{"id":110351,"date":"2020-11-03T19:21:29","date_gmt":"2020-11-03T19:21:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=110351"},"modified":"2022-06-01T20:19:59","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T20:19:59","slug":"primera-cita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/primera-cita\/","title":{"rendered":"De qu\u00e9 hablar en la primera cita (y 7 temas que debes evitar)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Normalmente, cuando me planteo de qu\u00e9 hablar en una primera cita, mi primer instinto es huir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQui\u00e9n tiene tiempo para ganarse a un completo desconocido con unos cursis rompehielos y unas cursis <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/400-frases-sucias-para-ligar-la-lista-definitiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">frases para ligar<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Luckily, it doesn&#8217;t have to be that bad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After having gone through an uncomfortable number of questionable first dates, I&#8217;ve picked up on a thing or two that can make the whole thing more pleasant.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be honest. Few things are more nerve-wracking than the first date.<\/p>\n<p>Esos silencios inc\u00f3modos, entablar conversaciones triviales y hacer preguntas constantemente pueden resultar abrumadores.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s precisely why figuring out beforehand what to talk about on a first date is so important! It gives you a chance to look your best and avoid seeming like a detective.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y los expertos en citas est\u00e1n de acuerdo. La mejor forma de minimizar la ansiedad en la primera cita es tener un plan.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now, don&#8217;t get me wrong, I&#8217;m not talking about binders and notes. I&#8217;m merely saying that paying attention to a few key things will help you figure out whether there&#8217;s any compatibility.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfCu\u00e1les pueden ser esas claves?<\/em> A continuaci\u00f3n, divulgo todo sobre ello y mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m bringing you a list of foolproof first date conversation starters, best first date questions and 7 things to avoid discussing if you want to enjoy a great <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/preguntas-para-tener-exito-en-la-primera-cita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">primera cita<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Pay close attention and stick to these tips and before you know it, you&#8217;ll be anxiously awaiting your second date!<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/senales-de-una-buena-primera-cita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">21 se\u00f1ales de una buena primera cita y c\u00f3mo acertar en la segunda<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>What To Talk About On A First Date &#8211; A Foolproof Strategy<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The first date conversation is all about getting to know each other and exploring whether there&#8217;s a spark.<\/p>\n<p>By following these useful tips, you&#8217;re giving yourself the best chance of a great first date.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t overthink things (you&#8217;re in the same boat)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110377\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"hombre vertiendo caf\u00e9 en la taza de la mujer durante el desayuno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-pouring-in-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando sientas ansiedad y la necesidad de escamarte, recuerda que ellos est\u00e1n en la misma situaci\u00f3n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you think that this person won&#8217;t like you or that they aren&#8217;t ready for your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-debe-besar-en-la-primera-cita\/\">primera cita beso<\/a>, they&#8217;re probably struggling with the same thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>So take a deep breath, relax your mind and focus on the big picture. This person might end up being someone really important to you. You&#8217;ve got this!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Admit to being a little nervous (it&#8217;ll take the edge off)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110378\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating.jpg\" alt=\"mujer t\u00edmida comiendo helado manteniendo su pelo y sonriendo dentro de un caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/shy-woman-eating-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is something I find very helpful. It helps both you and your date laugh (somewhat awkwardly) to realize that you&#8217;re both a little nervous and unsure of what to expect.