{"id":104057,"date":"2020-10-15T14:29:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-15T14:29:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=104057"},"modified":"2022-12-13T14:48:15","modified_gmt":"2022-12-13T14:48:15","slug":"senales-de-una-buena-primera-cita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-una-buena-primera-cita\/","title":{"rendered":"21 se\u00f1ales de una buena primera cita y c\u00f3mo acertar en la segunda"},"content":{"rendered":"

A veces, los signos de una buena primera cita<\/a> are so obvious that words don’t do them justice.<\/p>\n

La conversaci\u00f3n fluye, el lenguaje corporal lo es todo y su sentido del humor mola.<\/p>\n

Si bien los expertos en relaciones coinciden en que estos signos reveladores son indicadores totales de una inminente segunda cita<\/a>Pero tambi\u00e9n hay muchos signos sutiles que pueden haber pasado desapercibidos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And that’s what I’m focusing on in this article.<\/p>\n

Quieres un comienzo s\u00f3lido y bueno para tu posible relaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed como asegurarte de que las citas sigan llegando, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Great! Because since those good signs are easy to miss when you’re in your head too much, I’m here to save the day!<\/p>\n

First dates are all about exploring the territory, uncovering potential red flags, and figuring out if they’re a keeper through casual small talk.<\/p>\n

While it’s difficult to be certain if this new person will be a good fit long-term, it is possible to detect positive signs that suggest great compatibility.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para asegurarte de que tu primera cita ha sido estupenda, descubre qu\u00e9 se\u00f1ales de alarma debes tener en cuenta y aprende a conseguir la segunda cita<\/a>, keep reading. I’ve got it all covered.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 20 cosas que debes tener en cuenta al salir con un chico t\u00edmido<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfTu primera cita fue un \u00e9xito? 21 se\u00f1ales de que lo fue<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Find out if your date was as awesome as you think it was through these foolproof signs! If you can check the majority of these off your list, congrats, there’s definitely potential!<\/em><\/p>\n

La cita dur\u00f3 mucho m\u00e1s de lo que hab\u00edas previsto<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Esta es sin duda una de las mejores se\u00f1ales que existen. S\u00e9 lo terribles que pueden ser las primeras citas.<\/p>\n

No dejas de insistir en la charla y en c\u00f3mo mantenerla interesante hasta el punto de volverte loco.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que cuando su cita supere sus expectativas de longevidad, felic\u00edtese.<\/p>\n

You’ve found someone interesting enough that made you forget about the hours that went by just like that. Qu\u00edmica en la primera cita<\/a> \u00a1es realmente fuerte con ustedes dos!<\/p>\n

Su sentido del humor estaba perfectamente sincronizado con el suyo<\/h2>\n

\"presentaciones<\/p>\n

I don’t know about you, but if my partner can’t make me genuinely laugh my booty off, I stop wasting my time.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00e9is que ser capaces de re\u00edros juntos.<\/p>\n

If it’s all seriousness, deep stuff and they can’t break you out of your bad mood, just leave.<\/p>\n

La falta de risa es una rompe tratos<\/a> and never settle for less. Especially if they can\u2019t make you LOL so early on.<\/p>\n

Ambos estaban realmente interesados en lo que el otro ten\u00eda que decir<\/h2>\n

\"primera<\/p>\n

Esto es lo bonito de vuestra cita. Ninguno de los dos estaba interesado en interrumpir al otro.<\/p>\n

Ambos quer\u00edan de verdad o\u00edr hablar al otro y la conversaci\u00f3n fluy\u00f3 de maravilla.<\/p>\n

Este es uno de los signos m\u00e1s preciados de una buena primera cita.<\/p>\n

En una relaci\u00f3n, se necesita una pareja que sepa comunicarse. Y este es un gran indicador de una de esas personas.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 9 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 poniendo a prueba para decidir si eres un buen novio<\/a><\/p>\n

