<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe has hecho da\u00f1o en la mano? \u00bfHas pisado algo muy afilado? \u00bfHas comido algo que te ha sentado mal? No te preocupes. Tu m\u00e9dico est\u00e1 aqu\u00ed.<\/p>\n

How cool is that? You don’t have to run to the E.R. for every single thing as your partner will be able to help you in an instant.<\/p>\n

You basically have your own personal on-call physician. There’s a reason there aren’t many single doctors out there.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re probably a realmente<\/em> saber escuchar (\u00a1una gran ventaja en las relaciones!)<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

One of the major perks of doctors\u2019 jobs is the fact that they are most probably great listeners.<\/p>\n

They hear about people’s issues for a living, for crying out loud.<\/p>\n

You won’t have to deal with someone who can’t listen \u2013 quite the contrary. Isn’t that one of the biggest relationship deal-breakers anyway?<\/p>\n

Tu tolerancia a las cosas asquerosas se dispara de repente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes me desmayaba al ver sangre. Pero desde que hice amigos m\u00e9dicos, mi tolerancia ha mejorado mucho.<\/p>\n

You’ll be surprised at all the stuff that used to gross you out that now you’re totally fine with. Funny how being with a doctor can change you.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 20 cosas que debes tener en cuenta al salir con un chico t\u00edmido<\/a><\/p>\n

It\u2019s in your partner’s nature to take care of you (yes, please)<\/h2>\n

\"Novio<\/p>\n

Su trabajo consiste en cuidar de las personas. As\u00ed que ya puedes imaginarte lo bien que te va a ir.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether you’re dating a female doctor or male.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las chicas llevan maquillaje y cosas monas en el bolso, mientras que los m\u00e9dicos tienen todo lo que se puede necesitar en caso de emergencia.<\/p>\n

Taking care of people is their job. And if you’re in una relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/a>probablemente ya sepa lo \u00fatiles que pueden ser los m\u00e9dicos de citas.<\/p>\n

Te da una sensaci\u00f3n de crecimiento personal y desinter\u00e9s.<\/h2>\n

\"imagen<\/p>\n

Estar con alguien que se gana la vida haciendo un trabajo tan desinteresado sin duda te afectar\u00e1 positivamente.<\/p>\n

Ver con qu\u00e9 tiene que lidiar tu pareja habitualmente te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s humilde.<\/p>\n

Permitir\u00e1 un crecimiento personal que, a su vez, mejorar\u00e1 toda la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Se aprende MUCHO sobre temas m\u00e9dicos<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Be prepared to understand what medical shows are talking about. To me, it’s all alien language. But to you, it all starts making sense.<\/p>\n

And I’m guessing it feels pretty fantastic knowing what all those weird medical terms actually mean and if they’re being used appropriately in the shows.<\/p>\n

You don’t need WebMD anymore because you have an IRL version<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Desp\u00eddete de WebMD y saluda a tu propia versi\u00f3n real.<\/p>\n

Who needs to Google random symptoms anymore when you’ve got the real deal?<\/p>\n

And most probably, you’ll be reassured that you’re s\u00f3lo<\/em> bien (y creerlos de verdad y tener tranquilidad).<\/p>\n

Noches de citas espont\u00e1neas cuando tienen un d\u00eda libre al azar ROCKS<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Doctors have the weirdest hours, which makes it rather challenging to organize date nights. But when you DO manage to make it work, it’s the absolute best.<\/p>\n

Tu pareja tiene un mi\u00e9rcoles libre al azar y, en cuanto te lo comunica, planeas el d\u00eda (y la noche) perfectos.<\/p>\n

And to me, those spontaneous date nights are truly the most priceless ones because they’re so rare and so, so special.<\/p>\n

Tu pareja tiene una gran perspectiva, que se contagia a ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Doctors have a good head on their shoulders, which means they don’t easily get annoyed.<\/p>\n

Esto es realmente necesario para las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas, sobre todo si el otro miembro de la pareja puede agitarse r\u00e1pidamente.<\/p>\n

This way, you have someone to calm you down and rationally explain that things aren’t that bad.<\/p>\n

In turn, you’re going to start seeing things more clearly and stop losing your perspective on the littlest things.<\/p>\n

Aprende algunos trucos para eliminar con \u00e9xito las manchas de sangre<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

I don’t know about you, but I en directo<\/em> for life hacks. And since your doc is kind of an expert on blood (weird to say, right?), you’ll pick up on some really cool hacks.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo superar el miedo a perder a un ser querido en 7 pasos<\/a><\/p>\n

Es un orgullo saber que marcan la diferencia cada d\u00eda.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cada vez tu pareja<\/a> sale de casa, especialmente durante toda esta pandemia de COVID-19, sientes un enorme orgullo.<\/p>\n

Incluso las revisiones rutinarias son un gran problema, por no hablar de realizar procedimientos y operar \u00f3rganos importantes.<\/p>\n

El hecho de que vidas humanas est\u00e9n en sus manos es en una palabra: indescriptible.<\/p>\n