<\/p>\n<p>But don&#8217;t worry. The sooner you start talking, the sooner it&#8217;ll become comfortable and maybe even fun!<\/p>\n<p>Just follow my tips and browse through the questions below and you&#8217;ll be fine.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Remember that you&#8217;re there to have fun!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110382\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating.jpg\" alt=\"pareja birracial que data dentro de un caf\u00e9 con la gente borrosa en el fondo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/biracial-couple-dating-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not there to be stressed, anxious or nervous.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re there to have fun, meet someone new and potentially compatible and laugh the night away.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you start being in your head too much, shake it off, remember that this isn&#8217;t as big of a deal as you imagined it and ask them something funny.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/her\/caring\/awesome-date-chica-introvertida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Por eso es tan GENIAL salir con una chica introvertida<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Intenta ir con confianza y con una actitud positiva.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tocandose el pecho y sonriendo mientras habla con un hombre dentro del cafe\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-touching-her-chest-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your attitude is everything. If you go into it with a negative attitude, expecting a disaster, you&#8217;re not giving it a chance.<\/p>\n<p>So put on a smile, blast some music as you&#8217;re getting ready and be prepared for a night filled with fun and adventure. The more you think about it positively, the better it&#8217;s going to be.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Presta atenci\u00f3n a tu lenguaje corporal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"pareja chocando copas de vino durante su cita para cenar en el interior del restaurante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-clinking-wine-glasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t cross your arms, look around the room, appear bored or avoid eye contact. That&#8217;s negative <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le\/inside-his-mind\/17-senales-del-lenguaje-corporal-que-le-gustas-en-secreto-y-le-interesas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lenguaje corporal<\/a> que da una mala primera impresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Be relaxed, look them straight in the eye, nod your head as you&#8217;re talking and don&#8217;t look around the room all the time. That&#8217;ll show them that you&#8217;re focused on the conversation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Y por \u00faltimo, haz las preguntas adecuadas (y muchas)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110395\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa pareja en una cita chocando su copa de vino\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/beautiful-couple-on-a-date-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Finally, we get to the best bit. Asking questions is your best way to connect and engage in great small talk and meaningful conversation. And I&#8217;ve got you covered!<\/p>\n<p>Below, you&#8217;ll find the best questions to ask that will show your date you&#8217;re smart, fun, resourceful and attentive. Go get \u2018em!<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/questions-and-games\/sweet-talk\/100-preguntas-profundas-para-conocer-de-verdad-a-tu-pareja\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">100 preguntas profundas a tu cita si realmente quieres conocerla<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Las 120 mejores preguntas para una primera cita que funcionan de maravilla<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Aqu\u00ed tienes las \u00fanicas preguntas para la primera cita que podr\u00edas necesitar. Empieza por las m\u00e1s sencillas y pasa a las m\u00e1s simp\u00e1ticas y divertidas a medida que avance la cita.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>With the help of these icebreakers, you&#8217;ll never have to wonder what to talk about on a first date again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110396\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights.jpg\" alt=\"pareja de enamorados con luces que los rodean sosteniendo velas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-in-love-with-lights-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>1. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que m\u00e1s le gusta hacer en su tiempo libre?