{"id":104656,"date":"2020-10-19T11:10:57","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T11:10:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=104656"},"modified":"2022-08-18T11:38:23","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T11:38:23","slug":"que-dice-el-engano-sobre-una-persona","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-dice-el-engano-sobre-una-persona\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfQu\u00e9 dice el enga\u00f1o sobre una persona? 12 cosas que nadie te cuenta"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 la gente enga\u00f1a? \u00bfQu\u00e9 dice el enga\u00f1o sobre una persona? \u00bfQu\u00e9 le hace a una persona o a una relaci\u00f3n?<\/em><\/p>\n

Por desgracia, el enga\u00f1o es muy com\u00fan en las relaciones de pareja hoy en d\u00eda y \u00e9stas son s\u00f3lo algunas preguntas de las que creo que todos querr\u00edamos saber la respuesta.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs realmente tan dif\u00edcil creer y respetar la instituci\u00f3n de la monogamia?<\/strong> Is it really that hard to be faithful to the person you’re dating and you say you honestly love?<\/p>\n

Indeed, betrayal is the worst thing you can do to someone you’re in a relationship with. Duele, deja marcas durante mucho tiempo y la otra persona nunca podr\u00e1 recuperarse totalmente de ello.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re not happy in your relationship or you stopped loving your partner, the best and the most moral thing you can do is sit down with your significant other and have an honest talk about your feelings.<\/p>\n

We are all human beings and we all have feelings, that’s why no one deserves to be cheated on, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Si te gusta otra persona y quieres empezar una nueva relaci\u00f3n con ella, romper primero con tu pareja es lo m\u00e1s justo.<\/p>\n

When it comes to cheating, things haven\u2019t changed much over the last twenty years. Both men and women cheat but men do it more often.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan las encuestas del Instituto de Estudios de la Familia, 20% de los hombres y 13% de las mujeres afirman haber sido infieles a su pareja al menos una vez.<\/p>\n

Once you betray someone’s trust, it’s really difficult to regain it or to rebuild the trust in your relationship.<\/strong> Piensa en las consecuencias antes de hacer algo de lo que sabes que podr\u00edas arrepentirte m\u00e1s tarde.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 dice el enga\u00f1o sobre una persona y su car\u00e1cter?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, if you have been cheated on, it’s not your fault. It’s never your fault, the person who has betrayed you is the only one who needs to be blamed.<\/p>\n

Hay algunas razones comunes por las que la gente enga\u00f1a. Si quieres descubrir algunas de ellas o averiguar qu\u00e9 dice el enga\u00f1o sobre una persona y su car\u00e1cter, sigue leyendo.<\/p>\n

They’re not satisfied with the relationship<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you’re in a healthy and happy relationship, you’ll probably never even think about cheating. You have everything you need with that one person and it’s more than enough for you.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, if you aren’t happy in your relationship or you don’t feel the same about your partner anymore, it might bring you to the point where you’ll be questioning your relationship and thinking about someone else.<\/p>\n

The thing you should know if you’re in a similar situation is that having an emotional affair or a physical affair with someone else won’t make you happier.<\/p>\n

Cheating with and seeking consolation from another person will never make you feel better; on the contrary, you’ll feel even worse because you\u2019ll know you betrayed the person who you truly loved once. <\/p>\n

They don’t sincerely love their partner<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you’re even thinking about going out with someone else and cheating on your significant other, that’s a sign that your feelings for your partner aren’t sincere.<\/p>\n

You can’t say that you honestly love someone and then hurt them in such an awful way.<\/strong> You can’t do such a bad thing to your loved one, it’s just not possible.<\/p>\n

El hecho es que una persona que enga\u00f1a a su pareja nunca la am\u00f3 realmente en primer lugar, porque si lo hiciera, nunca la lastimar\u00eda intencionalmente debido al amor que una vez sinti\u00f3 por ella.<\/p>\n

Maybe you don’t know the meaning of true love then. When you honestly love someone, you have eyes only for that person and your heart is reserved for them only; the entrance for other people is strictly forbidden.<\/p>\n

They don’t respect themselves, nor their romantic partner<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las personas que enga\u00f1an tienen problemas de autoestima.<\/strong> That’s why cheaters seek comfort from others, people who’ll praise them and help them with those self-respect issues.<\/p>\n

When it comes to their partner, they also don’t have respect for them. How could you respect someone and still do such a bad thing behind their back? It’s simply not possible.<\/p>\n

Constant lying, so much secrecy and knowing that you’ve lost some of your values will lead to losing your self-respect.<\/p>\n

Tienen problemas de autoestima<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This is one of the most common reasons why men cheat, even though most of them would never admit it. They hook up with another woman thinking about how it’ll boost their ego.<\/p>\n

We all have some insecurities and imperfections but you don’t need to be reassured by others that you’re worthy. Don’t think that finding validation from other people will help you because it definitely won’t.<\/p>\n

