{"id":10720,"date":"2017-12-21T08:33:13","date_gmt":"2017-12-21T08:33:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10720"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:24:46","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:24:46","slug":"amara-relacion-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amara-relacion-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"Volver\u00e1s a amar despu\u00e9s de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muchos de nosotros recurrimos a cultivar espinas despu\u00e9s de haber sido heridos. Esta parece la conclusi\u00f3n m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil despu\u00e9s de tantas veces de experimentar tales cosas. Nos gusta hacerlo no por frustraci\u00f3n y rabia, sino porque hay pensamientos mucho m\u00e1s profundos que perduran. Tenemos miedo de que la pr\u00f3xima persona nos deje tan f\u00e1cilmente como lo hizo la \u00faltima. Esto no se debe a que hubiera problemas con nosotros. Hay mucho m\u00e1s en la historia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca lo viste venir. Una persona t\u00f3xica te dejar\u00e1 con la sensaci\u00f3n de que todo el agua de tu vaso est\u00e1 vac\u00eda. No tienes nada m\u00e1s que dar. No tienes m\u00e1s que dar. Una persona t\u00f3xica te dejar\u00e1 mucho peor que como te encontr\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por la forma en que proyectaban todos sus problemas en ti, eras un blanco abierto para ellos. Sab\u00edan que siempre caer\u00edas en la trampa. Eso era porque nunca pensaste que alguien que se supon\u00eda que deb\u00eda colmarte con el amor que deseabas te har\u00eda esto. Todo parec\u00eda culpa tuya. Cuanto m\u00e1s intentabas colmarles de emociones, m\u00e1s las rechazaban. Eso no fue culpa tuya.<\/a> Segu\u00edas enfrent\u00e1ndote a los mismos obst\u00e1culos d\u00eda tras d\u00eda. Sent\u00edas que pronto llegar\u00edas a un nuevo camino. Un nuevo camino que salvar\u00eda vuestra relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

La verdad es que estas relaciones te dejar\u00e1n emocional y f\u00edsicamente agotado. Muy pronto, no queda nada que dar. <\/span><\/p>\n

This relationship wasn’t meant to be saved. You deserve much more than feeling as if all of the thoughtful gestures you gifted weren’t enough. You deserve to have somebody who loves you for you. Somebody who gives you the same love you have been providing. After so many times of being let down, you start to wonder if you will ever find the love that you have been giving everybody else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lo har\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

This is because you will know in advance what to look for. Somebody who doesn’t have to tear you down to find joy in themselves. One who would rather fill you up, instead of leaving you empty. One who doesn’t have to project their anger onto you. This is because this person was meant to put you back together. <\/span><\/p>\n

A una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 mucho<\/a> sobre ti mismo y sobre los dem\u00e1s. Cu\u00e1nto est\u00e1s dispuesto a aguantar. Hasta d\u00f3nde llegan los dem\u00e1s para verte desmoronarte. Recuerda que los cimientos siempre se pueden reconstruir. No dejes que una persona t\u00f3xica destruya tu forma de amar. Pronto encontrar\u00e1s a la persona dispuesta a reconstruirte con paciencia. Deja que tu conocimiento te lleve directamente a los brazos de esa persona.<\/p>\n

Te prometo que volver\u00e1s a amar.<\/span><\/p>\n

por Isabella Piper<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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