{"id":102754,"date":"2020-10-08T17:11:30","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T17:11:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102754"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:21","slug":"eres-un-irrespetuoso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/eres-un-irrespetuoso\/","title":{"rendered":"No soy dif\u00edcil, s\u00f3lo eres irrespetuoso"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 es tan f\u00e1cil tachar a una mujer de dif\u00edcil cuando no quiere comprometerse con el respeto, el amor y la confianza?<\/p>\n

I guess it\u2019s easier for men to pronounce a woman impossible to deal with than to actually put some effort into meeting her needs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yeah, I get why you do that, but I won\u2019t accept it. I\u2019m not willing to forget who I am just so you can tell me how easygoing and cute you find me. Nope.<\/p>\n

Cuando una chica se respeta a s\u00ed misma y sabe lo que quiere para sentirse querida, cuidada y segura, misteriosamente la llaman loca, necesitada y que explota a su hombre.<\/p>\n

Are you not used to dealing with a woman who knows she\u2019s good enough and doesn\u2019t question herself just because you decided that you\u2019re the most important person in the relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

There was a time when I actually thought that I might be asking for too much from my boyfriend. Luckily, I\u2019ve realized just how little sense that makes.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not asking you to give anything I\u2019m not already giving you.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo pido que seamos compa\u00f1eros, iguales en cuanto a lo mucho que nos respetamos y cuidamos el uno del otro. Quiero que mi esfuerzo sea rec\u00edproco.<\/p>\n

You chose to ignore my needs so you can fulfill yours and that doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m being difficult or selfish, it means I\u2019m being falta de respeto<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que esperabas que fuera lo bastante insegura como para dejarte controlar nuestra relaci\u00f3n y convertirte en el rey de mi castillo.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately for you, I\u2019m perfectly aware of how much value I have and I demand to be treated with as much respect and love as I treat you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not okay with you paying attention to me only when you feel like it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I want to constantly feel like you\u2019re there for me and I\u2019m not asentamiento<\/a> por nada menos que eso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean that I won\u2019t give you time, freedom, or space for your individuality. It doesn\u2019t mean that you have to be at my beck and call 24\/7.<\/p>\n

It only means that you have to give me the respect that I deserve \u2013 the same kind you want me to give you and that I do give happily every day.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of being called nagging and demanding just because I have to remind you of the right way for you to show me you love me.<\/p>\n

You should know that on your own. You should appreciate that I\u2019m willing to give you time to learn and change.<\/p>\n

Parece que en cualquier situaci\u00f3n en la que espero que te esfuerces y me demuestres lo cari\u00f1oso que puedes llegar a ser, encuentras la forma de decepcionarme.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sure enough, a woman shouldn\u2019t say anything, not even then, unless she wants to be called difficult.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Se espera que una buena chica se conforme con un amor mediocre, una relaci\u00f3n mediocre y una pasi\u00f3n mediocre para que pueda tener el privilegio de ser etiquetada como despreocupada, relajada y suave.<\/p>\n

Well, guess what? I don\u2019t care what you call me, because what you call me only speaks of who you are and what your shallow expectations of me are.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to guilt-trip me into thinking that I should abandon my rights, my needs, and my wants.<\/p>\n

Things don\u2019t work that way. If you want to have a woman in your life who\u2019ll give you everything. you need to learn to treat her the way she deserves to be treated.<\/p>\n

En \u00faltima instancia, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es lo que quieres? \u00bfQuieres tener una gran mujer en tu vida?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m right here. The thing is, you won\u2019t keep me by trying to bajar mis est\u00e1ndares<\/a> en lugar de simplemente poner m\u00e1s esfuerzo en nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t have you trying to bring me down just so you can feel better about yourself. You\u2019re not being strong or clever by doing that, you\u2019re just being annoyingly insensitive and demeaning.<\/p>\n

I need love, devotion, admiration, and respect and if that\u2019s just too much for you to give, I have a label for you and it says you\u2019re \u2019a low effort man who doesn\u2019t have what it takes to love me\u2019.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll always keep my head high, no matter how difficult you think that makes me.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why is it so easy to label a woman as difficult when she doesn\u2019t want to compromise on respect, love, and trust? I guess it\u2019s easier for men to pronounce a woman impossible to deal with than to actually put some effort into meeting her needs. Yeah, I get why you do that, but I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102759,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Im-Not-Difficult-Youre-Just-Disrespectful.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102754\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}