{"id":105096,"date":"2020-10-26T16:09:48","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T16:09:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=105096"},"modified":"2022-11-20T15:20:22","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T15:20:22","slug":"como-hablar-con-un-chico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hablar-con-un-chico\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo hablar con un chico que te gusta y hacer que te persiga"},"content":{"rendered":"

Wondering how to talk to a guy you like and capture his attention? Worry no more because today you’ll learn how to talk to him in a way that will haz que te PERSIGA<\/a>.<\/p>\n

“Appearance is what attracts people, but personality is what makes them stay.” \u2013 Unknown<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, la apariencia importa, pero saber hablar con un chico es tu herramienta m\u00e1s poderosa a la hora de atraerlo.<\/p>\n

You could be the most beautiful woman in the world, but if you don’t know how to get a guy’s attention and keep a conversation going, your romance will be doomed before it even starts.<\/p>\n

I used to have a hard time implementing this one into my love life, but once I did, everything changed. I’m no longer that girl sitting in the corner who seldom gets any attention from guys. They now stick to me like glue.<\/p>\n

If you want to be that girl too, it’s time to step up your game and learn how to talk to men and make them do what you want them to do.<\/p>\n

It’s time to show them what a beautiful and inspiring girl you are inside and out, and here’s how you’ll do it.<\/p>\n

Sea positivo y sonr\u00eda<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si quieres aprender c\u00f3mo ser irresistible para los hombres<\/a> y c\u00f3mo conseguir que un chico hable contigo, tengo una palabra para ti: sonr\u00ede.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every guy is a sucker for a girl’s smile and positive attitude. Instead of worrying about conversation starters, the most important thing is to ooze positive vibes.<\/p>\n

A great conversation is all about that. It’s about sharing your inspiring energy with the guy you like and inspiring him to reciprocate and make an effort to make you smile more.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que todas esas mariposas en el est\u00f3mago pueden distraerte mucho, as\u00ed que respira hondo unas cuantas veces antes de iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l. Rel\u00e1jate y d\u00e9jate llevar.<\/p>\n

Hazle un cumplido<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If there’s one thing that works in all social situations, it is compliments. Society teaches us that only girls love to be complimented, but this is not true.<\/p>\n

A los chicos tambi\u00e9n les encanta o\u00edr algo bueno sobre s\u00ed mismos. Les gusta que les hagan cumplidos sobre su aspecto, su personalidad y sus habilidades (ESPECIALMENTE sus habilidades).<\/p>\n

If your guy does something for you (helps you lift something heavy), don’t forget to commend his strength. Trust me, he will feel like the most powerful guy in the world just because of that simple gesture.<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes algunas ideas sobre c\u00f3mo piropear a un chico por su personalidad:<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re such a great listener.<\/p>\n

Tienes una personalidad tan bondadosa.<\/p>\n

I’m impressed by your taste in music.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de piropear a un chico, hacer preguntas tambi\u00e9n es un aspecto importante de la conversaci\u00f3n. Aseg\u00farate de hacer preguntas significativas y abiertas que te ayuden a mantener la conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3cale (sutilmente)<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Surely, your smile will knock him off his feet, but do you know what also will? Your subtle touch. Yes, men love to be unexpectedly touched by a woman during a conversation \u2013 it sparks their imagination.<\/p>\n

Empiezan a imaginar c\u00f3mo se sentir\u00eda si tus caricias esquivas se convirtieran en algo m\u00e1s directo. Adem\u00e1s, te ayudan a conectar con un chico.<\/p>\n

You see, having a conversation is not so much about saying the right words. It’s all about your body language and gestures.<\/p>\n

Estas son las cosas que influyen en \u00e9l a nivel subconsciente y le dicen lo que tus palabras no pueden.<\/p>\n

Buscar protecci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Oh, yes! In case you didn’t know, guys love girls who seek protection. By this, I don’t mean seeking protection in a desperate way, but elegantly playing damsel in distress.<\/p>\n

This will rekindle his primal instinct to protect you. If there is a guy you\u2019re into, ask him to defend or shelter you from some danger.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas maneras de pedirle ayuda y protecci\u00f3n, y \u00e9l estar\u00e1 encantado de hacerlo por ti.<\/p>\n

Si consigues evocar su masculinidad y hacerle sentir especial ayud\u00e1ndole, seguro que tambi\u00e9n te ganas su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfMe gusta \u00e9l o la idea que tengo de \u00e9l? D\u00e9 sentido a sus sentimientos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ser misterioso<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Mystery. One of the greatest things since sliced bread. If you know how to be mysterious, girl, you’ll make him not only like you, but he will fall in love with you.<\/p>\n

Guys don’t like girls who tell them everything about themselves on the first date. Don’t be one of those girls. Instead, be one who gives it to him bit by bit and never the whole piece.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t quench his thirst and he\u2019ll want to drink more!<\/strong><\/p>\n

