{"id":102041,"date":"2020-10-05T12:59:01","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T12:59:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102041"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:14:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:14:20","slug":"herirte-solo-demuestra-su-debilidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/herirte-solo-demuestra-su-debilidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Que necesite hacerte da\u00f1o s\u00f3lo demuestra su debilidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando tu ex te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n, tardaste un tiempo en recuperarte.<\/p>\n

Pasaste por diferentes etapas de duelo pero, al final, dejaste de echarle de menos como antes.<\/p>\n

You still haven\u2019t healed properly but you have managed to accept it\u2019s over<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Dejaste de esperar que ese hombre llamara a tu puerta, pidi\u00e9ndote perd\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., su marcha en s\u00ed ya no te molesta tanto.<\/strong> Te gustara o no, simplemente ten\u00edas que aprender a vivir sin la presencia de este hombre.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, lo que m\u00e1s le ha molestado es que todo terminara sin un cierre.<\/p>\n

Necesitas una explicaci\u00f3n para toda tu relaci\u00f3n. Quieres saber la raz\u00f3n por la que tu ex nunca te trat\u00f3 bien.<\/p>\n

Cuando piensas en tu pasado, parece que lo \u00fanico que hizo fue perjudicarte.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t break your heart just by walking away from you. Instead, he was doing it all along.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Durante a\u00f1os, aprovech\u00f3 cada oportunidad que tuvo para humillarte y destruir tu sentido de la autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan \u00e9l, nunca fuiste suficiente. Ninguno de tus esfuerzos era apreciado y nunca te daba el respeto que merec\u00edas.<\/p>\n

De hecho, parece que la \u00fanica forma en que este hombre pod\u00eda ser feliz era haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o.<\/strong> Era como si disfrutara vi\u00e9ndote llorar.<\/p>\n

Verte de rodillas le produc\u00eda satisfacci\u00f3n y un placer inexplicable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, ahora que todo esto ha quedado atr\u00e1s, you can\u2019t help but wonder WHY<\/strong>. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 actu\u00f3 as\u00ed, si era lo \u00faltimo que te merec\u00edas?<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, nunca hiciste nada salvo amarle. Nunca le causaste ning\u00fan da\u00f1o y pusiste todo tu empe\u00f1o en hacerle feliz.<\/p>\n

Durante todos esos a\u00f1os, te esforzaste por ser la mejor novia. Le respetabas, le entregabas todo tu coraz\u00f3n y ve\u00edas un futuro con \u00e9l, a pesar de su comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Ahora, you\u2019ve surpassed those ideas of him being your forever person. Now, you just want answers.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m here to give them to you. <\/strong>Ver\u00e1s, este hombre es una basura narcisista<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Aunque \u00e9l quer\u00eda que pensaras que tiene una autoestima alta, la verdad es bien distinta. Por el contrario, es terriblemente inseguro, lo que no justifica sus actos.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica forma que tiene de curar temporalmente sus problemas emocionales y mentales es menospreci\u00e1ndote.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo se sent\u00eda digno cuando te devaluaba.<\/strong> S\u00f3lo se sent\u00eda seguro cuando destru\u00eda tu autoestima.<\/p>\n

Se sent\u00eda en la cima del mundo s\u00f3lo cuando te lanzaba por un abismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Apuesto a que esto es lo \u00faltimo que podr\u00edas imaginar, pero lo cierto es que se sent\u00eda intimidado por ti.<\/p>\n

Todo el tiempo fue perfectamente consciente de lo excepcional que es usted.<\/p>\n

At the same time, he knew he didn\u2019t deserve you so he was terrified that eventually, you\u2019d realize that you settled for less when you let him in your life.<\/p>\n

Para evitarlo, pens\u00f3 que ten\u00eda que humillarte.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Era la \u00fanica manera de arrastrarte a su nivel porque de ninguna manera en la tierra podr\u00eda elevarse al tuyo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Durante todo este tiempo, ha querido hacerte creer que \u00e9l era el fuerte. \u00c9l era quien mov\u00eda todos los hilos y pretend\u00eda ser la figura dominante en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

No obstante, en realidad no es m\u00e1s que un enorme cobarde y su necesidad de hacerte da\u00f1o es la prueba viviente de su debilidad<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s living proof that he never had the capacity to fight off his demons and instead, he projected them onto you.<\/p>\n

He never had the courage to deal with his insecurities and instead, he tried to make you insecure as well, so he didn\u2019t feel inferior.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, tu ex en realidad nunca te odi\u00f3. La terrible verdad es que en realidad se odia a s\u00ed mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te trataba as\u00ed porque representabas todo lo que \u00e9l sab\u00eda que nunca podr\u00eda llegar a ser. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cada una de tus cualidades era fuente de su frustraci\u00f3n y cada uno de tus logros te recordaba que \u00e9l no es m\u00e1s que un fracasado.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When your ex broke your heart, it took you a while to recover. You went through different stages of grief but at the end of the day, you stopped missing him the way you did before. You still haven\u2019t healed properly but you have managed to accept it\u2019s over. You stopped hoping that this man…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":102049,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102041","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Him-Needing-To-Hurt-You-Only-Proves-His-Weakness.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102041","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102041"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102041\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102049"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}