{"id":109086,"date":"2020-11-02T12:41:19","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T12:41:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=109086"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:07:10","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:07:10","slug":"chicos-como-yo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chicos-como-yo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no le gusto a los chicos? 13 maneras de alejarlos sin querer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Why don’t guys like me? It seems that pretty girls like mi mejor amigo<\/a> get all the attention and I’m stuck here hoping for that first date that just isn’t coming. What am I doing wrong?<\/em><\/p>\n

First of all, looks aren’t everything. While I’m certain that you’re a beautiful woman, there are numerous characteristics that you have to factor in when it comes to winning over guys.<\/p>\n

Puede ser especialmente duro para las j\u00f3venes que a\u00fan est\u00e1n en el instituto y no est\u00e1n seguras de qu\u00e9 tipo de chico necesitan realmente.<\/p>\n

Pero d\u00e9jenme decirles algo. Si pudiera volver atr\u00e1s en el tiempo y cambiar algo, sin duda ser\u00eda la presi\u00f3n a la que me somet\u00eda por querer parecer una supermodelo.<\/p>\n

I was so sure that the whole nice girl thing wouldn’t get me anywhere, so I did everything in my power to be the kind of girl I thought guys want. Vaya si me equivoqu\u00e9.<\/em><\/p>\n

These things come with age but you should know that being good-looking isn’t the key to getting el hombre adecuado<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

And by focusing on all the wrong things, you’re ruining your chances of finding him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trying too hard to be someone you’re not and obsessing over every little thing is off-putting.<\/p>\n

But don’t worry, I’m going to help you out so that you never have to wonder what’s wrong with you again.<\/p>\n

A continuaci\u00f3n, revelo 13 things that guys (secretly) can’t stand<\/a> sobre las chicas y c\u00f3mo puedes cambiar las cosas r\u00e1pidamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Why Don’t Guys Like Me? These Are The Most Likely Reasons<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Because you think you’re not good enough (and it shows)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Here’s the best dating advice you’ll hear today. If you don’t consider yourself good enough, they won’t either.<\/p>\n

Recu\u00e9rdalo.<\/p>\n

Todo empieza con la percepci\u00f3n que uno tiene de s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Guys pick up on things like that. If you’re constantly questioning your every move and apologizing every two minutes, it starts getting exhausting.<\/p>\n

No wonder you often ask yourself: Why don’t guys want to date me? It\u2019s because you make yourself appear unappealing.<\/p>\n

Cuanto antes empieces a crear una imagen m\u00e1s positiva de ti mismo en tu cabeza, mejor te ir\u00e1. amar la vida<\/a> conseguir\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Te suele gustar su IDEA, no el tipo en s\u00ed.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You fall for the Tinder version, the kind of guy who only exists in movies, so when you see them in real life, you start pulling away. That’s not cool.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if a guy ran away the moment he realized that you weren\u2019t this perfect Barbie he had created in his mind? It would feel horrible.<\/p>\n

You’ll never find the right guy as long as you hold on to this idea of a perfect guy who doesn’t exist.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Noticia de \u00faltima hora! Todo el mundo tiene defectos. T\u00fa, yo, el tipo de al lado, incluso Brad Pitt es (probablemente) totalmente defectuoso.<\/p>\n

But that doesn’t make a person any less worthy. It just makes them human.<\/p>\n

Pierdes inter\u00e9s en el momento en que un chico empieza a preocuparse por ti.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Este es tu modus operandi. Sueles suspirar por un chico durante semanas antes de hacer un movimiento.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a imaginar en tu cabeza escenarios perfectos en los que est\u00e1is juntos y te sientes como en un sue\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Secretamente esperas que se fije en ti y... hace el primer movimiento<\/a>. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando lo hace y realmente tienes tu oportunidad, pierdes el inter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Suddenly, when he’s no longer the forbidden fruit that you secretly fantasize about, it’s no longer as exciting or dreamy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But here’s the deal. Life isn’t a fantasy. It’s very much real.<\/p>\n

Perder el inter\u00e9s en el momento en que consigues que alguien se interese por ti demuestra inseguridad por tu parte.<\/p>\n

Could it be that you’re not actually ready for commitment or are there other underlying factors at play here?<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Qu\u00e9 es una relaci\u00f3n exclusiva y 15 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s en una<\/a><\/p>\n

You try way too hard to be someone you’re not<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t believe all those dating sites, nobody looks that way in real life! We can all take a hot pic and use Photoshop.<\/p>\n

But trying so hard to look a certain way (when it couldn’t be further from who you really are) is just sad.<\/p>\n