Esto tambi\u00e9n puede estar relacionado con el narcisismo.<\/em> Narcissists crave attention and validation from other people, which also means that they have fragile and low self-esteem and that’s why they are prone to cheating.<\/p>\n

If you’re in a healthy relationship, your partner will be your biggest support in improving your self-esteem. They’ll embrace all your flaws and imperfections, showing you that you should do the same.<\/p>\n

Los tramposos son cobardes<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

In fact, all cheaters are so weak. They don’t have the strength to talk to their partner about their feelings and how things really are for them, so they choose to cheat on them as if it’s the easier way.<\/p>\n

El mero hecho de enga\u00f1ar es cobarde.<\/strong> If you can’t break up with your partner before you decide to be with someone else, it’s not because you love your partner, it’s only because you don’t have the guts to do that.<\/p>\n

You cheat on them in secret, hoping they’ll never find out. However, don’t think that you’ll get away with it because sooner or later, the truth will come out.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They’ve mastered the art of lying<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

People who cheat become a pro at lying by the time. They don’t only lie to their romantic partner, they also lie to their family, best friends and co-workers. They lie to the people who mean the most to them.<\/p>\n

They hide their emotional affairs with other people and they lie all the time to cover up the tracks of their infidelity. They become so good at it that it is almost impossible to know when they’re lying.<\/p>\n

However, if you doubt your partner’s fidelity and you think they’re lying to you, you should pay attention to their body language or some other subtle signs; for example, if their phone habits have changed.<\/p>\n

Los infieles son ego\u00edstas<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If someone cheats on a person who loves and cares for them, of course, they’re selfish and a little bit narcissistic.<\/p>\n

The most important thing for them is that they feel good and do things that make them happy, so they don’t even think about someone else’s feelings.<\/p>\n

Even if your feelings for your partner have changed, you should still think about them and you shouldn’t do something that you know would deeply hurt them.<\/p>\n

Antes de hacer algo malo como esto a tu pareja, piensa en c\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas si tu ser querido te hiciera lo mismo a ti. Piensa tambi\u00e9n en el karma, porque alg\u00fan d\u00eda te pasar\u00e1 factura.<\/p>\n

They aren’t ready for a committed relationship<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Most men cheat because they aren’t ready to commit, even after being in a long-term relationship and even if they love their partner. They’re looking for a way out by cheating.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s a mistake. Not only will you hurt the person you love but you’re going to lose them forever. If you don’t feel ready to commit, the best solution would be just to talk to your significant other about it honestly.<\/p>\n

If they love you, they’ll try to understand you and they’ll be ready to wait. I’m sure that together, you’ll find a way to find a compromise that would be good for both of you.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n mon\u00f3gama no es lo suyo.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Some people are genuinely passionate about relationships and that’s why they can’t settle with only one person and in only one relationship.<\/p>\n

La idea de la monogamia les resulta aburrida y tener varias parejas o cambiar a menudo de pareja s\u00f3lo representa para ellos una relaci\u00f3n ideal.<\/p>\n

Siempre tienen alguna excusa<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo son buenos mintiendo, sino que un infiel siempre tiene alguna excusa preparada para justificar sus actos.<\/p>\n

They’ll try to manipulate you and make you believe how it’s all a misunderstanding or how you’re just imagining it all.<\/p>\n

They know how you feel about them and they’ll try to use your honest feelings and make you believe in their excuses.<\/p>\n

They’re a pro at diverting and avoiding topics<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you have found some evidence that your partner has been unfaithful to you and when you try to confront them about it, they try to divert the topic or avoid talking about it, it’s a major red flag that they’re absolutely hiding something that they don\u2019t want you to know.<\/p>\n

Para entonces, se han convertido en verdaderos profesionales en evitar este tipo de conversaciones.<\/p>\n

Maybe they are doing this because they don’t want to hurt your feelings or because they just don’t have the guts to be honest and admit their mistake.<\/p>\n

If they did it once, they’ll do it again<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Realmente quiero creer que the old adage \u2018once a cheater, always a cheater\u2019<\/strong> isn’t true but unfortunately, it’s been proven that in most cases, it is.<\/p>\n

People who cheat on their partner once and get away with it will probably do it again, thinking how their other half won’t find out about it, like they didn’t the first time.<\/p>\n

If they show this kind of disrespect even once toward the person they’re in a romantic relationship with, they’ll do it again for sure because it’s just in their nature.<\/p>\n

Of course, we can all make a mistake once but if someone makes the same mistake more than once, then it’s not a mistake, it’s a choice. Then, it’s simply unforgivable, no matter how much you love and care for them.<\/p>\n

Lo que el enga\u00f1o le hace a una persona<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