Hubo MUCHO contacto visual por ambas partes.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No hab\u00eda ninguna incomodidad en este sentido. Te sent\u00edas totalmente c\u00f3modo mir\u00e1ndoles directamente a los ojos mientras hablabas y te sent\u00edas realmente bien. Ellos tambi\u00e9n lo hac\u00edan, y era casi como magia.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to get ahead of yourself, but so far, this seems to be a really great first date. Can you keep it up?<\/p>\n

Fuiste capaz de ser t\u00fa mismo sin esconder nada de ti.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

One of my least favorite things about dating is having this feeling like you can’t be completely yourself from the get-go.<\/p>\n

It’s really challenging to get to know a person while not being true to your own self.<\/p>\n

When you’re able to overcome that and show all your quirks without feeling judged, that’s a success and you can be sure that you’re close to conseguir novia<\/a> o novio.<\/p>\n

People fake it way too often out of fear of being misunderstood too soon. But for me, if I have to fake anything, I’m out.<\/p>\n

Definitivamente hubo contacto f\u00edsico (un toque sutil de una mano, etc.)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Al principio dudaste, pero cuando viste la oportunidad, la aprovechaste. Encontraste una bonita excusa para tocarle la mu\u00f1eca por encima de la mesa y sin duda surgi\u00f3 la chispa.<\/p>\n

Then, they returned the favor and “accidentally” brushed up against your leg while changing seating positions.<\/p>\n

Cosas as\u00ed son verdaderos indicadores de que dos personas se gustan.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: This Is Why It’s So AWESOME To Date An Introverted Girl<\/a><\/p>\n

The whole time you felt like you’d known each other for ages<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

One of the most amazing things that can happen on a date is precisely this. Meeting them for the first time but feeling like you’ve known them for ages.<\/p>\n

La conversaci\u00f3n es muy fluida y natural, transmiten muy buen rollo y el ambiente es enardecedor en el mejor de los sentidos.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de cosas casi siempre conducen a algo grande. Aseg\u00farate de seguir adelante, ya que algo tan \u00fanico merece ser explorado.<\/p>\n

Ni una sola vez has querido coger el m\u00f3vil o salir corriendo.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sentir la necesidad de estar pendiente del m\u00f3vil durante una cita es muy mala se\u00f1al. Por suerte, has disfrutado tanto con alguien que te has olvidado por completo del m\u00f3vil.<\/p>\n

And if you’re being honest, that’s a rarity. You can’t remember the last time you met someone who genuinely made you forget your smartphone.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 te dice eso?<\/p>\n

Escucharon atentamente e hicieron un mont\u00f3n de preguntas de seguimiento.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edan un mont\u00f3n de preguntas cada vez que compart\u00edas algo sobre ti o tus allegados. Y no del tipo invasivo.<\/p>\n

Parec\u00edan realmente interesados en lo que estuvieras hablando.<\/p>\n

And since there are lots of narcissistic types out there who can\u2019t wait for their turn to shine, this is pretty cool!<\/p>\n

Se hicieron amigos tuyos en las redes sociales la misma noche<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And you probably totally freaked out, right? (Who wouldn’t?) In fact, your own reaction says it all.<\/p>\n

If you didn’t like them, you’d be annoyed at seeing their friend request.<\/p>\n

But if you quietly went crazy and maybe even squealed a little, that’s one of your best signs of a good first date.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 claro que quieren Conoce<\/a> m\u00e1s te vale, \u00a1por supuesto que s\u00ed!<\/p>\n

Reflejaron tus acciones (y viceversa)<\/h2>\n

\"atractiva<\/p>\n

T\u00fa cogiste un vaso de vino y ellos hicieron lo mismo inmediatamente despu\u00e9s. T\u00fa sonre\u00edas y ellos tambi\u00e9n (de forma totalmente instintiva).<\/p>\n

Need I say more? This is one of the cutest signs of a great connection. When you do things like this by accident, there’s definitely something cooking there.<\/p>\n

