{"id":101293,"date":"2020-10-05T13:06:39","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T13:06:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=101293"},"modified":"2022-09-14T08:44:26","modified_gmt":"2022-09-14T08:44:26","slug":"senales-de-un-matrimonio-sin-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-un-matrimonio-sin-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"20 se\u00f1ales de un matrimonio sin amor y 6 poderosas formas de afrontarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>The sad fact is that many couples deny that they&#8217;re stuck in an unhappy, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-dolorosos-marido-no-ama\/\">matrimonio sin amor<\/a>aunque en el fondo sean plenamente conscientes de su situaci\u00f3n.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Permanecen juntos por razones econ\u00f3micas o por sus hijos o por otras razones muy equivocadas.<\/p>\n<p>Even though it&#8217;s normal to recognize other benefits of your marriage such as the fact that it&#8217;s good for your kids or financially comfortable, none of that makes sense if you and your partner no longer love each other (or never even did).<\/p>\n<p>You may think that it&#8217;s better for your kids if you stay married but the thing is that they&#8217;ll feel that something isn&#8217;t okay.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll be worse for them to watch both of their parents unhappy every day or to listen to your fights and disagreements often.<\/p>\n<p>Todos los matrimonios pasan por malas rachas y, por supuesto, antes de tomar decisiones precipitadas, ambos deber\u00edais intentar arreglar vuestro matrimonio y reavivar la chispa de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Por desgracia, a veces, por mucho que ambos lo intenten, el divorcio es la mejor opci\u00f3n para usted y sus hijos.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you need to accept the fact that the love just isn&#8217;t there anymore and that it wasn&#8217;t meant to last forever.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo ten\u00e9is que dejarlo pasar y continuar con vuestras vidas por separado.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se\u00f1ales de un matrimonio sin amor<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Seg\u00fan uno de los m\u00e1s famosos investigadores del matrimonio y las relaciones, <em>John Gottman<\/em>, there are \u2018four horsemen\u2019 that can harm every marriage, which are <strong>cr\u00edticas<\/strong>, <strong>actitud defensiva<\/strong>, <strong>evasivas<\/strong> y <strong>desprecio<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ll talk about all four of them below but there are some more clear red flags that can indicate that you aren&#8217;t just experiencing some rough patches but that you&#8217;re instead actually stuck in a loveless, unhappy marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La distancia entre vosotros es m\u00e1s que evidente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101317 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con top blanco apoyada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are aware that there is an emotional distance between you and that it&#8217;s getting bigger and bigger.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo esperas que tu pareja tambi\u00e9n se d\u00e9 cuenta y act\u00fae a tiempo para salvar tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t communicate more like you used to, you don&#8217;t spend any quality time together and you stopped expressing your feelings toward each other a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p><em>You can simply feel that you&#8217;re growing apart.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You aren&#8217;t sure if your partner loves you anymore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101318 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-window-pane.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top blanco sentada en el cristal de una ventana mirando al exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-window-pane.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-window-pane-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-window-pane-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-window-pane-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-window-pane-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t even remember the last time when your partner said that they loved you.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you tried a few times to talk to them about it but they avoided it or said that you&#8217;re exaggerating or imagining it.<\/p>\n<p>This is only because they still love you as a person and don&#8217;t want to hurt your feelings by admitting the truth.<\/p>\n<p>If you have any doubts about their feelings, it&#8217;s probably because they gave you a reason to do so and you&#8217;re probably right.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta expresarles tus sentimientos y espera su respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>Si te dejan sin una o si s\u00f3lo sonr\u00eden amablemente, tus dudas est\u00e1n justificadas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pasasteis de ser mejores amigos a casi unos completos extra\u00f1os<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101323 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en un sof\u00e1 cerca de un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Tu c\u00f3nyuge tiene que ser primero tu mejor amigo y luego tu pareja sentimental.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you&#8217;ve become just two roommates or total strangers, that&#8217;s not a healthy marriage.<\/p>\n<p>If you aren&#8217;t comfortable about opening up to your partner or going to them first when you have any problems, there is definitely something wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que encontrar la causa de tu desconexi\u00f3n y luego trabajar en ello para que tu matrimonio vuelva a funcionar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Interrupci\u00f3n de la comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101325 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste apoyada en el sof\u00e1 mientras se sienta cerca de un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Una comunicaci\u00f3n buena y sana es un elemento esencial para el \u00e9xito de una relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si hay un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/falta-de-comunicacion-en-una-relacion\/\">falta de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/a> in your relationship, that&#8217;s probably the root cause of all of your problems.