{"id":10871,"date":"2020-07-02T12:46:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T12:46:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10871"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:54:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:54:43","slug":"no-te-encarines-mas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-encarines-mas\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que ya no me encari\u00f1o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ya no me encari\u00f1o porque aprend\u00ed que la gente me dejar\u00e1 por muy bueno que haya sido con ellos.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tarde o temprano crear\u00e1n un problema de la nada y, debido a su orgullo, me tachar\u00e1n de la lista de sus amigos.<\/p>\n

Y acabar\u00e9 llorando de nuevo, maldiciendo mi mala suerte por no poder ser feliz.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned that sometimes it is better to let go of the toxic people.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because of them, I was putting myself last and that is something I don\u2019t want to do anymore. This time, I want to anteponerme a m\u00ed mismo<\/a> porque me lo merezco.<\/p>\n

Y los que entran en mi vida tienen que demostrarme que son dignos de estar ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I don\u2019t want to be the only one who is attached.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a friendship or love where I will be the only one trying. I don\u2019t want to be the only one making an effort for things to work.<\/p>\n

Quiero que los dem\u00e1s me demuestren que me quieren tal como soy y que quieren que forme parte de sus vidas.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I suffered every time a person abandoned me.<\/i><\/b> And that is something I don\u2019t want to feel anymore.<\/p>\n

Por mucho que me guste algo que hace alguien, nunca revelar\u00e9 del todo mis emociones. En lugar de eso, parecer\u00e9 una zorra de sangre fr\u00eda, porque nadie quiere hacer da\u00f1o a una persona as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Everybody thinks that she is too strong and that they can\u2019t do any harm to her.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I finally learned to move on.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need people to complete me because I am enough for myself. They can just be a part of my life but I will never give myself all in.<\/p>\n

And it is not because I don\u2019t want to but because I am too scared to get hurt again.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned to feel good in my own skin.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need people to make me happy<\/a> porque si tuviera que depender de ellos, siempre estar\u00eda triste.<\/p>\n

I learned that the only one who should run my life is me and that I can just listen to people\u2019s suggestions but in the end do things my way.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I don\u2019t have any more tears to cry.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Antes de esta decisi\u00f3n, yo era una chica que amaba ciegamente a todas las personas sin saber siquiera que algunas de ellas quer\u00edan hacerle da\u00f1o. Pensaba que todas las personas eran buenas porque yo soy as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t believe that someone could sit with you and drink coffee one day and the next day gossip about you behind your back.<\/p>\n

Y cada vez que eso ocurr\u00eda lloraba hasta quedarme dormida, pregunt\u00e1ndome por qu\u00e9 me pasaban cosas as\u00ed cuando nunca quise que les ocurriera algo malo.<\/p>\n

No dejaba de preguntarme si hab\u00eda gente buena como yo, que s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda vivir y dejar que los dem\u00e1s hicieran lo mismo. Pero, por desgracia, nunca obtuve una respuesta.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned to love myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need anyone to give me the love I deserve because I will give it to myself. That will be the best gift I ever gave to myself and I am very proud of that.<\/p>\n

Esta vez, siento de verdad que soy digno y que Soy suficiente.<\/a><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I finally realized that you cannot force love to stay.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If it is destined, love will leave you, not because you don\u2019t deserve that kind of love but because you deserve a better one.<\/p>\n

Now I know that I can\u2019t have everything just because I want it but there are other people who have an effect on that.<\/p>\n

I just hope that one day, heaven will bless me with the kind of love I crave so much\u2014the one that feels like home.<\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned that people will leave me no matter how good I was to them. Sooner or later they will make a problem out of nothing and because of their pride, they will just cross me off the list of their friends. And I will end up in tears…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":103757,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Is-Why-I-Dont-Get-Attached-Anymore.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10871"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10871\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103757"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}