{"id":10949,"date":"2020-11-22T14:24:21","date_gmt":"2020-11-22T14:24:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10949"},"modified":"2022-07-23T09:19:15","modified_gmt":"2022-07-23T09:19:15","slug":"el-lado-feo-de-dejar-ir-y-decir-adios-a-tu-amor-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-lado-feo-de-dejar-ir-y-decir-adios-a-tu-amor-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"El lado feo de dejar ir y decir adi\u00f3s a tu amor t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las relaciones t\u00f3xicas siempre son m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles de terminar.<\/p>\n

Son personas que nunca pierden la esperanza en un ma\u00f1ana mejor y piensan que con la dosis adecuada de amor y afecto, todo puede cambiar a mejor. Pero eso es un error.<\/p>\n

Si usted es vivir con un hombre t\u00f3xico<\/a>nunca podr\u00e1 cambiar, especialmente por tu culpa. Si cambia, ser\u00e1 porque \u00e9l quiere hacerlo.<\/p>\n

He will never accept the fact that he was so weak that he transformed into someone he didn\u2019t want to become because of a woman. And that is where all the problems begin.<\/p>\n

A toxic man will do things that satisfy him only and he won\u2019t care about you or your wishes.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 sentir remordimientos constantemente porque eres feliz. Y ver\u00e1 que todo le parece bien porque ser feliz es algo bueno y normal.<\/p>\n

But in his presence, you will feel down and you won\u2019t talk so much.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tal vez eso ocurra porque don\u2019t know what to say<\/a> a un hombre que nunca te escucha. Puede que cuando est\u00e1s con \u00e9l te preguntes c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda tu vida si le dejaras.<\/p>\n

Then, you start thinking that you are not good enough and that maybe another man will not love you like your partner does. But darling, listen to me please\u2014he is doing everything but loving you.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 convirtiendo tu vida en un infierno cada d\u00eda. Cada vez que quieres volar, viene a cortarte las alas. Y t\u00fa s\u00f3lo alimentas tu amor con las migajas de su mesa.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Porque ese es el \u00fanico amor que te da. Nunca fue un hombre lo suficientemente bueno para darte todo el amor que tiene. Es un taca\u00f1o y nunca lo dar\u00e1 todo. Pero exige que le demuestres cu\u00e1nto le quieres.<\/p>\n

Y por mucho que practiques lo que le vas a decir y le hagas recapacitar sobre sus errores, al final, de alguna manera, \u00e9l siempre tiene raz\u00f3n. Tiene la capacidad de lavarte el cerebro y esa es su herramienta para mantenerte cerca.<\/p>\n

Una vez que te convence de que no eres digno, sabe que te quedar\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sabe que por muy mal que se pongan las cosas siempre estar\u00e1s a su lado. Porque para ti, es mejor vivir en una relaci\u00f3n casi que no tener ninguna relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que eres una buena persona y que crees que la gente que te rodea tambi\u00e9n lo es. Pero eso est\u00e1 muy mal. La gente que te rodea s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para disfrutar vi\u00e9ndote caer. Especialmente el hombre con el que vives.<\/p>\n

I know that you want to leave him, but you don\u2019t know what your life will look like after him. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014it will be bad at the beginning.<\/p>\n

Pasar\u00e1s muchas noches en vela y te preguntar\u00e1s qu\u00e9 podr\u00eda haber pasado si te hubieras esforzado un poco m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que llorar\u00e1s hasta quedarte dormida cada noche deseando que estuviera all\u00ed para abrazarte con sus manos t\u00f3xicas.<\/strong><\/em> Porque s\u00f3lo conoces esas manos y por muy t\u00f3xico que sea, te encanta la sensaci\u00f3n cuando te dice que te quiere.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sabes que no te est\u00e1 diciendo la verdad, pero te niegas a creer en ella.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que es dif\u00edcil alejarse de alguien con quien has vivido tantos a\u00f1os. Pero cr\u00e9eme, ese no es el tipo de vida que te mereces.<\/p>\n

Te mereces mucho m\u00e1s que una relaci\u00f3n casi.<\/p>\n

Te mereces que te bese en sue\u00f1os mientras te dice que tiene mucha suerte de tenerte cerca.<\/p>\n

Mereces que te digan que vales y que eres suficiente.<\/p>\n

Mereces que te diga que no importa cu\u00e1ntas chicas quieran estar con \u00e9l, \u00e9l s\u00f3lo quiere a una y eres t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

You deserve the love that feels like home but unfortunately, he can\u2019t provide you with that.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He can just be the man who will beat you to an emotional death and leave you suffering in your own pain. He won\u2019t even ask you if you are okay or if you want him to do something for you.<\/p>\n

He is that kind of a man\u2014selfish and egoistic\u2014so don\u2019t expect the love that you crave so much from him.<\/p>\n

Si quieres ser feliz y sentirte realizada, es mejor que hagas ya algunos cortes importantes en tu vida. Porque cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo pases con \u00e9l, m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil te resultar\u00e1 dejarlo.<\/p>\n

Do yourself a favor and stay away from this man who isn\u2019t capable of loving.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You know that you tried to change and help him so many times, but you can\u2019t help him if he doesn\u2019t want to be helped.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And one day, when you\u2019ve finally had enough and leave, he will see lo que se siente al vivir sin ti<\/a>. He will be totally lost without you but that is a price he has to pay because he didn\u2019t give you the love you deserved.<\/p>\n

Y cuando finalmente lo hagas, cuando finalmente te alejes, te convertir\u00e1s en una mujer totalmente nueva. Te sentir\u00e1s como si hubieras nacido de nuevo y encontrar\u00e1s tu autoestima perdida.<\/p>\n

Encontrar\u00e1s tu verdadero yo que perdiste hace mucho tiempo por estar tan preocupada por cuidarle.<\/p>\n

And remember: a happy relationship doesn\u2019t look like yours with him so make sure that something like that never happens to you again. No matter how much you care for someone, you need to put yourself first.<\/p>\n

Y por mucho que le quieras, \u00a1necesitas quererte m\u00e1s a ti misma!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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