{"id":10389,"date":"2020-05-14T10:05:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T10:05:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10389"},"modified":"2022-02-01T01:17:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-01T01:17:09","slug":"7-consejos-deja-de-obsesionarte-guy-doesnt-give-damn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-consejos-deja-de-obsesionarte-guy-doesnt-give-damn\/","title":{"rendered":"7 consejos para dejar de obsesionarte con un chico al que le importas un bledo"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first thing you need to understand is that there are plenty of fish in the sea, so stop obsessing over that particular one, especially if that fish just doesn\u2019t want to bite your hook bait.<\/p>\n

Simplemente no tiene sentido porque el \u00fanico resultado de esta situaci\u00f3n es que salgas herido.<\/p>\n

And another thing is that while you\u2019re fishing for the wrong one, the right one may just slip through your fingers because you\u2019ve put all your energy in a person who doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Being hooked on the wrong guy has become a Hollywood clich\u00e9. Almost every romantic Hollywood plot begins with a young and beautiful woman who aches for a guy who is completely uninterested or he is just a friend.<\/p>\n

But, she doesn\u2019t give up. If he is a friend, she will continue to hurt in silence, misreading all the signals he is sending her in the hope he\u2019ll come around.<\/p>\n

Probablemente incluso tenga novia y, como hacen todos los buenos amigos, ella se sienta pacientemente a escuchar sus problemas amorosos, esperando que las cosas entre ellos se desmoronen y \u00e9l abra los ojos de repente y se d\u00e9 cuenta de que su verdadero amor ha estado justo delante de \u00e9l todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

Or, she will ache for the guy who doesn\u2019t even know she exists. Sufrir\u00e1 en silencio<\/a> y ella har\u00e1 las paces con el hecho de que nunca va a estar con \u00e9l, pero su coraz\u00f3n se negar\u00e1 a seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

She will watch him from a distance and she will continue breaking her own heart because she is hooked on him and doesn\u2019t want to let go.<\/p>\n

Pero a diferencia de la vida real, estas historias siempre tienen un final feliz.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ese chico que era su amigo de repente se da cuenta de que ha estado enamorado de ella todo este tiempo y viven felices.<\/p>\n

Or that guy who has never noticed her suddenly opens his eyes and has an epiphany\u2014he falls in love with her immediately.<\/p>\n

Well, in real life, things usually don\u2019t go that way. Usually, you waste your life and time on someone who is just not right for you and he could never be because you don\u2019t have the right one.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that you didn\u2019t find him yet because you\u2019ve wasted time trying to impress someone else. And that leads to a broken heart and pain.<\/em><\/p>\n

Spare yourself the pain and try to cut the problem at its root. Stop breaking your own heart by hoping he\u2019ll come around.<\/p>\n

Stop living in a romantic movie. You\u2019ll have your moment and it won\u2019t be a cheesy clich\u00e9.<\/p>\n

It will be the most romantic moment of your life and it will be your happily ever after. But first, learn how to stop obsessing over a guy who\u2019s not into you.<\/p>\n

1. Recuerda que no es perfecto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00c9l no es esa perfecci\u00f3n que t\u00fa crees que es. Es un ser humano como t\u00fa y tiene sus man\u00edas, como todos.<\/p>\n

No es impecable ni todopoderoso, as\u00ed que deja de mirarle con gafas de color de rosa y deja de ver s\u00f3lo las cosas buenas que ha hecho y que te han arrasado.<\/p>\n

Stop for a second and try to look at the whole picture. Try to act like this situation doesn\u2019t concern you, like you are observing him and his behavior for a friend.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 objetivo y haz una lista de contras y pros y luego lee tus contras y m\u00edralos bien.<\/p>\n

Once again, remember that no one is perfect. Maybe that should help you take him off of the pedestal you\u2019ve put him on.<\/p>\n