Guys don’t like girls who look and talk like every other single girl they’ve ever dated.<\/p>\n

They like a woman who has something to say. A woman who looks the way she looks and doesn’t feel the need to conform to society’s rules.<\/p>\n

That’s what’s hot and that’s what gets you dates.<\/p>\n

Just ask your guy friends what kind of girls they like and you’ll see what I mean. Substance over beauty any day.<\/p>\n

Analizas en exceso cada uno de sus movimientos y le das demasiadas vueltas a las cosas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Your body language gives you away every time. The way you can’t calm your hands when you’re suspicious over where he was.<\/p>\n

The way your eyes roll when he tells you he was at his buddy’s house.<\/p>\n

The way you constantly text him, asking about his whereabouts and making him feel stalked. Just like you don’t like being controlled, neither do guys.<\/p>\n

Overanalyzing your man’s every move gets you further and further away from him. It shows a severe lack of trust and insecurity that plagues your relationship.<\/p>\n

Te preocupas m\u00e1s por verte bien que por ser amable<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Looking great doesn\u2019t get you the guy. Sure, it’ll attract him toward you and keep him around for a bit but ultimately, if you’re not kind, respectful and considerate, you can call it quits.<\/p>\n

Don’t go around saying things like, \u201cGuys don’t like me and I have no idea why,\u201d<\/em> if all you put into the relationship is your looks. That’s never going to be enough.<\/p>\n

Si quieres que este chico se convierta en tu mejor amigo, tiene que haber una conexi\u00f3n genuina entre vosotros dos.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones superficiales se marchitan m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido de lo que imaginas.<\/p>\n

Tienes la costumbre de publicar demasiadas cosas demasiado pronto en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

The first time you go on a date, you take a pic and post it. You don’t even give it a second thought.<\/p>\n

Ever since high school, you’ve loved documenting every part of your life.<\/p>\n

But here’s the deal. You can totally post whatever you want, as long as it doesn’t make your date feel awkward.<\/p>\n

Te imaginas c\u00f3mo se sentir\u00eda al ver una foto inesperada de vosotros dos en Instagram con hashtags como 1TP5Mejoresobjetivosdepareja o 1TP5Mejoresobjetivosque los tuyos<\/em> incluso antes de hacerlo oficial?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering, \u201cWhy don’t guys like me?\u201d<\/em> esta es la raz\u00f3n Deja de saltarte pasos. Lleva tiempo evolucionar hasta esta fase y las prisas s\u00f3lo pueden perjudicarte.<\/p>\n

Su qu\u00edmica f\u00edsica mola pero le falta en todos los dem\u00e1s departamentos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me encanta un chico que puede animarme sin que yo tenga que decirle que lo necesito. Eso demuestra una conexi\u00f3n real.<\/p>\n

Y aunque me encanta el contacto f\u00edsico (un aspecto importante, sin duda), la conexi\u00f3n emocional y mental es igual de vital.<\/p>\n

How can you be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t get how you think?<\/p>\n

The physical aspect will only take you so far but for as long as you don’t nurture every other part of a relationship, guys will have a tendency to hit the road.<\/p>\n

Contrariamente a la creencia popular, el sexo no es lo \u00fanico que los hombres quieren de una relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> The more mature he is, the more inclined he’ll be to leave if things aren’t clicking in every way.<\/p>\n

Siempre vas a por hombres no disponibles (y te quemas siempre)<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Here are my two cents on relationships. Always go for a guy who can make you LOL when you’re feeling down, as opposed to someone who only likes your perky derri\u00e8re.<\/p>\n

Haven’t you learned by now? If you keep yearning for guys who are clearly not bueno para ti,<\/a> you’ll always get burned.<\/p>\n

The whole bad boy shtick doesn’t get you your happily-ever-after.<\/p>\n

Y tengo la sensaci\u00f3n de que ya lo sabes pero, de alguna manera, sigues esperando lo contrario.<\/p>\n

You’re too clingy and don’t have a life outside of the relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto es contraproducente para una relaci\u00f3n duradera.<\/p>\n

While it’s comforting and reassuring having someone you want to spend every second with, you both need space of your own.<\/p>\n

Your love life will never thrive as long as you keep the guy as the center of your universe. Guys get scared away when they realize you’re being too clingy.<\/p>\n

No tener vida fuera de la relaci\u00f3n les hace temer lo que les depara el futuro.<\/p>\n

