When you meet her, you’ll think that she is material de novia<\/a> and that she’s everything you’ve been looking for in a woman.<\/p>\n Once you realize who you’re dealing with, it’s often too late to escape her claws.<\/p>\n Por supuesto, siempre puedes salvarte, pero te llevar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s tiempo y esfuerzo que al principio.<\/p>\n Pues bien, para evitarlo, debes conocer todos los signos alarmantes de una novia psic\u00f3pata. Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n 9 de los m\u00e1s comunes.<\/p>\n Su chica de ensue\u00f1o<\/a> te cuida. Te escucha, muestra inter\u00e9s por tu vida y recuerda todas las peque\u00f1as cosas que le dijiste una vez.<\/p>\n Pero, \u00bfy si exagera? \u00bfY si est\u00e1 demasiado interesada en ti? Tambi\u00e9n es posible.<\/p>\n You see, when you\u2019re involved with a girl like this, the number one problem is that she doesn\u2019t have a life of her own.<\/p>\n De hecho, desde el momento en que empez\u00e1is a salir, ella intenta formar parte de los tuyos.<\/p>\n She doesn\u2019t let you have any privacy. In fact, it seems that this girl would like to have access to your thoughts and feelings; she wants to enter your mind and have full control over it.<\/p>\n Esta chica siempre est\u00e1 metida en tus asuntos. Interfiere en todos los aspectos de tu vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n It seems that she can\u2019t understand that she can\u2019t be a part of your career, that you want to have friendships that have nothing to do with her or that she shouldn\u2019t meddle in your family affairs.<\/strong><\/p>\n El problema es que ella quiere saber literalmente todo sobre tu vida.<\/p>\n She wants to know all the details of your previous relationships, expects you to share your friends\u2019 secrets with her and even asks you to take her to your business meetings.<\/p>\n No s\u00f3lo eso, tambi\u00e9n la ha pillado a escondidas m\u00e1s de una vez.<\/p>\n Justifica sus actos dici\u00e9ndote que es curiosa por naturaleza, pero en el fondo sabes que ese comportamiento es inaceptable.<\/p>\n Once she sees that she can\u2019t keep doing this to you, she gets angry and frustrated. She can\u2019t seem to understand that you find her snooping repulsive.<\/p>\n Another alarming red flag that you\u2019re involved with a crazy girlfriend is when she stalks you.<\/p>\n Todo empieza con tus perfiles en las redes sociales pero, al cabo de un tiempo, empieza a hacerlo tambi\u00e9n en persona.<\/p>\n No, I\u2019m not talking just about the fact that she is the first person who watches all of your Instagram and Snapchat stories and the one who likes and comments on literally all of your photos and status updates.<\/p>\n El problema aqu\u00ed es mucho mayor. El problema es que tu novia ve tus perfiles en las redes sociales como su principal fuente de informaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Se considera una agente secreta cuyo trabajo consiste en diseccionar toda la informaci\u00f3n disponible.<\/strong><\/p>\n She constantly snoops through your friends\u2019 lists, looking for unfamiliar girls.<\/p>\n Revisa tus gustos y comentarios y monta un esc\u00e1ndalo cada vez que encuentra algo con lo que no est\u00e1 contenta.<\/p>\n Not only that but another source of drama is your online status. According to her demands, you can\u2019t be online unless you\u2019re texting her.<\/p>\n Also, she gets mad at you if you don\u2019t reply to her text messages right away, especially if you leave her on read.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t misunderstand me; deliberately ignoring your girlfriend on social media or messaging apps while you\u2019re clearly active is rude and unnecessary. However, you can\u2019t be available 24\/7 either.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you read her text messages but simply don\u2019t have time to reply right away.<\/p>\n Maybe you\u2019re busy or just don\u2019t feel like talking and that is something she should understand.<\/p>\n Otra actividad que le gusta hacer es revisar tu tel\u00e9fono. <\/strong><\/p>\n Revisa tu historial de b\u00fasquedas, comprueba tus registros de llamadas y quiere tener acceso a todas tus conversaciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, this girl\u2019s detective skills don\u2019t end online. The fact is that you\u2019ve caught her following you around on several occasions.<\/strong><\/p>\n Al principio, pensaste que era una coincidencia. Hab\u00edas salido con tus amigos y, al cabo de un rato, ella apareci\u00f3 en el mismo sitio.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, esto se convirti\u00f3 en algo habitual.<\/p>\n Being your romantic partner, it\u2019s perfectly natural for this girl to know your schedule and habits. The problem is that she uses this info against you.