<\/p>\n<p>Tu pareja tiene que estar siempre a tu lado, por muy ocupada que est\u00e9 su agenda.<\/p>\n<p>Si tienes alg\u00fan problema o inconveniente, tienes que ser capaz de dec\u00edrselo y encontrar juntos una soluci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Una comunicaci\u00f3n malsana siempre conduce a una relaci\u00f3n malsana.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falta de intimidad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101328 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-4.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la cama cerca de un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La intimidad es una parte muy importante de toda relaci\u00f3n sana.<\/p>\n<p>Crea una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda entre vosotros y tambi\u00e9n ayuda a generar confianza.<\/p>\n<p>Even though it shouldn&#8217;t be the main part of your relationship, a lack of intimacy can bring many problems to your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>No importa cu\u00e1nto tiempo lleven casados, la chispa nunca debe abandonar el dormitorio.<\/p>\n<p>If you aren&#8217;t pleased with your love life, you should talk about it to your partner and together find a way to spice things up.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Incluso las discusiones se detienen<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101339 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-reading-book-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer leyendo un libro sentada cerca de un hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-reading-book-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-reading-book-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-reading-book-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-reading-book-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-reading-book-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t even bother to argue about the things you don&#8217;t agree about.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re rather avoiding any kind of conflict because you just don&#8217;t care about each other anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You think that if you don&#8217;t talk about your problems, that&#8217;s how you&#8217;ll make them disappear but unfortunately, that&#8217;s not true.<\/p>\n<p>Todos esos conflictos sin resolver tendr\u00e1n que aclararse alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t think that fighting is bad for your marriage because you can see things from your partner&#8217;s perspective when you do.<\/p>\n<p>A constructive argument is good for both sides because if you listen carefully, you&#8217;ll be able to hear what&#8217;s bothering your partner and realize what you can do to help them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Criticas constantemente a tu pareja y viceversa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101341 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer discutiendo en la cocina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-arguing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-arguing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-arguing-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos tenemos d\u00edas malos, esos d\u00edas en los que por mucho que nos esforcemos, nada puede ser como queremos.<\/p>\n<p>Still, that&#8217;s not a reason for anyone to be cranky because as I already said, we all have some flaws and how would we feel if someone criticized us because of that?<\/p>\n<p>La pr\u00f3xima vez que empieces a criticar a tu pareja, tienes que recordar por qu\u00e9 te enamoraste de ella la primera vez.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La relaci\u00f3n ha ca\u00eddo en una rutina aburrida<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101343 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-watching-tv-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer viendo la tele sentados en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-watching-tv-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-watching-tv-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-watching-tv-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-watching-tv-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-watching-tv-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Su matrimonio se ha estancado en una rutina aburrida.<\/p>\n<p>Cada d\u00eda es igual para los dos: lleg\u00e1is a casa del trabajo, veis la tele y os vais directamente a la cama.<\/p>\n<p>Ya nunca hac\u00e9is planes juntos. S\u00f3lo sientes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aburrido-en-una-relacion\/\">aburrido en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, hay una manera de romper esa rutina, pero la cosa es que ambos c\u00f3nyuges tienen que quererlo y ambos tienen que poner un poco de esfuerzo para arreglar esa rutina y revivir el romance en su matrimonio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Empezasteis a evitaros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101355 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-beside-pineapples.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con mochila cerca de pi\u00f1as\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-beside-pineapples.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-beside-pineapples-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-beside-pineapples-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-beside-pineapples-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-beside-pineapples-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPreferir\u00edas quedarte en el trabajo en lugar de volver a casa s\u00f3lo porque sabes que tu c\u00f3nyuge estar\u00e1 all\u00ed?