{"id":102667,"date":"2020-10-08T17:05:44","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T17:05:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102667"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:56:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:56:01","slug":"sigo-confiando-en-los-hombres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sigo-confiando-en-los-hombres\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u00fan conf\u00edo en los hombres, pero ya no creo en sus palabras"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I still can&#8217;t believe how foolish and naive I was in all of my previous relationships. I let men use me just because I loved them and didn&#8217;t want them to leave me.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I also made mistakes. I made so many mistakes. I hurt myself so many times that it&#8217;s impossible to count them anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Mi mayor error fue que nunca tuve las prioridades correctas en la vida.<\/p>\n<p><em>Nunca me puse en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/formas-sencillas-de-convertirte-en-una-prioridad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lo primero de mi lista de prioridades<\/a> ya que ese lugar siempre perteneci\u00f3 al hombre con el que sal\u00eda.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi error es que suelo darlo todo por la gente que me importa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think about the possible consequences, I just want to get them to like me, even though I have to pay a great price for that.<\/p>\n<p>Pago siempre. La \u00faltima vez, tuve que pagar con el coraz\u00f3n. <em>Una cosa tan hermosa y pura; pobrecita, se hizo un mill\u00f3n de pedazos.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102669\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning.jpg\" alt=\"mujer disgustada apoyada en el sof\u00e1 mirando su smartphone dentro del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It still is. I&#8217;m still trying to gather all those pieces and glue them back together. But it&#8217;s so hard.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s unbelievably difficult to heal my broken heart when the person I loved and trusted the most was the one who broke it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Sab\u00eda que la paliza era s\u00f3lo para \u00e9l, pero aun as\u00ed la rompi\u00f3 sin mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se par\u00f3 sobre ella y la rompi\u00f3 en mil pedazos, como si nunca le hubiera importado. Como si yo nunca le hubiera importado.<\/p>\n<p>Dios m\u00edo, qu\u00e9 iron\u00eda. En realidad siempre me dec\u00eda que yo era la \u00fanica persona que le importaba.<\/p>\n<p>He was always telling me how he\u2019d do everything to protect me and my innocent heart.<\/p>\n<p>He swore that he\u2019d never again allow anyone to hurt me and he was the one who did. His everyday lies and his false promises did it.<\/p>\n<p>Me hirieron de una manera que nada ni nadie antes lo hab\u00eda hecho. Y tambi\u00e9n de una manera que nadie m\u00e1s lo har\u00e1 nunca porque me hice una promesa a m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102670\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste y deprimida sentada en la playa sumida en sus pensamientos \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I promised myself that from now on, I&#8217;ll never again believe a man&#8217;s pure words.<\/p>\n<p>A las palabras deben seguir los hechos. Hice una promesa a mi pobre coraz\u00f3n y s\u00f3lo ser\u00e1 as\u00ed o no ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez m\u00e1s, me di cuenta de c\u00f3mo <em><strong>las palabras pueden ser las armas m\u00e1s peligrosas.<\/strong> <\/em>You don&#8217;t see it with your eyes but still, it&#8217;s so powerful that it can kill you or wound your heart forever.<\/p>\n<p>No, I won&#8217;t let you get in my head again with your lame and fake apologies. No, I&#8217;m not guilty and neither are my expectations.<\/p>\n<p>Dijiste que ten\u00eda expectativas poco realistas de ti. \u00bfQu\u00e9<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/las-expectativas-insatisfechas-suelen-romper-las-relaciones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> expectativas poco realistas<\/a>? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes decir eso?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo esperaba que me quisieras de verdad y que nunca me mintieras y has hecho todo lo contrario.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo ten\u00eda esas dos expectativas puestas en ti y me has fallado. La explicaci\u00f3n es muy sencilla; t\u00fa <strong>nunca<\/strong> \u00a1me quer\u00eda!<\/p>\n<p>So, don&#8217;t come now with your half-baked excuses, you won&#8217;t be able to trick me into forgiving you or forgetting about everything you did to me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102671\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret.jpg\" alt=\"mujer llena de pesar mano tapando boca \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mi voz interior intent\u00f3 advertirme tantas veces de ti y de tus asquerosas mentiras.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Me callaba las tripas todo el tiempo<\/strong><\/em>, hoping it was wrong and how you\u2019d prove to me one day that you honestly believed it when you told me that you loved me.<\/p>\n<p><em>Now, I&#8217;m tired.<\/em> I&#8217;m so exhausted from everything.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m tired of shushing that inner voice of mine, letting you control my life, having to heal my broken heart so many times, your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-mas-palabras-dulces-y-promesas-vanas-quiero-honestidad-y-esfuerzo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">promesas vac\u00edas<\/a> and insincere apologies&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>Mi alma est\u00e1 cansada<\/em>. It&#8217;s all so very tiring and that\u2019s because there are so many fake people like you. My soul has to be on guard all the time, so another like you won&#8217;t get to hurt it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No, I&#8217;m not going to put my walls up. I&#8217;m not going to give up on finding true love, on finding the right man. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because I know that it&#8217;s out there somewhere, that the man of my dreams is out there somewhere, and that he&#8217;ll never do anything that could hurt me.<\/p>\n<p><em>Realmente creo en eso.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t manage to make me hate all men, you just made me realize that I should be much more careful whom I give my trust and love.<\/p>\n<p>You just made me realize that a man can&#8217;t love you with words but can very easily destroy you with them.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I still can&#8217;t believe how foolish and naive I was in all of my previous relationships. I let men use me just because I loved them and didn&#8217;t want them to leave me. Yes, I also made mistakes. I made so many mistakes. I hurt myself so many times that it&#8217;s impossible to count them&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102672,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/I-Do-Still-Trust-Men-I-Just-Dont-Believe-Their-Words-Anymore.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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