{"id":10665,"date":"2019-12-20T10:24:11","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T10:24:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10665"},"modified":"2022-02-01T01:11:57","modified_gmt":"2022-02-01T01:11:57","slug":"tiempo-correcto-incorrecto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tiempo-correcto-incorrecto\/","title":{"rendered":"El momento era oportuno, pero te equivocaste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Realmente sol\u00eda creer que el momento pod\u00eda ser inoportuno cuando se trata del amor. Que a veces conoces a personas perfectas en el momento equivocado. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est\u00e1n pasando por algo en este momento. Se est\u00e1n recuperando de una mala ruptura. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tienen que mudarse por alguna raz\u00f3n u otra cosa, pero en general, tienen una raz\u00f3n realmente v\u00e1lida para no estar en una relaci\u00f3n en este momento. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>And while for some people this might be true, that\u2019s not the case with you. You never gave me a valid reason for anything\u2014you just used excuses. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Mejor dicho, siempre usaste el tiempo para justificar todo. &nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You wanted it to be the perfect time so you would be able to commit and take our relationship to a next level. And the timing was never perfect\u2014you always had some lame excuses. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O estabas demasiado ocupado, concentrado en tu carrera, con problemas en casa, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me quer\u00edas cerca, pero no demasiado. Aprovechaste el tiempo para tomarme el pelo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siempre hac\u00edas promesas que nunca cumpl\u00edas. Y yo estaba demasiado enamorada para ver que s\u00f3lo me estabas utilizando y haci\u00e9ndome perder el tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pensaba que sab\u00edas lo afortunada que eras por tener a alguien que te entiende. Alguien que estaba dispuesto a apoyarte, a estar a tu lado cuando la vida era dura, a escucharte y a hacer todo lo posible por hacerte feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was wrong\u2014you weren&#8217;t feeling lucky. You were feeling deserving\u2014deserving of my understanding, of every sacrifice I made for you because you took my love and everything I\u2019ve done for you for granted. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te comportaste como si fuera natural que yo pusiera mi vida en espera hasta que t\u00fa construyeras la tuya. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You behaved like it was only natural that I would wait for the timing to be perfect\u2014perfect for you not for me. My perfect timing wasn\u2019t something that concerned you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dios m\u00edo, estabas tan ensimismado. Ojal\u00e1 lo hubiera visto antes. Me habr\u00eda ahorrado todos esos a\u00f1os perdidos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, you know I won\u2019t regret it. I won\u2019t cry for the years that I lost. I will be grateful for the lessons learned. Because that\u2019s all you were\u2014the toughest lesson of my life. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Me ense\u00f1aste que no existe tal cosa como <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/theres-thing-bad-timing\/\" rel=\"noopener\">el momento perfecto. <\/a><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La vida no es perfecta. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siempre habr\u00e1 algo en el camino si as\u00ed lo quieres. El tiempo no es m\u00e1s que una excusa para que gente como t\u00fa lleve la contraria a ingenuos como yo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Me ense\u00f1aste que cuando das tu comprensi\u00f3n, amor y apoyo a alguien, debes esperar lo mismo a cambio.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You shouldn\u2019t settle for one who doesn\u2019t care enough for you. You shouldn\u2019t be with someone who is afraid to commit after everything you been through.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Me ense\u00f1aste que cuando la persona est\u00e1 equivocada, el momento siempre ser\u00e1 equivocado. &nbsp;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Y lo creas o no, estoy agradecido por ello. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estoy agradecido por todas las lecciones. Estoy agradecido por todas las l\u00e1grimas porque ahora s\u00e9 c\u00f3mo debe ser cuando la persona tiene raz\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Cuando la persona es la adecuada, el momento siempre ser\u00e1 el adecuado. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Puede que el momento nunca sea perfecto, pero la persona adecuada sabr\u00e1 c\u00f3mo encajarnos en su vida sin importar el momento. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The right person won\u2019t make excuses. The right person will be modest with his words but rich in his actions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The right person won\u2019t stand in the way of your success and make you choose them over everything.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> La persona adecuada te animar\u00e1: a esforzarte m\u00e1s, a hacerlo mejor, a so\u00f1ar m\u00e1s grande. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver\u00e1n lo incre\u00edbles que sois t\u00fa y tus sue\u00f1os y te dar\u00e1n m\u00e1s ganas de luchar que nunca.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The right person is the one you wait for\u2014not the one that makes you wait. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ahora s\u00e9 que nunca fue por el momento. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/con-la-persona-adecuada-cualquier-momento-es-bueno\/\">El momento era oportuno<\/a> pero te equivocaste conmigo.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-56241\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/THE-TIMING-WAS-RIGHT-BUT-YOU-WERE-WRONG.jpg\" alt=\"EL MOMENTO ERA EL ADECUADO, PERO TE EQUIVOCASTE\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/THE-TIMING-WAS-RIGHT-BUT-YOU-WERE-WRONG.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/THE-TIMING-WAS-RIGHT-BUT-YOU-WERE-WRONG-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/THE-TIMING-WAS-RIGHT-BUT-YOU-WERE-WRONG-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/THE-TIMING-WAS-RIGHT-BUT-YOU-WERE-WRONG-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I really used to believe that the timing could be wrong when it comes to love. That sometimes you meet perfect people at the wrong time. They are going through something right now. They are recovering after a bad breakup. They have to move away for some reason or something else, but all in all,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":10671,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10665","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/jessica-felicio-463231.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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