{"id":11269,"date":"2020-05-27T09:19:29","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T09:19:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11269"},"modified":"2022-03-10T18:12:46","modified_gmt":"2022-03-10T18:12:46","slug":"10-formas-de-hacer-extranar-a-un-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-formas-de-hacer-extranar-a-un-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te eche de menos: 10 maneras f\u00e1ciles de conseguirlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i> C\u00f3mo hacer <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-verdaderas-razones-por-las-que-echas-de-menos-a-tu-ex\/\"><i> tu ex <\/i><\/a><i> miss you? First you need to ask yourself why exactly you want him to miss you in the first place, and when you\u2019ve got that figured out\u2026 you can start doing something about it. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve just been dumped or if you were the one doing the dumping, once a certain amount of time has passed, things start getting a bit clearer, and the reasons for the breakup start swimming to the surface.<\/p>\n<p>Es posible que te encuentres en un momento especialmente bajo en el que lo \u00fanico que necesitas y deseas es que alguien se limite a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-la-quieres-estate-a-su-lado\/\"> estar all\u00ed <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not used to being alone and quite frankly \u2013 it sucks! So you\u2019re looking for the quickest way out of this lonely predicament.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a funny thing\u2026 while you\u2019re in a relationship, you don\u2019t even realize how much you take some things for granted\u2026 <i> hasta que los pierdes<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Take his company for example. You\u2019re so used to having <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-para-que-tu-hombre-se-encarine-mas-contigo\/\"> tu hombre <\/a> a tu lado que pasar por las cosas t\u00fa solo ya no es una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You always had that rock in him, and you just knew that no matter how shitty things got, you weren\u2019t alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97922\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-woman-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And now that you\u2019re left to your own devices, you just don\u2019t know how to cope.<\/p>\n<p><i> You really want to be a strong, self-sufficient woman who doesn\u2019t need a man to feel whole, but the reality is a bit different. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>You are strong, and you are completely capable of being on your own\u2026 but it just doesn\u2019t feel right and you can&#8217;t but wonder <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/volvera-si-lo-dejo-solo-20-maneras-de-triunfar\/\">\u00bfvolver\u00e1?<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #363848;\">You feel that gaping hole so profoundly, and it\u2019s getting harder and harder to breathe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not necessarily that you need him <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/you-can-live-a-life-full-of-love-even-without-a-man-by-your-side\/\"> a tu lado <\/a> , t\u00fa <i> desea <\/i> him there. It\u2019s like a part of you is missing.<\/p>\n<p><i> Rel\u00e1jate. Todo esto forma parte del proceso de duelo por algo que significaba mucho para ti. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, esta persona ha estado a tu lado durante mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Perderlos se siente como perder un miembro, as\u00ed que date tiempo para llorar adecuadamente y reevaluar si conseguir <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-razones-por-las-que-tu-pareja-volvera-con-su-ex\/\"> de nuevo juntos <\/a> en alg\u00fan momento en el futuro es una opci\u00f3n viable.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97923\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/desperate-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"mujer desesperada llorando\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/desperate-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/desperate-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/desperate-woman-crying-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/desperate-woman-crying-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/desperate-woman-crying-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i> And while you\u2019re taking your time with that, the best thing you can do is make your ex miss you like crazy. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t necessarily need to be for the purposes of getting back together (but very well could be).<\/p>\n<p>It can simply be a coping mechanism for yourself to make him see what a good thing he\u2019s lost and make you feel like it really did mean something to him. Maybe <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-evidentes-de-que-tu-ex-finge-haberte-olvidado\/\">he&#8217;s just pretending to be over you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Not everyone is going to understand this, but that\u2019s okay. You\u2019re the one who was in that relationship, and you\u2019re the one who is left with all of these residual feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A lot of people, particularly those who see everything in black and white would ask, \u201cWhy would you even want your ex to miss you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Some would say, \u201cDon\u2019t even bother. Just let it be, and let him go. Why do you even care about everything you guys have been through?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Y aunque eso tiene mucho sentido en un mundo en el que todo es blanco o negro, la mayor\u00eda de nosotros vivimos en la zona gris.