A nadie le gustar\u00eda que le enga\u00f1aran porque todos creemos saber lo horrible que es esa experiencia.<\/p>\n

Creemos saber cu\u00e1nto duele que un ser querido te haga da\u00f1o y te traicione de esa manera. La cuesti\u00f3n es que, en realidad, es mucho peor de lo que pensamos y solo las personas que han sido enga\u00f1adas pueden entenderlo.<\/p>\n

Ser enga\u00f1ado te hace dudar de ti mismo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por muy alta que sea tu autoestima, la traici\u00f3n nos duele igual. Simplemente nos cambia por completo.<\/p>\n

You start doubting your self-worth. You start thinking about how it was your fault because you weren’t good enough for that person.<\/p>\n

You become a person with many insecurities and that fear of not being good enough will stick with you for a long time, until someone else comes into your life and makes you understand that you’re so much better than you think.<\/p>\n

La persona se queda con problemas de confianza<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Being betrayed by someone who meant so much to you is the worst. It leaves you with such trust issues that are so difficult to overcome and you don\u2019t know whether you can trust someone in your life again.<\/p>\n

As you’re going through recuperaci\u00f3n de la aventura<\/a>, you may start thinking about how no one is actually trustworthy and how it’ll be so difficult to build trust with someone ever again.<\/p>\n

However, when you meet the right person, you’ll know that not all people are the same and that there are some people who truly deserve your trust and your love.<\/p>\n

La persona queda con problemas de salud mental<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las personas enga\u00f1adas pueden sufrir problemas de salud mental, como ansiedad o depresi\u00f3n. En realidad, es normal, porque ser herido por un ser querido es una experiencia bastante traum\u00e1tica.<\/p>\n

You may start thinking about how you’ll never heal from it but don’t worry. You aren’t alone. There are so many people who struggle with the same issues after their partner’s infidelity.<\/p>\n

And you must know that you’ll heal and move on, just give yourself some time.<\/p>\n

The person may start thinking that they’re just unlovable<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto es lo peor que puedes hacer si has sido enga\u00f1ado por tu ser querido.<\/p>\n

Just because one person betrayed you, it doesn’t make you unlovable and it doesn’t mean that someone else won’t love and cherish you as you deserve.<\/p>\n

After all, you must always keep in mind that it wasn’t your fault. You did nothing wrong; the person who hurt you didn’t respect or love you and that’s the only truth.<\/p>\n

Definitivamente afecta a sus futuras relaciones<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This unpleasant experience will affect your future relationships for sure. You’ll doubt your next partner’s feelings and intentions.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, you won’t be relaxed because you won’t know whether your new partner is trustworthy so you might check his social media accounts or secretly check his text messages.<\/p>\n

Once you build trust together in your relationship, you’ll finally be able to leave your ex\u2019s betrayal in the past and enjoy your new relationship.<\/p>\n

En conclusi\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n

As\u00ed que.., \u00bfqu\u00e9 dice el enga\u00f1o sobre una persona?<\/em> All people who cheat are actually cowards because they don’t have the guts to confront their loved one.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEl enga\u00f1o define a una persona?<\/em> Por supuesto que s\u00ed. Todos los infieles tienen rasgos de personalidad muy similares y las mismas habilidades para mentir y enga\u00f1ar a su pareja.<\/p>\n

Afortunadamente, hay muchas se\u00f1ales de alarma que pueden ayudarte a ver si tu pareja te est\u00e1 siendo infiel o no.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan la experta en relaciones de pareja Susan Winter, con sede en Nueva York, una de las m\u00e1s evidentes se\u00f1ales de una pareja infiel<\/a> puede verse a trav\u00e9s de algunos cambios en sus cuentas en las redes sociales.<\/em><\/p>\n

The thing that each person who\u2019s been cheated on asks is how to forgive their cheating partner and whether their relationship will be the same after their partner’s infidelity.<\/p>\n

Diana Dorell, coach de citas y experta en relaciones, lo ha explicado mejor que nadie: “Whenever trust has been broken, there is a change in the dynamic of a relationship \u2014 the foundation is now shaky and it takes time to repair, but it is possible.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, todos cometemos errores como seres humanos y merecemos el perd\u00f3n y segundas oportunidades, pero nunca debes permitir que nadie te tome el pelo muchas veces.<\/p>\n

If a person cheats on you several times, it’s proof that they’ll never change and you must leave them forever.<\/p>\n

Aun as\u00ed, si realmente quieres a alguien y crees que s\u00f3lo ha cometido un est\u00fapido error, deber\u00edas encontrar la fuerza para perdonarle y olvidarlo para poder continuar con vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But be aware that you’ll need to try hard to make your relationship good and healthy again.<\/p>\n

Having an emotional affair or a physical affair with someone else will bring you a few moments of pleasure but you’ll definitely regret it once you understand that it wasn’t worth losing someone you love forever.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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