2. Forzarlo no le ayudar\u00e1<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque lo vuelvas loco y le ruegues que te d\u00e9 una oportunidad y \u00e9l se doblegue, te est\u00e1s preparando para un futuro desenga\u00f1o amoroso. No hay manera algo bueno saldr\u00e1 de esa relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t into you from the moment he saw you, if there is no connection between the two of you, it will never be.<\/p>\n

3. Habla con tus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"Dos<\/p>\n

Si la persona a la que acudes en busca de ayuda es realmente tu amigo de verdad, te dir\u00e1 la verdad. Te dir\u00e1 que lo dejes estar y que sigas adelante.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n, when you\u2019re blinded by obsession<\/a>, emotions and a possible past you had with him, you can\u2019t look at the whole picture, so your obsession grows even more.<\/p>\n

Puede que incluso empieces a imaginar cosas, o a dar m\u00e1s significado a cosas que son triviales.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when a good friend is more than welcome. Try to present the problem that is bothering you with as many facts as possible and try to exclude your emotions from it.<\/p>\n

Tu verdadero amigo te dir\u00e1 lo que debes hacer o quiz\u00e1 llegu\u00e9is juntos a una soluci\u00f3n, porque dos cabezas piensan mejor que una.<\/p>\n

Anyhow, it\u2019s always nice to hear selfless and sincere advice from a person who cares for you deeply.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ll miss out on your best years<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

If you continue obsessing over someone who doesn\u2019t know you exist or who sees you just as a friend or a friend with benefits, there\u2019s a high chance that you\u2019ll miss out on someone who truly wants to be with you.<\/p>\n

If you continue to think about him, you\u2019ll waste your youth and your best years.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to spend the time of your life when you are supposed to have the most fun in tears and sorrow.<\/p>\n

Mereces tener a alguien que te quiera por lo que eres. Te mereces a alguien que se alegre de despertarse a tu lado cada ma\u00f1ana.<\/p>\n

Te mereces a alguien que quiera pasar el resto de su vida contigo.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. Detener el acoso social<\/h2>\n

\"primer<\/p>\n

Looking at his Facebook profile won\u2019t get you anywhere except to heartbreak.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll stalk him, look at his amazing photos, see where he is going and with who he is with and it will only make you sad and maybe even jealous.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get sucked into an infinite hole of previous information and girlfriends.<\/p>\n

Your obsession will just keep growing as you reveal new things about him. It will be like you\u2019re addicted. You will just keep wanting more.<\/p>\n

6. Recupera tu autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Si\u00e9ntate y charla contigo mismo. Recu\u00e9rdate lo incre\u00edble que eres.<\/p>\n

Remind yourself that you don\u2019t need anyone to be happy, especially not someone who doesn\u2019t want to be with you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te niegas la oportunidad de conocer a alguien que nunca te perder\u00e1 de vista y que te proteger\u00e1 de todo y de todos?<\/p>\n

You need to realize that if you go on a date with someone and they don\u2019t call you back, it\u2019s not your fault. You are not the one to blame if he didn\u2019t like you but you liked him.<\/p>\n

You need to be patient because if you stick to the one who doesn\u2019t want to be with you, you\u2019ll miss out on the one who does.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t let him take advantage of you<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

By liking him and getting nothing in return, you\u2019re just going to stay in his shadow.<\/p>\n

Sabe que puede contar contigo pase lo que pase y te utilizar\u00e1 para conseguir lo que quiere.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to be someone\u2019s causality, someone\u2019s convenient tool for the time he needs it.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puede atraerte, prest\u00e1ndote la suficiente atenci\u00f3n como para mantenerte enganchado.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll say something or he\u2019ll \u2018open up\u2019 and give you a reason to think he is into you when he\u2019s not. Don\u2019t fall for that and mant\u00e9n tu autoestima.<\/a><\/p>\n

Remember that you are one special person. Don\u2019t undermine and disrespect yourself.<\/p>\n

Tienes que estar orgulloso de qui\u00e9n eres porque un d\u00eda llamar\u00e1 a tu puerta alguien que te ha estado esperando.<\/p>\n

So, make sure you are there when he does instead of chasing someone who couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

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