Tu cita sugiri\u00f3 que a su grupo de amigos les ENCANTAR\u00cdAS<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Who wouldn’t love hearing this? Say you were talking about some of your crazy adventures, and they just stopped you mid-sentence to say: “I just have to tell you that my crew would really dig you.”<\/p>\n

Clearly, you’ve already got him thinking about potential hang-outs. How awesome is that?<\/p>\n

Tener a sus amigos como t\u00fa sin duda ayuda mucho.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 100 preguntas profundas a tu cita si realmente quieres conocerla<\/a><\/p>\n

Ustedes dos caminaron a casa ya que ambos quer\u00edan ese tiempo extra juntos<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Aww, how cute is this? When you don’t even want to call an Uber because you really want to squeeze any additional time you can have together. How often does that happen?<\/p>\n

This means you’ve realmente<\/em> clicked. Walking together after a great date and talking like you’re already a couple is the dream.<\/p>\n

De forma natural, pasaste de las conversaciones triviales a los temas m\u00e1s profundos.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Abordaste temas como la salud mental, tus anteriores relaciones serias, tus antecedentes familiares y todo lo dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

La conversaci\u00f3n avanzaba de forma natural. En un momento estabais contando chistes y en otro hablabais de vuestra hermana mayor, que se hab\u00eda ido a vivir a otro pa\u00eds, y de c\u00f3mo os hab\u00eda afectado.<\/p>\n

Small talk is really important because you can’t always be serious. But when you can just naturally cross over, that’s pretty rad.<\/p>\n

You couldn’t help but smile the whole time<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It seems like you can finally kiss online dating bye-bye, as this person made you smile throughout the entire date. And it’s not just their cool sense of humor.<\/p>\n

Hablar con ellos era agradable y relajante. Estabas justo donde quer\u00edas estar y la sonrisa no te abandonaba en ning\u00fan momento.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te diste cuenta cuando llegaste a casa y te dol\u00edan los m\u00fasculos faciales de sonre\u00edr toda la noche.<\/p>\n

Inmediatamente despu\u00e9s, NECESITAbas compartirlo todo con tus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And finally, it wasn’t about something that went wrong because the date rocked!<\/p>\n

Y s\u00f3lo necesitabas tu mejor amigo<\/a> para saber lo bien que te lo has pasado.<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s bonitas de una buena primera cita. La necesidad de compartir tu alegr\u00eda inmediatamente despu\u00e9s lo resume todo.<\/p>\n

Su cita le envi\u00f3 un mensaje de texto en 24 horas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Could they be real? Yup! And they also suggested some awesome second date ideas (omg) which is one of the best signs they\u2019re really into you!<\/p>\n

You already know how big of a deal this is. If they didn’t like you, they wouldn’t bother texting, especially so soon. But if you heard from them within 24 hours, you’re golden.<\/p>\n

You can’t get them out of your head<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

To me, first impressions are everything. And when you can’t get this person out of your head after the date, you conozca<\/em> hicieron algo bien.<\/p>\n

I’m the kind of person who can’t stop replaying stuff in my head for days and even weeks on end. But I don’t mind it!<\/p>\n

If you have a good thing going, of course you’re going to think about it! Why deny yourself the joy and excitement?<\/p>\n

You weren’t similar, but you still appreciated your differences<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Here’s some really good dating advice. Just because you two aren\u2019t two peas in a pod, doesn’t mean you wouldn’t be great together.<\/p>\n

People have complicated lives, complex family members, demanding jobs, and different beliefs, but if there’s a strong click, it means you can work through it.<\/p>\n