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO tal vez pasar media hora m\u00e1s en el supermercado, deambulando entre las estanter\u00edas sin motivo aparente?<\/p>\n<p>Luego, cuando por fin llegas a casa, prefieres sentarte sola en tu dormitorio que con \u00e9l en el sal\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You go to bed before him or after him, just so you wouldn&#8217;t have to talk to him or spend any time with him at all.<\/p>\n<p>This type of behavior is an obvious sign that you don&#8217;t find joy with your partner anymore, since you would rather be in the office or a parking lot or literally anywhere but with them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Todos y todo lo dem\u00e1s es m\u00e1s importante que tu matrimonio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101378 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/friends-talking.jpg\" alt=\"dos amigas hablando mientras toman caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/friends-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/friends-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/friends-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/friends-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/friends-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu instinto te dice que algo va mal y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-ha-acabado-mi-matrimonio\/\">tu matrimonio podr\u00eda estar acabado<\/a> pero intentas ignorarlo haciendo que todo lo que te rodea sea m\u00e1s importante que tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfUna amiga tiene la gripe? Corres a verla para pasar la noche cuid\u00e1ndola y alejarte de casa.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTu hermana se ha peleado con su novio? Est\u00e1s llena de consejos y har\u00e1s cualquier cosa para que vuelvan a estar juntos, mientras que al mismo tiempo, tu propio matrimonio se est\u00e1 desmoronando.<\/p>\n<p>En otras palabras, pones a todos y a todo en primer lugar, en lugar de hacer justo lo contrario, ocuparte primero de tu propia relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You doubt your partner&#8217;s fidelity<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101379 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa blanca sentada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Al principio de tu relaci\u00f3n, te sent\u00edas la mujer m\u00e1s deseable del mundo, recib\u00edas cumplidos a diario y no hab\u00eda motivo para que pensaras siquiera en tu<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-mi-marido-mira-a-otras-mujeres-en-internet\/\"> marido deseando a otra mujer.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ahora, en cambio, cuando es evidente que se han distanciado el uno del otro y su nivel de comunicaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 bajo m\u00ednimos, empieza a creer que hay otra persona que ocupa sus pensamientos.<\/p>\n<p>When two people are in a healthy marriage, there are no doubts about your partner\u2019s feelings toward you, let alone that he has feelings for someone else.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Uno de ustedes est\u00e1 siendo controlado por el otro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101380 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-talking-to-woman-4.jpg\" alt=\"hombre hablando con mujer cerca de la puerta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-talking-to-woman-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-talking-to-woman-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-talking-to-woman-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-talking-to-woman-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-talking-to-woman-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una bandera roja muy significativa de un matrimonio sin amor es cuando uno de los miembros de la pareja se siente controlado por el otro.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter in which way, whether it is financially or emotionally; this feeling should not be present.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, esto es una gran se\u00f1al de desconfianza y falta de respeto. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if you, for example, want to go out and have a girls&#8217; night with your friends and he tries to forbid you to, it means that he doesn&#8217;t trust you and maybe even thinks that you might cheat on him.<\/p>\n<p>Or it could be that one of the partners has full control over their finances and won\u2019t let their significant other anywhere near them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;d rather be alone than with your partner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101381 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-coffee-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bebiendo caf\u00e9 cerca de una ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-coffee-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-coffee-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-coffee-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-coffee-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-drinking-coffee-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cualquier cosa es mejor que estar con \u00e9l. Por supuesto, todos los matrimonios tienen esos d\u00edas y, en un mal d\u00eda, tu pareja te molesta pero sigues queri\u00e9ndole.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, si esta sensaci\u00f3n es constante y un mal d\u00eda se convierte en un mal mes y en un mal a\u00f1o, las cosas no van bien.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que tienes algo de tiempo libre, prefieres pasarlo sola que con tu pareja porque te sientes mejor sola que con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Prefieres ir sola a un centro comercial, tomarte el caf\u00e9 sola, ver una pel\u00edcula sola y hacer todo lo que puedas sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re the one who thinks about having an emotional affair<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101382 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia con vestido floral sentada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bed-5-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your partner should be the one who occupies your thoughts and you shouldn&#8217;t be thinking about anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes this isn&#8217;t the case and you start to imagine how your life would look with somebody else.