<\/p>\n<p>2. What&#8217;s your dream job and do you ever think about pursuing it?<\/p>\n<p>3. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son tus cinco programas de televisi\u00f3n favoritos?<\/p>\n<p>4. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te describir\u00eda tu mejor amigo y por qu\u00e9 crees que es as\u00ed?<\/p>\n<p>5. Si pudiera tener un solo libro el resto de su vida, \u00bfcu\u00e1l elegir\u00eda y por qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>6. What&#8217;s on your bucket list of things to do in your lifetime?<\/p>\n<p>7. \u00bfCu\u00e1l de los miembros de tu familia te pone de los nervios m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido? (\u00a1Y comparte los tuyos!)<\/p>\n<p>8. What&#8217;s your favorite place to hide out when you need some alone time?<\/p>\n<p>9. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/preguntas-sobre-cosas-favoritas\/\">\u00bfCu\u00e1les son sus actividades favoritas?<\/a> que te hacen sentir bien al instante?<\/p>\n<p>10. \u00bfC\u00f3mo eras en el instituto?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110394\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer universitarios hablando dentro de la cafeter\u00eda con caf\u00e9 en la mesa \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/college-man-and-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>11. What&#8217;s the longest you&#8217;ve binged a Netflix show and which one was it?<\/p>\n<p>12. What&#8217;s your social media handle? (Cheeky!)<\/p>\n<p>13. Tienes alguna experiencia extra\u00f1a y divertida con Tinder y, si es as\u00ed, \u00a1comp\u00e1rtela!<\/p>\n<p>14. What&#8217;s your instant turn-off in a partner?<\/p>\n<p>15. \u00bfCafeter\u00eda o bar?<\/p>\n<p>16. \u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas de las p\u00e1ginas web de citas? \u00bfHas conseguido alguna vez encontrar pareja por esa v\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>17. \u00bfTiene animales de compa\u00f1\u00eda? En caso afirmativo, \u00bfcu\u00e1les y c\u00f3mo se llaman?<\/p>\n<p>18. Who&#8217;s the most fascinating person you&#8217;ve ever gotten the chance to meet?<\/p>\n<p>19. \u00bfPrefiere el interior o el exterior?<\/p>\n<p>20. Nombra tu bebida alcoh\u00f3lica y no alcoh\u00f3lica favorita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110389\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer y hombre bebiendo cerveza en la barra de un bar \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-and-man-drinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>21. \u00bfQu\u00e9 te ha obsesionado \u00faltimamente?<\/p>\n<p>22. \u00bfTiene alg\u00fan tipo de comida internacional favorita y, en caso afirmativo, cu\u00e1l es?<\/p>\n<p>23. Si pudiera llevarse a tres personas (literalmente, a cualquiera del mundo) a una isla desierta, \u00bfa qui\u00e9n elegir\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>24. \u00bfPrefiere la ma\u00f1ana o la noche?<\/p>\n<p>25. What&#8217;s the one food you would never touch no matter what?<\/p>\n<p>26. \u00bfTienes hermanos? Si es as\u00ed, \u00a1describe a cada uno en tres palabras!<\/p>\n<p>27. Who&#8217;s your all-time favorite author?<\/p>\n<p>28. What&#8217;s your favorite movie of all time and how many times have you seen it?<\/p>\n<p>29. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te conocen en tu grupo de amigos?<\/p>\n<p>30. \u00bfQu\u00e9 artista musical podr\u00edas escuchar repetidamente sin cansarte de \u00e9l?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110403\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja al aire libre hablando con mujer con gafas de sol y grandes auriculares alrededor del cuello\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-outdoors-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>31. \u00bfC\u00f3mo son tus vacaciones ideales?<\/p>\n<p>32. Do you have any accomplishments that you&#8217;re proud of?<\/p>\n<p>33. What&#8217;s the latest trend that you just can&#8217;t seem to understand?<\/p>\n<p>34. \u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas de TikTok?<\/p>\n<p>35. What&#8217;s your go-to karaoke jam?<\/p>\n<p>36. \u00bfCu\u00e1les han sido sus momentos m\u00e1s divertidos y embarazosos en la vida?<\/p>\n<p>37. What&#8217;s the coolest adventure you&#8217;ve ever been on?<\/p>\n<p>38. \u00bfQu\u00e9 superpoder le gustar\u00eda tener el resto de su vida?<\/p>\n<p>39. In your opinion, what&#8217;s the one thing everyone should try at least once?<\/p>\n<p>40. \u00bfCon qu\u00e9 personaje de animaci\u00f3n saldr\u00edas si tuvieras que elegir uno?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110413\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja viendo una pel\u00edcula en el ordenador port\u00e1til mientras se est\u00e1 sentado en el banco al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-watching-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>41. What&#8217;s the one thing you&#8217;d never say no to?