<\/p>\n She keeps showing up in places where she knows she\u2019ll encounter you and she asks her friends to look out for you when you go out without her.<\/p>\n If this sounds familiar, maybe it\u2019s time to check to see if she has installed a GPS device in your car or maybe there is a listening device in your apartment.<\/p>\n Aunque pueda parecer una locura, cr\u00e9eme, \u00a1un acosador est\u00e1 dispuesto a hacer esto!<\/p>\n The thing that almost always comes hand in hand with psychotic behavior is lying. To be precise, this is not the \u2018ordinary\u2019 type of lying, we\u2019re talking about compulsive lying here.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not that this girl just tells an occasional lie. After all, who doesn\u2019t do this from time to time? It\u2019s not that she sometimes tells you a white lie, with the purpose of sparing your feelings.<\/p>\n Lleva la mentira en la sangre. Lo hace como un h\u00e1bito un mentiroso patol\u00f3gico<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por supuesto, todas sus mentiras tienen un \u00fanico prop\u00f3sito: hacer que la ames a\u00fan m\u00e1s y mantenerte a su lado.<\/strong><\/p>\n For example, whenever she feels like you\u2019re getting cold in the relationship, she\u2019ll invent something to make her appear as a victim.<\/p>\n Le ha pasado algo malo, como que la han agredido, o necesita tu ayuda.<\/p>\n This way, she plays the conscience card. She knows that you\u2019ll be there for her and that she\u2019ll get back under your skin.<\/p>\n Cuidado porque incluso est\u00e1 dispuesta a inventarse una situaci\u00f3n o afecci\u00f3n que ponga en peligro su vida.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll tell you that she is ill and that she needs your help, just to prevent you from leaving her.<\/p>\n El tipo de mentira que suelen decir las locas tiene como objetivo quedar mejor.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll go so far as to claim that she has a higher education than she actually has, that she was a supermodel in the past or that she\u2019s friends with some celebs or influential people.<\/p>\n Lol, the joke is on her because you couldn’t care less about any of these things. However, she still does it just to impress you.<\/p>\n Basically, what she\u2019s doing is making up a false past, so you end up thinking that she\u2019s accomplished something she hasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n Si sospecha que su GF es un mentiroso compulsivo<\/a>, first of all, you need to check if the facts add up. If you\u2019re still not sure, pay attention to her body language signos de enga\u00f1o y mentira<\/a>.<\/p>\n If you ask yourself: “What should my girlfriend be like?” you\u2019ll probably think that one of the most important things you want from her is to care about you.<\/p>\n What man doesn\u2019t like to be pampered and spoiled?<\/p>\n Te imaginas un GF que se preocupe por ti en todos los sentidos.<\/p>\n A girlfriend who will lose sleep over every single problem you might have and who will ask you if you\u2019ve eaten or are tired.<\/p>\n However, when you\u2019re involved with a crazy girlfriend, she will be overly protective.<\/p>\n In fact, most of the time, she\u2019ll act like your mother. She\u2019ll treat you like you\u2019re a child who can\u2019t take care of himself.<\/p>\n At first, you\u2019ll see this as a sign of her love for you. After all, you\u2019ve never had a woman like her by your side.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nevertheless, once some time has gone by, this behavior will start to suffocate you. You\u2019ll be tired of her and her overprotective nature.<\/strong><\/p>\n Esta chica querr\u00e1 saber todos los detalles de tu vida.<\/p>\n Whenever you go out, she\u2019ll ask you a list of questions, including where you\u2019re going, what you\u2019ll be doing, who you\u2019re seeing and exactly when you\u2019re coming home.<\/p>\n She hates it when you want to do something that doesn\u2019t include her. Instead, she wants to be involved in every single aspect of your life.<\/p>\n The thing about this scenario is that it will take you somewhat longer to figure out her true intentions. At first, you\u2019ll really think that she is just being attentive.<\/p>\n This is the type of girl who\u2019ll pretend that she is actually saving you from all life troubles. If you have some errands to do, she\u2019ll offer to do them for you.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll buy your mother\u2019s birthday present for you, so you don\u2019t have to do it, she\u2019ll make you an appointment at her hairdresser or your doctor, she won\u2019t allow you to eat out because she\u2019ll cook for you, she’ll be the one who chooses what T-shirt to wear\u2026<\/p>\n The list can go on forever but I\u2019m sure you get the point.