And it seems like you’re on the right track.<\/p>\n

You know what you’re after, and so far, they totally fit the criteria<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hasta ahora, parecen el tipo de persona que buscas como pareja. Parece que por fin has terminado con el swipe a la izquierda en los sitios de citas, ya que este lo tiene todo.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to jinx it of course, but if the dating experts are on your side, how could you not be happy?<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de varias citas malas, te mereces a alguien que se fije en los peque\u00f1os detalles.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 20 incre\u00edbles y bonitas ideas de citas nocturnas para todas las parejas<\/a><\/p>\n

Os abrazasteis o incluso os besasteis al final de la noche<\/h2>\n

\"rom\u00e1ntica<\/p>\n

Y por \u00faltimo, cuando la cita llegaba a su inevitable final, hab\u00eda un abrazo o un beso que quer\u00edas que durase horas.<\/p>\n

Tem\u00edas este momento, pero cuando lleg\u00f3, te pareci\u00f3 tan natural y te produjo un cosquilleo.<\/p>\n

Terminar la cita con una buena nota es muy importante. Y esto me parece el mejor final para una cita gloriosa.<\/p>\n

Si \u00e9sta ha sido s\u00f3lo la primera, \u00bfc\u00f3mo de estimulante ser\u00e1 la segunda?<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo triunfar en la segunda cita<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Now that you’ve got the first one under your belt, let’s focus on having even more fun on the following date.<\/em><\/p>\n

Here’s how you can make sure to grab (and keep) their attention the second time around!<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00e1ltate el restaurante y opta por algo totalmente diferente<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Ir a un restaurante elegante o a una cafeter\u00eda de moda suele ser la mejor opci\u00f3n para empezar a salir. Pero, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no cambiar de aires?<\/p>\n

Sugiere una idea totalmente diferente. \u00bfQuiz\u00e1 podr\u00edas probar con los karts?<\/p>\n

Or have a picnic if it’s a nice day? If you live near a beach and the weather allows it, go catch some waves!<\/p>\n

You know what I’m talking about. Try different things. I assure you it’ll be more fun than your regular romantic dinner date.<\/p>\n

Rel\u00e1jate, \u00a1sabes que les gustas!<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Relax, if they didn’t like you, there wouldn’t be a second date, now would there? So, you’ve got that working for you.<\/p>\n

Conc\u00e9ntrate en ser una persona segura de s\u00ed misma y desprende positividad y alegr\u00eda.<\/p>\n

You’ve already got a pretty solid picture of what they’re like so you know what to expect. Plus, the firsts are always the worst.<\/p>\n

Now’s the time to kick it up a notch. Show them your fun side and why dating you would be basically like winning the lottery.<\/p>\n

Preg\u00fantales todo lo que no te atreviste a decir en la primera cita.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It’s understandable that on the first one, you didn’t feel comfortable delving into particular topics. All in due time, right?<\/p>\n

So now that you’re going for round two, you may feel free to dig a little deeper. I’m not saying ask them about their entire family’s complicated history.<\/p>\n

But you can definitely start asking about more intimate stuff now. After all, you have to figure out if you’re a good fit, right?<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que no hace falta decir que algunas preguntas simplemente hay que hacerlas.<\/p>\n

Intenta elevar a\u00fan m\u00e1s la conversaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And I’m not talking about the deep stuff here (not necessarily anyway).<\/p>\n

But try to discuss an array of different things just to see what they’re into and what doesn’t<\/em> que hagan flotar su barco.<\/p>\n

This way, you’ll get a much clearer picture of them as a person.<\/p>\n

What they find funny, what sets them off, what can make them LOL in the worst of moods \u2013 that type of thing.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 255 preguntas profundas para iniciar una buena conversaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid to crack a joke or two (sense of humor is SO important)<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You may even prepare a joke beforehand, but definitely don’t recite it in a way that lets them see you practiced it at home.<\/p>\n

If you’ve got a good sense of what can make them laugh, then you can definitely casually throw in a short, witty joke to make them laugh.<\/p>\n

