{"id":102741,"date":"2020-10-08T17:10:14","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T17:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102741"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:47","slug":"errores-que-comete-la-gente-cuando-se-da-cuenta-de-que-la-relacion-es-mala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/errores-que-comete-la-gente-cuando-se-da-cuenta-de-que-la-relacion-es-mala\/","title":{"rendered":"8 errores que comete la gente cuando se da cuenta de que su relaci\u00f3n va mal, en lugar de limitarse a terminarla"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos deber\u00edamos ser conscientes de que <em><strong>no todas las relaciones est\u00e1n destinadas a durar para siempre<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you&#8217;ll realize that your relationship isn&#8217;t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, <em>la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n razonable para usted<\/em>ser\u00eda ponerle fin de inmediato.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that might hurt your partner but trust me, if you drag it out some more and pretend that everything&#8217;s okay, you&#8217;ll hurt them even more.<\/p>\n<p><em>Here are some things, some very wrong things, that people do when they realize that their relationship isn&#8217;t the real deal.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que consiguen as\u00ed es herir profundamente a su pareja.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Empiezan a evitar a su pareja<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102743\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"pareja indiferente sentada en el sof\u00e1 lejos el uno del otro en silencio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t want to open up to their partner and speak directly about their problems, so they don&#8217;t know how to behave around them.<\/p>\n<p>Piensan que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-sorprendentes-razones-por-las-que-te-evita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">evitar a su pareja<\/a> es su \u00fanica opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>They want to seem distant to their partner as they think that is going to make them break up with them first and that they&#8217;ll be less hurt.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so wrong. <em><strong>La comunicaci\u00f3n honesta es siempre la mejor opci\u00f3n para todos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El juego de las culpas ha comenzado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102744\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo y sentada en el sofa del salon \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Empiezan a culpar a su pareja y, de alguna manera, siempre ganan. Con cada desacuerdo o problema en su relaci\u00f3n, empiezan a culpar a su pareja.<\/p>\n<p>They never want to admit when they have made a mistake or seek their partner&#8217;s forgiveness; instead, they always want them to apologize first.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo \u00fanico que quieren es presionar a su pareja y dejarle s\u00f3lo una opci\u00f3n: romper con ellos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They tell other people they\u2019re single<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102745\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer de negocios hablando dentro de la oficina sentados en la silla en \u00e1ngulo superior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They start behaving like they&#8217;re single and they tell their friends and family that they&#8217;re no longer in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>They probably think that it\u2019s going to be less painful for their partner to find it out from other people but the fact is, it&#8217;s going to hurt them even more.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Crean drama innecesario todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102746\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems.jpg\" alt=\"pareja teniendo problemas peleando dentro del dormitorio mientras se sientan en la cama con cabecero negro \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll start arguing with their partner over some stupid little things.<\/p>\n<p>Their partner won&#8217;t be able to please them anymore and no matter what they do or say, it won&#8217;t be good enough for their other half, who\u2019s using these sneaky ways to put an end to their romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Con todo este drama innecesario, s\u00f3lo quieren crear un ambiente emocional t\u00f3xico y hacer que sus parejas pongan fin a su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dar celos a su pareja es su principal trabajo ahora<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102747\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven celosa por su pareja tumbada y escondiendo su tel\u00e9fono mientras sonr\u00ede \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If they\u2019ve been in a relationship for some time, then they know their partner and the things that bother them the most.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If their partner has always been a little bit jealous, that&#8217;s the first thing they&#8217;ll use.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/que-hacen-los-hombres-para-poner-celosas-a-las-mujeres\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">intenta darles celos<\/a> first with some small things, like hiding their phone or going out every night but then if that doesn&#8217;t work, they&#8217;ll start flirting with other people in front of them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cortaron la comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102749\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"pareja silenciosa sentada en la cama con el hombre medio desnudo mirando su aparato\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll start avoiding them as much as they can. They&#8217;ll start canceling plans or stop going to the places where they go.<\/p>\n<p>But the thing that&#8217;s going to bother their partner the most is that they&#8217;ll try to cut off all communication they had.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll stop replying to their calls and messages, even though they&#8217;ll be active on their social media, and we all know that can make us all crazy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cualquier tipo de abuso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102750\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist.jpg\" alt=\"la silueta del pu\u00f1o del marido violento y una mujer llorando sentada en el suelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta es la peor. \u00bfC\u00f3mo puede ser m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil abusar de alguien emocionalmente o de cualquier otra forma que hablar con \u00e9l y decirle directamente que quieres romper?<\/p>\n<p>If you ever even cared for that person, you won&#8217;t allow them to go through that.<\/p>\n<p>Sobrevivir\u00e1n a la ruptura y se recuperar\u00e1n de ella tarde o temprano, pero la <em><strong>abuso emocional va a dejar secuelas en su coraz\u00f3n y en su mente para el resto de su vida.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Empiezan a ver a otras personas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102751\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone.jpg\" alt=\"tel\u00e9fono del marido infiel llamado por la esposa y una amante haciendo el amor en la cama en la foto recortada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Break up with your other half, leave them via a message or any other way you can but don&#8217;t ever cheat on them and start seeing other people while you&#8217;re still in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easier to be direct with someone even though it&#8217;s going to hurt them than to live with knowing that you broke someone&#8217;s heart just because you weren&#8217;t man enough to tell them the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se trata de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/se-esta-alejando-o-esta-rompiendo-contigo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">romper con<\/a> alguien, especialmente si sabes que esa persona a\u00fan te quiere, no hay mentiras piadosas ni formas f\u00e1ciles de dejarla.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s only one way; to be honest with them and tell them how you really feel and that the best thing for both of you would be ending your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, someone will be hurt but that&#8217;s the only way neither one of you will be left with a broken heart.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all should be aware of the fact that not all relationships are meant to last forever. Sometimes you&#8217;ll realize that your relationship isn&#8217;t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, the only reasonable choice for you, would be to end it right away. Yes, that might hurt your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":102752,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/8-Mistakes-People-Make-When-They-Realize-Their-Relationship-Is-Wrong-Instead-Of-Just-Ending-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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