{"id":11170,"date":"2020-08-29T09:30:41","date_gmt":"2020-08-29T09:30:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11170"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:57:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:57:27","slug":"11-senales-pareja-control-freak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-senales-pareja-control-freak\/","title":{"rendered":"11 se\u00f1ales de que su pareja es un mani\u00e1tico del control"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las relaciones t\u00f3xicas pueden sorprender a cualquiera, y aunque la mayor\u00eda de nosotros percibimos a una pareja controladora como alguien f\u00edsicamente agresivo o que constantemente lanza amenazas o ultim\u00e1tums, el control se manifiesta de muchas formas.<\/p>\n

Socios de control<\/a> utilizan todo un arsenal de herramientas para dominar a su pareja, y a veces la manipulaci\u00f3n llega hasta el punto de que la persona controlada se ve a s\u00ed misma como un villano.<\/p>\n

Whether controlling behavior leads to some serious emotional and physical damage or not, it\u2019s not a healthy situation to be in. If you recognize any of these signs in your partner\u2019s behavior, take it seriously and consider walking away as the right call to make.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00edticas cr\u00f3nicas<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Criticism starts with something small, something you don\u2019t even notice until it\u2019s too late. You might even think it\u2019s for your own good, it\u2019s because he wants you healthy.<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t think that it\u2019s doing any damage to you, but hearing constant criticism, constant complaints on the way you behave, the way you dress or work, slowly makes you feel less worthy and makes it hard to feel loved, validated or accepted.<\/p>\n

If everything you do needs some kind of improvement in your partner\u2019s eyes, then how can that be unconditional love? How can that be a relationship between two equal partners?<\/p>\n

Hacerte dudar de ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

A controlling partner finds a way of planting a seed of doubt in you, about whether you\u2019re smart, pretty or talented enough. This is a way he can take away your autonomy and make you completely depend on him.<\/p>\n

Ya te quit\u00f3 tu apoyo y tu fuerza, y una vez que te quita tus sue\u00f1os, tiene todo el poder.<\/p>\n

If you find yourself giving up on your dreams because your partner thinks they\u2019re silly, or because he thinks you\u2019re not smart or hard-working enough, give up on him instead.<\/p>\n

Ning\u00fan hombre es digno de perder tus sue\u00f1os y esperanzas.<\/p>\n

Amenazas<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

We often believe that threats are not problematic until they\u2019re physical, but threatening to leave or to harm themselves or cutting off privileges are as harmful as the physical ones.<\/p>\n

We feel trapped in such relationships not because we\u2019re scared to leave or because we\u2019re scared of a new beginning but because we\u2019re scared of something our partner will do to himself.<\/p>\n

Threats such as being denied access to children, financial support or a home to live in, whether they\u2019re genuine or not, are still forms of controlling abuse in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Espiar o exigir revelaciones constantes<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Los obsesos del control tienen la necesidad de saber cada minuto de tu d\u00eda. Puede fisgonear en secreto en tu tel\u00e9fono o exigirte abiertamente que le des tus contrase\u00f1as y los detalles de tu d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

His favorite excuse\u2014If you have nothing to hide, then what\u2019s the big deal? It is a big deal if you\u2019re being questioned all the time in the one place where you should feel accepted. Your privacy is being violated in the one place where it should be safe. It\u2019s a huge deal.<\/p>\n

Aislamiento de amigos o familiares<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

This often starts subtly, but he will try to strip you of your family and friends and the support they provide you, to strip you of your strength. This way, you won\u2019t be strong enough to step up against him when he wants to win.<\/p>\n

Te pedir\u00e1 que pases tiempo con \u00e9l, hablar\u00e1 mal de tus amigos, manipul\u00e1ndote poco a poco para que s\u00f3lo conf\u00edes en \u00e9l, lo que le da un control total sobre tu vida.<\/p>\n

No respetar tu tiempo a solas<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

It\u2019s another way of stripping you of your strength. He finds a way to make you feel guilty for taking time to recharge, or making you feel like you don\u2019t love him enough to share all of your time with him.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s completely normal if partners have different needs for time alone, but in a healthy relationship that\u2019s something you can talk about and compromise on. But in a controlling relationship, all of your alone time becomes his time.<\/p>\n

Celos hiperactivos<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Sus celos<\/a> puede ser encantador y halagador al principio, pero con el tiempo se vuelve molesto. Y a medida que avanz\u00e1is como pareja, se vuelve fatal.<\/p>\n

He sees your behavior as flirty all the time, whether you\u2019re talking to a friend, a cousin or some random man at the bar who spilled his drink over you.<\/p>\n

Expresar\u00e1 agresivamente sus emociones, diciendo c\u00f3mo conoce a los hombres y c\u00f3mo s\u00f3lo quieren una cosa. Te sentir\u00e1s constantemente culpable y empezar\u00e1s a vivir con miedo a sus reacciones por la gente con la que pasas el tiempo.<\/p>\n

Condicionar el amor<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you would just try a little bit more and lose more weight, you\u2019d be perfect for me. If you can\u2019t even bother to make me dinner, I don\u2019t know what I\u2019m even doing in this relationship.<\/p>\n

If you could wear your hair like this, I would definitely take you out.\u201d This message is simple\u2014you, right now, are not enough.<\/p>\n

If you have to earn his love, if you have to earn acceptance and for him to be caring, then it\u2019s not worth staying.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re guilty until proven otherwise<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

A controlling person is very skilled in making you feel guilty for something you didn\u2019t even do or you shouldn\u2019t feel guilty for doing.<\/p>\n

You could come home to him already furious about you doing something, something he imagined in his head and it will seem to you that he already has the whole case built against you, even if you don\u2019t understand it.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed te manipular\u00e1 para que juegues seg\u00fan sus reglas, haciendo que te comportes exactamente como \u00e9l quiere.<\/p>\n

Haci\u00e9ndote sentir indigna de \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Su manipulaci\u00f3n es tan fuerte que te sientes agradecida de estar con \u00e9l, lo que no deber\u00eda ser el caso. Deber\u00eda ser al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Whether he does it by comparing you to his exes, comparing your professional success with his or by slowly undermining your self-confidence, he will not stop until he meets his goal, and that\u2019s making sure you never leave, because, how could you?<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the best out there and you\u2019re blessed to be with him.<\/p>\n

Interacciones sexuales que despu\u00e9s resultan molestas<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

El comportamiento controlador y abusivo a menudo se traslada al dormitorio. Juega a lo mismo, te hace sentir culpable, te manipula y te quita la confianza en ti misma.<\/p>\n

If you constantly feel unsettled about your sexual relationship, it\u2019s a sign that something is wrong.<\/p>\n

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