{"id":10748,"date":"2020-07-21T11:11:51","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T11:11:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10748"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:06:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:06:01","slug":"10-senales-de-que-solo-eres-un-ligon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-solo-eres-un-ligon\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales de que para \u00e9l s\u00f3lo eres un bot\u00edn"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I have nothing against the concept of a booty call.<\/p>\n<p>But when you want a serious relationship, when you&#8217;re ready to commit to your lover, because you see how compatible you are, being a booty call isn&#8217;t really something you want.<\/p>\n<p>If both partners are defining the relationship like that, then it&#8217;s not a problem.<\/p>\n<p>When the guy in the relationship doesn&#8217;t want to commit or isn&#8217;t willing to take the relationship further, even though you are starting to fall in love with him, it can get really painful.<\/p>\n<p>Without having to be direct with him about this topic, there are some signs you can look out for to know for sure if you&#8217;re only a booty call to him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t text you at a reasonable hour<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93686\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-in-white-t-shirt-typing-on-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camiseta blanca escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-in-white-t-shirt-typing-on-his-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-in-white-t-shirt-typing-on-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-in-white-t-shirt-typing-on-his-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He won&#8217;t text you throughout the day to see if you&#8217;re doing okay, he won&#8217;t even call to ask to see you during the day.<\/p>\n<p>He will probably text you past midnight and he&#8217;s probably horny.<\/p>\n<p>He probably couldn&#8217;t find another girl to go home with him, so he calls his plan B\u2014you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Todas tus citas acaban en el dormitorio<\/h2>\n<p>You know that you might be his booty call if your \u2018dates\u2019 don&#8217;t include walks, restaurants or bars (or anything related to you two being in public), but rather just a little chat with you before he takes you to his apartment.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s never there for you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93687\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-leaving-a-woman-in-the-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre dejando a una mujer en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-leaving-a-woman-in-the-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-leaving-a-woman-in-the-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-leaving-a-woman-in-the-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Simplemente desaparece cada vez que necesitas apoyo emocional o mental.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t want to know about your problems and if you start talking about them he will just say that he has other plans and that he needs to rush off.<\/p>\n<p>When you call him saying that you&#8217;re not feeling too good, he might just tell you that he&#8217;s busy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> You&#8217;ve never met any of his friends or family<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93688\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/frustrated-girl-sit-on-bed-and-thinking-of-relationship-problem.jpg\" alt=\"chica frustrada sentada en la cama y pensando en problemas de pareja\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/frustrated-girl-sit-on-bed-and-thinking-of-relationship-problem.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/frustrated-girl-sit-on-bed-and-thinking-of-relationship-problem-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/frustrated-girl-sit-on-bed-and-thinking-of-relationship-problem-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t include you in group activities. Ever. He doesn&#8217;t want you to be around his friends, because they might know by now that you&#8217;re nothing but a hit-and-run\u2019 girl.<\/p>\n<p>And also, in case his family don\u2019t live halfway across the country, he makes sure you don\u2019t cross paths with them.<\/p>\n<p>Si nunca has visto a ninguno de los miembros de su familia ni has conocido a ninguno de sus amigos, puede que para \u00e9l no seas m\u00e1s que un bot\u00edn.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Todo gira en torno al sexo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93689\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-takes-off-womans-red-dress.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre le quita el vestido rojo a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-takes-off-womans-red-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-takes-off-womans-red-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-takes-off-womans-red-dress-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If every time you try talking with him or even texting him, he turns it into an opportunity for him to tell you how much he looks forward to hooking up with you, then you&#8217;re just a booty call.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, en las relaciones, los miembros de la pareja tienden a ponerse cachondos cuando est\u00e1n separados y hablan de c\u00f3mo les gustar\u00eda tener sexo ahora mismo, pero si <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.com\/sex-love\/news\/a59341\/what-he-says-after-sex-vs-what-he-actually-means\/\" rel=\"noopener\">everything he&#8217;s talking about refers to sex<\/a>, then there&#8217;s a problem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nunca se queda a dormir<\/h2>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t want to cuddle after sex and he&#8217;s gone right after it&#8217;s done. He simply never stays the night.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ve seen him flirt with other women<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93690\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/upset-woman-looking-at-couple.jpg\" alt=\"mujer disgustada mirando a la pareja\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/upset-woman-looking-at-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/upset-woman-looking-at-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/upset-woman-looking-at-couple-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo hace constantemente. Delante de ti, a tus espaldas, e incluso puede estar flirteando con tus amigas.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, de alguna manera, siempre menciona a otras mujeres en las conversaciones.<\/p>\n<p>He may not be dating them, but he makes sure that you know that you&#8217;re not the only woman in his life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He doesn&#8217;t want to talk about serious topics with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93691\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de una pareja en conflicto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He just runs away or he puts up walls so you can&#8217;t talk to him.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t want to talk to you about your relationship because you might find out that he doesn&#8217;t have feelings for you and you&#8217;ll bring him into an awkward situation.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re simply not important enough for him to talk with you about this, because, believe me, he won&#8217;t shed a tear if you leave.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t plan a future together<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93692\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-couple-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"pareja triste en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-couple-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-couple-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-couple-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He never talks about your future, and he doesn&#8217;t even plan dates in advance.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que hace es llamarte y exigirte que le veas enseguida, porque planearlo puede darte la falsa idea de que realmente le gustas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cambia su comportamiento despu\u00e9s del sexo<\/h2>\n<p>Before you lie down with him, he&#8217;s the cutest, sweetest guy alive, but right after he gets what he wants, he turns into a real asshole. This is the biggest warning sign out there.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-93685 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him-Pinterest-1-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 se\u00f1ales de que para \u00e9l s\u00f3lo eres un bot\u00edn\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him-Pinterest-1-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him-Pinterest-1-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him-Pinterest-1-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him-Pinterest-1-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him-Pinterest-1-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him-Pinterest-1.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I have nothing against the concept of a booty call. But when you want a serious relationship, when you&#8217;re ready to commit to your lover, because you see how compatible you are, being a booty call isn&#8217;t really something you want. If both partners are defining the relationship like that, then&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":93682,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-That-Youre-Just-A-Booty-Call-To-Him.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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