<\/p>\n<p>42. What are the weirdest things that you&#8217;re into that no one really gets?<\/p>\n<p>43. What&#8217;s the most disturbing dream you&#8217;ve ever had?<\/p>\n<p>44. What&#8217;s the weirdest joke you&#8217;ve ever heard?<\/p>\n<p>45. \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tardas en levantarte de la cama por las ma\u00f1anas?<\/p>\n<p>46. 46. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que m\u00e1s le molesta de una relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>47. Si fueras DJ, \u00bfc\u00f3mo te llamar\u00edas?<\/p>\n<p>48. \u00bfTienes alg\u00fan miedo tonto?<\/p>\n<p>49. What&#8217;s the strangest place you got it on?<\/p>\n<p>50. \u00bfAlguna vez has enviado un mensaje de texto borracho a alguien y qu\u00e9 ha pasado?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110415\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors.jpg\" alt=\"pareja bebiendo cerveza al aire libre y hablando seriamente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-oudoors-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>51. What&#8217;s the one drink that you can&#8217;t imagine drinking ever again?<\/p>\n<p>52. What&#8217;s your favorite website?<\/p>\n<p>53. What&#8217;s the longest you&#8217;ve ever gone without sleeping?<\/p>\n<p>54. Si pudieras retroceder en el tiempo, \u00bfad\u00f3nde ir\u00edas, a qui\u00e9n llevar\u00edas y qu\u00e9 a\u00f1o ser\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>55. If you could be BFFs with a celebrity, who do you think you&#8217;d get along with best?<\/p>\n<p>56. \u00bfCu\u00e1l ha sido el giro argumental m\u00e1s inesperado en la historia de su vida?<\/p>\n<p>57. S\u00e9 sincera. \u00bfIbas a llamarme despu\u00e9s de esta cita?<\/p>\n<p>58. \u00bfCu\u00e1nta interacci\u00f3n social es demasiada?<\/p>\n<p>59. What&#8217;s your favorite mobile app?<\/p>\n<p>60. \u00bfPrefiere caminar o conducir?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110425\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja mirandose mientras conducen en coche descapotable\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-glancing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>61. Si pudieras elegir que el verano se quedara todo el a\u00f1o, \u00bflo har\u00edas?<\/p>\n<p>62. What&#8217;s your guilty pleasure that no one knows about?<\/p>\n<p>63. Do you have a nickname that you just can&#8217;t stand?<\/p>\n<p>64. What&#8217;s the one country you absolutely must visit and which one do you never want to step foot in?<\/p>\n<p>65. Si pudiera hablar con fluidez otro idioma que no fuera el ingl\u00e9s, \u00bfcu\u00e1l ser\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>66. What&#8217;s the strangest fight you ever got in with a sibling?<\/p>\n<p>67. \u00bfCu\u00e1l fue su verano m\u00e1s memorable?<\/p>\n<p>68. \u00bfHay alguna suposici\u00f3n err\u00f3nea que la gente tenga de usted?<\/p>\n<p>69. What&#8217;s the most breathtaking view you&#8217;ve ever seen?<\/p>\n<p>70. \u00bfEres un lobo solitario o te encantan las din\u00e1micas de grupo?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110430\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mostrando su smartphone a una mujer sentado al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-showing-his-smartphone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>71. What&#8217;s your go-to ice-cream flavor and which one would you never want to taste?<\/p>\n<p>72. Are you a spontaneous person? What&#8217;s the most spontaneous thing you&#8217;ve ever done?<\/p>\n<p>73. \u00bfSabes de tecnolog\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>74. \u00bfEn qu\u00e9 has cambiado desde el instituto?<\/p>\n<p>75. What&#8217;s the one thing your best friend would be most surprised to find out about you?<\/p>\n<p>76. \u00bfTienes alg\u00fan secreto?<\/p>\n<p>77. En este momento, si pudiera estar en cualquier parte, \u00bfd\u00f3nde ir\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>78. \u00bfMe contar\u00edas la historia de cuando conociste a tu mejor amigo por primera vez?<\/p>\n<p>79. \u00bfCu\u00e1l fue una decisi\u00f3n aparentemente insignificante que acab\u00f3 cambiando su vida?<\/p>\n<p>80. \u00bfAd\u00f3nde se mudar\u00eda si pudiera ir a cualquier parte del mundo, encontrar el trabajo de sus sue\u00f1os y mantener un nivel de vida razonable?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110445\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets.jpg\" alt=\"pareja con chaquetas al aire libre hablando dulcemente durante la temporada de oto\u00f1o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-wearing-jackets-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>81. \u00bfTiene alguna cita o refr\u00e1n favorito?<\/p>\n<p>82. What&#8217;s your weirdest talent?<\/p>\n<p>83. What\u2019s the most recent thing you\u2019ve done for the first time ever?<\/p>\n<p>84. Si fueras famoso, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 crees que lo ser\u00edas?