{"id":105727,"date":"2020-10-22T18:00:36","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T18:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=105727"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:23:02","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:23:02","slug":"odio-a-mi-mujer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/odio-a-mi-mujer\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 siento que odio a mi mujer? 9 razones comunes y qu\u00e9 hacer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most people aren&#8217;t comfortable hearing this, but someone&#8217;s gotta say it: Marriage isn&#8217;t for everyone.<\/p>\n<p>And while I&#8217;m at it, I&#8217;ll say this too: It&#8217;s possible to disconnect with your partner and lose the love you had at the beginning to the point where you&#8217;ll think to yourself, &#8220;I hate my wife&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds scary. It sounds like something you shouldn&#8217;t have thought. However, the reality is that&#8217;s how you really feel.<\/p>\n<p>El matrimonio puede ser frustrante en muchos sentidos. Hay tantos factores que pueden contribuir a la ruptura de un matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you drifted away and don&#8217;t feel close to your spouse anymore, maybe there was a specific event that changed your relationship forever, maybe you&#8217;re dissatisfied with the intimacy (or lack thereof) or maybe you feel like your partner doesn&#8217;t support you.<\/p>\n<p>Todas estas cosas pueden ser razones v\u00e1lidas para que usted sienta fuertes sentimientos negativos hacia su c\u00f3nyuge.<\/p>\n<p>Si se siente profundamente infeliz en su matrimonio, algo debe cambiar. Pero antes, debe estar seguro de que <em>qu\u00e9<\/em> que sientes exactamente y <em>por qu\u00e9<\/em> te sientes as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself about which needs aren&#8217;t being met. What frustrates you the most about your relationship? What triggers your anger, sadness, or disgust?<\/p>\n<p>Before doing anything that&#8217;s going to drastically change your life, you must be sure that&#8217;s what you really want and that it&#8217;s not something you want because you feel cornered in the particular phase of life you&#8217;re in.<\/p>\n<p>A menudo, las cosas que consideramos irreparables pueden arreglarse y cambiarse.<\/p>\n<p>Para entender mejor por qu\u00e9 ocurre esto, debemos examinar m\u00e1s detenidamente las razones comunes y posibles de este estado emocional.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Control del comportamiento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105839\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-unpleasantly-surpised.jpg\" alt=\"mujer disgustada desagradablemente sorprendida haciendo una llamada dentro de la oficina de su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-unpleasantly-surpised.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-unpleasantly-surpised-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-unpleasantly-surpised-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-unpleasantly-surpised-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-unpleasantly-surpised-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Al principio de una relaci\u00f3n, ambas partes se comportan de la mejor manera posible para impresionar a su pareja y mostrar sus cualidades.<\/p>\n<p>However, after they get married, things change because they start to see each other&#8217;s real personalities.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es normal y esperable. Sin embargo, si notas un cambio dr\u00e1stico que te hace cuestionar tu decisi\u00f3n de casarte con esa persona, algo debe ir mal.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if your wife constantly asks for reports about where you are going or who&#8217;s in your company, calls you all the time, or makes you very uncomfortable and shows an alarming lack of trust \u2013 that&#8217;s a sign of a controlling wife.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe she forbids you to do things that shouldn&#8217;t be her concern, or she&#8217;s very defensive and doesn&#8217;t acknowledge her own mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>A common problem is the &#8220;I&#8217;m always right&#8221; attitude that doesn&#8217;t seem to change over time.<\/p>\n<p>Muchos hombres encuentran este problema dif\u00edcil de manejar porque es muy castrante.<\/p>\n<p>En resumen, a menudo puede parecer que la mujer est\u00e1 adoptando algunos rasgos tradicionalmente masculinos y, por tanto, por defecto, est\u00e1 despojando a su marido de esos mismos rasgos.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ocurre esto tan a menudo? La verdad es que no todos los casos son iguales.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, it&#8217;s just her personality and at first, the partner didn&#8217;t mind but other times it&#8217;s a consequence of the way the couple lives.<\/p>\n<p>For example, many women have jobs and at the same time, they&#8217;re the ones who do the housework and are usually the ones who give more attention to the children.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, this puts a lot of responsibility on their shoulders and they feel like they&#8217;re in charge of everything.<\/p>\n<p>This often leads to a feeling of resentment towards the husband who doesn&#8217;t see that their help is needed. This often creates the scenario of a controlling wife.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are instances when women are just stubborn, controlling, and\/or ruthless in their stance and don&#8217;t show signs they&#8217;ll change.<\/p>\n<p>Esto crea un sentimiento de desesperaci\u00f3n y confinamiento en el hombre.