{"id":11250,"date":"2020-04-04T08:35:19","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T08:35:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11250"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:17:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:17:14","slug":"carta-ex-toxico-gracias-hacer-mas-fuerte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-ex-toxico-gracias-hacer-mas-fuerte\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a mi ex t\u00f3xico: Gracias por hacerme m\u00e1s fuerte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ni en un mill\u00f3n de a\u00f1os habr\u00eda imaginado enamorarme tan profundamente de otra persona... hasta que llegaste a mi vida<\/a>. Lo eras todo para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Habr\u00eda ido al fin del mundo s\u00f3lo para hacerte feliz. Porque la felicidad me consum\u00eda cuando empezamos a salir.<\/p>\n

Everything we had seemed so surreal, like some kind of a dream I didn\u2019t want to wake up from.<\/p>\n

Resulta que, efectivamente, era s\u00f3lo un sue\u00f1o y, por desgracia, no tuve m\u00e1s remedio que despertarme.<\/p>\n

And when the reality hit me, it felt like those dreams were history and I\u2019d woken up from my worst nightmare.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what you were to me\u2014the most beautiful dream and the most awful nightmare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A menudo he o\u00eddo historias sobre c\u00f3mo cambia la gente, c\u00f3mo algo en su interior est\u00e1 podrido y son capaces de ocultarlo durante mucho tiempo pero, en alg\u00fan momento, tiene que salir a la superficie. Me has hecho creyente y contadora de esas horribles historias.<\/p>\n

Dijiste que me amabas pero nunca supiste realmente c\u00f3mo amar. Amaste con un amor tan t\u00f3xico que casi me mata por dentro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t see it then but I see it clearly now; you were like a puppet master, pulling every one of the strings.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas todas las palabras adecuadas. Sab\u00edas exactamente qu\u00e9 decir y c\u00f3mo decirlo, para meterte en mi piel y obligarme a hacer las cosas a tu manera.<\/p>\n

Sus habilidades de manipulaci\u00f3n<\/a> estaban fuera de mi \u00e1rea de especializaci\u00f3n, ya que nunca me hab\u00eda topado con alguien como usted.<\/p>\n

Mezclaste lo bueno con lo malo con tanta habilidad y naturalidad que no tuve ni idea de lo que estaba pasando hasta que todo termin\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Nothing was ever your fault; you made me take the blame for the things I knew weren\u2019t my fault.<\/p>\n

Cuando perd\u00edas los nervios y me gritabas, tambi\u00e9n era culpa m\u00eda, yo te obligaba a hacerlo. Yo era el responsable de ponerte de los nervios.<\/p>\n

Gritabas y gritabas y me hac\u00edas sentir como el ser m\u00e1s peque\u00f1o y sin sentido de este planeta en un momento y al siguiente, pon\u00edas excusas por tu comportamiento y endulzabas todo lo que pasaba.<\/p>\n

Dec\u00edas cualquier cosa antes que admitir que eras t\u00fa el culpable. Nunca te sentiste c\u00f3modo pidiendo disculpas. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It was always easier for me to give in and to forgive. Until I couldn\u2019t anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Until one day I decided that enough was enough and I had to escape that hell I\u2019d been living with you.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan te amaba, pero no ten\u00eda otra opci\u00f3n que trazar la l\u00ednea y ponerme a m\u00ed primero. Olvid\u00e9 c\u00f3mo hacerlo contigo. Olvid\u00e9 c\u00f3mo amarme, respetarme y valorarme.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Estoy reconstruy\u00e9ndome ladrillo a ladrillo, d\u00eda a d\u00eda, sin importar el tiempo que me lleve. Quiero ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de m\u00ed misma. <\/em><\/p>\n

Quiero una relaci\u00f3n normal y sana cuando est\u00e9 preparada para ello.<\/em><\/p>\n

Quiero a alguien que me llene de besos en lugar de ahogarme en l\u00e1grimas.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Todos mis sentimientos te pertenec\u00edan<\/a> but it was time they came back to me. It\u2019s my time to be truly happy and I know that you have no place in my life if I want to achieve that.<\/p>\n

Gracias por mostrarme de qu\u00e9 estoy hecha. Gracias por demostrarme que soy m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que jam\u00e1s pens\u00e9. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Because leaving you required the strength I didn\u2019t know I possessed. Thank you for teaching me what love should never be like. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Gracias por permitirme reconocer lo correcto cuando por fin se cruza en mi camino.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gracias y adi\u00f3s para siempre. Ya no formas parte de m\u00ed ni de mi vida y ya no tienes un lugar en mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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