<\/p>\n<p>85. \u00bfPreferir\u00edas ser guapa y tonta o de aspecto normal pero muy inteligente?<\/p>\n<p>86. \u00bfC\u00f3mo te describir\u00edan tus padres y est\u00e1s de acuerdo con esa descripci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>87. Si encontraras un malet\u00edn con un mill\u00f3n de d\u00f3lares dentro, \u00bfqu\u00e9 har\u00edas con \u00e9l?<\/p>\n<p>88. Si pudiera elegir s\u00f3lo uno, \u00bfser\u00eda el esqu\u00ed o la nataci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>89. Who&#8217;s the one person who has had the greatest impact on your life?<\/p>\n<p>90. Adem\u00e1s del trabajo, \u00bfa qu\u00e9 dedica la mayor parte de su tiempo?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"pareja tomando cafe dentro de la cafeteria hablando de corazon a corazon\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>91. \u00bfTe gustan m\u00e1s los gatos o los perros?<\/p>\n<p>92. \u00bfRevisan las llamadas telef\u00f3nicas?<\/p>\n<p>93. \u00bfCu\u00e1l cree que es la parte m\u00e1s esencial de una relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>94. \u00bfQu\u00e9 hizo en sus \u00faltimas vacaciones?<\/p>\n<p>95. \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo fue la \u00faltima vez que camin\u00f3 durante m\u00e1s de una hora?<\/p>\n<p>96. What&#8217;s the most interesting thing you can do that would surprise the people who know you?<\/p>\n<p>97. What&#8217;s the most important thing or person in your life?<\/p>\n<p>98. \u00bfExiste alguna diferencia entre su forma de actuar con conocidos y con amigos \u00edntimos?<\/p>\n<p>99. \u00bfQu\u00e9 habilidad siempre has querido aprender pero nunca lo has hecho?<\/p>\n<p>100. \u00bfPreferir\u00edas ser invisible o poder leer la mente?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110462\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting.jpg\" alt=\"chica chico flirteando en un caf\u00e9 al aire libre \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/girl-boy-flirting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>101. \u00bfCu\u00e1ntos pa\u00edses ha visitado?<\/p>\n<p>102. Si pudiera responder a una pregunta ahora mismo, \u00bfcu\u00e1l ser\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>103. \u00bfSe considera una persona paciente?<\/p>\n<p>104. Are there any companies that you can&#8217;t stand so much that you&#8217;d rather go bankrupt than give them any (or any more) of your money?<\/p>\n<p>105. Si pudiera enviar una carta a su yo m\u00e1s joven, \u00bfqu\u00e9 edad tendr\u00eda y qu\u00e9 le dir\u00eda?<\/p>\n<p>106. What&#8217;s the one trend you wish would make a comeback?<\/p>\n<p>107. What&#8217;s a foolproof way to find out what someone is really like?<\/p>\n<p>108. \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo cree que se tarda en conocer a alguien en profundidad?<\/p>\n<p>109. \u00bfHay algo que est\u00e9 ocurriendo ahora y de lo que crea que la gente se reir\u00e1 dentro de veinte a\u00f1os?<\/p>\n<p>110. Is there something you&#8217;re really looking forward to in the foreseeable future?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110467\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"pareja cogida de la mano sentada junto a la mesa en el interior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>111. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son las tres situaciones sociales que intenta evitar a toda costa?<\/p>\n<p>112. \u00bfPreferir\u00eda tener un coche excepcionalmente r\u00e1pido o la conexi\u00f3n Wi-Fi perfecta?<\/p>\n<p>113. What&#8217;s the one thing that floats your boat that most people have no idea about?<\/p>\n<p>114. What&#8217;s the weirdest nickname you&#8217;ve ever had?<\/p>\n<p>115. \u00bfHas tenido alguna vez una cita doble realmente desastrosa?<\/p>\n<p>116. \u00bfAlguna vez te has sentido atra\u00eddo por alguien de tu mismo sexo?<\/p>\n<p>117. \u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas de besarse en la primera cita?<\/p>\n<p>118. \u00bfAlguna vez te preocupa de qu\u00e9 hablar en una primera cita?<\/p>\n<p>\u200b119. What&#8217;s the silliest lie you&#8217;ve ever told a romantic partner?<\/p>\n<p>120. \u00bfAmor a largo plazo o lujuria a corto plazo?<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/una-cita-para-tomar-un-cafe-es-la-mejor-idea-para-una-primera-cita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">12 razones por las que un caf\u00e9 es la mejor idea para una primera cita<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>7 temas de los que hay que evitar hablar a toda costa<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>There are certain kinds of things you just don&#8217;t discuss on a first date. They are major red flags that your date won&#8217;t take kindly to. Avoid these for the time being and focus on what I&#8217;ve covered above.