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the same with your friends, co-workers and even family.<\/p>\n De su primera cita<\/a> onward, you\u2019ll see her as some sort of messiah who came into your life to rescue you from all the gente t\u00f3xica<\/a> en tu vida.<\/p>\n She is the one who\u2019ll allegedly see right through their bad intentions. According to her, nobody in your surroundings means you well.<\/p>\n They all have a hidden agenda and they\u2019re using you. Of course, she won\u2019t tell you directly to ditch your old friends but this is her final goal.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be straight here; every girl wants her boyfriend\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n After all, this shouldn\u2019t even be questioned because otherwise what are you doing with a woman you won\u2019t give any of your time or interest to?<\/p>\n Sin embargo, el problema con una novia psic\u00f3pata es que quiere toda tu atenci\u00f3n. Y cuando digo toda, quiero decir toda.<\/p>\n If it were up to her, you wouldn\u2019t have a mejor amigo<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n There is no need for you to visit your parents, siblings or other relatives. In fact, it would be best if you didn\u2019t have to go to work either.<\/strong><\/p>\n Est\u00e1 tan necesitada<\/a> that she can\u2019t stand the fact that you had a life before she came along. She can\u2019t grasp the fact that you can\u2019t be with her 24\/7.<\/strong><\/p>\n She doesn\u2019t accept the fact that you have interests or hobbies or that you need some space and time without her.<\/p>\n In fact, as soon as you want to go out or do anything that doesn\u2019t include her, she\u2019ll make a fuss about it.<\/p>\n Apparently, it\u2019s a sign that you\u2019ve got bored of her, that you got tired of your relationship and finally, that you don\u2019t love her anymore.<\/p>\n Esta chica es posesiva hasta el punto de sentirse intimidada por todos los de su entorno.<\/p>\n Se siente amenazada cuando sales a tomar algo con los chicos, cuando ves un partido de f\u00fatbol o cuando hablas con tu madre por tel\u00e9fono, lo cual es, por supuesto, una locura.<\/p>\n Lo peor de todo es que te hace sentir culpable por pasar tiempo o prestar tu atenci\u00f3n a otra persona que no sea ella.<\/p>\n You\u2019re the center of her world and she expects the same treatment back.<\/p>\n Of course, she doesn\u2019t realize that this is not what a healthy relationship should look like.<\/p>\n She doesn\u2019t understand (or refuses to understand) that you two are separate individuals who have separate lives, despite your romance.<\/p>\n The next sign that you\u2019re dealing with a novia psic\u00f3tica<\/a> es que vosotros dos segu\u00eds discutiendo.<\/p>\n Aunque toda relaci\u00f3n es una calle de doble sentido y ambos miembros de la pareja tienen parte de responsabilidad en todo lo que ocurre entre ellos, lo cierto es que tu GF es la que m\u00e1s peleas protagoniza.<\/p>\n El hecho es que tiene cambios de humor incre\u00edbles.<\/p>\n It\u2019s one thing if these mood swings are a consequence of something. However, with this kind of woman, you never know what to expect. <\/strong><\/p>\n She\u2019ll be laughing in one moment and then start crying, out of the blue.<\/strong><\/p>\n At first, you think that you\u2019re responsible for these changes in behavior. To be exact, this is what she will try to make you think.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, entiendes que esto es s\u00f3lo una parte de su personalidad y que no hay nada que puedas hacer para ayudarla a sentirse mejor o para que est\u00e9 m\u00e1s tranquila.<\/p>\n The worst part is these fights. There is absolutely nothing she won\u2019t argue about if she is in her angry phase.<\/p>\n Todo con esta chica se convierte en un problema.<\/p>\n Durante alg\u00fan tiempo, intentas mantener la paz y haces todo lo posible por no responder a sus provocaciones.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, you can\u2019t keep up with this behavior forever.<\/p>\n Tarde o temprano, se las arregla para arrastrarte a todas estas discusiones, de modo que vuestra relaci\u00f3n se envenena a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n In fact, now you have only two stages: one in which you\u2019re about to leave one another for good and one where you\u2019re more crazy about each other than anything and when your love skyrockets.<\/p>\n Basically, the problem is that there is no peace. There doesn\u2019t exist a calm phase and a relationship like that cannot be maintained.<\/p>\n Cuando tu novia intenta controlar toda tu vida, puede ser una clara se\u00f1al de que es una psic\u00f3pata.<\/p>\n Yes, the truth is that you two are a couple now so you shouldn\u2019t be making any radical changes in your life which might affect both of you without consulting her.