{"id":111357,"date":"2020-11-09T12:32:47","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T12:32:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=111357"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:03","slug":"encontrado-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/encontrado-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Sabr\u00e9 que he encontrado al elegido cuando marque estas casillas"},"content":{"rendered":"

The other day, I was talking to my grandma about relationships. You see, I\u2019ve been single for a while now (and I had my share of crappy relationships before that) so you can assume that she\u2019s worried.<\/p>\n

You are probably thinking: \u201cWhat could an old lady like her tell you about today\u2019s dating?\u201d After all, everything was very different back in her day.<\/p>\n

Well, I promise you that she knows more than any of us. In fact, truth be told, I know literally nothing about the man I\u2019m supposed to grow old with.<\/p>\n

You see, for as long as I can remember, I either had too high expectations or no standards at all. Of course, when I\u2019m crazy about a guy, he is basically allowed to treat me badly.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t have to be ambitious or handsome. Are the butterflies in my stomach throwing a party every time he looks at me? Well, if they do, that should do it.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when I\u2019m with a guy who doesn\u2019t give me that tickling sensation, I\u2019m bothered by everything he does. This is when my standards suddenly skyrocket and when nothing is good enough.<\/p>\n

Well, my nana told me that I\u2019ll know I\u2019ve found the right man when he checks off all of these boxes. So, I\u2019m just here sharing her wisdom.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Es leal<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re looking for your Mr. Perfect, you want him to stay faithful for the rest of your life. You don\u2019t want him flirting with other girls or fooling around behind your back in any other way.<\/p>\n

Esto deber\u00eda ser una norma b\u00e1sica en toda relaci\u00f3n. Sin embargo, mi nana dice que hay algo m\u00e1s importante que la fidelidad: la lealtad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando un hombre es leal, autom\u00e1ticamente tambi\u00e9n es fiel.<\/p>\n

When he is loyal, he\u2019ll never do anything to betray your trust, he\u2019ll fight for the two of you with all of his strength and he never does anything that might endanger your relationship.<\/p>\n

Te hace sentir seguro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

La siguiente casilla que debe marcar tu pareja definitiva es la de hacerte sentir seguro. Olv\u00eddate de los juegos modernos de las citas, de las se\u00f1ales contradictorias o de hacerte el dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re with this man, you\u2019ll know that he\u2019s there for you and that he isn\u2019t going anywhere, no matter what. You don\u2019t live in a constant state of fear.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not worried that he might leave the second a hotter girl walks past him. You don\u2019t have to wait for him to leave you as soon as you gain some extra pounds or the moment your first wrinkles or gray hairs show up.<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t threatened by you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Back in the old days, men couldn\u2019t stand having a more educated or successful wife.<\/p>\n

You probably think that this changed over the course of time. Well, I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but sadly, it hasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

In fact, there are many guys who still feel threatened by their women; they\u2019ve just gotten better at hiding their insecurities.<\/p>\n

Por eso tu hombre ideal debe sentirse orgulloso de todo lo que eres capaz de hacer. Deber\u00eda considerarse afortunado por tener una mujer ambiciosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, instead of holding you back, this man will push you forward. Only next to him will you achieve all those great things you\u2019re destined to accomplish.<\/p>\n

Es tu mejor amigo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Al final del d\u00eda, lo \u00fanico que quieres es que tu mejor amigo te coja de la mano despu\u00e9s de un largo d\u00eda de trabajo. Quieres a alguien que te comprenda y te quiera igual en lo peor y en lo mejor.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que en lugar de buscar un amante, busca tambi\u00e9n un amigo. Busca a alguien que te haga re\u00edr y te saque las l\u00e1grimas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Busca a tu persona, un hombre que sea el lado bueno de tus nubes. Un hombre que est\u00e9 a tu lado en las buenas y en las malas, en la salud y en la enfermedad, en los d\u00edas buenos y en los malos.<\/p>\n

Para concluir<\/h2>\n

Forget about the idea that you have to pick between a man who awakens the deepest emotions in you and the one you\u2019re compatible with. Don\u2019t think that this man won\u2019t give you the butterflies you want.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, \u00a1puedes tener las dos cosas!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The other day, I was talking to my grandma about relationships. You see, I\u2019ve been single for a while now (and I had my share of crappy relationships before that) so you can assume that she\u2019s worried. You are probably thinking: \u201cWhat could an old lady like her tell you about today\u2019s dating?\u201d After all,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":111374,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-111357","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Ill-Know-Ive-Found-The-One-When-He-Checks-Off-These-Boxes-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? I do, and right here is where I share my thoughts on the topic.","parent":38,"count":95,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29615,"category_count":95,"category_description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? I do, and right here is where I share my thoughts on the topic.","cat_name":"soulmate","category_nicename":"soulmate-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111357","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=111357"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111357\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/111374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=111357"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=111357"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=111357"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}