The longer you’re together, the clingier you’ll become, which could easily turn into possessiveness and that’s the last thing anyone would find attractive.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 4 formas de superar con \u00e9xito la din\u00e1mica rom\u00e1ntica de empujar y tirar<\/a><\/p>\n

You’re excessively confident (which translates as arrogant)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Back in high school, no one was ever quite as confident and self-assured as you. And while you took it as a good thing, others didn’t.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, tu alta autoestima puede traducirse como arrogante.<\/p>\n

I know that you probably aren’t like that but it’s important to be self-aware. Be confident but don’t act like you’re better than others. It’s an ugly personality trait.<\/p>\n

Humility goes a long way. Guys don’t appreciate someone who always acts condescending and like they know better.<\/p>\n

Even if you do think that you’re always right, don’t let others know. Stay true to yourself but give credit where credit is due.<\/p>\n

Te falta prop\u00f3sito y pasi\u00f3n en la vida<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t let yourself be a 30-year old woman with no purpose in life other than finding a guy. That’s not cute.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow yourself to get to a primera cita<\/a> and when the guy inevitably asks you about your hopes and dreams, you just shrug it off. That’s a major red flag.<\/p>\n

Claro que no todo el mundo tiene la vida resuelta, pero al menos hay que saber lo que se quiere y trabajar para conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

Si sigues dejando que las cosas fluyan, sin saber de d\u00f3nde vendr\u00e1 tu pr\u00f3xima paga, los chicos huir\u00e1n a las colinas.<\/p>\n

They don’t need a girl who’ll depend on them for everything.<\/p>\n

Relationships are 50-50. You get as much as you’re ready to give.<\/p>\n

Hablas mal de tus ex, lo que hace que los chicos duden en acercarse a ti.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las principales cosas que los chicos encuentran profundamente poco atractivo<\/a>. Who’s to say that you won’t talk badly about him if things don’t work out?<\/p>\n

A nadie le gusta que hablen de \u00e9l a sus espaldas.<\/p>\n

If your reputation precedes you, it’s time to re-evaluate it. What do you really get out of badmouthing an ex?<\/p>\n

\u00bfLe produce alegr\u00eda o una sensaci\u00f3n de cierre?<\/p>\n

In my experience, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth that won’t go away as long as you cling on to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So don’t be surprised if guys aren’t that into you right now.<\/p>\n

How could they be? They all fear that one day, you’ll start spreading rumors about them that aren’t necessarily true.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes cambiar las cosas y gustar a los chicos?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Cambia tu mentalidad = cambia tu vida<\/h2>\n

\"imagen<\/p>\n

Esto es algo que todo joven necesita o\u00edr. Tu mentalidad es lo que controla no solo tu vida amorosa, sino toda tu vida.<\/p>\n

The way you think is how you allow yourself to act. And if you’re insecure and feel unworthy, that’s what you’re going to project into the world. So stop.<\/p>\n

M\u00edrate al espejo. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que ves? Una mujer fuerte, capaz y hermosa que ha pasado por muchas cosas y sigue en pie.<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

A woman who knows her worth and doesn’t let anyone affect it.<\/p>\n

THAT’s what you need to tell yourself every time you think you’re not good enough.<\/p>\n

Remind yourself of every painful memory and heartache you’ve survived and realize what a badass you are.<\/p>\n

Te gusta un chico por lo que es, no por lo que QUIERES que sea.<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Esta es otra gran cosa. Tienes que dejar de crear falsas percepciones de los chicos en tu cabeza. Nadie es perfecto.<\/p>\n

We’ve all got stuff we’re dealing with.<\/p>\n

But guess what? That doesn’t make anyone any less worthy or acceptable. Embrace people for who they are.<\/p>\n

Acepta sus peque\u00f1as man\u00edas y sus molestos defectos. T\u00fa tambi\u00e9n los tienes y todos los que te rodean tambi\u00e9n. Si eso hiciera que la gente no tuviera citas, todo el mundo estar\u00eda soltero.<\/p>\n

Relationships are based on accepting each other’s flaws and respecting their individuality. Learn it, practice it, live it.<\/p>\n

Don’t let yourself pull away the moment it starts getting real<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo entiendo. A m\u00ed tambi\u00e9n me asustaba el compromiso. Despu\u00e9s de haber pasado por relaci\u00f3n TEPT<\/a>abrirse se convirti\u00f3 en un verdadero reto.<\/p>\n

