{"id":111381,"date":"2020-11-09T12:36:24","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T12:36:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=111381"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:43:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:43:52","slug":"mitos-sobre-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mitos-sobre-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Estos 8 mitos sobre \"el elegido\" deben romperse cuanto antes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfCree en las almas gemelas? \u00bfRealmente crees que es cierto que todos tenemos a esa persona que est\u00e1 hecha para nosotros, que es perfecta para nosotros?<\/p>\n<p>I believe in soulmates too. However, this other part is tricky. Most people are waiting for that one person who&#8217;ll be perfect but unfortunately, they aren&#8217;t aware that such a person doesn&#8217;t exist.<\/p>\n<p>None of us is perfect and it&#8217;s perfectly fine. Because after all, <em><strong>we shouldn&#8217;t be searching for someone perfect, we should be looking for someone who will love us in a perfect way.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you still haven\u2019t found the right person, you should check these myths that most people believe about their soulmate but aren&#8217;t aware that it&#8217;s only holding them back and standing in the way of true love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">When you meet that person, you&#8217;ll instantly know they&#8217;re \u2018the one\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111385 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer haciendo contacto visual durante la puesta de sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas parejas conoces que empezaron siendo amigos y ahora mantienen una relaci\u00f3n feliz y duradera? S\u00ed, tu instinto puede equivocarse incluso con esa persona que est\u00e1 hecha para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe love at first sight does exist but still, even if you click instantly, you can&#8217;t know for sure that they are the person you&#8217;ll spend the rest of your life with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You must be aware that there is no true unconditional love without trust and it&#8217;ll definitely take time to build that trust between you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>El amor a primera vista no es m\u00e1s que una etapa de enamoramiento, la atracci\u00f3n que sientes por alguien cuando lo conoces por primera vez.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You shouldn&#8217;t be searching, your soulmate will find you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111386 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer besandose cerca de un arbol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-kissing-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Many people believe that we shouldn&#8217;t be looking for our soulmate because they&#8217;ll find us. But when you stop for a moment to think about it, is it really logical?<\/p>\n<p>Either way, one person will be searching. Yes, I do believe that true love will find a way to cross your path but that doesn&#8217;t mean you should just sit there and wait for it to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Debes salir ah\u00ed fuera. Sal, conoce a gente nueva y vive nuevas aventuras. Nunca se sabe ad\u00f3nde pueden llevarte esas aventuras. \u00bfQuiz\u00e1 a la persona de tu vida?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La persona adecuada permanecer\u00e1 a tu lado pase lo que pase<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111387 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en el muelle mirando el agua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is one of many soulmate definitions you can find online. So, let&#8217;s put it this way; if you cheat on them, humiliate and disrespect them, they&#8217;ll still stay by your side?<\/p>\n<p>No, it definitely doesn&#8217;t work like that. No person should tolerate being disrespected in a relationship, no matter how much they love the other person.<\/p>\n<p>Para encontrar a la persona adecuada y tener una buena relaci\u00f3n, tambi\u00e9n hay que esforzarse. <em>You must show your partner the way you want to be treated and you&#8217;ll only do that by treating them exactly the same way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>See also: 10 Things To Do If You\u2019re Being Disrespected In Your Relationship<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll never argue with that person<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111388 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sonriendo sentados en una roca\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you really think that you and your soulmate will be exactly alike? That there won&#8217;t be any differences between you?<\/p>\n<p>Oh, how wrong that is. I don&#8217;t and I truly don&#8217;t want to find anyone similar to me because I know it would be a total mess. I&#8217;m more of an &#8216;opposites attract&#8217; kind of person.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda esto primero: <strong>en una relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 permitido tener peque\u00f1as discusiones, porque esas cosas en realidad refuerzan el v\u00ednculo entre vosotros.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No hay parejas sanas y comprometidas sin algunas diferencias entre ellas.<\/p>\n<p>The question is how you&#8217;ll manage those differences. It&#8217;s important to accept and embrace your differences and to make the most of them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Esa persona se convertir\u00e1 en tu todo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111389 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer abrazados al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-hugging-5-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto me parece fascinante. Mientras tus padres est\u00e9n vivos, mientras tengas amigos honestos y leales, tu pareja nunca podr\u00e1 convertirse en tu todo.<\/p>\n<p>It would be completely unfair to all the other people in your life who are there for good reason. It&#8217;s good to know your priorities but don&#8217;t ever make the list of your priorities a one-person list.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll never have to make any compromises<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111390 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en una roca durante la puesta de sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rock-4-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Oh, really? Sometimes, we have to make compromises with ourself, so how could we find someone we won&#8217;t have to make any compromises with?<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t think it&#8217;s possible. We are all unique human beings with unique perspectives and different opinions.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we all have to settle for some compromises from time to time if we want to keep the engine (our relationship) going.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;ll be a completely effortless relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111391 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer cogidos de la mano caminando por la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-walking-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfDe verdad crees que una relaci\u00f3n entre dos personas puede tener \u00e9xito sin poner ning\u00fan esfuerzo en ella? \u00bfEs el amor el \u00fanico ingrediente necesario para que una relaci\u00f3n tenga \u00e9xito?<\/p>\n<p>No, no, no. <strong>To get such a complicated thing as a romantic relationship to work, you&#8217;ll need so many more ingredients.<\/strong> El amor es crucial, pero tambi\u00e9n lo son los compromisos, los sacrificios y la confianza.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Esa persona ser\u00e1 tu otra mitad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111392 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer a punto de besarse de pie al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-about-to-kiss-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>How many times have you heard someone saying, &#8220;When I finally meet the right one, my life will be complete,&#8221; or, &#8220;My partner is my other half.&#8221;?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9? Este es un gran mito falso sobre las almas gemelas que hay que romper inmediatamente. Dios te hizo una persona completa, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te sentir\u00edas incompleta?<\/p>\n<p>Si sientes que falta algo en tu vida, ninguna otra persona podr\u00e1 llenarlo. S\u00f3lo t\u00fa tienes esa capacidad.<\/p>\n<p><em>You don&#8217;t need anyone to complete you, you just need someone to accept you, the WHOLE you, just the way you are.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you believe in soulmates? Do you really think it\u2019s true that all of us have that one person who is meant for us, who\u2019s perfect for us? I believe in soulmates too. However, this other part is tricky. Most people are waiting for that one person who&#8217;ll be perfect but unfortunately, they aren&#8217;t aware&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":111384,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-111381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/These-8-Myths-About-\u2018The-One-Need-To-Be-Broken-ASAP-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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