There’s nothing I love more than LOL-ing at the most unexpected moments.<\/p>\n

Habla de las cosas que te inspiran y preg\u00fantales por sus pasiones<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Esta es una parte muy bonita de las citas. Averiguar todo sobre sus esperanzas, sue\u00f1os y ambiciones, y ver c\u00f3mo hablan de ello apasionadamente.<\/p>\n

Las personas brillan de forma diferente cuando hablan de las cosas que aman.<\/p>\n

And afterward, you can do the same, and if they’re as good of a date as you think, they’ll let you talk without interruptions.<\/p>\n

Puede que le pregunte d\u00f3nde quiere estar dentro de cinco a\u00f1os para ver a qu\u00e9 atenerse si todo sale bien.<\/p>\n

Show them you’re into them (don’t be mysterious in that regard)<\/h2>\n

\"alegre<\/p>\n

Don’t hide how you feel. That’s not cool anymore.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to outright blurt it out on the first date, but you can definitely show them with your body language.<\/p>\n

Be open, inviting, interested, and somewhat eager. Don’t put all the cards on the table at once, but definitely leave the impression that you\u2019re into them.<\/p>\n

Recuerda cualquier peque\u00f1o detalle que tu cita haya mencionado para cortejarle<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A la gente le encanta saber que realmente se le escucha. Cualquiera puede asentir y esperar su turno para hablar. Pero no todo el mundo escucha por el mero hecho de ser escuchado. audici\u00f3n<\/em>.<\/p>\n

So be that person! Listen, soak it in, and try to remember. It shows that you’re not superficial or narcissistic.<\/p>\n

And when you casually mention that thing they had no idea you kept in mind, they’ll be in awe.<\/p>\n

Flirtea como si tu vida dependiera de ello<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Las segundas citas consisten en ligar como un loco.<\/p>\n

Bromea, gui\u00f1a un ojo aqu\u00ed y otro all\u00e1, sugiere algunas ideas ligeramente atrevidas, pero luego r\u00edete de ellas y deja que se pregunten si realmente estabas bromeando.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Las 40 mejores preguntas coquetas para enloquecer a un chico<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00f3cales la mano, ap\u00f3yate en su hombro (ya entiendes)<\/h2>\n

\"hermoso<\/p>\n

Physical contact is the best (if you know your limits of course). It’s all about doing it subtly but seductively.<\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid to touch their hand here and there (it’s hot, trust me).<\/p>\n

If you’re standing in a row or something, grab their hand or lean against their shoulder.<\/p>\n

It’s cute as hell and shows your interest.<\/p>\n

If you’re feeling bold, suggest an exciting third date idea<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Why not? If you’re having a wicked good time, and you get the sense that your date is just as into it as you are, go for it! Fortune favors the bold.<\/p>\n

Su reacci\u00f3n le dir\u00e1 todo lo que necesita saber.<\/p>\n

If they’re eager, they’ll be elated at your suggestion, and if they’re really not feeling you, they’ll be caught off guard and not know what to say.<\/p>\n

Still, that actually tells you everything. But vibes don’t lie! If the good times are rolling, I guarantee you they’ll say yes.<\/p>\n

Si te gustan, d\u00edselo (la sinceridad es un soplo de aire fresco).<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo dej\u00f3 la gente de decir las cosas abierta y honestamente? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se ha convertido en algo tan dif\u00edcil de hacer?<\/p>\n

A veces, siento que las citas de la vieja escuela eran las mejores.<\/p>\n

People like to hear things like that. You shouldn’t keep playing coy and hope they figure out what’s in your head.<\/p>\n

All that’s going to do is chase them away.<\/p>\n

It’s so simple. If you dig this person, say it! You can never go wrong with being honest, especially about something so positive.<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de alarma en las primeras citas que debes tener en cuenta<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Y por \u00faltimo, aqu\u00ed tienes las principales se\u00f1ales de alarma que nunca debes ignorar en una cita. Si reconoces a esta persona en alguna de ellas, pi\u00e9nsatelo mucho antes de volver a verla.<\/em><\/p>\n