<\/p>\n Por ejemplo, ser\u00eda m\u00e1s que desconsiderado decidir mudarte a otra ciudad sin hablarlo con tu pareja y sin informarle de tu elecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, que sea tu media naranja no significa que tenga derecho a controlar todo lo que haces o piensas.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, esto es exactamente lo que quiere esta chica, tomar el control de tu vida, ya que es una mani\u00e1tico del control<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ser\u00eda la persona m\u00e1s feliz del mundo si tuviera la oportunidad de tratarte como a una marioneta suya. <\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s like you have no brain of your own and she is in charge of your entire existence.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quiere controlar con qui\u00e9n pasas el tiempo, cu\u00e1ntas horas duermes, qu\u00e9 programas de televisi\u00f3n ves y otras tonter\u00edas similares.<\/p>\n El principal problema es que est\u00e1 paranoica.<\/p>\n She lives in constant fear that sooner or later, you’ll romper<\/a> with her and she’ll become your ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n Mire donde mire, ve diferentes amenazas para vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Seg\u00fan ella, todos los que os rodean quieren apartarte de ella y perjudicar vuestra relaci\u00f3n de una forma u otra.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, en lugar de tratar esta afecci\u00f3n y hacer algo para al menos minimizarla, lo \u00fanico que puede hacer es convertirse en una obsesa del control.<\/p>\n Esta loca est\u00e1 convencida de que no pasar\u00e1 nada malo entre vosotros dos mientras cada detalle de vuestra vida y vuestro romance est\u00e9 en sus manos.<\/p>\n Por supuesto, esto s\u00f3lo produce un efecto contraproducente. En lugar de mantenerte m\u00e1s cerca, en realidad te est\u00e1 persiguiendo cada vez m\u00e1s lejos.<\/p>\n Ver\u00e1s, hay una diferencia entre el comportamiento posesivo y los celos. Bueno, la mala noticia es que tu novia psic\u00f3pata es a la vez posesiva y locamente celosa.<\/p>\n When you get with a new girl, you\u2019re flattered by the fact that your partner is apparently afraid of losing you.<\/p>\n Sus celos te parecen simp\u00e1ticos y los ves como una se\u00f1al de lo que siente por ti.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, tu novia no es tan celosa. De hecho, sus celos traspasan todos los l\u00edmites posibles del comportamiento normal.<\/p>\n Por lo que a ella respecta, todas las mujeres que te rodean est\u00e1n interesadas en ti. <\/strong><\/p>\nSiempre est\u00e1 metida en tus asuntos<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/jealous-woman-snooping.jpg\")
<\/p>\nTe acosa online y en persona<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-using-phone.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/upset-young-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEs una mentirosa compulsiva<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-sitting-in-the-sidewalk.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"joven](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-man-sitting.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEs excesivamente protectora<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/worried-woman-calling.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/latin-couple-arguing.jpg\")
<\/p>\nQuiere toda tu atenci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
![\"imagen](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/image-of-a-pensive-man.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sad-man-having.jpg\")
<\/p>\nBusca peleas innecesarias<\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-walking-.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/stressed-and-sad.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEs una controladora paranoica<\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-arguing-sitting.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"joven](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-couple-arguing.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEst\u00e1 locamente celosa<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/upset-woman-nagging.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
![\"esposa](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/angry-upset-wife.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"una](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-woman-is-hitting.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/young-pensive-man.jpg\")
<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-with-a-blue-eye.jpg\")
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