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Don&#8217;t talk about religion<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110470\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe-.jpg\" alt=\"pareja en un cafe hablando mientras come \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-at-cafe--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La religi\u00f3n es algo que deber\u00eda abordarse m\u00e1s adelante. Dado que es un factor importante para una relaci\u00f3n sana, sin duda hay que abordarlo.<\/p>\n<p>But first dates aren&#8217;t designed for this type of conversation.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo podr\u00eda dar lugar a discusiones inc\u00f3modas que pueden evitarse. Por supuesto, preg\u00fantale, pero espera a que pasen unas cuantas citas.<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a connection, chances are that your discussion on religion could go much more smoothly, to both of your satisfaction.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lo mismo ocurre con la pol\u00edtica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110473\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"feliz pareja hablando en el balc\u00f3n con un fondo verde urbano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/happy-couple-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I dislike talking about politics in general but during early dating, it&#8217;s a huge no-no. What does it even matter in the great scope of things?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re there to enjoy each other&#8217;s company, that&#8217;s it.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not like either of you can affect what politicians do or how they affect our country so you might as well keep the political discussion to a minimum.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El dinero tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 fuera de los l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110478\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet.jpg\" alt=\"pareja usando la tablet mientras habla fuera de casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-using-tablet-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s an awkward question, isn&#8217;t it? And for so many reasons.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t really know them or their family background yet so you might say something that sounds insensitive.<\/p>\n<p>De nuevo, lo mejor que puedes hacer es evitar hablar de dinero por ahora y dejar que surja de forma natural cuando os pong\u00e1is m\u00e1s serios.<\/p>\n<p>When wondering what to talk about on a first date, just remember&#8230; not money.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t even think about trashing your ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110480\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja bebiendo vino sentada en un sof\u00e1 dentro del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-drinking-wine-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Past relationships are off-limits, at least on the first date. Especially if it ended badly. You don&#8217;t want your date to think that you&#8217;re a bitter person.<\/p>\n<p>Si segu\u00eds saliendo, naturalmente, los ex archivos se divulgar\u00e1n en alg\u00fan momento. Pero por ahora, que sea PG (por mucho que acabaras despreciando a tu ex).<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-pedir-una-segunda-cita-reglas-de-oro-para-mantener-la-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">C\u00f3mo pedir una segunda cita: Reglas de oro para seguir adelante<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t talk about getting it on (kind of tacky if you ask me)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110482\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre alegre hablando con una mujer sonriente y relajada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t tell anyone when the best time to get it on is, it&#8217;s an entirely personal decision.<\/p>\n<p>Pero en mi humilde opini\u00f3n, estos temas son definitivamente una bandera roja para las primeras citas.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t risk it by mentioning explicit activities way too early.<\/p>\n<p>They might get the wrong impression that it&#8217;s all you&#8217;re there for (unless of course, you are).<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres que esto evolucione y se haga m\u00e1s profundo, c\u00e9ntrate en la conexi\u00f3n emocional y el ambiente general.<\/p>\n<p>If you have that, it&#8217;s only going to work wonders once you get kinky.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tu lista de lo que quieres en una pareja<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting.jpg\" alt=\"alegre pareja descansando y charlando en un centro comercial \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-couple-resting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t even a new relationship, you&#8217;re literally seeing if there&#8217;s even potential.