When texting, don’t reply the same second. Let him think that you’re busy doing something important or texting with another guy. Make him compete for your attention and wonder what\u2019s happening in your life.<\/p>\n

Think of yourself as a box of chocolate. If you let him eat the whole box at once, he\u2019ll be over it real quick, but if you surprise him from time to time with something new, he will keep coming back for more.<\/p>\n

Es uno de los mismos atractivos trucos que usan las mujeres para que los hombres las echen de menos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Impresi\u00f3nale con tu sentido del humor<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A menudo olvidamos que a los hombres tambi\u00e9n les gusta re\u00edr. De alguna manera, se espera de los hombres que sean siempre los que hagan re\u00edr a las chicas, hasta el punto de que las mujeres han renunciado a utilizar su propio sentido del humor.<\/p>\n

And now it’s time to change that. You don’t need to be a comedian to hacer re\u00edr a un t\u00edo.<\/a><\/p>\n

Puedes contarle algo gracioso que te haya pasado recientemente o un recuerdo de tu infancia, enviarle un meme divertido, gastarle un chiste, etc.<\/p>\n

But, make sure to avoid becoming a girl who tries too hard to make him laugh all the time. Remember that it\u2019s his job too (and he better be doing it well!)<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 coqueta<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Un lenguaje corporal coqueto y la elecci\u00f3n correcta de las palabras son aut\u00e9nticas joyas. Para aprender a ser coqueta, tienes que plantearte la conversaci\u00f3n con un chico como un juego.<\/p>\n

Combina un tono de voz ronco, caricias sutiles cuando menos se lo espere, burlas con tus palabras y haz que se esfuerce por ganarse tu atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Be flirty with every fiber of your being and he will ENJOY it. This is what adds excitement and fun to the whole conversation. So, the more you act coy, the more he’ll fall for you.<\/p>\n

Entabla una conversaci\u00f3n con intereses comunes<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If there’s one thing I’ve learned when it comes to mastering the art of c\u00f3mo hablar con un chico,<\/em> it’s to find a common ground.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect a guy to talk to you about latest fashion shows, makeup, or similar. The best bet is to pick some gender-neutral topics like music, TV shows, or video games.<\/p>\n

Topics to talk about with a guy should be interesting, entertaining, and engaging. Also, the more shared interests you have, the easier you’ll connect with each other.<\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid to contradict him<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Wondering how to keep a guy interested? Here’s a solution: If you really want to win his attention, you need to show him that you have an opinion and aren\u2019t afraid to contradict him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the essence of every interesting conversation. Because good conversation isn\u2019t only about nodding and exchanging words. It\u2019s about having your own opinions and passionately expressing yourself.<\/p>\n

Inevitably there\u2019ll be something you won\u2019t agree with him on. This doesn’t mean you should pretend that you do even when you don’t.<\/p>\n

Instead, use this situation to playfully contradict him and give him a new perspective on things. Trust me, unless he has mental health issues, he\u2019ll be more than amazed by it!<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 educado y confiado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Make sure to be polite toward everyone around you and not only a guy you’re talking to. He’ll notice all that. Also, be confident!<\/p>\n

Uno de mis mejores amigos dijo una vez: Si una chica tiene confianza en s\u00ed misma, puede ganarse a cualquier hombre en un segundo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You show your confidence with the way you walk, talk, and smile \u2013 in other words, not only your words, but also your body language.<\/p>\n

And if you’re not feeling extra confident because you’re usually anxious when it comes to talking to guys, then fake it till you make it! I myself faked it many times and every single time it worked.<\/p>\n

Show him that you’re a woman who is confident in herself, who knows what she wants and how to get it. That’s the true recipe to winning any man’s heart.<\/p>\n

Ver tambi\u00e9n: De qu\u00e9 hablar con un chico: 13 formas de mantener su inter\u00e9s<\/p>\n

Don’t gossip or use foul language<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I think there’s no need to explain this one. Gossiping and foul language are a huge turn-off for guys because such behavior is neither feminine or sophisticated.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And remember to be yourself! Mass media often forces us to behave in certain ways and we start detaching from our true self. Don’t let that happen.<\/p>\n

Be yourself in real life and on social media as well. Don’t pretend you’re something you’re not because you’ll turn him into a confused man.<\/p>\n

Don’t live a fake life. Be unique and every guy will love that part of you more than anything else.<\/p>\n

And here\u2019s a simple trick I\u2019ve used with great success when I\u2019m overly anxious about talking to a guy for the first time: Pretend that he’s a family member or tu amigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It makes it that much easier when it comes to talking to a guy you don’t know (yet), both in person and over text.<\/p>\n

Hazle trabajar duro para ganarte<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hablar con un chico que te gusta de forma que le impresione? Bueno, b\u00e1sicamente lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer es que se esfuerce por conquistarte.<\/p>\n

Don’t be too available. Maintain mystery, but don’t overdo a game of playing hard to get either. The secret lies in finding a balance between the two.<\/p>\n

