{"id":10376,"date":"2020-06-14T09:49:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T09:49:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10376"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:37:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:37:46","slug":"10-signos-no-quiere-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-signos-no-quiere-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales de que no quiere una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

En la era de las citas modernas<\/a> y casi relaciones, saber a qu\u00e9 atenerse con su hombre es casi imposible.<\/p>\n

Con \u00e9l huyendo del compromiso y fingiendo tener una enfermedad mortal s\u00f3lo para evitar la charla, la \u00fanica manera de saber a qu\u00e9 atenerse es buscar se\u00f1ales.<\/p>\n

And, well, they\u2019re more than obvious. Your rose-tinted shades may blind you from seeing them clearly, but they\u2019re still there.<\/p>\n

Acaba de romper con otra persona<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a great chance you might end up as a rebound girl.<\/p>\n

Dating someone who just got out of a relationship and hasn\u2019t had time to move on is a one-way ticket to getting your heartbroken.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s no wonder he refuses to talk about you two moving on from casually hooking up, because he\u2019s simply not ready to enter another relationship.<\/p>\n

Puede que incluso siga enamorado de su ex.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t take you on serious dates<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si vuestras citas s\u00f3lo se basan en ligar, Netflix and chill y pasar tiempo juntos en tu casa o en la suya, sin salir nunca juntos en p\u00fablico o invitar a otros a casa, podr\u00edas ser s\u00f3lo su reclamo sexual.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay if you\u2019re down with this kind of a relationship, but if you\u2019re hoping to have a real one, maybe he\u2019s not the guy to have it with.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not ready to take you out properly and show you off, he won\u2019t be ready to commit to you.<\/p>\n

Te mereces a alguien que salga contigo el resto de tu vida, no que te esconda desde el primer d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

He disappears for days and pretends it\u2019s not a big deal<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si le importas de verdad, te dedicar\u00e1 tiempo y espacio en su vida.<\/p>\n

Even if he has no time to spend with you, he will text you and let you know that he\u2019s thinking of you.<\/p>\n

But if he takes vacations from your relationship without even getting in touch with you before or during it, he\u2019s simply not worried about losing you.<\/p>\n

If he knows that you\u2019ll be waiting for him no matter how shitty his behavior is, there\u2019s no reason for him to commit to you or change for you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 lo har\u00eda? \u00c9l tiene todos los beneficios de una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> sin estar en una.<\/p>\n

Te abandona en el \u00faltimo minuto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He knew he had other plans on your date night, he just didn\u2019t bother to let you know about them before it was too late.<\/p>\n

Te mantiene como una red de seguridad, para que si sus otros planes fracasan, tenga alguien a quien acudir.<\/p>\n

Or simply he doesn\u2019t feel like going out in public with you.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no reason you should put up with this behavior, so put yourself first for once and ditch his lying ass.<\/p>\n

Te mantiene separada de sus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You never got to meet them and he keeps telling you, \u201cYou\u2019d be bored, you won\u2019t like them.\u201d<\/p>\n

But the thing is, when you\u2019re dating someone, you want everyone to meet that special someone.<\/p>\n

You want to make sure your friends behave properly so your significant other will like them, you want to make sure to involve that person in every single part of your life, because they\u2019re already a big part of it anyway.<\/p>\n

If he keeps you away from his friends and family, he just doesn\u2019t plan on moving forward with you.<\/p>\n

Nunca se compromete<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It\u2019s either his way or no way. If you want to go out to the movies or grab some dinner, he insists you stay home. And you stay home.<\/p>\n

If you feel like clubbing and he feels like going to a game, he goes to the game. He doesn\u2019t have the word compromise in his vocabulary.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple\u2014he doesn\u2019t care about you or your feelings<\/a>. S\u00f3lo se preocupa por \u00e9l, lo que no deja lugar para ti en su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfRealmente vale la pena perder el sue\u00f1o por \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

He\u2019s only affectionate in private\u2014never in public<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re alone, he can\u2019t keep his hands off of you. He kisses you, touches you and drives you crazy with desire.<\/p>\n

But the moment you step outside, he turns all \u2018coworker\u2019 mode.<\/p>\n

He won’t even hold your hand and if he sees someone he knows, he only introduces you by your name, without labeling what you are to him.<\/p>\n

If he decides to put on a label, it\u2019s \u2018friend\u2019. His excuse: There\u2019s no reason for anyone to know about my private life.<\/p>\n

Nunca habla del futuro y evita hacer planes futuros<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He never talks about the future, simply because he doesn\u2019t plan on having one with you.<\/p>\n

Si incluso intentas hablarle de alg\u00fan plan de futuro, cambia de tema y pasa r\u00e1pidamente a otra cosa sin darte ni siquiera informaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And if you try to have \u2018the talk\u2019 with him, he says he\u2019s not ready, he\u2019s too tired, etc. He avoids anything that has any connection with commitment and labeling your relationship.<\/p>\n

He says he\u2019s bad at dating<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Poor little thing, and now I\u2019m supposed to make you better at it? No.<\/p>\n

This is an attention seeking excuse, where in case anything shitty happens, he can say, \u201cI warned you.\u201d<\/p>\n

No, you didn\u2019t. You just never felt like putting any effort into this relationship, into us.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDesde cu\u00e1ndo ser malo en algo es una excusa para no intentar mejorarlo?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m bad at cooking, and still I\u2019m regularly burning my pans and smoking up my kitchen. Lo importante es no rendirse nunca.<\/a><\/p>\n

He says he doesn\u2019t want a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This seems quite self-explanatory, but the thing is, almost-relationships are everywhere now. It\u2019s when you\u2019re practically boyfriend and girlfriend, although you\u2019re NOT.<\/p>\n

When he says that he doesn\u2019t want a relationship or is not ready for one, what he really means is that he doesn\u2019t want one with you.<\/p>\n

We all want to believe that we\u2019re the one who can change his mind, the one he will finally commit to. But we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been there; I fell in love with a man who made me his almost, but he never made me his choice. He never showed any will to do so, no matter how hard I tried and hoped.<\/p>\n

No importaba lo que hiciera, lo buena o mala que fuera, \u00e9l nunca me vio como su novia.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not because there\u2019s something wrong with me, it\u2019s not because I didn\u2019t try enough (trust me, I did), it\u2019s simply because he never wanted a relationship in the first place.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda los beneficios de tener uno.<\/p>\n

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