{"id":104908,"date":"2020-10-19T11:12:07","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T11:12:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=104908"},"modified":"2022-01-11T00:10:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T00:10:32","slug":"pidiendo-respeto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pidiendo-respeto\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTe pide respeto o intenta controlarte? Esta es la diferencia"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSu pareja pone constantemente palabras en su boca? \u00bfLe falta al respeto delante de otras personas? \u00bfQuiere adaptar sus acciones a su voluntad?<\/p>\n

Maybe they do something more subtle like make comments on your clothing choices or bring up things they don\u2019t like about your friends and family in a way that implies you should reconsider your relationships with them.<\/p>\n

Sound familiar? Some of these things can look like advice and care but often, they\u2019re not so well-intentioned.
\nThere\u2019s a difference between someone showing you respect and letting yourself be controlled.<\/p>\n

Respect doesn\u2019t compromise your personal freedom. Control, on the other hand, wants to restrict it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Respeto es decir,<\/strong> Entiendo que nuestras posturas son diferentes, no estoy de acuerdo con tu decisi\u00f3n, as\u00ed que opino diferente, pero es tu decisi\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Control est\u00e1 diciendo,<\/strong> You can\u2019t do that because it\u2019s not good for you, you should do it my way.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay muchos puntos de vista diferentes cuando se trata de este tema. Por ejemplo, las parejas pueden tener ideas diferentes sobre lo que es mostrar respeto.<\/p>\n

Un miembro de la pareja puede percibir el hecho de dejar la ropa esparcida por toda la casa como una falta de respeto, mientras que otro puede tomarlo como un intento de control.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Un miembro de la pareja puede percibir la falta de palabras de afirmaci\u00f3n o elogio como una se\u00f1al de falta de respeto y otro puede considerar extra\u00f1o que alguien necesite tales afirmaciones.<\/p>\n

Por eso es tan importante la comprensi\u00f3n. En primer lugar, debemos comprender lo que significa el respeto para la otra persona y, a continuaci\u00f3n, encontrar la manera de implementar que en la relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Without respect, there\u2019s no close relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Algunos de los patrones de comportamiento controlador m\u00e1s comunes que pueden disfrazarse de preocupaci\u00f3n o de petici\u00f3n de respeto son los siguientes:<\/p>\n

Aislamiento de las dem\u00e1s personas de tu vida, es decir, de tus amigos y tu familia.<\/strong> Como he mencionado antes, este es uno de los mayores signos de una pareja realmente controladora.<\/p>\n

They might do it subtly because it will be disguised as a concern but what they actually do is strip you of support that isn\u2019t them.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to control a person when there\u2019s nobody they can go to or trust.<\/p>\n

Condiciones.<\/strong> Crazy conditions are another way of controlling a person. \u201cI would love you so much more if you (rellene el espacio en blanco<\/em>).\u201d<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Using guilt can also be easily used in this manner, especially in a way that they do something very extra and grand for you and then accuse you of being ungrateful and selfish if you don\u2019t consent to doing something they ask of you.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00edtica constante.<\/strong> Unfortunately, many people don\u2019t realize how toxic this behavior is, especially because it starts as \u2018help\u2019 to make you a better person or something similar.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re getting criticized for everything you do all the time, that\u2019s abuse. People with low confidence are especially prone to believing that something\u2019s wrong with them while they\u2019re just being themselves.<\/p>\n

Esto puede dejar enormes cicatrices emocionales en una persona.<\/p>\n

Amenazas de cualquier tipo.<\/strong> There\u2019s no place for threats in a healthy relationship. From threats to deprive you of something basic to threats to leave you without a home or kids and suchlike.<\/p>\n

Fisgoneo y celos.<\/strong> This one is self-explanatory. It shows a lack of trust and it violates the other person\u2019s boundaries.<\/p>\n

Menospreciar y ridiculizar.<\/strong> If your partner shames you or ridicules you because of your opinions and views, for example on a religious, cultural or political matter, that\u2019s very wrong and shouldn\u2019t be thought of as normal.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to have a discussion and to disagree but it\u2019s not okay to bully another person just because you have different views.<\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s generally relatively easy to tell apart controlling behavior and asking for respect based on how you feel doing something. You shouldn\u2019t ignore your gut feelings.<\/p>\n

Siempre debe haber una sensaci\u00f3n de paz y satisfacci\u00f3n detr\u00e1s de todo, aunque no est\u00e9s de acuerdo con algo.<\/p>\n

Si te sientes constantemente asustado, herido o avergonzado, algo tiene que cambiar. Tienes que aprender a poner l\u00edmites y comunic\u00e1rselos a tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Respect is vital for any relationship and that\u2019s why it needs to be clearly addressed without holding back, as does behavior that makes you uncomfortable.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Does your partner constantly put words in your mouth? Disrespects you in front of other people? Wants to conform your actions to their will? Maybe they do something more subtle like make comments on your clothing choices or bring up things they don\u2019t like about your friends and family in a way that implies you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":104910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-104908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Asking-For-Respect-Or-Trying-To-Control-You-This-Is-The-Difference.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/104908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=104908"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/104908\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=104908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=104908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=104908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}