{"id":104914,"date":"2020-10-19T11:22:18","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T11:22:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=104914"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:44:38","slug":"las-almas-gemelas-estan-sobrevaloradas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-almas-gemelas-estan-sobrevaloradas\/","title":{"rendered":"Las almas gemelas est\u00e1n sobrevaloradas, lo que cuenta es la conexi\u00f3n y el esfuerzo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ever since we were little girls, my best friends and I have dreamed about love. The four of us would get together once a month at someone\u2019s house for a sleepover.<\/p>\n

We\u2019d throw a pajama party and talk about what we wanted to be when we grow up. One of us wanted to be a lawyer, another a teacher, the next a doctor, and I wanted to be a writer.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, todas quer\u00edamos estar felizmente enamoradas. So\u00f1\u00e1bamos con un pr\u00edncipe azul que llegara a nuestras vidas galopando en su caballo blanco y que de repente todo fuera perfecto.<\/p>\n

Al mismo tiempo, est\u00e1bamos obsesionados con todas las pel\u00edculas rom\u00e1nticas. Se nos derret\u00eda el coraz\u00f3n cada vez que ve\u00edamos a una chica y a un chico enamorarse a primera vista.<\/p>\n

Apuesto a que conoces el procedimiento: Los dos se chocan literalmente. A ella se le caen los libros, \u00e9l la ayuda a recogerlos y sus miradas se cruzan.<\/p>\n

Time stops and in that exact moment, they just know that this is it. They realize they\u2019ve been searching for each other throughout eternity.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whatever happens from that moment on doesn\u2019t really matter. Yes, they go through dozens of obstacles. They need time before they end up together. But eventually they do have their happily ever after.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque son almas gemelas. Est\u00e1n destinados a estar juntos y todo lo dem\u00e1s es completamente irrelevante.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, tontos de nosotros, quer\u00edamos el mismo tipo de amor. De hecho, pens\u00e1bamos que todo lo que no fuera eso era conformarse con menos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Nos neg\u00e1bamos a aceptar un romance sin fuegos artificiales. Quer\u00edamos mariposas revoloteando en nuestros est\u00f3magos y toda la monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1s de veinte a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s, mis mejores amigos y yo nos reunimos de nuevo y recordamos esto. Recordamos nuestros deseos y sue\u00f1os.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna se hizo realidad? No. \u00bfAlguna encontr\u00f3 su alma gemela? No. Qu\u00e9 triste, debes pensar. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I beg to differ. And you know why? Because soulmates are overrated. In fact, I\u2019m not even sure they exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Actually, as I\u2019m getting older, I\u2019m more and more convinced that it\u2019s nothing but a Hollywood fabrication \u2013 that soulmates are made up by some producer or writer who ran out of ideas to make his work interesting.<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s forget about fairytales, and let\u2019s turn to real life. You know what counts here? Effort, dedication, connection, and compatibility. These are what every healthy relationship is based on.<\/p>\n

Moreover: These are all the things you have to work on. They don\u2019t appear out of nowhere or fall from the sky.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For a romance to succeed, it\u2019s not enough for some random guy on the street to knock you off your feet. It\u2019s not enough for you to feel butterflies throwing a party in your stomach.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest here: Chemistry is important. However, it\u2019s not crucial and it\u2019s definitely not enough to build a relationship.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

True love needs fighting. But I don\u2019t mean fighting against the evil forces that try to break you two apart.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m referring to everyday battles that seem completely unimportant and uninteresting, yet actually matter the most.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about fighting against your differences, against the house chores, the finances, the in-laws, the kids who refuse to listen, and a host of other seemingly trivial things.<\/p>\n

You see, there\u2019s a lot of effort that goes into making any relationship work.<\/strong> Y su relaci\u00f3n sentimental no es una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t magically be perfect just because you two are a match made in heaven.<\/strong>
\n\u00bfY adivina qu\u00e9? No hay felices para siempre.<\/p>\n

When the movie ends and the two protagonists kiss at the altar, you think that this is it \u2013 their battles are over and they\u2019ll have the rest of their lives just to enjoy their love. Well, the truth is quite the opposite.<\/p>\n

De hecho, aqu\u00ed es donde comienza la verdadera lucha. Una lucha por mantener su amor, por mantener firme su uni\u00f3n y por levantarse con m\u00e1s fuerza cada vez que caen.<\/p>\n

A struggle that lasts a lifetime. Only when you win this war will you understand that what counts is finding your forever person \u2013 not your soulmate.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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