{"id":11255,"date":"2018-01-04T08:59:12","date_gmt":"2018-01-04T08:59:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11255"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:33:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:33:13","slug":"no-esperara-para-siempre-algun-dia-shell-solo-se-alejan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-esperara-para-siempre-algun-dia-shell-solo-se-alejan\/","title":{"rendered":"Ella No Te Esperar\u00e1 Siempre, Alg\u00fan D\u00eda Se Ir\u00e1 Sin M\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La dejaste en rid\u00edculo, pero s\u00f3lo fue temporal. Pod\u00edas actuar bajo tu m\u00e1scara, pero tu m\u00e1scara acabar\u00eda cayendo. Siempre lo hacen; s\u00f3lo era cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo. Que la lastimaras fue temporal porque ella te descubri\u00f3 en alg\u00fan momento, y se fue sin mirar atr\u00e1s. Todav\u00eda le quedaba algo de amor propio.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Depend\u00eda de ti. Ten\u00edas que elegir si cruzabas esa l\u00ednea que ella puso cuando se hart\u00f3 de tus mentiras y manipulaciones.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She has been in this world, dealing with men like you for far too long. Nothing could blind her anymore because she has had her share of broken hearts and she won\u2019t let you be yet another man who strings her along and hurts her in the end.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One day, she realized what you\u2019ve been doing to her and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/tipo-mujer-sabe-alejarse\/\">finalmente se march\u00f3.<\/a> Un d\u00eda cualquiera, cuando te despertaste, se hab\u00eda ido y estabas destrozado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ese momento en que su cabeza se aclar\u00f3 y cuando por fin tuvo el valor de dejarte, volvi\u00f3 a ser una mujer feliz a diferencia de ti. T\u00fa eras un desastre porque comprendiste lo que ten\u00edas y lo que perdiste. A partir de ese momento, lo lamentar\u00e1s, estar\u00e1s destrozado, pero ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde. Demasiado tarde para ti, no para ella.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No le diste nada en tu relaci\u00f3n. Le diste peque\u00f1os trozos de lo que realmente se merece. No le diste respeto ni amor incondicional. La pisoteaste porque ella nunca te neg\u00f3 ninguna de esas cosas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You never made her a priority. She was always somewhere at the bottom of your list. And what\u2019s even sadder\u2014she learned to live with that. She was sad and broken but she never lost hope that someday you will change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Pero, nunca lo hiciste.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ella vio lo bueno en ti. Ella vio este enorme potencial, ella mantuvo la esperanza de que va a salir, pero continu\u00f3 jugando su peque\u00f1o juego astuto porque estaba seguro de que nunca te dejar\u00e1. Supongo que la broma es para ti, porque ella se despert\u00f3 de su sue\u00f1o y sali\u00f3 de la falsa sensaci\u00f3n de que todo estar\u00eda bien y, por lo tanto, finalmente se alej\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/dio-por-sentada-la-bondad\/\">La diste por sentada<\/a> porque pensabas que el amor es f\u00e1cil de encontrar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You thought that it\u2019s easy to find someone who will love the whole of you; someone who will take your flaws and accept them because they are a part of you and they make you what you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did you really think she was staying with you because she had to? Let me break it to you\u2014NO! She stayed with you because she didn\u2019t want to give up on something that could be perfect, something that could last forever. If only you could have made more of an effort and made the two of you last. You would be the happiest person alive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11265 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/almos-bechtold-403084.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja abraz\u00e1ndose en el c\u00e9sped de un parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/almos-bechtold-403084.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/almos-bechtold-403084-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/almos-bechtold-403084-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/almos-bechtold-403084-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/almos-bechtold-403084-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b><i>She stayed because she wanted to fight for you. She cared for you and she wanted to keep you. She knew that things won\u2019t be great all the time. She knew she had to live through the hard times and despite that, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-elijo-incluso-cuando-no-eres-una-opcion\/\">ella segu\u00eda eligi\u00e9ndote<\/a> aunque la hiciste s\u00f3lo una opci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She was not asking for much. She wasn\u2019t asking for you to move mountains for her. She wasn\u2019t asking something impossible or crazy. She was only asking for you to commit to her because, despite everything, you would have made a good couple if you had wanted to try.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She wasn\u2019t asking to have a Cinderella ending. She didn\u2019t want to live in a fairy tale. She knew that life is tough and relationships are even tougher. She knew you have to fight hard if you want something to succeed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t run away from challenges. That\u2019s why she didn\u2019t give up on you. That\u2019s why she kept giving you second chances, although you didn\u2019t deserve them. She wanted you to last because she saw something close to perfection. She saw a potential life with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>She wanted to make you happy, but not at all costs. She wanted to wait for you and give you time to realize what you really want, but she didn\u2019t want to wait for you forever. &nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ahora, eso <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/justice-schanfarber\/why-women-leave-men-they-_b_8511584.html\" rel=\"noopener\">ha tenido suficiente y se ha ido<\/a>, you realize you were being a jerk to her. But, now, it\u2019s too late to make amends. She won\u2019t take you back because she stayed with you way too long, giving you chances to join her in that beautiful love she made for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, that she\u2019s left, you feel sorry. You think over and over in your head what a jerk you were. You want forgiveness, but you aren\u2019t entitled to ask for it Even you know that you overdid it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While you were together, you should have made time for her. You should have fought for her. You should have never shut her out or ignored her. You should have known that she wanted to be yours. She wanted to spend the rest of her life with you and you selfishly ignored that because you thought she won\u2019t be going anywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You made a stupid mistake and now you\u2019re paying for it. You were dumb enough to let such a woman slip away from your fingers. Now, try to live with what you\u2019ve done because never again will you find someone who loved you like she did.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You made her a fool, but it was only temporary. You could act underneath your mask, but your mask will fall eventually. They always do; it was just a matter of time. You hurting her was temporary because she figured you out at some point, and she just left without looking back. She still had&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":11264,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/brooke-cagle-52218.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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