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-ex-quiere-volver-desesperadamente\/\">10 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que tu ex quiere volver contigo (pero no lo admite)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97924\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-mindful-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste y atenta mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-mindful-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-mindful-woman-staring-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-mindful-woman-staring-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-mindful-woman-staring-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-mindful-woman-staring-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And most of us have a hard time letting go completely, especially in those early stages after a breakup. It\u2019s really difficult to make peace with what happened and accept that it\u2019s all over now.<\/p>\n<p>Si queremos ser completamente honestos con nosotros mismos, no importa c\u00f3mo termin\u00f3 la relaci\u00f3n, queremos que nuestros ex nos echen de menos.<\/p>\n<p>Y las razones para desearlo son numerosas. Normalmente dependen de por qu\u00e9 y c\u00f3mo termin\u00f3 la relaci\u00f3n en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>There are some breakups that leave us wanting to fix things. Maybe we think that we were more responsible for the breakup and that we could\u2019ve done some things differently.<\/p>\n<p>O tal vez nunca quisimos que las cosas terminaran, pero por una raz\u00f3n u otra, el final lleg\u00f3 de todos modos.<\/p>\n<p>Luego est\u00e1n esas rupturas desordenadas que vienen con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/13-formas-de-quererse-a-uno-mismo-tras-liberarse-de-una-relacion-toxica\/\"> relaciones t\u00f3xicas<\/a> . You yourself know that that relationship wasn\u2019t good for you.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/me-echara-de-menos-si-le-dejo-solo-es-algo-que-merece-la-pena-averiguar\/\">\u00bfMe echa de menos ahora que le he dejado solo?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97925\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en la naturaleza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabes que est\u00e1s mejor, pero te encuentras echando de menos esos momentos felices en tus puntos d\u00e9biles.<\/p>\n<p>You find yourself wanting him to miss you even though you don\u2019t want him back.<\/p>\n<p><i> En ambos casos, queremos que nos echen de menos. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>En una, una vez terminada la relaci\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo queremos que nuestro ex nos eche de menos para arreglar las cosas y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-poderosas-maneras-de-hacer-que-te-quiera-de-nuevo-en-poco-tiempo\/\">volver juntos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve seen the error of our ways, and we\u2019re ready to make things right.<\/p>\n<p>Y en el otro caso, queremos que nos echen de menos porque queremos demostrarles exactamente lo bien que lo pasaron con nosotros y luego lo echaron todo a perder. Queremos que sepan que estamos mejor sin ellos. Queremos vengarnos.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando conocemos las razones exactas por las que queremos que nuestros ex nos echen de menos, cabe preguntarse c\u00f3mo.<\/p>\n<p>Hay una forma correcta y otra incorrecta de hacer las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-vengarse-de-su-ex-12-maneras-probadas-de-hacerlo\/\">C\u00f3mo vengarte de tu ex: 12 maneras probadas de hacerlo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97926\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-lying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-lying-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-lying-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-lying-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-lying-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mindful-woman-lying-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The first thing you want to make sure of is that you are headed the right way. You don\u2019t want to come off as needy or desperate.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to put all your cards on the table. You want to remain somewhat mysterious.<\/p>\n<p><i> If you want your ex to miss you, you want to make sure you\u2019re doing it exactly in a way that is going to drive him absolutely mad and make you look like the amazing, unbothered goddess that you are. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Quieres que piense en ti todo lo posible. Quieres que ciertas canciones de la radio le hagan desear tu cercan\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Quieres que sue\u00f1e con encontrarse contigo por casualidad en la calle.<\/p>\n<p>This is all possible, but you\u2019ve got to play it smart.<\/p>\n<p>Chances are, he\u2019s already pining after you as it is, and he\u2019s just buried it deeply because he\u2019s afraid to let you see how sorry he feels for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-razones-por-las-que-se-arrepentira-de-haberte-dejado-marchar\/\"> dej\u00e1ndote ir <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97927\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-man-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-man-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-man-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-man-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-man-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/sad-man-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Al margen de lo que pensemos, no todos los t\u00edos son unos machotes con cero capacidad para sentirse rotos y tristes.<\/p>\n<p>They suffer just as much as we do. They\u2019re just better at hiding it is all.<\/p>\n<p>If you really want him back, he may already be halfway there. You\u2019ve just got to play along and see how much effort you really need to put into this.<\/p>\n<p><i> Si juega bien sus cartas, el resultado podr\u00eda ser exactamente el que ha imaginado. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Be that a rekindled romance where you\u2019ve both learned to appreciate each other more and you are completely invested in preserving this relationship this time around.<\/p>\n<p>Or be that making him see what he\u2019s missing by showing him you\u2019re living your best life without him by your side.