{"id":111625,"date":"2020-11-09T12:59:08","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T12:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=111625"},"modified":"2022-11-20T21:39:46","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T21:39:46","slug":"doble-envio-de-mensajes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/doble-envio-de-mensajes\/","title":{"rendered":"Todo lo que debe saber sobre los mensajes de texto dobles"},"content":{"rendered":"

Los mensajes de texto son inevitablemente el medio de comunicaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s popular hoy en d\u00eda y, en mi opini\u00f3n, son a la vez una bendici\u00f3n y una maldici\u00f3n. Nos ayuda a conectar con otras personas pero, al mismo tiempo, puede ser realmente frustrante.<\/p>\n

These are the drawbacks that I’ve experienced from my female perspective: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ignora mis mensajes de repente? \u00bfDebo volver a enviarle mensajes o esperar un poco m\u00e1s? \u00bfPuede alguien decirme qu\u00e9 est\u00e1 pasando exactamente?<\/em><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de procesar todos estos pensamientos agotadores, suelo sentarme junto a mi tel\u00e9fono las 24 horas del d\u00eda, llev\u00e1ndolo conmigo a todas partes (incluso al ba\u00f1o) y esperando secretamente que me respondan pronto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este proceso de ghosting virtual se convierte en una pesadilla, que te impide conciliar el sue\u00f1o o incluso comer correctamente (si REALMENTE te gusta esa persona).<\/p>\n

The thing is, we’ve all been ignored at some point when texting and I’m sure that’s how the term double texting came to life!<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el doble mensaje?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know. Texting and our love lives were sufficiently complicated and nerve-wracking even without these additional terms but I guess it’s in our human nature to want to define everything.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed pues, enviar un doble mensaje de texto (como su nombre indica) significa volver a enviar un mensaje de texto a alguien despu\u00e9s de cierto tiempo, antes incluso de recibir su respuesta al primer mensaje.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Empiezas esperando su respuesta y, cuando pierdes los nervios o te pica la ansiedad o la curiosidad, decides enviarle otro mensaje (y quiz\u00e1 otro).<\/p>\n

Here’s the million-dollar question:<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs malo enviar dos mensajes de texto?<\/strong><\/p>\n

No necesariamente. A veces es malo, pero otras no. Todo depende del contexto, de la persona a la que env\u00edes el mensaje, de tu intenci\u00f3n, etc.<\/p>\n

If you double text the right way, there shouldn’t be any problems. To help you with that, here are all the pros and cons of double-texting as well as the brilliant tip of how long you should wait before double texting.<\/p>\n

So, let’s get started!<\/p>\n

5 ventajas de los mensajes de texto dobles<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Puede ayudarte a mantener la conversaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I bet there’s nothing more annoying in the whole world than experiencing the moment where you suddenly run out of interesting things to talk about with another person.<\/p>\n

Les env\u00edas un mensaje de texto que no es en absoluto algo que hubieras querido enviarles en primer lugar, pero aun as\u00ed lo haces.<\/p>\n

Puedes sentir que la conversaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 a punto de terminar justo en ese momento y te apartas y dejas solo el tel\u00e9fono.<\/p>\n

Pero al cabo de un tiempo, te viene a la cabeza una pregunta o un tema brillante y se lo env\u00edas cuanto antes antes antes de que se te olvide hacerlo.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1ndales un mensaje como: Oh, I forgot to ask you something…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Before you know it, your convo is flourishing again and there’s no happier person in the world than you (assuming you really like them a lot).<\/p>\n

Y ah\u00ed es donde los mensajes dobles resultan realmente \u00fatiles. Puede ayudarte a mantener la conversaci\u00f3n y a dominar el arte de no ser un sms seco.<\/p>\n

It shows that you’re interested<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I’m pretty sure that you’re familiar with the concept of playing hard to get, right? It’s when you’re pretending that you’re not interested in order to make the other person interested in you.<\/p>\n

Me cans\u00e9 incluso de intentar definirlo, por no hablar de experimentarlo.<\/p>\n

Well, here’s something you probably don’t hear that often: Not playing hard to get will also show a guy (or girl) that you’re interested!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Seriously, you don’t need to ignore them, wait for an eternity to text them back or refrain from sending any emojis in order to send them the message that you’re not really interested (when in reality you are).<\/p>\n

If you double text them, they will see that you don’t give a damn about any of that. They will see you as a laid-back person who is not willing to follow the rules imposed by society.<\/p>\n

They will notice that you’re interested and in a world of all that faking, who wouldn’t enjoy texting with a genuine person (finally)?<\/p>\n

See also: 10 Adorable Texting Habits That Reveal He’s Into You<\/p>\n

Muestras determinaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si crees que hacerse el dif\u00edcil es complicado, escucha esto. Al parecer, a algunas personas les gusta ponerte a prueba a trav\u00e9s de mensajes de texto para saber si est\u00e1s REALMENTE interesado en ellas.<\/p>\n

They do it by not replying to your texts and waiting to see if you\u2019ll text them again, aka double text them.<\/p>\n

