{"id":10576,"date":"2020-08-19T13:23:57","date_gmt":"2020-08-19T13:23:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10576"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:35:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:35:42","slug":"saliendo-con-chica-sobrevivio-abuso-fisico-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/saliendo-con-chica-sobrevivio-abuso-fisico-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de salir con una chica que ha sobrevivido a abusos f\u00edsicos, debes saber esto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Salir con una chica as\u00ed no ser\u00e1 nada sencillo. Tendr\u00e1s que esforzarte al m\u00e1ximo y demostrarle que la quieres y que nunca le har\u00e1s da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Ella ha pasado por tantas cosas malas en sus relaciones pasadas y lo que anhela ahora es <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/meet-catch-and-keep\/201405\/6-sure-signs-healthy-relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">una relaci\u00f3n estable y sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, si has tenido la suerte de conocer a una chica como ella, con un coraz\u00f3n puro y bueno, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas cosas a las que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">She can\u2019t change her past<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102360\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste junto al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Her past is a part of her and no matter how much she has tried to forget it, she won\u2019t be able to do so.<\/p>\n<p>Demons from her past will always be there to remind her that she didn\u2019t have luck with love and that it is better not to try to love again.<\/p>\n<p>But one thing is for sure\u2014she wasn\u2019t guilty of any of the things that she has been through.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo fue v\u00edctima de un hombre que utiliz\u00f3 sus pu\u00f1os para demostrarle que \u00e9l mandaba.<\/p>\n<p>E incluso si conoce a un hombre cari\u00f1oso y atento, siempre tendr\u00e1 miedo de que cambie y se transforme en su ex.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, hagas lo que hagas, dale tiempo porque el tiempo lo cura todo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"reset\"><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">She won\u2019t trust you at first<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102361\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria mirando a hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A girl like this will have trust issues at the beginning. She won\u2019t be able to open up to you totally until she realizes that she can trust you.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, si realmente quieres formar parte de su vida, tendr\u00e1s que demostrarle que puede ver en ti a un amigo.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that not all men are the same and that someone\u2019s, \u201cBitch, I will kill you,\u201d is another man\u2019s, \u201cI have been waiting for you all my life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sepa que la confianza hay que gan\u00e1rsela, as\u00ed que sea paciente y recu\u00e9rdele lo incre\u00edble que es cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que ella necesita un hombre que la ame para que por fin pueda dejar de pensar que es una antip\u00e1tica.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">El contacto f\u00edsico es dif\u00edcil para ella<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102362\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-talking-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria hablando con hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-talking-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A girl like this finds it hard to develop any physical contact. She is still living in her past and she doesn\u2019t know if you will hit her or hug her when you reach your hands toward her.<\/p>\n<p>Sigue viviendo con un miedo tremendo a que todos los hombres sean alg\u00fan tipo de maltratador y a que s\u00f3lo sea cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo que te <a href=\"http:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/women\/life\/i-abused-my-girlfriend-but-ive-seen-the-error-of-my-ways-how-do\/\" rel=\"noopener\">empieza a maltratarla<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing you can do is to give her time and don\u2019t push anything.<\/p>\n<p>Al principio bastar\u00e1 con darle la mano. Deja que ella decida cu\u00e1ndo va a dar el siguiente paso y act\u00faa como si todo fuera normal.<\/p>\n<p>Al final, todo es normal, pero es tan fr\u00e1gil que puede derrumbarse ante el problema m\u00e1s simple.<\/p>\n<p>Si la quieres, demu\u00e9strale que est\u00e1s dispuesto a darle todo el tiempo del mundo para que decida si te acepta.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">Tendr\u00e1 miedo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102363\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/scared-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer asustada mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/scared-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/scared-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/scared-woman-looking-at-distance-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/scared-woman-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ha pasado por muchas cosas malas en el pasado. Su ex era un hombre que la insultaba y la golpeaba hasta desmayarla.<\/p>\n<p>Una chica as\u00ed estuvo tantas veces al borde de la muerte, pero segu\u00eda en pie.<\/p>\n<p>De todo ese l\u00edo, ha salido ganadora porque fue lo suficientemente valiente como para poner fin a su vida anterior y comenz\u00f3 un nuevo cap\u00edtulo de su vida.<\/p>\n<p>All those scars and cracks in her heart are still present so don\u2019t be surprised when you see her looking around herself in a public place because she thinks her ex is stalking her.<\/p>\n<p>Es una reacci\u00f3n normal y necesita tiempo para volver a actuar con normalidad.<\/p>\n<p>What you can do is tell her that she doesn\u2019t need to worry because you are there now to protect her from anything bad that can happen.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">Cree que nadie volver\u00e1 a quererla<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102364\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-silence.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en silencio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-silence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-silence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-silence-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-silence-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-in-silence-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una chica as\u00ed piensa que est\u00e1 rota hasta el punto de que nadie desear\u00e1 estar con ella el resto de su vida.<\/p>\n<p>En su relaci\u00f3n abusiva <a href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/seven-signs-you-are-a-victim-of-gaslighting-fiff\/\" rel=\"noopener\">fue iluminada con luz de gas<\/a>insultado y herido f\u00edsicamente.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t feel loved at all and that was all that she has ever wanted. She is still in a state of shock because she can\u2019t believe that the man who swore that he loved her caused her so much pain.<\/p>\n<p>Por todas estas cosas piensa que est\u00e1 totalmente rota y que nadie quiere arreglar a una chica rota.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t have a hope of love anymore. So, show her that no matter how broken she is, that you are willing to fix her and be with her during her healing process.<\/p>\n<p>Show her what she craved the most in her past relationship\u2014that she is worthy!<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 24pt;\">Sabe que se merece algo mejor<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102365\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer mirando por la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/beautiful-woman-looking-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A girl like this can\u2019t accept the fact that she deserved all those nasty things that she has been through.<\/p>\n<p>En el fondo, tiene la esperanza de conocer a un hombre que la ame con todos sus defectos.<\/p>\n<p>En el fondo, anhela a alguien que sea su media naranja, su mejor amigo y su amante.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todo lo que ha pasado, a\u00fan le queda una peque\u00f1a esperanza de que las cosas puedan torcerse a su favor para variar.<\/p>\n<p>Ha sido golpeada hasta la muerte emocional muchas veces, por lo que un poco de respeto significa mucho para ella.<\/p>\n<p>Sabe que la vida que ten\u00eda era una vida enferma y ahora que por fin se ha librado de ella, quiere vivir su vida al m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que demu\u00e9strale que a\u00fan hay esperanza para ella y dale todo ese amor que anhel\u00f3 durante tantos a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando la conozcas de verdad, ver\u00e1s que la espera ha merecido la pena.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Physical-Abuse-Know-This-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Antes de salir con una chica que ha sobrevivido a abusos f\u00edsicos, debes saber esto\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Physical-Abuse-Know-This-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Physical-Abuse-Know-This-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Physical-Abuse-Know-This-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Physical-Abuse-Know-This-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Physical-Abuse-Know-This-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating a girl like this won\u2019t be a simple thing at all. You will have to go the extra mile and prove to her that you love her and that you will never hurt her. She has gone through so many bad things in her past relationships and what she craves now is a stable&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":102366,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10576","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Physical-Abuse-Know-This.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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