{"id":11130,"date":"2019-12-28T10:58:07","date_gmt":"2019-12-28T10:58:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11130"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:29:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:29:19","slug":"cualquier-cosa-bien-la-vida-decidio-dejar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cualquier-cosa-bien-la-vida-decidio-dejar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Si hice algo bien en mi vida, fue cuando decid\u00ed dejarte ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cometo errores y tiendo a repetirlos. Me enamoro de la gente equivocada,<\/a> I give my trust to people who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

I wear my heart on my sleeve and I hope that somehow it won\u2019t get broken. It was the same thing with you. You had a nasty habit of breaking me over and over again, and I let you do it, because I hoped you’d stop.<\/p>\n

If I loved you hard enough, if I tried hard enough, you\u2019d finally love me the way I loved you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero nunca lo hiciste.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00e9 que me hicieras dudar de m\u00ed misma.<\/strong> Todos tus comentarios sobre mi aspecto, como que podr\u00eda perder algo de peso, que podr\u00eda llevar el pelo de otra manera, que deber\u00eda maquillarme m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

All those times you would show me a random woman in a bar and keep talking about how I could be her if I just tried a little bit harder. All those times you would make fun of my job and my salary, saying how writing wasn\u2019t a real job.<\/p>\n

Todas esas veces que me menospreciabas, me odiaba un poco m\u00e1s. Pero no m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00e9 que me separaras de mi gente.<\/strong> Pasar tiempo contigo al principio fue incre\u00edble.<\/p>\n

Llegar a conocerte, conocer tu cuerpo y c\u00f3mo se mov\u00eda con el m\u00edo, era como mi droga. Pero de alg\u00fan modo te convertiste en la \u00fanica persona con la que pasaba mis d\u00edas y mis noches.<\/p>\n

You guilt-tripped me into spending every single minute of my free time with you, and if I wasn\u2019t spending it with you, I was still waiting for you. But no more.<\/p>\n

Dejo que me hagas sentirse antip\u00e1tico<\/a>. I was constantly thinking it was me. It was because I was not good enough, it was because I didn\u2019t try hard enough.<\/p>\n

Era porque no era lo bastante guapa, no era lo bastante delgada, no era lo bastante lista. Simplemente no era suficiente. Dej\u00e9 que me hicieras sentir que todo era culpa m\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Todo tu comportamiento abusivo, el infierno t\u00f3xico por el que me hiciste pasar, cre\u00ed que todo era culpa m\u00eda. Pero ya no.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00e9 que me rompieras, una y otra vez.<\/strong> Cada vez que miraba una pantalla vac\u00eda, me romp\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que mirabas a otra mujer como nunca me miraste a m\u00ed, me romp\u00eda un poco m\u00e1s. Cada vez que me menospreciabas, cada vez que me dejabas de lado, cada vez que decid\u00edas elegirte a ti en vez de a nosotros, me romp\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que me quedaba dormido solo en una cama vac\u00eda, cada vez que volv\u00eda a casa sin nadie, cada vez que me sent\u00eda solo a tu lado, me romp\u00eda. Pero ya no.<\/p>\n

Now I\u2019m letting you go.<\/strong> I\u2019m done being the one choice you never made, I\u2019m done being your trash can for all of your failures. I\u2019m done feeling unworthy, unlovable.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with you. I tend to repeat mistakes, but this one\u2014no more. Because, you see, if I did anything right in my life, it was when I decided to let you go.<\/p>\n

Now I know my worth, I know I\u2019m more than enough. I finally know it was never my fault.<\/p>\n

Y por fin s\u00e9 que dejar ir a veces es mejor que luchar, porque algunas relaciones no est\u00e1n destinadas a ser. Algunas personas no son dignas de l\u00e1grimas y dolor, y seguro como el infierno, nunca fuiste digno de mi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019d like to take this opportunity to thank you for never loving me, because I learned to love myself. And thank you for giving me the chance to finally do the right thing\u2014to choose myself over you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I make mistakes and I tend to repeat them. I fall in love with the wrong people, I give my trust to people who don\u2019t deserve it. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I hope that somehow it won\u2019t get broken. It was the same thing with you. You had a nasty habit…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":11134,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/makhmutova-dina-491451-1.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11130\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11134"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}