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s completely up to you.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re finally ready to give this a go, here are 10 pieces of advice on <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-arrepentira-de-perderme-7-senales-de-que-lo-hara-como-hacer-que-lo-haga\/\">c\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te eche de menos<\/a> como locos.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, eche un vistazo a estos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/20-senales-definitivas-de-que-tu-ex-acabara-volviendo\/\">se\u00f1ales de que tu ex acabar\u00e1 volviendo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>C\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te eche de menos: 10 maneras f\u00e1ciles de conseguirlo<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Date tiempo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97929\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-on-the-pier.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en el muelle\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-on-the-pier.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-on-the-pier-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-on-the-pier-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-sitting-on-the-pier-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nunca te adelantes a los acontecimientos. Date tiempo para procesar lo que acaba de ocurrir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 termin\u00f3 la relaci\u00f3n y est\u00e1s segura de que quieres que vuelva?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo cuando tengas las cosas claras y est\u00e9s seguro al cien por cien de lo que realmente quieres, podr\u00e1s mover ficha.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9n la calma. Nunca tomes decisiones precipitadas y r\u00e1pidas. En situaciones dif\u00edciles, debes pensar con claridad y planificar cada movimiento.<\/p>\n<p>Tiempo y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/norma-de-no-contacto\/\">no tener contacto<\/a> son tus amigos aqu\u00ed. Si quieres hacer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/senales-de-que-te-echa-de-menos\/\">tu ex te echa de menos<\/a>aprende a utilizar el tiempo a tu favor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Comunicaci\u00f3n cero<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97930\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/worried-young-woman-looking-at-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo dif\u00edcil aqu\u00ed es que usted quiere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-poder-de-alejarse-de-un-hombre\/\">haz que te eche de menos<\/a>, but you don\u2019t want to make him think you miss him. Confusing, I know.<\/p>\n<p>But if we want our exes to miss us, we can\u2019t be blunt about it. You don\u2019t want to come off as a desperate ex that texts and calls every few seconds.<\/p>\n<p>La comunicaci\u00f3n cero durante las primeras semanas o incluso un mes os dar\u00e1 tiempo a ti y a \u00e9l para procesar las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>He needs time\u2014time to miss you. Giving him space even when he initiates the contact is the right way to go.<\/p>\n<p>Reaccionar a cada uno de sus movimientos env\u00eda el mensaje de que no tienes nada mejor que hacer que dejar todo en suspenso por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not the message you want to be sending.<\/p>\n<p>Al esperar un tiempo para retomar el contacto, le est\u00e1s haciendo a\u00f1orar esos momentos en los que pod\u00edais llamaros y mandaros mensajes libremente.<\/p>\n<p>It will make him miss those days and miss you in his life. It will create a sense of mystery and keep him wondering what you\u2019re up to, and that is exactly what it is your aiming for!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sea selectivo con sus publicaciones en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97931\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-texting-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente enviando mensajes de texto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-texting-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-texting-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-texting-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-texting-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-texting-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Las redes sociales te brindan una gran oportunidad para manipular las cosas a tu favor.<\/p>\n<p>And no, that doesn\u2019t mean putting heart-breaking songs and grief-stricken status updates.<\/p>\n<p>Poner fotos de alguien nuevo en tu vida para provocar celos tampoco es lo m\u00e1s adecuado.<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s probable es que transmita el mensaje de que nunca te import\u00f3 y que pasaste p\u00e1gina demasiado r\u00e1pido.<\/p>\n<p>Las publicaciones en las redes sociales deben darte la oportunidad de transmitir todo lo que quieres decir sin que resulte demasiado obvio.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, colgar unas cuantas fotos con tus amigos o compartir alguna canci\u00f3n optimista que te guste o un art\u00edculo que te haya emocionado ser\u00eda la opci\u00f3n adecuada.<\/p>\n<p>Your smiling face will show him that you are happy even when he is not around, and that\u2019s something that he won\u2019t be so comfortable with. If he is a good guy, he will miss that smile in his life.