{"id":10939,"date":"2020-04-22T13:50:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T13:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10939"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:28:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:28:12","slug":"dejar-ir-lo-mas-dificil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dejar-ir-lo-mas-dificil\/","title":{"rendered":"Dejarte ir es lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil del mundo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Lo vi todo en la forma en que me hablabas, en c\u00f3mo me mirabas, en c\u00f3mo me abrazabas. Lo vi venir. El acto desgarrador de una ruptura.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ten\u00eda que ser as\u00ed? T\u00fa encima de m\u00ed, mirando a tu ya ex novia llorando y suplic\u00e1ndote que dijeras que estabas bromeando.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But with the look on your face, I was pretty sure that you weren&#8217;t joking. You were dead serious when you told me that you didn&#8217;t love me anymore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Quer\u00edas que lo dejara todo y siguiera adelante, como har\u00edas t\u00fa. \u00bfAlguna vez pensaste en c\u00f3mo me sent\u00eda en ese momento?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">La forma en que hiciste que dejar ir pareciera lo m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil del mundo, cuando en realidad sent\u00eda que el coraz\u00f3n se me mor\u00eda en el pecho.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">No, I&#8217;m not exaggerating. It was the worst feeling in the world, when you&#8217;re left by the one person that you thought would be there for you for your whole life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Lo hac\u00edamos todo juntos, incluso ten\u00edamos el mismo grupo de amigos. Estaba tan acostumbrada a estar a tu lado, \u00bfc\u00f3mo esperabas que cambiara mi vida por completo despu\u00e9s de que me dejaras?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78674 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-in-denim-jacket-covering-her-face-e1590773895585.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con chaqueta vaquera tap\u00e1ndose la cara\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It&#8217;s not impossible, you were always telling me how much of a strong woman I am, so I can handle it. Do I have any other choice?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So let me tell what \u2018letting you go\u2019 looks like:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>A veces, me olvido de respirar.<\/strong> It&#8217;s not a joke. I really do. When I&#8217;m crying and sobbing, curled up in my bed between a ridiculous amount of pillows, I start choking.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Simplemente me consumo tanto con mis l\u00e1grimas que respirar se vuelve realmente dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The moment I start to feel like I&#8217;m going to be OK and that I\u2019m done with the crying for now, I get a flashback so hard that it breaks me apart and makes me choke on my tears even more.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Siento como si me hubieran arrancado el coraz\u00f3n.<\/strong> Supongo que recuerdas todas esas veces que te dije que mi coraz\u00f3n te pertenec\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a1Nadie m\u00e1s que t\u00fa! Ves, contigo dej\u00e1ndome, tambi\u00e9n mi coraz\u00f3n me dej\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78675 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Me lo arrancaron del pecho, a\u00fan latiendo mientras intentaba atraparte. Fall\u00f3. Mi pobre corazoncito.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I don&#8217;t want anyone else.<\/strong> I want you! Can&#8217;t you see that? I&#8217;m not going to be desperate and beg you to take me back, I&#8217;m too proud for that.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Pero si alguna vez volvieras, me gustar\u00eda decirte que no hay nadie capaz de ocupar tu lugar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I&#8217;d love to say that it&#8217;s only for a certain period of time, but I simply can&#8217;t imagine myself in anyone else&#8217;s arms but yours. How devastating is that?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Imagino que hablo contigo. Lo hago todo el d\u00eda, todos los d\u00edas.<\/strong> I think about something I&#8217;ve been going through and how I would like you to be there for me so I could talk about it with you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You might think I&#8217;m crazy, but I really do imagine that you&#8217;re sitting next to me, carefully listening to my words, giving me advice and hugging me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78673 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-on-the-wind-e1590773868701.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste en el viento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nadie tiene derecho a decirme que dejar ir puede ser f\u00e1cil si intentas hablarlo con alguien o si realmente est\u00e1s dispuesto a dejarlo ir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It\u2019s all just bullshit! I don&#8217;t want to hear it anymore! My head is full of advice from people and magazines telling me to move on and how to do it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">They keep telling me that it&#8217;s the will that succeeds, I want to forget you and move on, BUT I CAN&#8217;T! It&#8217;s the hardest thing in this world.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I&#8217;m really sorry for writing this to you, as you&#8217;re probably extremely happy right now, somewhere far away from me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Maybe you&#8217;re not even thinking about me anymore. But I&#8217;m thinking about you. A lot. I know this won&#8217;t change anything but my heart is still in your hands.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Por favor, cu\u00eddalo bien. Siempre ser\u00e1 tuyo.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-78672 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Dejarte ir es lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil del mundo\" width=\"852\" height=\"1278\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 852px) 100vw, 852px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I saw it all in the way you were talking to me, the way you were looking at me, the way you were hugging me. I saw it coming. The heartbreaking act of a break-up. Why did it have to be that way? You standing above me, looking down on your already ex-girlfriend crying and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":78671,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10939"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10939\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78671"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10939"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10939"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}