{"id":10751,"date":"2017-12-21T11:12:01","date_gmt":"2017-12-21T11:12:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10751"},"modified":"2022-02-28T02:20:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T02:20:03","slug":"6-mentiras-comunes-puede-oir-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-mentiras-comunes-puede-oir-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"6 mentiras comunes que puedes o\u00edr de tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La mayor\u00eda de las veces, los ex novios se cuelan en nuestras vidas queriendo volver a formar parte de ellas.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s not even about second chances, it\u2019s about reminding you that they are still there and that they have an influence on your life.<\/p>\n<p>They might be doing it on a subconscious level but deep down they can\u2019t really process the fact that you could actually be happy without them. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/hombre-que-piensa-que-no-puede-vivir-sin\/\">They thought you couldn\u2019t live without them.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hell, even you thought you couldn\u2019t but look at you, living and everything.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque hayas continuado con tu vida, ten cuidado porque puede que a\u00fan te queden emociones y te sorprendas a ti mismo cayendo en sus mentiras.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1 la lista de las mentiras m\u00e1s comunes que puedes escuchar de tu ex:<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. \u201cHow are you?\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de meses y meses sin contacto alguno, de repente se interesa por tu bienestar. S\u00ed, claro. \u00bfD\u00f3nde estaba \u00e9l cuando pasaste todas esas noches llorando hasta quedarte dormida porque actuaba como un idiota?<\/p>\n<p>Aunque te diga que s\u00f3lo quiere saber c\u00f3mo est\u00e1s o que quiere seguir en contacto, lo m\u00e1s probable es que est\u00e9 tanteando el terreno. S\u00f3lo quiere ver si todav\u00eda puede tenerte de vuelta si quiere. Si le respondes con un mensaje de texto, s\u00f3lo estar\u00e1s alimentando su ego.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. \u201cCan I come over? I just want to talk.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Booty call alert. If all he wanted to do was talk he would ask you out to a public place. If he wants to come over, especially at night, you don\u2019t have to think too hard about his intentions.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably lonely and he might even miss you, but that doesn\u2019t mean anything has changed. Sure, you can spend a great night together and he will probably go the next morning but that\u2019s not something you want or need.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. \u201cI miss you.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you get this text at 2 a.m. know that he is just drunk and alone. He\u2019s emotional and he might be regretting losing you. Those feelings of his are temporary.<\/p>\n<p>Si fuera el hombre que necesitas, no tendr\u00eda necesidad de echarte de menos porque nunca te perder\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-10779 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/allef-vinicius-476385-1.jpg\" alt=\"Hombre en el campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/allef-vinicius-476385-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/allef-vinicius-476385-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/allef-vinicius-476385-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/allef-vinicius-476385-1-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/allef-vinicius-476385-1-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. \u201cNobody gets us.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>He is probably thinking about your friends and family and all the accidental bystanders who keep telling you, \u201cYou are better off without him.\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-manipulaciones-astutas-que-usan-los-hombres-para-seducir-a-las-chicas\/\">Probablemente est\u00e1 tratando de venderte alguna historia pat\u00e9tica...<\/a> que lo que ten\u00edais era especial y que nadie pod\u00eda entenderlo salvo vosotros dos.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, there are tons of people who had a special relationship with their ex, but no, that doesn\u2019t mean they are getting back together. There is a reason exes are in the past.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. \u201cI just want to be friends.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Classic. It\u2019s like saying, \u201cI am not cut out to be your boyfriend. I am not ready to commit but I want you in my life.\u201d Probably because you were his greatest support and someone who knew how to listen and understand.<\/p>\n<p>If he hasn\u2019t been a good boyfriend, he sure as hell doesn\u2019t deserve to be your friend.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. \u201cI am really happy you are in love again.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Of course, he is not happy for you. Ever since he saw your relationship status change, he can\u2019t stop picturing you hooking up <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/viendo-feliz-a-alguien-que-rompio-pedazos\/\">con otra persona<\/a>. Somebody who isn\u2019t him.<\/p>\n<p>Pens\u00f3 que ser\u00eda el due\u00f1o de tu cuerpo y de tu mente durante toda la vida, aunque ya no forme parte de tu vida. Esta es su manera de meterse en tu cabeza.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>More often than not, ex-boyfriends come sneaking into our lives wanting to be a part of it again. Sometimes it\u2019s not even about second chances, it\u2019s about reminding you that they are still there and that they have an influence on your life. 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