If you send them a second text even though they still haven’t replied to the first one, this will let them know that you’re really into them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

People usually like to do this after the first date. Now that they know you better, they decide to test you to see whether you’re interested in them as much as they are in you.<\/p>\n

It shows that you’re not afraid to show your true colors<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Raise your hand if you’re really sick of fake social media lives, texting secrets and all those trending things that shouldn’t be trending at all. I stopped typing for a moment then to honor the memory of real life.<\/p>\n

Do you want to tell the world that you’re not afraid of showing your true colors? Do you want to be genuine with that one person you really like?<\/p>\n

Then you definitely shouldn’t worry about double texting a guy or girl. By doing that, you’ll show them that you’re not interested in following the crowd or texting rules.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you double text them, they will know that you’re not afraid of being who you are, which is really rare and refreshing in a world full of artificiality.<\/p>\n

Puede ayudar a aliviar su tensi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Whether you met on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble or some other dating app, you can still feel equally anxious when messaging. Or if you’ve recently been on a first date, you may not have the courage to decide to text first.<\/p>\n

Si env\u00edas dos mensajes de texto a alguien, le ayudar\u00e1s a aliviar su tensi\u00f3n y se sentir\u00e1 menos ansioso por ponerse en contacto contigo primero. Ambos os sentir\u00e9is m\u00e1s relajados, lo que os permitir\u00e1 establecer una poderosa qu\u00edmica textual.<\/p>\n

A veces tienes que ser t\u00fa quien rompa el hielo cuando se trata de enviar mensajes de texto, porque la otra persona no es tan valiente.<\/p>\n

Pero si sabes a ciencia cierta que es una persona extrovertida y no tiene problemas en enviarte primero un mensaje de texto, puedes dejar que tome la iniciativa.<\/p>\n

5 desventajas de los mensajes de texto dobles<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Puedes parecer pegajoso o necesitado<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Before I write anything else, I’d like to accentuate the fact that appearing clingy or needy when texting greatly depends on the context.<\/p>\n

So, let’s say that you asked them something like: \u00bfQuieres ir a tomar una copa conmigo?<\/em> You wait approximately five minutes for them to reply. If they don’t, you send them a follow-up text: Please, let’s go for a drink!\u00a0<\/em>You can’t help yourself but think: Siempre escribo primero<\/a> y siempre espero horas o d\u00edas su respuesta.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Here’s the most valuable dating advice you’ll ever receive:<\/strong> Don’t appear clingy or needy. By begging the other person to do something, you’re at risk of being seen as desperate and needy.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, ninguna chica o chico quiere salir con alguien que act\u00faa as\u00ed. As\u00ed que, antes de decidirte a mandar un doble mensaje a alguien, presta atenci\u00f3n al contexto del mensaje que quieres enviarle.<\/p>\n

And don’t worry, I completely understand you. Things like this make an epistolary relationship (exchanging letters) sound like the promised land.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00edas molestarles<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This one is also related to the context of your messages. Let’s say that you send them a normal text message and they haven’t replied yet.<\/p>\n

Entonces decides enviarles montones de Snapchats o HaHas para captar su atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Don’t do that because this can be a huge turn-off. Also, don’t insist on playing fun texting games the first time you text someone. Keep in mind that not everyone is in the mood for that at the time.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether you’re double texting a girl or guy, always imagine their potential reply or reaction to the message you want to send them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imagina que el texto que quieres enviarles te lo env\u00eda otra persona. \u00bfC\u00f3mo reaccionar\u00edas? \u00bfTe alegrar\u00eda o te molestar\u00eda?<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 14 cosas inteligentes que hacer cuando no te contesta en d\u00edas<\/a><\/p>\n

Once you double text, there’s no going back<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I’ve noticed that most of the time, I’m a quick texter, which is a bad thing. I just go with the flow and send the first thing that comes to my mind.<\/p>\n

Later, after I realize that there’s no going back after sending it, I re-read that text message a million times in order to be sure that I haven’t messed things up.<\/p>\n

But that’s just me. I’m a natural overthinker, which has cost me a lot of time and nerves. So, what I’m trying to say is once you double text them, there’s no going back.<\/p>\n

Un mal mensaje puede arruinar tu nueva relaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que ten cuidado con c\u00f3mo te expresas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I often find myself sending something I didn’t want to send in the first place and then end up cursing the universe, the modern era, cell phones and other things for allowing me to do that.<\/p>\n

Dependiendo de tu tel\u00e9fono, podr\u00edas decidir borrar el texto que les enviaste, pero si lo haces lo sabr\u00e1n, lo que es a\u00fan m\u00e1s embarazoso.<\/p>\n

Mi humilde consejo es: Don’t double text them when you’re feeling anxious or mad because chances are you’ll send something you didn’t mean to send. I call that texting by impulse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

See also: 5 Signs He’s Only Texting You When He’s Bored Or Lonely<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda asustarles<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Another thing you should pay attention to is the reason why they haven’t texted you back yet.<\/p>\n

Usually, we like to think that it’s because they’re not interested, they’re playing hard to get with us, they’re deliberately ignoring us and so on.<\/p>\n