But do you know what I realized? If I keep believing that everyone is going to be like my ex, I’m never going to find love.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que me puse en marcha, me enfrent\u00e9 a mis miedos y aprend\u00ed a dar una oportunidad a los chicos. Por suerte, con el tiempo, encontr\u00e9 a mi alma gemela.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t happen overnight and it’s not easy but the sooner you allow yourself to let people in, the easier it becomes.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 T\u00da MISMO (los dem\u00e1s ya est\u00e1n ocupados)<\/h2>\n

\"adorable<\/p>\n

\u201cThere is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.\u201d \u2015 Steve Maraboli<\/p>\n

Don’t for a second think that someone else is better than you just because they look different (prettier) in your eyes.<\/p>\n

Your value isn’t based on how well you can pretend to be what others want you to be. It’s all about being your true, authentic self in a world full of copycats.<\/p>\n

Besides, by not conforming to anyone’s norms, you’re going to stand out from the crowd. And what’s cooler than that?<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 6 maneras de ser leal a uno mismo y por qu\u00e9 es tan importante<\/a><\/p>\n

En el momento en que empieces a pensar demasiado, DETENTE y haz algo productivo.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En serio, pensar demasiado es lo peor para una relaci\u00f3n duradera.<\/p>\n

It creates scenarios that aren’t real, breeds distrust and leads to serious issues that aren’t really there.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que la pr\u00f3xima vez que te sorprendas a ti mismo sobreanalizando una situaci\u00f3n perfectamente simple, detente.<\/p>\n

Cuenta hasta diez antes de decir algo de lo que puedas arrepentirte y aprende a confiar en la gente.<\/p>\n

If your man says something, why is your first instinct to think he’s lying?<\/strong> Just because your ex had a habit of being disloyal, it doesn’t give you the right to treat your current man the same.<\/p>\n

If he gives you no reason to overthink something, then don’t. It’s going to do wonders for your mind and your relationship.<\/p>\n

It’s what’s inside that counts (good looks will only get you so far)<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u201cNo hay modelo, ni actriz, ni aspirante a Miss Am\u00e9rica que pueda eclipsar a una mujer feliz, confiada y segura de s\u00ed misma.<\/em>\u201d \u2015 Mandy Hale<\/p>\n

Amen! Being pretty isn’t all that. Having a nice rack isn’t a guarantee for a happy love life.<\/p>\n

Tener un bot\u00edn que a los chicos les encanta mirar<\/a> at won’t get you a deeper connection. Why? Because without a happy, confident, kind personality, you’ll never get what you want in life.<\/p>\n

As I’ve already mentioned, chicos se enamoran de<\/a> belleza pero se quedan para la clase (con una pizca de descaro).<\/p>\n

Work on how you treat others and how respectful and understanding you are. Don’t put all your efforts into looking like a Greek goddess. Be good-looking but exude kindness!<\/p>\n

Deja las redes sociales fuera de tu relaci\u00f3n (al menos al principio)<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Let me give you a priceless piece of dating advice. Leave your phone alone while you’re experiencing those first stages of a relationship.<\/p>\n

The world doesn’t need to know who you’re seeing or how things are going. Some things are sacred, don’t you agree?<\/p>\n

Out of respect for your date, keep things between yourselves for a while. It’s only going to be more amazing, knowing that he is your little secret that no one knows about.<\/p>\n

That way, even if things don’t work out, you’ll avoid having to explain to everyone the ins and outs of your two-week courtship.<\/p>\n

Aprender a conectar a nivel emocional<\/h2>\n

\"dulce<\/p>\n

Para que una relaci\u00f3n funcione de verdad, tiene que haber una conexi\u00f3n genuina sobre la que se pueda construir.<\/p>\n

Tiene que haber algo de sustancia que te permita ver a esta persona como algo m\u00e1s que alguien muy sexy.<\/p>\n

The physical aspect of a relationship is so important but if you devote all your efforts into being under the sheets and neglect to connect mentally and emotionally, there’s really nothing there.<\/p>\n

If you want a future with this person, make sure you feel comfortable, seen and heard when you’re with them. If all they are is a really good booty call, that’s all they’ll ever be.<\/p>\n

Stop going for guys you know you can’t have<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We all yearn for what we can’t have; that\u2019s the allure of forbidden fruit.<\/p>\n

And the more you’re told that this guy is unavailable, the more you’ll lust after him.<\/p>\n

This is something I can understand if you’re still really, really young.<\/p>\n

Pero a medida que te conviertes en una mujer madura y capaz, tu gusto por los hombres deber\u00eda seguirte.<\/p>\n

If you know that someone is taken, don’t plot a way to his heart. It won’t end well.<\/p>\n

Ah\u00f3rrate la angustia<\/a> de enamorarte de hombres inalcanzables e inaccesibles y ve a por alguien con quien puedas tener un futuro.<\/p>\n

