{"id":10420,"date":"2020-03-07T12:12:59","date_gmt":"2020-03-07T12:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10420"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:40:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:40:08","slug":"carta-abierta-hombre-herido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-abierta-hombre-herido\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta abierta al hombre que me hizo da\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cada d\u00eda, pienso, no puede ser peor que esto. He llegado tan bajo como he podido. Pero entonces el suelo se abre de nuevo y me traga a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa me pusiste ah\u00ed. Cavaste mi tumba, me enterraste vivo. Sigues lanz\u00e1ndome tus mentiras. M\u00e1s mentiras, m\u00e1s verdades.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been screaming for a long time. I found anger that I never knew I had. Una ira que aprend\u00ed de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sent\u00ed que nada pod\u00eda mejorarlo. No hab\u00eda ninguna explicaci\u00f3n, nada que me ayudara a entender c\u00f3mo y por qu\u00e9 hiciste todo esto.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa elegiste esto.<\/b> Elegiste herirme cada d\u00eda, con tus palabras, con tus acciones.<\/p>\n

Each day that you didn\u2019t tell me of your betrayal. Two years of my life based on an illusion. I felt robbed.<\/p>\n

Like someone had stolen my time and energy, stolen my love. I gave you everything I had when it wasn\u2019t even yours to get. Nunca fuiste m\u00eda<\/a>Ni por un momento.<\/p>\n

But in the midst of my pain, I forgot that no one will suffer as much as you will now. Now that you have finally accepted what you\u2019ve been, and how you\u2019ve treated everyone who was close.<\/p>\n

You will have to live with yourself, with the emptiness and regret. And that saddens me, it scares me, it makes me feel sorry for you. You caused the damage and now you\u2019re trying to pick up the pieces.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nunca quise que sufrieras solo.<\/b> Siempre quise alimentar lo bueno que hab\u00eda en ti. Quer\u00eda sacar el hombre que siempre quisiste ser.<\/p>\n

And now I have done, even though I wasn\u2019t there to do it. Pushing me away left you alone and forced you to confront yourself. It finally made you want to change.<\/p>\n

Mis oraciones han sido escuchadas de una forma que me ha dejado completamente destrozado. Pero si cambia tu vida, si revierte tus a\u00f1os de sufrimiento, entonces vali\u00f3 la pena.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m glad for the good that has come from it. There is comfort in seeing myself as a martyr and that my pain isn\u2019t for nothing.<\/p>\n

The last step I can take to help you is to tell you\u2026 Te perdono.<\/b> Te perdono porque por fin entiendo que la gente herida hace da\u00f1o a la gente.<\/p>\n

Me hiciste da\u00f1o porque ten\u00edas miedo. Porque la felicidad siempre se te ha venido encima.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que vas un paso por delante: lo destruyes t\u00fa mismo. Te deleitas con ese control porque al menos has tomado una decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I was the thing you destroyed, when all I wanted was to build that happiness in your life. But that\u2019s because you\u2019re hurt, it is not my fault. And although that doesn\u2019t make anything better, it allows me to move forward.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s difficult. Pens\u00e1bamos que \u00e9ramos almas gemelas<\/a>que estar\u00edamos juntos por la eternidad.<\/p>\n

But we must accept that the time we had was all we were destined to have. Not a moment less or more. I guess we will always be connected in our trauma. You brought out a pain in me that I hope never surfaces again when I\u2019ve healed.<\/p>\n

Take this and continue to learn from it. Don\u2019t let me suffer in vain. I will have to reshape myself, a me without you.<\/p>\n

Hice que mi vida girara en torno a ayudarte, apoyarte, amarte. Ahora, mi trabajo ha terminado. Y debo encontrar qui\u00e9n soy sin eso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been in a state of constriction for years, reducing you to nothing.
\nA partir de aqu\u00ed s\u00f3lo puede haber expansi\u00f3n. Ac\u00e9ptalo.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n

por Hidden Treasure<\/em><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Each day, I think, it can\u2019t get worse than this. I\u2019ve gotten as low as I could. But then the ground opens up again and swallows me further. You put me there. You dug my grave, you buried me alive. You keep throwing your bullshit at me. More lies, more truths. I\u2019ve been screaming for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":77766,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10420","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Hurt-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10420","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10420"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10420\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10420"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10420"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10420"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}