Estas suposiciones pueden volvernos locos y obligarnos a enviar una pl\u00e9tora de mensajes de texto irrelevantes y molestos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now imagine that the reason why they haven’t texted you back is because of something important that happened to them regarding their family, pet, friends, job, etc.<\/p>\n

We like to think that the world revolves around us but that’s not the truth. Even though you’re still waiting for their reply, this doesn’t necessarily mean they have forgotten about you completely.<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s probable es que vuelvan a ponerse en contacto contigo cuando encuentren tiempo para ello, y lo \u00faltimo que necesitas es asustarles con un mont\u00f3n de mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n

Esto podr\u00eda inspirarles a seguir adelante y olvidarse de enviar esa respuesta tan esperada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Les transfieres el poder<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter how weird it sounds, by deciding to double text someone, you might be shifting the power to them. Again, it all depends on the recipient’s interpretation of it.<\/p>\n

To help you understand it better, here’s what it means to shift the power to them in texting: When they are not replying to your texts and you’re not doing anything about it, you’re in a neutral texting position because you’re showing them that you don’t really care about any of it or that you’re indifferent.<\/p>\n

By sending them a follow-up message, you’re giving them the power to ghost you again. If that doesn’t bother you, that’s okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t feel comfortable with it, then you should wait for their reply first and then text them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Recuerdo cuando estaba locamente enamorada de un chico y me desviv\u00eda por enviarle varios mensajes antes de que me contestara al primero. Despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, me di cuenta de que se estaba alejando y actuaba de forma extra\u00f1a.<\/p>\n

Cuando se lo cont\u00e9 a mi amiga, me dio el mejor consejo sobre relaciones: Deja de mandarle mensajes y a ver qu\u00e9 pasa.<\/em> Dije: Vale. Supongo que no tengo nada que perder.<\/em><\/p>\n

Lo y he aqu\u00ed, despu\u00e9s de unos d\u00edas, primero me envi\u00f3 un mensaje para disculparse<\/a> por ser raro y pedirme una cita.<\/p>\n

Bueno, esta vez le dej\u00e9 deliberadamente esperar un poco m\u00e1s a mi respuesta y luego acept\u00e9 casualmente tener una cita. (Dios, realmente odio las citas).<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo hay que esperar antes de enviar un doble mensaje?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Otra pregunta del mill\u00f3n: \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo hay que esperar antes de enviar un mensaje de seguimiento?<\/em><\/p>\n

De nuevo, depende del contexto. Enviarles un segundo mensaje al cabo de unos minutos que diga algo as\u00ed como: Oh, I forgot to ask you something…<\/strong><\/em> est\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\n

Or let’s say that you asked them to attend an event with you and they still haven’t replied to you. You can ask them again before the event whether they are interested to go or not.<\/p>\n

In all other situations, ideally, you should double text them after three to five days (or a week) but only if they haven’t read your message yet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they did read your message and you’re sure that you saw them online, DO NOT send them a follow-up text because it might make you look desperate or needy.<\/p>\n

Trust me because I’ve tried both.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I double texted someone even though I had seen that they had read the first text and didn’t respond and it didn’t go too well.<\/p>\n

Then, when I double texted someone who hadn\u2019t yet read my first text, it all went smoothly.<\/p>\n

So, no matter how mad, furious or disappointed you’re feeling at that moment, don’t double text them if they have \u2018Seen\u2019 or \u2018Read\u2019 it. Instead, stop texting them for a few days.<\/p>\n

There are so many things you can do if they don’t text back for days.<\/p>\n

Focus on yourself, go out for a walk, have fun with your friends and do whatever you wish but don’t text them and then, when you least expect it, they will text you back.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo dejar de enviar mensajes dobles?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si crees que tienes un grave problema con el env\u00edo de (demasiados) mensajes de seguimiento y quieres dejar de hacerlo, aqu\u00ed tienes algunos consejos \u00fatiles que te ayudar\u00e1n:<\/p>\n

El \u00fanico momento en el que deber\u00edas duplicar el texto es cuando realmente tienes que hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Pi\u00e9nsatelo durante alg\u00fan tiempo antes de decidirte a hacerlo<\/p>\n

Espera unas horas antes de enviarles un doble mensaje de texto<\/p>\n

Over time, you can increase the waiting period before sending a follow-up message. You can wait for a few days and then, gradually, you’ll be able to stop.<\/p>\n

Don’t let the art of double texting interfere with your happiness!<\/h2>\n

Preg\u00fantese siempre si algo es lo suficientemente importante como para enviarlo. Te arrepentir\u00e1s de no haberlo enviado o preferir\u00e1s arrepentirte de haberlo enviado?<\/p>\n

However, make sure not to overthink it too much. Don’t let double texting make you anxious or like you’re trying too hard not to be who you really are.<\/p>\n

If you follow the above rules and memorize all the pros and cons of texting, you’ll be just fine. El secreto est\u00e1 en encontrar el equilibrio entre ser un redactor seco y un redactor que se esfuerza demasiado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como siempre, el equilibrio es la clave de todo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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