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que no tienen por qu\u00e9 (ni quieren) escuchar c\u00f3mo es tu pareja perfecta.<\/p>\n<p>Be real and expect them to be real, flaws and all. Nobody is perfect and it&#8217;s crazy to expect anyone to check off things from your perfect person checklist.<\/p>\n<p>People are flawed but that doesn&#8217;t mean they aren&#8217;t worthy of your attention.<\/p>\n<p>Learn to embrace everyone for who they are and don&#8217;t give the impression of being a superficial person as early as your first date.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Matrimonio (a menos que quieras alejarlos al instante)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110512\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer alegres hablando y bromeando en medio del paseo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cheerful-man-and-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Conversations about marriage shouldn&#8217;t arise within the first few dates.<\/p>\n<p>The topic is simply too heavy and might give them the wrong idea, plus it&#8217;s just way too early.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres que tu cita salga corriendo, preocupada porque tu \u00fanica prioridad es casarte, adelante.<\/p>\n<p>Pero para poder intentarlo de verdad, te recomiendo encarecidamente que dejes el asunto del matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>La primera cita es para divertirse y conocerse.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re still standing after a few dates, then you can delve into serious discussions slowly but surely.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/20-ideas-increibles-para-salir-por-la-noche\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">20 incre\u00edbles y bonitas ideas de citas nocturnas para todas las parejas<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Reflexiones finales<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110503\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre acercandose a una mujer en el cafe tomando su comida\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-approaching-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not only have I covered what to talk about on a first date but I&#8217;ve also helped you with some really cool and interesting questions to encourage great conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Also, make sure to pay attention to what NOT to discuss at this time. You don&#8217;t want to give out the impression that you&#8217;re desperate for a spouse.<\/p>\n<p>He recopilado estas perspicaces <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/15-consejos-sobre-citas-y-relaciones-para-hombres\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">consejos de citas<\/a> durante mi propio viaje de citas, junto con algunos aciertos y errores.<\/p>\n<p>Simplemente estaba cansada de las citas en l\u00ednea y de preguntarme qui\u00e9n estaba realmente detr\u00e1s de la pantalla.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Las primeras citas pueden ser muy divertidas si las afrontas con una actitud positiva y el esp\u00edritu adecuado. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The worst that can happen is you don&#8217;t click and you go your separate ways. That&#8217;s it!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So when you really think about it, it&#8217;s not that scary. The first time doing anything is daunting.<\/p>\n<p>Rel\u00e1jate, lee esto tantas veces como necesites y vete a disparar.<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a connection, the above <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/debo-enviarle-un-mensaje-o-no-10-reglas-de-oro-cuando-enviarle-un-mensaje-y-cuando-esperar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">reglas de oro<\/a> le ayudar\u00e1 a encontrarlo (y disfrutarlo) en un santiam\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-cosas-que-hay-que-tener-en-cuenta-antes-de-besarse-en-la-segunda-cita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">6 cosas que hay que tener en cuenta antes de besarse en la segunda cita<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Usually, when I consider what to talk about on a first date, my first instinct is to flee. Who has the time to win over a total stranger with some cheesy icebreakers and corny pick-up lines? Luckily, it doesn&#8217;t have to be that bad. After having gone through an uncomfortable number of questionable first dates,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":110527,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-110351","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Heres-What-To-Talk-About-On-A-First-Date-7-Topics-To-Avoid-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. 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