{"id":10969,"date":"2017-12-25T09:53:16","date_gmt":"2017-12-25T09:53:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10969"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:23:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:23:22","slug":"lo-mas-dificil-despedirse-queria-decir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-mas-dificil-despedirse-queria-decir\/","title":{"rendered":"Lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil fue decir adi\u00f3s cuando quer\u00eda dar el \"s\u00ed, quiero\""},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You were making scrambled eggs and blueberries muffins while I was making coffee and setting up the table. It was our little morning dance\u2014something private only the two of us shared.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Me besabas en la frente mientras cog\u00edas los huevos de la nevera. Yo te abrazaba fuerte para calentarme las manos del agua fr\u00eda. Bailar\u00edamos sincronizados por la cocina, sabiendo ad\u00f3nde ir\u00e1 el otro, sabiendo c\u00f3mo se mover\u00e1 el otro.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">S\u00f3lo que aquella ma\u00f1ana, en lugar de girarme para verte esper\u00e1ndome con los brazos abiertos para darme un abrazo, me gir\u00e9 para verte arrodillado y sosteniendo una cajita negra.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Te sonrojabas. Te temblaban las manos mientras a m\u00ed se me saltaban las l\u00e1grimas. <strong>Dije que s\u00ed, y t\u00fa dijiste que claro que s\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I don\u2019t think I could ever imagine us this way. That morning, <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/bree-taylor\/2013\/11\/everything-looks-perfect-from-far-away\/\" rel=\"noopener\">todo parec\u00eda tan perfecto<\/a>. Aquella ma\u00f1ana, los colores eran m\u00e1s vivos, la comida sab\u00eda mejor y las horas de trabajo volaban muy deprisa.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aquella ma\u00f1ana ya me ve\u00eda caminando hacia el altar vestida de novia, con un ramo de petunias mientras t\u00fa me esperabas. Pod\u00eda imaginar que tu cara se transformaba en una sonrisa en cuanto me ve\u00edas. Pero esto, esto nunca lo pude imaginar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t love you\u2014I do.<\/strong> Te quiero con todo mi coraz\u00f3n. Te quiero con ese est\u00fapido tipo de amor, el amor que me hace amar tu m\u00fasica y ver partidos contigo. <strong>Pero yo me quiero m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m still seeing your face in my dreams. The face you had when you came home to see my suitcases at the front door and me sitting in the dark on the couch.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I can still hear your steps, going back and forth like you weren\u2019t sure if you wanted to come in. You turned the lights on, but to me, everything was still in blurred darkness.<strong> Te arrodillaste una vez m\u00e1s, abraz\u00e1ndome las piernas como si quisieras impedir que me fuera.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I was holding the ring in my sweaty palms\u2014the ring I loved so much. It wasn\u2019t an ordinary engagement ring, but neither was our love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ten\u00eda una esmeralda en forma de pera rodeada de diamantes blancos grabados en oro blanco. Una esmeralda a juego con mis ojos y diamantes blancos a juego con tu amor eterno que deb\u00eda mantenerme a salvo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>\u201cDon\u2019t leave me. I\u2019ll be better. You know I never meant to hurt you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Las l\u00e1grimas rodaban de tus ojos mientras besabas mis manos, esperando que me quedara. Levantarme, alejarme de tu abrazo y tus besos fue dif\u00edcil. <strong>Me dol\u00eda como si miles de cuchillos atravesaran todo mi cuerpo una y otra vez.<\/strong> Pero<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/life\/saying-goodbye-time-let-go\" rel=\"noopener\"> diciendo adi\u00f3s<\/a> when I wanted to say \u201cI do\u201d was the hardest.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">El anillo cay\u00f3 al suelo mientras yo hu\u00eda. El anillo que tanto amaba se perdi\u00f3 junto con el hombre al que amaba m\u00e1s que a nada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-10977 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/12121-1.jpg\" alt=\"Lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil fue decir adi\u00f3s cuando quer\u00eda dar el &quot;s\u00ed, quiero&quot;\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/12121-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/12121-1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/12121-1-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>\u201cDear Guests,<\/em><br \/>\n<em>We are sorry to inform you that the wedding is canceled. We hope that the change in plans will not affect your schedules. You will be notified if there will be a rescheduling date. \u201c<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">El vestido de novia lleg\u00f3 al trabajo una semana despu\u00e9s. Hab\u00eda ordenado que llegara all\u00ed, para que no tuvieras oportunidad de verlo. Ya sabes, mala suerte y esas cosas. Pero supongo que ya ten\u00edamos una parte de esa mala suerte.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aquella noche llor\u00e9 hasta quedarme dormida, con el vestido que deb\u00eda llevar el d\u00eda m\u00e1s feliz de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cWe\u2019re sorry ma\u2019am, there\u2019s no return policy for wedding dresses. We\u2019re deeply sorry to hear about your wedding cancellation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-pense-que-sucederia-alguien-como\/\">Nunca pens\u00e9 que esto podr\u00eda pasarme a m\u00ed<\/a>. I never believed that I could ever walk away from the love of my life. But I\u2019ve been through hell.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019ve been broken and abused. I\u2019ve been manipulated and I\u2019m done with men who are not ready to love me like I deserve. And I deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Merezco a alguien que me traiga caf\u00e9 y me prepare el desayuno. <strong>Me quer\u00edas, lo hiciste todo por m\u00ed, me hiciste la mujer m\u00e1s feliz del mundo, pero tambi\u00e9n te acostaste con ella.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>\u201cHey baby girl. I\u2019m just calling to see how you\u2019re doing? You know, we can still get through this. You know I love you, you know that was just a mistake I\u2019ll never do again. Call me, okay?\u201d<\/em><br \/>\nMensaje eliminado<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/i-know-you-love-me-kt\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Te quiero y s\u00e9 que me quieres<\/a>. But seeing the man I love more than I ever believed I could love anyone, seeing the man that made me believe in love again, the man that picked me up and loved me when I couldn\u2019t love myself; seeing that man in bed with another woman is\u2026 indescribable.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes expresar con palabras la sensaci\u00f3n de que tu coraz\u00f3n se rompe en pedazos, de que te duele todo el cuerpo y de que tu futuro desaparece delante de tus ojos? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes olvidar que te traicion\u00f3 la \u00fanica persona que cre\u00edas que nunca te traicionar\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>What do you do when the only person that can stop you from crying is the person that made you cry? I love you, I do. But I had to leave. I had to say goodbye when I wanted to say \u201cI do\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You were making scrambled eggs and blueberries muffins while I was making coffee and setting up the table. It was our little morning dance\u2014something private only the two of us shared. You would kiss me on the forehead while you were reaching for the eggs from the fridge. 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