{"id":106459,"date":"2020-10-26T23:56:59","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T23:56:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=106459"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:17:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:17:16","slug":"millones-de-razones-para-irse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/millones-de-razones-para-irse\/","title":{"rendered":"Un mill\u00f3n de razones para irse, s\u00f3lo una para quedarse... \u00bfMerece la pena?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You know that moment when you feel like you&#8217;re at a crossroads of your life?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re constantly weighing up the pros and cons? The good and bad? The reasons to leave and the ones to stay?<\/p>\n<p><em>I&#8217;m asking you now, does love really conquer all? Is loving someone truly enough to make a relationship work?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que puedo decir con seguridad ahora es que <em><strong>el amor es una emoci\u00f3n tan poderosa y tan extra\u00f1a al mismo tiempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It\u2019s powerful in the way that it can cure even the most damaged hearts and bring back faith in life even to those people who completely lost it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Why is it weird? Well, it takes over your heart but it also has command over your mind and body too. Sometimes it makes you so blind that you can&#8217;t see even the most obvious things.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfVale la pena arriesgarlo todo por amor? \u00bfVale la pena arriesgarse a que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n? \u00bfVale la pena pasar por tanto dolor y drama?<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, nada es seguro en la vida. Nunca podemos estar seguros de lo que nos depara el futuro y, a veces, simplemente tenemos que arriesgarnos y hacer algo aunque nos salga mal.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, este dilema no es tan sencillo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-106462 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-wood-log.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con sudadera burdeos sentada en tronco de madera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-wood-log.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-wood-log-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-wood-log-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-wood-log-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-wood-log-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Our heart is suffering because the person we love doesn&#8217;t love us in the same way but our heart also aches at the bare thought that we should let them go and move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>How can we make a decision when we know that it&#8217;ll hurt us badly, no matter what we decide? It seems like we actually have to decide what will hurt us less.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEs el amor realmente tan poderoso que si alguien te da tantas razones para irte y t\u00fa s\u00f3lo tienes LA \u00daNICA para quedarte, s\u00f3lo tienes tu amor, es realmente suficiente? \u00bfSinceramente eso te har\u00eda feliz?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPuede el amor hacer que te olvides de todo lo dem\u00e1s, de todo lo malo, de tu relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfTiene tambi\u00e9n ese poder?<\/p>\n<p>The thing is that for the rest of your life, you won&#8217;t be able to justify him treating you badly with the fact that he loves you and you love him.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you love him, you can&#8217;t keep forgiving him for his mistakes. It&#8217;s not true love then, it&#8217;s just infatuation. And be careful, as those two are very similar so you may confuse them.<\/p>\n<p>However, there is one very important difference between them, that true love is timeless, it doesn&#8217;t have an expiry date, while infatuation only lasts for some time and makes you obsessed with a person.<\/p>\n<p>The sad truth is that it&#8217;ll really hurt you no matter what decision you make. But that&#8217;s just how life is and sometimes it truly isn&#8217;t fair and it seems like it&#8217;s only playing with us.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106463\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-14.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia con camisa blanca de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-14.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-14-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-14-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-14-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-14-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know, I was once at the same crossroads where you&#8217;re now standing. I was also suffering the way you do now.<\/p>\n<p>Yo tambi\u00e9n rezaba a Dios, igual que t\u00fa ahora. <strong>Le ped\u00ed que me mostrara la direcci\u00f3n correcta.<\/strong> But that wasn&#8217;t happening because He wanted to make me come to the right decision by myself.<\/p>\n<p>Amaba a ese hombre aunque en realidad nunca me dio buenas razones para ello. <em>Estaba profundamente enamorada de \u00e9l a pesar de que sus acciones me her\u00edan tan a menudo, a pesar de que me romp\u00eda el coraz\u00f3n cada d\u00eda, pedazo a pedazo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the weird side of love. <strong>Segu\u00ed cerrando los ojos a la verdad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A pesar de que mi coraz\u00f3n ya estaba roto en un mill\u00f3n de pedazos, segu\u00eda trabajando y cargando la misma cantidad de amor, amor por el hombre que en realidad era culpable de todo su dolor y quien en realidad lo rompi\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><em>I made my decision and chose a direction a while ago. That was a really tough call but I don\u2019t regret it so now I know it definitely was the right one.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You have to fall in love with yourself again. Look at it in this way, you have a million reasons to choose yourself and only one to choose a man who doesn\u2019t deserve you. Which will it be?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t keep going back to the same old heartache because your heart will never be able to heal that way.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Choose yourself because your heart deserves it. Choose yourself because you&#8217;re the only constant in your life. Choose yourself because after all, you need yourself the most.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know that moment when you feel like you&#8217;re at a crossroads of your life? You&#8217;re constantly weighing up the pros and cons? The good and bad? The reasons to leave and the ones to stay? I&#8217;m asking you now, does love really conquer all? Is loving someone truly enough to make a relationship work?&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":106461,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-106459","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/A-Million-Reasons-To-Leave-Only-One-To-Stay...-Is-It-Worth-It_.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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