They can’t form an original opinion and agree with whatever you say<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

If there’s one thing I can’t stand in a person, it’s their inability to form an opinion. I don’t need you to agree with me, I just need to hear that you actually have something to say.<\/p>\n

So yeah, if your date just keeps nodding along, without stating any opinion, that’s definitely a deal-breaker for me.<\/p>\n

How can you communicate with someone who can’t argue their point? Communication is key, and this is plain embarrassing.<\/p>\n

Tienen la audacia de pedir por ti (no, gracias)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Umm, no thank you. I know what I like and I’m perfectly capable of speaking for myself. People who have the audacity to think you’d actually be impressed with this need a reality check.<\/p>\n

It’s one thing if this was your long-term partner who knows what you like\/dislike. I can live with that. But for a first or second date, not so much. It’s presumptuous and, frankly, plain rude.<\/p>\n

Cero contacto visual (no dejan de mirar a la habitaci\u00f3n)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is a red flag that you definitely need to run away from. If they can’t concentrate on you and your conversation this early on, can you imagine them a few months into the relationship?<\/p>\n

Find yourself someone who’ll look you in the eye and pay attention to you as you’re talking. That’s a good sign of a person who’d be a good partner.<\/p>\n

If they’re eyeing the room, they can watch you leave it.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 10 razones por las que un chico mantiene un contacto visual prolongado contigo<\/a><\/p>\n

They say things like: “I’m not like all the other guys\/girls” (which makes them EXACTLY like them)<\/h2>\n

\"mala<\/p>\n

This is definitely not one of the signs of a good first date. Quite the opposite actually. It’s a cheesy statement that people say when they want to appear special and “different.”<\/p>\n

If they truly were nothing like most people, they wouldn’t feel the need to say so. They would just be that way and you’d see for yourself. This is just a cry for attention.<\/p>\n

Manifiestan signos de una autoestima muy baja<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You don’t need someone who’ll constantly need you to hold their hand and tell them that they’re good enough.<\/p>\n

You’ve got your own issues. If they’re self-deprecating this early, I wouldn’t see them again.<\/p>\n

They are clearly trying to pretend to be someone they’re not<\/h2>\n

\"mala<\/p>\n

I can’t stand fakers. Just be your genuine self, for crying out loud.<\/p>\n

How can you even fall for someone who so clearly has a mask on? If they want to impress you, this isn’t going to work.<\/p>\n

Be true to yourself or let me find someone who is. But definitely don’t waste your time trying to figure out what’s under all that charade.<\/p>\n

They’re clearly not comfortable with who they are.<\/p>\n

You haven’t heard someone badmouth their ex like this in a LONG time<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una gran alerta roja. Hablar mal de un ex es un gran no-no. Este podr\u00edas ser t\u00fa alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas si supieras que tu ex est\u00e1 hablando mal de ti a sus citas? Apestar\u00eda, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

So don’t give this new person a free pass. There are two sides to every story.<\/p>\n

And if they’re on a date with you, and their focus is an ex who they clearly have a grudge against, I’d leave them be.<\/p>\n

\u2026or generally, anyone (they have a superiority complex)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nobody is good enough for them. They seem to think that they’re more capable, smarter, and know better than most. And they’re not afraid to show it.<\/p>\n

If it were me, I’d just let them know they’re definitely no<\/em> todo eso y dejar mi mesa (o donde quiera que est\u00e9is).<\/p>\n

They make a scene in a full restaurant if they don’t like their food<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto es un gran problema. \u00bfTe imaginas la audacia y la groser\u00eda? Si tienes alg\u00fan problema, d\u00edselo a la persona.<\/p>\n

Pero poner a alguien en evidencia tan p\u00fablicamente es lo m\u00e1s feo.<\/p>\n

I’d be embarrassed to be seen with them. Watch out for people with such poor manners and communication skills. You definitely don’t need this sort of person in your life.<\/p>\n

