{"id":10195,"date":"2020-03-13T09:56:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T09:56:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10195"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:28:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:28:38","slug":"6-senales-de-que-esta-jugando-a-destruir-a-la-victima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-senales-de-que-esta-jugando-a-destruir-a-la-victima\/","title":{"rendered":"6 se\u00f1ales de que se hace la v\u00edctima para destruirte"},"content":{"rendered":"

El victimismo es un tipo de manipulaci\u00f3n emocional que usan los hombres<\/a> para mantenerte cerca, para doblegarte o simplemente porque realmente creen que son v\u00edctimas.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the kind of manipulation we quite often brush off because they really have convincing stories and how could a victim be a manipulator?<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s manipulation, after all, so watch out for these signs and excuses that he might be using on you.<\/p>\n

Cada ex que tuvo fue una perra<\/h2>\n

\"foto     <\/p>\n

Cada una de ellas le rompi\u00f3, le enga\u00f1\u00f3 o le minti\u00f3. Nunca fue culpa suya, s\u00f3lo era un joven ingenuo que se enamor\u00f3 perdidamente.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s using this to guilt-trip you into staying with him, making you believe that it\u2019s your job to fix him.<\/p>\n

But how can someone have such bad luck to date only bitches? His past relationships all have one thing in common, and it\u2019s not his bad luck. It\u2019s him.<\/p>\n

Siempre le est\u00e1s atacando<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

No matter what you say, what you do or how you approach him, he always feels like he\u2019s being attacked.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re doing great at work\u2014you\u2019re doing it only so you can leave him, you\u2019re doing it only to show him how much better you are and he is only a stupid boy.<\/p>\n

You try to tell him something that\u2019s been bothering you\u2014you\u2019re only doing it to show him you\u2019re superior; he never meant to hurt you, how could he? After all, he\u2019s the one broken here.<\/p>\n

Te echa encima todos sus problemas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He uses you as his trash bin. All of the universe has turned against him, he\u2019s doomed.<\/p>\n

If he gets a parking ticket, he\u2019ll say, \u201cA cop gave me a ticket.\u201d It\u2019s impossible for him to take responsibility for his actions<\/a>. It\u2019s NEVER his fault.<\/p>\n

Como he dicho, el universo va a por \u00e9l. De 7 mil millones de personas, debe ser muy especial para ser un objetivo.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, naturalmente, necesita a alguien con quien desahogarse, que asienta con la cabeza mientras \u00e9l cuenta su triste y peque\u00f1a historia de vida.<\/p>\n

In this case, you\u2019re the one he uses for that, without even checking on you, without even thinking how this might affect your mood or state of mind.<\/p>\n

Listening to constant negativity is truly bad for anyone\u2019s health.<\/p>\n

Convierte peque\u00f1os incidentes en discusiones<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to play the victim if you\u2019re the one being yelled at. His way to get away with stupid, little things is to provoke you so much until you snap, and he gets to play the victim once more (whereas he could simply apologize, but that would mean he has to take responsibility for something he has done).<\/p>\n

Al cabo de un tiempo, empiezas a preguntarte si eres t\u00fa quien tiene problemas para controlar la ira y si siempre te equivocas.<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s really trying, and you\u2019re simply being a bitch? Honey, take a good look at your relationship. He could just be manipulating you to get away with his screw-ups.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t seem to understand why no one comes to his defense<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Pobrecito, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 nadie est\u00e1 de su lado? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tus amigos siempre est\u00e1n de tu lado, siempre te apoyan, y los suyos no?<\/p>\n

Maybe because they know him a little bit better than you had the chance to, maybe his friends know it\u2019s better to stay out of his \u2018problems\u2019.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 tus amigos te quieran y te respeten tal y como eres, en lugar de darte la espalda.<\/p>\n

Intentar\u00e1 utilizar esto para que te sientas culpable por no estar m\u00e1s de su lado, si\u00e9ntete culpable porque \u00e9l no tiene a nadie y t\u00fa tienes tantos amigos.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start devoting all of your time to him until you\u2019re completely fuera de tu vida privada.<\/a><\/p>\n

NUNCA siente la necesidad de disculparse<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Because nothing is ever his fault (duh). Until he learns to take responsibility for the things he has done, you\u2019ll never be able to move forward in the relationship.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know about you, but if I don\u2019t get a sincere apology for something that truly upset me, I\u2019m not able to move on after that incident.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re constantly going round in circles, with him refusing to apologize and brainwashing you into believing it\u2019s you and not him, how long will it take until you completely lose yourself in his manipulation?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tardar\u00e1 en romperte por completo, hasta que te conviertas en una m\u00e1s de sus zorras ex?<\/p>\n

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Victim playing is a kind of emotional manipulation men use to keep you around, to break you or simply because they truly believe that they are victims. It\u2019s the kind of manipulation we quite often brush off because they really have convincing stories and how could a victim be a manipulator? But it\u2019s manipulation, after…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":81837,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/6-Signs-Hes-Playing-The-Victim-To-Destroy-You.jpg",800,515,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10195"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10195\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81837"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}