Encuentra la alegr\u00eda en la vida antes de encontrarla con un hombre<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto es lo que mi madre siempre me ha dicho y estoy m\u00e1s que agradecida de haberle hecho caso.<\/p>\n

As long as you’re unfulfilled and unhappy with your own life, a man can never truly make you feel whole.<\/p>\n

You need to find it in yourself first. Find that thing that motivates you to wake up every morning. Search for something that’ll give your life meaning.<\/p>\n

Encuentra la plenitud en ti misma antes de encontrar a un hombre con el que compartir\u00e1s una vida.<\/p>\n

That is a sure-fire way to create a happy, healthy, lasting bond that won’t end in tears and disappointment.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 15 cosas que deber\u00eda incluir en su lista de necesidades sentimentales<\/a><\/p>\n

Work on your demeanor – you can be both confident and kind<\/h2>\n

\"linda<\/p>\n

Para m\u00ed, no hay nada m\u00e1s atractivo que una mujer hermosa con un coraz\u00f3n de oro.<\/p>\n

Just because you look like a supermodel, it doesn’t mean that you should stop being kind.<\/p>\n

No dejas de pregunt\u00e1rtelo: \u201cWhy don’t guys like me?\u201d<\/em> \u00bfHa pensado alguna vez que \u00e9sta podr\u00eda ser la raz\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

Haz un examen de conciencia y averigua por qu\u00e9 tipo de persona quieres que te recuerden.<\/p>\n

While we’re at it, I’ll just leave this jaw-dropping quote here, and let you do what you want with it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.\u201d \u2015 Maya Angelou<\/p>\n

Persigue tus sue\u00f1os y metas para encontrar la plenitud que buscas en los hombres<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don’t ever put your life on hold while on a quest for a guy.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo estar\u00e1s resentido contigo mismo el resto de tu vida, sino que tambi\u00e9n provocar\u00e1 confusi\u00f3n e infelicidad en tu entorno. tu vida amorosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Maybe guys don’t like you because you put all your focus on them and stop thinking about your life outside of the relationship.<\/p>\n

But you can easily put an end to that. Follow your passion. Go after that job you’ve wanted since you were in high school.<\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t do anything. You know your own abilities.<\/p>\n

Don’t let anyone limit them and instead, reach for the stars. Happiness lies outside of your comfort zone.<\/p>\n

Mant\u00e9n los asuntos de la relaci\u00f3n en privado por respeto a tu ex<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A lot of people I know tend to bad-mouth their ex the moment it’s over. But to me, this is the worst quality in a person.<\/p>\n

Unless he truly did you wrong, don’t stoop to that level. Be better than that. Leave the past in the past and move on to better things. It’s much more dignified.<\/p>\n

Your break-up may suck but that doesn’t mean that you get to trash-talk the guy the next day just because you’re dissatisfied with your own life.<\/p>\n

If things didn’t work out, that’s tough but everything that went wrong can serve as a lesson on what to do better next time.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Buena suerte con tu chico!<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Hopefully, I’ve managed to answer your question: \u201cWhy don’t guys like me?\u201d<\/em> Here’s what I hope you take away from this article.<\/p>\n

You can look like a legit supermodel but if you don’t put any effort into being a kind person, it’ll never work out.<\/p>\n

Guys are attracted to pretty girls but it’s the personality that makes them stay!<\/strong><\/p>\n

So stop focusing on the wrong things. Be confident but don’t push them away.<\/p>\n

Know what you want in a guy but don’t try to change them into something they’re not. Appreciate your conexi\u00f3n emocional<\/a> tanto como el f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

Relationships are tough work. You’re not always going to like this person, no matter how hot they are.<\/p>\n

So it’s important for there to be a genuine bond, so as to have something to hold on to cuando las cosas se ponen dif\u00edciles<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now, read all of this again if you have to and go get that man I know you’re pining for.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 aut\u00e9ntico y deja que las cosas evolucionen a su ritmo natural.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo atraer a un chico: 19 maneras infalibles de llamar su atenci\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why don’t guys like me? It seems that pretty girls like my best friend get all the attention and I’m stuck here hoping for that first date that just isn’t coming. What am I doing wrong? First of all, looks aren’t everything. While I’m certain that you’re a beautiful woman, there are numerous characteristics that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":109515,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-109086","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Why-Dont-Guys-Like-Me_-13-Ways-You-Accidentally-Drive-Them-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109086","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=109086"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109086\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=109086"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=109086"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=109086"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}