You’ve done online dating and gone through a bunch of silly dating sites, but not until you met ellos<\/em> comprendi\u00f3 realmente el significado del orgullo.<\/p>\n

Por fin dejas de preocuparte por las cosas peque\u00f1as<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Oh yeah. Things that truly aren’t important stop bugging you.<\/p>\n

Gente est\u00fapida<\/a>, harsh comments, and all those things that pale in comparison to your partner’s job start feeling so silly.<\/p>\n

It’s going to take a lot to upset you now. And that is one of the coolest things about a doctor being your bae.<\/p>\n

Ves de primera mano lo que es la vida. Y toda tu perspectiva cambia a mejor.<\/p>\n

Tu m\u00e9dico conoce todos los detalles de tu anatom\u00eda (\u00a1viene con el territorio!)<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Esta es probablemente tu ventaja favorita del trabajo, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Su m\u00e9dico conoce muy bien la anatom\u00eda masculina y femenina, y todos sabemos lo que eso significa.<\/p>\n

I’ll leave your imagination to run wild, but it must be mentioned that medical school can be super<\/em> \u00fatil tambi\u00e9n para cosas no m\u00e9dicas (por decir algo).<\/p>\n

Todos ellos han recibido formaci\u00f3n en obstetricia y ginecolog\u00eda, por lo que sus amplios conocimientos son parte de su trabajo. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 ventaja!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 18 tipos de amantes: \u00bfCu\u00e1l es usted?<\/a><\/p>\n

Now, Let’s Look At Some Of The More Challenging Aspects<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

By now you’ve realized that dating a doctor isn’t all that bad, right?<\/p>\n

So this is the perfect time to familiarize yourself with some of the cons that you’ll simply have to deal with. Here’s what you should expect.<\/p>\n

Salir con un m\u00e9dico significa lidiar con un mont\u00f3n de largas horas locas<\/h2>\n

\"esposa<\/p>\n

Especially if this is the first time you’re dating a doctor. Be prepared for a lot of unexpectedly long hours, night shifts, and time away.<\/p>\n

They won’t always have enough time to explain it, so you’re just going to have to be okay with it.<\/p>\n

It seems tough, I know, so let’s put it this way. They’re off potentially saving a life. Is anything realmente<\/em> \u00bfM\u00e1s importante que eso?<\/p>\n

Lleva el estar ocupado a otro nivel.<\/h2>\n

\"personal<\/p>\n

If you believed YOUR job was hectic, wait until you start seeing a doctor. You’ll realize that you never really knew the meaning of busy.<\/p>\n

But at the same time, it’s going to put things into perspective as well.<\/p>\n

You’ll start seeing that as much as they want to spend time with you, they are fully dedicated to their job.<\/p>\n

And that is a truly commendable thing. It’s not like they desea<\/em> estar muy ocupados. As\u00ed son sus exigentes trabajos.<\/p>\n

Los m\u00e9dicos y los estudiantes de medicina suelen estar demasiado agotados para funcionar<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e9dico<\/p>\n

Can you blame them? Seeing your doctor or med student tired will make you wonder if you’re actually tired in the first place.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, trabajas de nueve a cinco horas de oficina, casi siempre sentado y con muy pocas interrupciones.<\/p>\n

Cuando lo comparas con su calendario, parece un paseo por el parque.<\/p>\n

I am in no way saying that your job isn’t tiring. But compared to what doctors and medical professionals go through daily, it’s a whole other level of tiredness.<\/p>\n

It’s really difficult to plan anything around their schedule<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00ed. Una vez, sal\u00ed con un chico que estaba en la escuela de medicina (ni siquiera un m\u00e9dico leg\u00edtimo todav\u00eda) y d\u00e9jame decirte algo.<\/p>\n

La cantidad de trabajo pr\u00e1ctico que realizan es asombrosa. Intentar planificar su horario era casi imposible.<\/p>\n

Las clases son largas y agotadoras, por no hablar de la cantidad de estudio que conllevan.<\/p>\n

So basically, consider yourself lucky if you plan something and actually manage to go through with it. It’s a rare occasion.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo identificar y comprender a una persona que evita el amor<\/a><\/p>\n

El estr\u00e9s del trabajo puede afectar a su estado de \u00e1nimo general<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e9dico<\/p>\n

Los m\u00e9dicos se enfrentan cada d\u00eda a cosas muy serias. De vez en cuando se topan con la muerte, y eso es... no<\/em> broma.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe imaginas tener un paciente cuya vida depende de tu pr\u00f3ximo paso? Y ahora, imagine perdiendo<\/em> dicho paciente?<\/p>\n

You cannot possibly tell me that it wouldn’t mess with your head.<\/p>\n

Dale a tu pareja toda la paciencia y comprensi\u00f3n del mundo. Hacen algunas de las cosas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles que existen.<\/p>\n

Doctors are known to have to abruptly leave the minute they’re called away<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Don’t be surprised if you’re mid-date and your doctor gets called away. It happens a lot (not just on TV). Nothing trumps medical emergencies.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de tus citas nocturnas las pasar\u00e1s frente al televisor.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