<\/p>\n<p>By this, we\u2019re not talking about you physically cheating on your husband but rather you thinking about some other male or trying to find emotional support in some other guy.<\/p>\n<p>Puede ser un chico del trabajo o un completo desconocido que conociste por Internet.<\/p>\n<p>Si este es el caso, y usted es consciente de que est\u00e1 mal y no deber\u00eda estar sucediendo, tal vez es el momento para el asesoramiento matrimonial.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Las citas nocturnas son cosa del pasado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101383 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa blanca mirandose al espejo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mirror-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mirror-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todas las parejas, independientemente del tiempo que lleven juntas, deber\u00edan pasar tiempo de calidad el uno con el otro.<\/p>\n<p>Hay numerosas parejas que tienden a olvidarse la una de la otra una vez casadas.<\/p>\n<p>Los hijos, el trabajo y muchas otras preocupaciones que nos trae la vida hacen que nos olvidemos de cuidar a nuestra pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Las citas nocturnas deber\u00edan ser una especie de tradici\u00f3n entre vosotros y deber\u00edais tenerlas al menos una vez a la semana.<\/p>\n<p>Si esto se ha olvidado hace tiempo, deber\u00edas hacer todo lo posible por reconducirlo o, de lo contrario, prep\u00e1rate para hundirte poco a poco en un matrimonio infeliz.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tu pareja est\u00e1 destruyendo tu autoestima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101384 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-4.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con camisa de rayas sentada en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando est\u00e1s en un matrimonio feliz o en cualquier otro tipo de relaci\u00f3n feliz, tu pareja es la que te hace sentir que eres la persona m\u00e1s inteligente, la m\u00e1s guapa y la m\u00e1s deseable del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>El problema aparece cuando no s\u00f3lo ya no te hace sentir as\u00ed sino que adem\u00e1s est\u00e1 acabando con tu autoestima y autovaloraci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>He is constantly criticizing you and you feel like you can&#8217;t talk to him because anything you say might be stupid to him.<\/p>\n<p>Es normal que todos estemos a veces de mal humor y que nos quejemos de esto o de lo otro, pero no es normal que est\u00e9 ansioso todo el tiempo y que todo lo que hagas o digas le moleste y te haga sentir desgraciada.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cualquier tipo de abuso es un signo claro de una relaci\u00f3n sin amor.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101385 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-yelling-at-woman-4.jpg\" alt=\"hombre enfadado con camiseta gris gritando a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-yelling-at-woman-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-yelling-at-woman-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-yelling-at-woman-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-yelling-at-woman-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/man-yelling-at-woman-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto puede aplicarse al maltrato f\u00edsico, emocional, sexual, verbal o de cualquier otro tipo.<\/p>\n<p>If you are feeling abused by your partner and that you cannot talk to them and haven\u2019t been able to, whether for a short or long period of time, then it is time for a change.<\/p>\n<p>Una relaci\u00f3n sin amor tiene en el maltrato uno de sus elementos m\u00e1s importantes, porque no hay personas que se quieran y se maltraten al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Lo primero que debes hacer es intentar hablar con tu pareja e intentar una terapia de pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Professional help is always welcome and someone objective who will not take anyone&#8217;s side but really try to help you will lead to a better life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can&#8217;t remember the last time you had some fun together<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101386 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-indoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con la mano en la mejilla sentada bajo techo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-indoor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-indoor-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como ya se ha dicho, las citas nocturnas deber\u00edan ser algo obligatorio en la vida de toda pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente hay que encontrar la manera de divertirse juntos y mantener las cosas interesantes.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, habr\u00e1 periodos en los que las cosas caigan en la rutina y se vuelvan un poco aburridas, pero de ti y de tu pareja depende mantener viva la chispa.<\/p>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t remember when the last time you had fun with him was, maybe it is time to make some effort and organize a romantic evening or movie night or a weekend away for just the two of you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Your partner doesn&#8217;t want to make any effort to fix your relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101387 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con camiseta blanca sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-couch-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Toda relaci\u00f3n requiere dos personas dispuestas a trabajar en ella y a poner mucho empe\u00f1o para que sea fruct\u00edfera.<\/p>\n<p>If this is not the case and your partner absolutely won&#8217;t do anything to make things work again, then it is time to start thinking about if the relationship is even worth saving.