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/12-senales-de-una-mujer-controladora\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">12 se\u00f1ales de una mujer controladora<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falta de respeto y desagradecimiento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105840\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-smoking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre pensativo fumando un cigarro al aire libre sentado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-smoking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-smoking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-smoking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-smoking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-smoking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu c\u00f3nyuge debe ser tu mejor amigo.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, when it comes to moments when you feel disrespected it&#8217;s hard not to ask yourself why they liked you in the first place, or what you liked about them.<\/p>\n<p>If all your efforts and attempts to make things better are disrespected, ridiculed, or taken for granted it&#8217;s hard to stay motivated to fix things.<\/p>\n<p>En muchos casos, los hombres sienten que dan mucho a sus esposas, como aportaciones econ\u00f3micas y actos de servicio, pero parece que pasa desapercibido.<\/p>\n<p>Sus esposas act\u00faan de forma desagradecida y no hacen nada a cambio a los ojos de sus maridos y eso hace que se sientan poco respetados.<\/p>\n<p>Ninguna relaci\u00f3n verdadera y amorosa puede sobrevivir sin respeto. El respeto es una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes cuando se trata de relaciones estables y sanas.<\/p>\n<p>Sin respeto, simplemente no hay amor.<\/p>\n<p>Si te sientes as\u00ed, intenta hablar con tu mujer sin acusarla. La mejor manera de manejar las cosas es con una conversaci\u00f3n sincera, de coraz\u00f3n a coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If that isn&#8217;t possible then it&#8217;s pointless to stay in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-de-una-esposa-irrespetuosa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">23 se\u00f1ales de una esposa irrespetuosa (y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falta de intimidad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105841\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-couple-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"pareja disgustada en la cama tumbada en pijama blanco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-couple-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-couple-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-couple-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-couple-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-couple-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hay muchas razones para que se produzca una desconexi\u00f3n entre los c\u00f3nyuges, pero \u00e9sta es la principal. Una vida sexual sana es muy importante para un matrimonio feliz. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Los seres humanos necesitamos el contacto f\u00edsico para sentirnos m\u00e1s cercanos y conectados a otra persona, para tenerle m\u00e1s comprensi\u00f3n, compasi\u00f3n y amor.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, muy a menudo, esto es diferente para hombres y mujeres. La mayor\u00eda de los hombres y las mujeres ven el coito de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Para las mujeres, lo que rodea al acto es m\u00e1s importante que el acto en s\u00ed. Antes de que ocurra, quieren sentirse conectadas con su pareja y sentirse c\u00f3modas y queridas.<\/p>\n<p>For men, the act IS the connection. That&#8217;s when they feel the most while women need to feel beforehand to enjoy the act at all.<\/p>\n<p>While this isn&#8217;t true for every woman, most women have more imagination than men and their desire is based on the amount of emotion, anticipation, and desire they feel towards the person or act.<\/p>\n<p>Comprensiblemente, este deseo suele decaer durante la vida cotidiana mundana y las relaciones se vuelven aburridas.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, con un poco de esfuerzo, puede volver a estimularse e inspirarse.<\/p>\n<p>No obstante, si cree que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-hay-intimidad-en-el-matrimonio-por-parte-de-la-esposa\/\">la intimidad entre usted y su esposa es simplemente inexistente<\/a> y que esto es irreversible, entonces esto podr\u00eda ser un problema mayor.<\/p>\n<p>Muchos hombres se sienten enfadados y resentidos con sus esposas cuando se trata de retener el sexo y muchos de ellos nunca hablan de ello abiertamente o de la manera adecuada.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s important to say how you feel about something and to listen to why the other person feels the way they do.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s better to do it sooner than later because once it festers the damage is done.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/senales-de-que-estas-casado-pero-enamorado-de-otra-persona\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">10 Honest Signs You\u2019re Married But In Love With Someone Else<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aburrimiento<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105842\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-on-their-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en su tel\u00e9fono inteligente aburrido y sentado en el extremo opuesto del sof\u00e1 en la sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-on-their-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-on-their-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-on-their-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-on-their-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-on-their-smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEcha de menos a la persona que sol\u00eda ser su mujer? \u00bfEcha de menos la diversi\u00f3n que sol\u00edais tener? Esto le ocurre a muchas parejas.