Make him work hard to win you and he will make an effort to show you that he’s the right man for you.<\/p>\n

If a man sees you as a challenge, he will do everything in his power to pursue you and show you that he’s the one who deserves to be with you.<\/p>\n

Y por si las cosas se ponen feas, aqu\u00ed tienes algunos consejos extra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo hablarle sucio a un chico sin avergonzarte a ti misma<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Dile todas las cosas que quieres que te haga<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Hablar sucio es todo un arte. Si quieres impresionar a tu chico con tu habilidad, tienes que decirle todo lo que quieres que te haga.<\/p>\n

I know you have that imaginary list of kinky questions to ask your partner, so now\u2019s the time to use it.<\/p>\n

As you’re telling him all your fantasies, make sure to establish deep eye contact \u2013 that screams confidence. You want him to see that you’re serious about it, that you really mean it.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas decir algo como: “I want you to start kissing me slowly all over my body…”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dile lo que quieres hacerle<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Another great way to spice things up is by telling your guy what you want to do to him. This will drive him insane and he won\u2019t be able to control himself (especially if you whisper it to his ear when you’re in public).<\/p>\n

Also, you can choose to be naughty over text messages as well. If you’re wondering how to do it over the phone, here are some examples to get you started:<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen you get here, I\u2019m going to slowly undress\u2026 but there\u2019ll be one rule you need to obey: You can\u2019t touch me until I tell you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Tonight you’ll be my slave and I plan on doing terribly naughty things to you.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

“I want you to take your clothes off, lie down, and shut up.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

“You’re so hot. I want to taste all of you right now.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ver tambi\u00e9n: 400 frases sucias para ligar (la lista definitiva)<\/p>\n

H\u00e1blale de ese sue\u00f1o travieso que tuviste<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I’m sure you had a couple of naughty dreams so far and now is the right time to share them with your guy. And even if you haven\u2019t had one, you have every right to pretend you did.<\/p>\n

Puedes empezar la conversaci\u00f3n con algo como “I had the dirtiest dream last night\u2026 You were there with me and we were\u2026”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

En cuanto empieces a hablar de ello, te mirar\u00e1 como a una diosa. A los t\u00edos les encantan las historias guarras y m\u00e1s si han sido ellos los protagonistas. Cuantos m\u00e1s detalles le des, mejor.<\/p>\n

Acu\u00e9rdate de mencionar esa ropa tan sexy que llevabas en tu sue\u00f1o, porque los hombres son criaturas visuales.<\/p>\n

Una vez que tu chico tenga una imagen v\u00edvida de tu sue\u00f1o, estar\u00e1 m\u00e1s que excitado por lo que suceder\u00e1 a continuaci\u00f3n, pero esta vez en la realidad.<\/p>\n

Comparte tus fantas\u00edas secretas con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Muchas veces, las personas tienen dificultades para compartir sus fantas\u00edas con los dem\u00e1s porque temen ser juzgadas por ello.<\/p>\n

But, trust me, there’s nothing you should be ashamed of, no matter how crazy you think your fantasies are.<\/p>\n

Get out of your comfort zone and get naughty with your man (verbally naughty) by sharing all your secret fantasies with him. Okay, you don’t need to share all of them, but perhaps only your favorite.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas fantas\u00edas comunes que le ayudar\u00e1n a activar su memoria:<\/p>\n

Potencia y control<\/p>\n

Hacer algo pervertido<\/p>\n

Hacer algo nuevo (posturas y lugares salvajes)<\/p>\n

No monogamia<\/p>\n

Sharing your fantasies is a great way to spice up things in the bedroom and your relationship. Since it\u2019s not something easily shared with others, when it is, it has the power to strengthen your trust bond.<\/p>\n

Hazle saber que quieres tener el control<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you ask any guy out there, he will tell you that there’s nothing hotter than a girl who is in control. In order to be dominant, you need to be self-confident and know what you’re doing.<\/p>\n

If you let him know that you’re capable of all that, he will be smitten by you. All you have to do is establish rules so that he knows what he can and cannot do to you.<\/p>\n

Puedes decir algo como: “Tonight I’m in charge. If you try to do something you’re not supposed to, I’ll have to punish you.”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Y acu\u00e9rdese de disfrutar.<\/h2>\n

En lugar de preocuparte demasiado por c\u00f3mo hablar con un chico que te gusta, en lo que tienes que centrarte es en disfrutar del momento. Rel\u00e1jate y s\u00e9 t\u00fa misma, y cr\u00e9eme, todo ir\u00e1 sobre ruedas.<\/p>\n

Regarding dirty talk, you don’t need to force things if you don\u2019t feel ready for it. You can start with some, let’s say, lighter dirty phrases and then switch to the heavy stuff.<\/p>\n

Lo que importa es que los dos disfrut\u00e9is del tiempo que pas\u00e9is juntos, y todo lo dem\u00e1s encajar\u00e1. Buena suerte y \u00a1a por todas, chica!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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