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re not saying that you should give up immediately but if time passes by and things do not change and he is simply not there for you anymore, then think about what you need to do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Unfortunately, you&#8217;re constantly choosing to ignore your gut<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101388 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada a la mesa mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We all have that little bit of a quiet inner voice that always tries to warn us when things aren&#8217;t working.<\/p>\n<p>Por desgracia, como terapeuta de parejas y coautor de <em>El nuevo s\u00ed quiero:<\/em> <em>Reformar el matrimonio para esc\u00e9pticos, realistas y rebeldes<\/em>Seg\u00fan Susan Pease Gadoua, todos optamos por silenciarla o ignorarla por completo.<\/p>\n<p>Ignoras todo lo que te dice tu instinto, aunque en el fondo sepas la cruda verdad.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter whether your love is gone or your husband doesn&#8217;t love you anymore, you ignore this feeling that something is rotten.<\/p>\n<p>A veces lo haces por los ni\u00f1os, a veces porque tienes miedo de lo que la gente de tu alrededor piense de ti, pero sea cual sea la raz\u00f3n, est\u00e1 mal.<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing is that you\u2019re happy and content with your life.<\/p>\n<p>Olv\u00eddate de todo lo dem\u00e1s y c\u00e9ntrate en ti y en tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>C\u00f3mo sobrevivir a un matrimonio sin amor<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, todos los matrimonios deben pasar por algunas crisis y todas las parejas deben soportar algunos problemas en sus relaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Si ambos pens\u00e1is que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1is pasando una mala racha y realmente quer\u00e9is salvar vuestro matrimonio, por supuesto que es posible.<\/p>\n<p>You both just need to put some effort in and you&#8217;ll make your relationship healthy again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s indeed possible to fall in love with your spouse again.<\/strong> Siga leyendo a continuaci\u00f3n para obtener algunos consejos sobre c\u00f3mo permanecer en un matrimonio sin amor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Preg\u00fantate si realmente merece la pena salvar tu matrimonio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101390 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-door.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top marron de pie cerca de puerta blanca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-door.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-door-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-door-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-door-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto es lo primero que tienes que hacer una vez que te des cuenta de que te enfrentas a este problema.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que preguntarte si tu matrimonio es algo que merezca la pena salvar y tienes que recordar todo lo bueno pero tambi\u00e9n lo malo y compararlo.<\/p>\n<p>Es muy importante que seas consciente de todo lo bueno que te ha aportado tu matrimonio y de todo lo malo con lo que has tenido que lidiar desde que te diste cuenta de que estabas atrapada en un matrimonio infeliz.<\/p>\n<p>Si las cosas malas y los sentimientos negativos est\u00e1n m\u00e1s presentes y son m\u00e1s abrumadores, detente un momento y piensa cu\u00e1nto vale realmente tu esfuerzo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Reconozca sus problemas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101391 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-through-window-3.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa rosa mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-through-window-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-through-window-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-through-window-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-through-window-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-through-window-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vuelve atr\u00e1s e intenta recordar cu\u00e1ndo empez\u00f3 a desmoronarse tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfFue por problemas familiares o econ\u00f3micos, o por otra cosa?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you didn&#8217;t like the way your partner dealt with a certain problem, so you started to wonder if he had been like this all along but you didn&#8217;t see it or if he is revealing his true face just now.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta encontrar el momento en que empezaron a cambiar tus sentimientos hacia tu pareja, o los de \u00e9l hacia ti.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo as\u00ed podr\u00e1s resolver de verdad todos tus problemas y volver a amar a tu pareja.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estar dispuesto a transigir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101392 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-having-coffee-4.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer tomando cafe sentados a la mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-having-coffee-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-having-coffee-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-having-coffee-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-having-coffee-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-having-coffee-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>En un matrimonio sano no existe el \"a mi manera\" o el \"a tu manera\", s\u00f3lo existe el \"a nuestra manera\".<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tienes que estar dispuesto a transigir con tu pareja en todo momento.<\/p>\n<p>Being stubborn and looking at the problems from only your perspective won&#8217;t bring you any good.