<\/p>\n<p>The person you wanted to be with for the rest of your life isn&#8217;t there anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas cambian a lo largo de su vida por varias razones.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s known that most people become &#8220;less fun&#8221; as they age. They take fewer risks and don&#8217;t have the same energy as they did when they were young.<\/p>\n<p>They also stop putting in effort and adopt the &#8220;minding my own business&#8221; attitude and that&#8217;s not the right attitude for a successful marriage or relationships in general.<\/p>\n<p>Aside from that, it&#8217;s common for many people to give up on their personal goals once they&#8217;re in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Esto conduce a la insatisfacci\u00f3n y a una tendencia a aferrarse al statu quo.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente, el problema m\u00e1s frecuente en muchos matrimonios es la ausencia de conexi\u00f3n emocional derivada de la falta de vulnerabilidad, confianza y paciencia.<\/p>\n<p>Esto conduce al estancamiento y a la falta de objetivos. No hay metas mutuas que mantengan las cosas emocionantes ni vulnerabilidad que os mantenga unidos.<\/p>\n<p>You probably feel as though you&#8217;re wasting your life and find yourself imagining all the things you could do if it wasn&#8217;t for your wife and your boring life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Negligencia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105843\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-pensive-man.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste y pensativo sentado en la cama con una mujer al tel\u00e9fono al fondo apoyada en la pared de la habitaci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-pensive-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-pensive-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-pensive-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-pensive-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-pensive-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por desgracia, la vida emocional de un hombre es algo incomprendida.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s mostly because of all the hurtful stereotypes surrounding men and how they should or shouldn&#8217;t behave.<\/p>\n<p>De la mayor\u00eda de los hombres se espera que no muestren emociones y que se comporten como hombres. Por eso acaban reprimiendo sus emociones y sinti\u00e9ndose privados de la intimidad y la atenci\u00f3n que realmente desean.<\/p>\n<p>Los sentimientos heridos, las decepciones y el abandono ocurren sin que la esposa se d\u00e9 cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not unusual for men to feel neglected after the arrival of a baby.<\/p>\n<p>Las madres j\u00f3venes desplazan naturalmente su atenci\u00f3n hacia el beb\u00e9 y le proporcionan cuidados y atenciones. Esto suele significar menos atenci\u00f3n para sus maridos.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, a lot of mothers, can&#8217;t even get time for themselves and that&#8217;s exhausting.<\/p>\n<p>Understandably, men get neglected but it&#8217;s also understandable that they can feel hurt and unable to communicate their feelings in fear that they will be accused of a variety of things.<\/p>\n<p>When neglect happens, besides this particular situation, and it happens over and over again, it&#8217;s normal to ask yourself if what you have is a relationship at all.<\/p>\n<p>After all, marriage is a commitment to take care of someone else and make each other\u2019s lives easier.<\/p>\n<p>If you experience constant neglect, that means the other person doesn&#8217;t care for your well-being which is a solid base for considering a breakup.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-signs-of-an-emotionally-distant-wife-and-why-she-became-that-way\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">7 se\u00f1ales de una esposa distante emocionalmente y por qu\u00e9 se volvi\u00f3 as\u00ed<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Responsabilidades ignoradas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105844\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/lazy-wife-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"esposa perezosa en el sof\u00e1 y hombre ocupado empaquetando libros\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/lazy-wife-on-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/lazy-wife-on-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/lazy-wife-on-couch-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/lazy-wife-on-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/lazy-wife-on-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a lot of men who feel as though their wives don&#8217;t do their share of responsibilities, especially when they&#8217;re the only providers.<\/p>\n<p>They feel disrespected and used when their wives are lazy, e.g. don&#8217;t cook, clean, take care of the household, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Esta din\u00e1mica lleva inevitablemente a arruinar la relaci\u00f3n. Cuando una persona siempre est\u00e1 flojeando y la otra est\u00e1 haciendo un esfuerzo extra, habr\u00e1 frustraci\u00f3n y fuertes sentimientos de resentimiento.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s understandable that one party feels frustrated when the other one doesn&#8217;t put in equal amounts of time and energy because that&#8217;s marriage \u2013 putting in effort to make life easier and more comfortable for each other.<\/p>\n<p>Si ha intentado por todos los medios que su c\u00f3nyuge sea consciente de estos problemas y nada ha cambiado despu\u00e9s, probablemente su c\u00f3nyuge sea ego\u00edsta y le est\u00e9 faltando al respeto.