Empiezan a hablar de un futuro demasiado pronto<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

What could possibly be inside a person’s head to make them talk about a future with a person they’ve known for two hours?<\/p>\n

It’s kind of baffling to me. It’s okay to show interest and let your date know that you’re definitely into seeing them again.<\/p>\n

But talking about a vacation or meeting the parents\u2026 I’ll pass.<\/p>\n

Don’t foolishly think that it’s a good sign. It’s really not. They’re clearly in some sort of rush that leaves a bad primera impresi\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Llegaron tarde y no ofrecieron ninguna explicaci\u00f3n (\u00bfPerd\u00f3n?<\/em>)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Tu tiempo es precioso. Y si esa persona no puede respetarlo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 dice de ella?<\/p>\n

It’s okay if there was a legit reason for their lateness. Things happen. But offering no explanation, seriously?<\/p>\n

Avoid people of this kind. You deserve to be respected and this individual clearly doesn’t.<\/p>\n

Si te obligaron a sentarte solo durante cualquier cantidad de tiempo y lo hiciste sin quejarte, lo menos que mereces es o\u00edr por qu\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Un poco demasiado c\u00f3modo compartiendo algunos detalles verdaderamente privados<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Do you know those people who have no boundaries? Who will just share the grossest things as if it’s the most natural thing ever?<\/p>\n

Yeah, I’m not a fan. I’m guessing you’re not either.<\/p>\n

There’s a time and place for everything. And a first or second date is definitely not a good time to share gross photos from an elective surgery or any type of stuff that makes you feel uneasy.<\/p>\n

Right now, your date should focus on impressing you with their kindness and humor. There’s time later for everything in between.<\/p>\n

Hablan demasiado por tel\u00e9fono durante la cita<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

In my opinion, phones should not even be on the table. If you’re on a date, that’s what you should be focusing on.<\/p>\n

Let your friends know where you are and that they should only reach out if it’s an emergency.<\/p>\n

That way, you get to have an uninterrupted date that you can dedicate your time to. And if they don’t share this sentiment, it’s a majorly bad sign.<\/p>\n

How can you get to know them if they’re on their phone? Actually, that does say a lot about them. Just not anything good!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Averig\u00fce si debe publicar a su ex en las redes sociales y MUCHO m\u00e1s<\/a><\/p>\n

They don’t let you get a single word in<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

They’re a total blabbermouth. They’ll talk over you, and constantly talk about themselves.<\/p>\n

It’s come to a point where you’ve genuinely given up trying to get a word in. It’s pointless.<\/p>\n

Like I’ve already mentioned, communication is vital for a successful relationship.<\/p>\n

If they’re already showing signs of being really bad at this, trust them. You can definitely find someone who won’t make you feel unheard.<\/p>\n

Intentaron hacerse un selfie juntos desde el principio<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I love a good selfie. Goodness knows that I do. But again, there is a time and place for a joint selfie. This ain’t it!<\/p>\n

You’re not even a couple yet. You’ve known each other for a few hours. Can you give it time, dude?<\/p>\n

Y si realmente quieren publicar la foto en sus cuentas de redes sociales, sal de ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I don’t really know what on earth they’re thinking, but it’s nothing smart, I can tell you that much.<\/p>\n

Te pusieron un apodo cursi que NO te gustaba 100%<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Los apodos molan. Demuestran un sentido del humor y una cercan\u00eda que s\u00f3lo consiguen dos personas.<\/p>\n

So, naturally, you only give nicknames to those you actually know, because otherwise, it’s meaningless.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 podr\u00edas pensar de alguien que te pone un apodo literalmente despu\u00e9s de aprenderse tu nombre?<\/p>\n

No, it’s not cute. It’s weird, and you’re 100% not into it. All this can do is weird you out.<\/p>\n

Parecen demasiado necesitados y pegajosos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s normal to want to spend time with someone and get to know them better. That’s the whole point of dating.<\/p>\n