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que estar dispuesto a ponerte en su lugar, porque as\u00ed comprender\u00e1s mejor c\u00f3mo se siente tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>El compromiso es la \u00fanica forma de que cualquier relaci\u00f3n funcione, sobre todo cuando se trata de una relaci\u00f3n que ya se tambalea y no es realmente s\u00f3lida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mejore su intimidad f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101393 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-toasting-.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer brindando con copas de vino durante una cena rom\u00e1ntica\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-toasting-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-toasting--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-toasting--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-toasting--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-toasting--720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La intimidad f\u00edsica es una parte muy importante de toda relaci\u00f3n y es muy importante mantener esta parte de su matrimonio al m\u00e1s alto nivel.<\/p>\n<p>Si hay una falta de intimidad entre tu pareja y t\u00fa, tambi\u00e9n puede afectar a tu autoestima porque puedes pensar que ya no le resultas atractiva.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta organizar una velada rom\u00e1ntica que acabe con intimidad f\u00edsica e intenta seducir a tu marido como lo hac\u00edas al principio de tu matrimonio, porque si pierdes esta faceta de tu matrimonio, puede que acab\u00e9is siendo como compa\u00f1eros de piso que viven juntos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Recu\u00e9rdate a ti mismo por qu\u00e9 te enamoraste en primer lugar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101394 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-armchair.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en un sill\u00f3n marr\u00f3n cerca de una ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-armchair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Recuerda todas esas cosas buenas en las que te fijaste cuando acababas de conocer a tu pareja, como lo amable que es con los dem\u00e1s independientemente de c\u00f3mo se sienta o c\u00f3mo siempre est\u00e1 dispuesto a ayudar a los necesitados.<\/p>\n<p>Revisa algunas cosas viejas, como vuestras fotos antiguas, y recuerda todos esos buenos d\u00edas que pasasteis juntos y todos esos recuerdos seguro que te animan a intentar salvar tu matrimonio porque el hombre del que te enamoraste seguro que sigue por ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que \u00e9l haya cambiado un poco con los a\u00f1os, pero t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n. Lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer es recordarte por qu\u00e9 ese hombre merece tu amor y tu valioso tiempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dale tiempo y ten paciencia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-101395 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-7.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en un banco mirando el agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-7.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-7-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-7-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-bench-7-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nada en esta vida resulta f\u00e1cil, especialmente si se trata de algo tan grande como el amor.<\/p>\n<p>Love is something you have to take care of; you build it slowly and don\u2019t rush anything.<\/p>\n<p>Ten paciencia y, si t\u00fa y tu pareja est\u00e1is realmente dispuestos a hacer que las cosas funcionen, lo m\u00e1s seguro es que ambos lo consig\u00e1is.<\/p>\n<p>Para que el matrimonio vuelva a funcionar, no basta con decir que se quiere, hay que dejar que el tiempo cure algunas heridas.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t think that you can work out your issues by yourselves, you can always make an appointment with a marriage counselor and save your marriage with professional help.<\/p>\n<h2>Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p>Unfortunately, it&#8217;s a fact that nowadays too many couples live in a loveless marriage and choose to stay in it for so many different wrong reasons.<\/p>\n<p>They close their eyes to the truth and don\u2019t even want to talk about it.<\/p>\n<p>They procrastinate and put off \u2018the talk\u2019 about the future of their marriage for as long as they can, as if that\u2019s going to solve their problems.<\/p>\n<p>It definitely won&#8217;t. <em><strong>Evitar hablar de tus problemas s\u00f3lo empeorar\u00e1 las cosas.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n hay parejas que acuerdan inmediatamente divorciarse antes incluso de intentar salvar su matrimonio sin amor.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de decidir o hacer nada, ambos ten\u00e9is que sentaros y hablar sinceramente.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que preguntarle a tu coraz\u00f3n si todav\u00eda guarda alg\u00fan amor por tu c\u00f3nyuge y tienes que estar seguro de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/vale-la-pena-salvar-mi-matrimonio\/\">vale la pena salvar su matrimonio<\/a> y por la que luchar.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que la \u00fanica raz\u00f3n para estar casado es amar y cuidar a tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Cualquier otra raz\u00f3n es definitivamente err\u00f3nea. Tenga esto en cuenta al decidir sobre el destino de su matrimonio.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The sad fact is that many couples deny that they&#8217;re stuck in an unhappy, loveless marriage, even though deep down, they are fully aware of their situation. They stay together for financial reasons or their children or for some other very wrong reasons. Even though it&#8217;s normal to recognize other benefits of your marriage such&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":101296,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-101293","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/20-Signs-Of-A-Loveless-Marriage-And-6-Powerful-Ways-To-Cope.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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