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/senales-de-que-estas-casado-con-una-mujer-egoista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">13 desafortunadas se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s casado con una esposa ego\u00edsta<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Asunto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105845\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-wife-talking.jpg\" alt=\"esposa infiel hablando con el tel\u00e9fono mientras el marido acaba de llegar del trabajo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-wife-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-wife-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-wife-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-wife-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-wife-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por desgracia, hay casos en los que se produce una infidelidad que cambia una relaci\u00f3n para siempre.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s definitely one of the moments or maybe the very first moment when you thought, &#8220;I hate my wife&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>La raz\u00f3n n\u00famero uno para perdonar la infidelidad, sobre todo si fue un rollo de una noche, y dar una segunda oportunidad al c\u00f3nyuge son los hijos.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, estas razones por s\u00ed solas no suelen bastar para que la pareja enga\u00f1ada perdone de verdad y haga las paces con el hecho de que se haya roto su confianza.<\/p>\n<p>After the affair, there&#8217;s often a lot of resentment, passive aggression, and blaming.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, it&#8217;s better to rather just go your separate ways than to keep hurting each other and staying in a toxic environment for the kids.<\/p>\n<p>Kids are capable of understanding that something&#8217;s wrong and they will be affected if you stay together in a loveless marriage, anyway.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/6-lecciones-que-el-divorcio-de-mis-padres-me-enseno-sobre-las-relaciones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">6 Lessons My Parents\u2019 Divorce Taught Me About Relationship and 20 Warning Signs Your Wife Is Cheating On You<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abuso emocional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105848\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-nagging-to-husband.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rega\u00f1ando al marido durante su comida por la ma\u00f1ana en el comedor\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-nagging-to-husband.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-nagging-to-husband-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-nagging-to-husband-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-nagging-to-husband-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-nagging-to-husband-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>El maltrato emocional adopta diversas formas.<\/p>\n<p>Las formas m\u00e1s comunes y f\u00e1ciles de ignorar, pero alarmantes, son: menospreciar, insultar y humillar en casa y delante de otras personas.<\/p>\n<p>Incluye culpar y mentir constantemente, amenazas y castigos.<\/p>\n<p>The problem with abuse of men by women is that it&#8217;s often not taken seriously by most people, and unfortunately, the man himself often minimizes or ignores the abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Internally, he feels abused and hurt, but he&#8217;s too ashamed to admit it because of societal pressure and not wanting to sound like less of a man.<\/p>\n<p>El maltrato emocional y de cualquier tipo hacia los hombres es un tema muy serio que deber\u00eda abordarse y del que deber\u00eda hablarse con m\u00e1s frecuencia.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s not enough information about it and it&#8217;s still heavily ridiculed by a society that leaves many men who experience this kind of treatment alone, isolated, hurt, and misunderstood.<\/p>\n<p>No se debe tolerar ning\u00fan acto de abuso o violencia en ning\u00fan lugar y menos en un matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-cosas-que-hay-que-saber-para-sobrevivir-al-abuso-emocional\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">8 cosas que deber\u00edas hacer tras sobrevivir a un maltrato emocional<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Insatisfacci\u00f3n consigo mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105847\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-man.jpg\" alt=\"triste hombre deprimido sentirse frustrado en elegante casual fuera de un edificio de pie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En algunos casos, las personas proyectan en su pareja la insatisfacci\u00f3n consigo mismas y con su propia vida porque les ayuda a sentirse menos culpables.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, we have to stop and ask ourselves: Is it that our life sucks because of someone else&#8217;s doing or because of our own lethargy and unwillingness to change?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easier to blame someone else or circumstances. The path of resentment towards others usually starts because we have resentment towards ourselves in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel unhappy for a long period of time with no signs of getting out of that state of mind, maybe it&#8217;s a good idea to seek professional help.<\/p>\n<p>Si s\u00f3lo piensas cosas negativas sobre tu vida puede implicar alg\u00fan tipo de desequilibrio emocional grave.<\/p>\n<p>Los psic\u00f3logos pueden aclararte muchas cosas de tu vida, incluida la fuente principal de insatisfacci\u00f3n y problemas con tu mujer.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of people don&#8217;t think of their mental health as a serious issue that can be easily treated but stay firm in their beliefs and refuse help because of a number of external pressures.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/senales-para-cambiar-tu-vida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">5 se\u00f1ales de que necesitas cambiar radicalmente de vida<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Even happy marriages have their dark phases. It&#8217;s not uncommon for partners to hate each other from time to time.