Pero estar demasiado necesitado no es, desde luego, uno de los signos de una buena primera cita.<\/p>\n

Sure, you like this person, but you’re not going to be all over them and freak them out immediately, right?<\/p>\n

If your date has manifested any signs of clinginess, I’d watch out. If you give them a second chance, be sure not to ignore this issue.<\/p>\n

Whatever their problem is, it’s not for you to solve it.<\/p>\n

No paran de interrumpirte aunque apenas puedas hablar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s one thing to be a blabbermouth right off the bat (still a bad sign), but interrupting you during the rare occasion you’re actually speaking?<\/p>\n

Excuse me, but that’s a no from me, dawg.<\/p>\n

Dating is 50:50. You’re not there to be someone\u2019s sounding board who’ll just listen and admire them.<\/p>\n

Mereces compartir tus propias historias y que te escuchen como a ellos.<\/p>\n

If someone thinks that what they have to say is more important than what you have to say, don’t waste a second longer.<\/p>\n

Su lenguaje corporal est\u00e1 apagado<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Este tipo de comunicaci\u00f3n no verbal dice mucho de una persona. Solo hay que prestarle atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

For example, if their hands are crossed, and they’re looking around, eyeing the room, that’s bad, obviously.<\/p>\n

When you notice these types of stuff, including acting like they’re bored, nervously tapping their foot on the ground, rubbing their nose, and a lack of eye contact, take it seriously.<\/p>\n

Pick up on their unspoken issues and don’t ignore them.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 se\u00f1ales reveladoras de que no le gustas<\/a><\/p>\n

Critican tus opiniones e imponen las suyas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Here’s what I’ve realized recently. People who are overly critical are merely struggling with their own insecurities and need validation.<\/p>\n

Suelen tener una percepci\u00f3n muy negativa de s\u00ed mismos que les lleva a menospreciar a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Firstly, you should never take it personally, as it’s not you. And secondly, you’re not here to solve anyone’s underlying issues.<\/p>\n

You’re here to have a good time with someone who’s there to impress you and woo you.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to deal with an overly critical person who just needs attention.<\/p>\n

Durante toda la cita, todo lo que pod\u00edas pensar era en correr hacia las colinas.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Oh-oh. \u00bfTengo que explicarlo?<\/p>\n

No es una pareja perfecta. Pero bueno, le diste una oportunidad y ahora puedes ir a buscar a alguien que valga la pena.<\/p>\n

Life’s way too short to force yourself into something just because you deeply want it to work. Some things aren’t meant to be and this is probably one of them.<\/p>\n

Steer clear of anyone who makes you feel like an utter waste of time. Goodness knows you’ve got better things to do.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 4 cosas que haces en las citas que te hacen parecer desesperado<\/a><\/p>\n

Si la primera cita parece una entrevista de trabajo, \u00a1renuncia!<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you can’t check most of these signs of a good first date off your list, there’s no reason to panic. Dating should be fun!<\/p>\n

If there wasn’t a click early on, that’s okay. There’s plenty more fish in the sea. Wait until you meet someone who’ll actually make you want to see them again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I promise you that it’s very possible. If all of these great signs seem too good to be true, it just means you haven’t found the right person yet. So, keep looking!<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, no deje de leer nuestro consejos para volver al juego<\/a> if you’ve been out of it for too long.<\/p>\n

Y como extra, aqu\u00ed tienes algunos picantes preguntas para citas r\u00e1pidas<\/a> que pueden ser \u00fatiles.<\/p>\n

I’ve also got you covered on major red flags to avoid as well as how to mantener las cosas en marcha<\/a> if there’s a second date.<\/p>\n

Now, it’s up to you.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, always listen to your gut. A bad date can happen to anyone, just don’t let them waste your time twice.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 26 Ventajas e inconvenientes de salir con un m\u00e9dico (o estudiante de medicina)<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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