And you’ll most likely be watching reruns of Scrubs, Grey’s Anatomy, and other med shows. You’ll probably LOL at all the stuff they get wrong.<\/p>\n

Plus, your partner will most likely frequently fall asleep mid-show (no judging). It’s what the job does to them.<\/p>\n

Their work is really important and you’ll have to learn to live with that<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yes, their work trumps your needs. It sucks to say, even more to admit it, but it’s the reality.<\/p>\n

They’ll make an effort to spend quality time with you, but their patients need them too.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPuedes soportar tener que compartir a tu pareja la mayor parte de los d\u00edas?<\/p>\n

Los m\u00e9dicos se llevan trabajo a casa (por mucho que intenten no hacerlo)<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It’s not intentional. But having to deal with what they deal with, it’s really not that surprising. They deal with human lives, deaths, and emergencies all day long.<\/p>\n

You have to expect them to bring work home on some days. Talk to them, let them vent. It’ll be easier for your partner and it’ll help you understand their day better.<\/p>\n

You won’t always understand what they’re talking about with their work friends<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Cuando se meten con amigos del trabajo<\/a>, you’ll find yourself baffled at times. But it’s really not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

Trabajan en un campo espec\u00edfico y sus amigos del trabajo son pr\u00e1cticamente los \u00fanicos que entienden de verdad algunas de las cosas por las que pasan. D\u00e9jales hablar.<\/p>\n

They’ll get it all out of their system when they get home, and be ready to focus on you and your happy life together.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Citas de Te Amo: 200+ ejemplos para \u00e9l y para ella<\/a><\/p>\n

A veces, la falta de tiempo de calidad juntos le afectar\u00e1 mentalmente<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

A todos nos gusta pasar el mayor tiempo posible con nuestra pareja.<\/p>\n

That’s totally normal. But the fact that they don’t have lots of free time will sometimes be a bit much.<\/p>\n

You won’t want to make a big deal, but you’re going to feel a certain type of way. You’ll get moody, annoyed, and upset, even though you understand that it’s not their fault.<\/p>\n

All I can say is that it’s totally okay to lose it sometimes. You’ll miss your person. Just know that they probably miss you just as much!<\/p>\n

Some people might think you’re only dating a doctor for their money<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

There are going to be people out there (maybe even friends and acquaintances) who’ll make really tasteless assumptions.<\/p>\n

There’s this belief that all doctors are loaded. But nobody considers the medical school debt that they’re left with upon graduating.<\/p>\n

So some folks will feel free to assume the money is what drew you to them because you couldn’t possibly actually be in love!<\/p>\n

Nevermind those ignorant individuals. Let them assume. You can’t tell people what to think, but you puede<\/em> distanciarse de ellos.<\/p>\n

Los comentarios negativos ocasionales de que su relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 condenada al fracaso chupa<\/em><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

People talk. They shouldn’t, and they really have no place discussing your private life, but trust me, they will.<\/p>\n

Todo el mundo piensa que conoce tu negocio y, a veces, los comentarios negativos ser\u00e1n demasiado para soportarlos.<\/p>\n

As if you don’t already know how stressful dating a doctor can be!<\/p>\n

It’s only doomed if you let it be. So don’t! Let irrelevant people say what they want and focus on who matters:<\/p>\n

\u00a1T\u00fa y tu pareja!<\/p>\n

As long as you make an effort every single day to make it work, that’s all that matters. It’s you and them against the world.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, What’s The Verdict?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Que salir con un m\u00e9dico no es tarea f\u00e1cil. Los horarios locos, las salidas en mitad de la noche y el agotamiento constante son inevitables.<\/p>\n

BUT, when you bring all the positives into the equation, it’s really not that bad. After all, it’s all about effort and understanding.<\/p>\n

If you can make peace with the fact that your partner has a really important job that people’s lives literalmente<\/em> depende, lo pone todo en perspectiva.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si tienes amor, respeto y confianza, puedes hacer que funcione<\/a> without a shadow of a doubt. Just don’t make them choose, there’s honestly no need for that.<\/p>\n

Cada momento que pas\u00e9is juntos tendr\u00e1 un valor incalculable y, para m\u00ed, eso merece la pena.<\/p>\n

Los m\u00e9dicos son los h\u00e9roes an\u00f3nimos de hoy en d\u00eda y se merecen a alguien que comprende y acepta plenamente<\/strong> la naturaleza de sus trabajos desinteresados y agotadores.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dating a doctor or medical student can be a real challenge. They have very little free time for date nights, and if Grey’s Anatomy has taught us anything, it’s that work-life balance can be quite messy. If you’re planning to enter into a romantic relationship with someone in the medical field, I highly suggest that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":101376,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-101039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/26-Biggest-Pros-And-Cons-Of-Dating-A-Doctor-Or-A-Med-Student.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/101039","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=101039"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/101039\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/101376"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=101039"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=101039"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=101039"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}