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s often said that the distance between &#8220;I love you&#8221; and &#8220;I hate you&#8221; is shorter than it seems.<\/p>\n<p>Intimate relationships are very challenging and they bring out the best and worst in people. That&#8217;s not surprising because where there&#8217;s vulnerability \u2013 there&#8217;s also intensity.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, cuando las cosas se descontrolan y empiezas a sentir emociones negativas hacia tu c\u00f3nyuge de forma fuerte y persistente, s\u00f3lo hay unas pocas cosas que puedes hacer al respecto:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Intenta arreglarlo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105849\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/marriage-counselor-talking.jpg\" alt=\"consejero matrimonial hablando con la pareja casada dentro de la sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/marriage-counselor-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/marriage-counselor-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/marriage-counselor-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/marriage-counselor-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/marriage-counselor-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Antes de renunciar a tu matrimonio deber\u00edas intentar arreglarlo. El divorcio y todo lo que conlleva es extremadamente agotador y a menudo complicado y emocionalmente aplastante.<\/p>\n<p>Muchas parejas se reconcilian en el proceso de divorcio o se arrepienten de haberse divorciado de su c\u00f3nyuge.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de decidirse definitivamente a dejar a su c\u00f3nyuge, pruebe con terapia matrimonial, visite a un profesional de la salud mental o acuda a un terapeuta familiar.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta recuperar el respeto mutuo que ten\u00edas con tu mujer al principio y piensa en todas las peque\u00f1as cosas que te atrajeron de ella en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta una comunicaci\u00f3n sincera, o hacer algo especial y fuera de lo com\u00fan, algo que le recuerde c\u00f3mo fue la primera vez que os conocisteis y os enamorasteis el uno del otro.<\/p>\n<p>It could be a date night or a present that you know she&#8217;s going to like.<\/p>\n<p>Esfu\u00e9rzate e intenta hacer algo divertido juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Los dos segu\u00eds teniendo esa misma parte de vosotros mismos que os enamor\u00f3 al principio el uno del otro, s\u00f3lo necesita una buena limpieza de polvo.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-arreglar-una-relacion-rota\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">C\u00f3mo arreglar una relaci\u00f3n rota: 10 maneras de arreglar las cosas<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Retirarse por un tiempo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105850\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/one-man-on-the-boat.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre en el barco sentado y relaj\u00e1ndose junto al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/one-man-on-the-boat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/one-man-on-the-boat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/one-man-on-the-boat-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/one-man-on-the-boat-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/one-man-on-the-boat-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When was the last time you&#8217;ve taken time for yourself? Even in the healthiest marriages, couples need some personal time and space.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTienes tus propias aficiones e intereses? \u00bfTe sientes bien contigo mismo separado de tu mujer?<\/p>\n<p>Dependiendo de su respuesta, podr\u00eda ser una buena idea pasar alg\u00fan tiempo separado de su esposa, pero S\u00d3LO con una explicaci\u00f3n muy clara y definida de lo que eso significa.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes &#8220;the break&#8221; is what brings the couple closer together and sometimes it&#8217;s what determines their end.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, it&#8217;s useful for getting clarity about what you really want and feel.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/tomarse-un-descanso-equivale-al-fin-de-una-relacion-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">4 razones por las que tomarse un descanso equivale al fin de una relaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">H\u00e1gase estas preguntas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105851\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/latin-man-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"hombre latino sentado en el borde de la cama del hotel cerrando los ojos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/latin-man-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/latin-man-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/latin-man-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/latin-man-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/latin-man-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>a) \u00bfHa sido claro con su c\u00f3nyuge sobre sus preocupaciones en relaci\u00f3n con el matrimonio?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to make clear what bothers you in your marriage, how it makes you feel, and why you can&#8217;t tolerate it anymore.<\/p>\n<p><em>b) \u00bfExiste ALGUNA forma de hacer que tu matrimonio funcione? \u00bfCu\u00e1l?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Is there something that would make you change your mind or the way you see your partner? Do you think it&#8217;s possible to do it if your partner shows interest?<\/p>\n<p><em>c) \u00bfSer\u00eda realmente m\u00e1s feliz viviendo sin su c\u00f3nyuge?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Imagina tu vida sin tu mujer. \u00bfSentir\u00eda alivio?<\/p>\n<p>Think about all the details she takes care of and all the things she does in the household and with your kids that you don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Are you ready to take on those responsibilities once you&#8217;re separated?<\/p>\n<p><em>d) \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tienes miedo de terminar la relaci\u00f3n?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s stopping you from filing for divorce now? Is it the kids or finances?<\/p>\n<p>Quiz\u00e1 a\u00fan sientas algo por tu mujer. Pi\u00e9nsalo una vez m\u00e1s y luego toma una decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><em>e) \u00bfEst\u00e1 preparado econ\u00f3micamente para el divorcio?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Esta pregunta se explica por s\u00ed misma y es muy importante por razones pr\u00e1cticas. Debes ser consciente de que el divorcio puede complicarte la vida por muy diversos motivos.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/17-senales-de-un-matrimonio-infeliz-y-como-solucionarlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">17 se\u00f1ales de un matrimonio infeliz (y c\u00f3mo solucionarlo)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Solicitar el divorcio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105852\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-filing-a-divorce.jpg\" alt=\"pareja que solicita el divorcio ante un abogado firmando los papeles\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-filing-a-divorce.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-filing-a-divorce-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-filing-a-divorce-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-filing-a-divorce-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-filing-a-divorce-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If none of the other things work out for you and you can still say, &#8220;I hate my wife&#8221; without feeling bad about it, then you should consider divorce and going your separate ways.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no point in living in an unhappy marriage. It makes both partners miserable and continues to disappoint them.<\/p>\n<p>Before taking this step, you should consult with a divorce lawyer to get an idea of what the divorce process looks like because many people aren&#8217;t aware of all the details and possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/la-vida-despues-del-divorcio-para-los-hombres\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">What It\u2019s Like To Continue With Your Life After Divorce For Men and The Destruction of Divorce: Rise Above the Ashes<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Conclusi\u00f3n<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105853\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"hombre pensativo sentado junto al lago Tuz en Ankara\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-man-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No relationship is the same. We&#8217;re all influenced by our circumstances and everything that life has put us through.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes there&#8217;s a strong influence from our parents who went through similar situations and that often subconsciously shapes our views of marriage too.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez ya haya observado el mismo patr\u00f3n de comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are capable of dealing with certain problems better than others, but that doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re failing at something. It means your story and your needs are different.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you made a choice that you now consider to be the wrong choice. Unfortunately, whatever was done in the past can&#8217;t be changed.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo puedes cambiar tu presente y esperar un futuro mejor.<\/p>\n<p>If you decide to take a step further and end things, in most cases, difficult times are inevitable in most cases, but after that, you&#8217;ll start to feel better and start your life anew.<\/p>\n<p>To say, &#8220;I hate my wife&#8221; is a strong statement and it shouldn&#8217;t be taken lightly. Hate doesn&#8217;t simply happen in one moment and then disappear in another.<\/p>\n<p>El odio es algo que tarda a\u00f1os en desarrollarse, a\u00f1os de sentimientos negativos que se han escondido bajo la alfombra.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s extremely hard to live a normal life with someone you feel this strongly about.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re at that point, it means that a certain limit has been reached and there&#8217;s probably no way back.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, it&#8217;s all up to you. It&#8217;s about what you feel, think, and are willing to do.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s never too late to change your life and become a happier person, even if that means leaving your spouse for good.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people aren&#8217;t comfortable hearing this, but someone&#8217;s gotta say it: Marriage isn&#8217;t for everyone. And while I&#8217;m at it, I&#8217;ll say this too: It&#8217;s possible to disconnect with your partner and lose the love you had at the beginning to the point where you&#8217;ll think to yourself, &#8220;I hate my wife&#8221;. It sounds scary&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":105854,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-105727","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Why-Do-I-Feel-Like-I-Hate-My-Wife_-9-Common-Reasons-And-What-To-Do.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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