<\/p>\n<p>Si es t\u00f3xico, esa sonrisa le doler\u00e1 como ninguna otra cosa. La vida sigue incluso sin ellos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cuidado con lo que dices a los amigos comunes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97932\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/two-friends-talking-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"dos amigos hablando en el suelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/two-friends-talking-on-the-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/two-friends-talking-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/two-friends-talking-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/two-friends-talking-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/two-friends-talking-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabes que, por muy amigos que teng\u00e1is en com\u00fan, lo m\u00e1s probable es que \u00e9l sienta lo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Si le dicen d\u00f3nde est\u00e1 y qu\u00e9 trama, lo m\u00e1s probable es que la informaci\u00f3n tambi\u00e9n vaya en la otra direcci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Revela un poco, pero no demasiado. Guarda tus secretos para tus verdaderos amigos, y d\u00e9jale adivinando sobre tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Ser un poco misterioso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/16-trucos-psicologicos-que-haran-que-te-eche-de-menos\/\">haz que te eche de menos<\/a> m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t act weird if you bump into him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97933\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-talking-to-man-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente hablando con un hombre en la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-talking-to-man-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-talking-to-man-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-talking-to-man-on-the-street-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-woman-talking-to-man-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Claro, chocar con \u00e9l es algo que te incomodar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>The funniest thing about it is that you will probably see your ex when you least want to\u2014in your worst edition with a messy bun on top of your head and a bloated face that\u2019s only been up for half an hour.<\/p>\n<p>The important thing here is not to sweat it. Act like he is just an old friend you haven\u2019t seen in a while.<\/p>\n<p>Si pones tu mente en ese modo, no tendr\u00e1s ning\u00fan problema para iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n trivial.<\/p>\n<p>No deje de preguntarle c\u00f3mo se encuentra. Tu inter\u00e9s por su bienestar le confundir\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s. Intenta parecer indiferente a su presencia.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll end up scratching his head, unsure of how easy-going and chill you are about this uncommon situation.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll most probably feel a bit shitty that you seem so well without him while he\u2019s struggling in private.<\/p>\n<p>No doubt will he keep replaying it in his head for the rest of the day, imagining all the things he should\u2019ve said instead of just standing there like a doofus trying to look cool and collected.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Reconstr\u00fayete<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97934\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bonita posando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-posing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-posing-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Empieza poco a poco. Cambia de peinado o de color de pelo.<\/p>\n<p>Hay una raz\u00f3n por la que la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres deciden que necesitan alg\u00fan cambio en sus vidas despu\u00e9s de una ruptura, y su aspecto es el m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y el mejor para empezar.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s, empieza a trabajar en ti mismo para ti mismo. Aumentar la confianza y el amor propio te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s feliz.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t just want fake smiles on social media posts\u2014you want those smiles to be genuine.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando termines de construirte a ti mismo, ver\u00e1s si realmente alguna vez lo necesitaste en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>And in any case, he will long for the woman you have become in spite of everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todas estas cosas, deber\u00eda ser \u00e9l quien iniciara el contacto e intentara volver a tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Darle espacio y tiempo y hacerle saber que eres capaz de hacerte feliz incluso cuando \u00e9l no est\u00e1 cerca revelar\u00e1 tu autosuficiencia y har\u00e1 que se pregunte por qu\u00e9 te perdi\u00f3 en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>But be careful and make sure you really want him back. Sometimes what is broken isn\u2019t meant to be fixed.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/maneras-efectivas-de-dar-celos\/\">10 maneras efectivas de poner celoso a un chico y que te desee m\u00e1s<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dile lo feliz que eres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-texting-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"pretty woman texting in bed\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-texting-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-texting-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-texting-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-texting-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/pretty-woman-texting-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re still communicating with your ex via text of any type of instant message, make sure to point out how great life has been lately.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that it has to be true. He just has to think that it is.<\/p>\n<p>When breakups occur, guys usually expect us to crawl into a lonely hole and cry our eyes out while overdoing it with the wine and Ben &amp; Jerry\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>Show him how different it is for you. Tell him you\u2019ve found a new hobby that\u2019s been filling your life with a purpose and a sense of fulfilment, and you\u2019ve been feeling really great.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure to always be upbeat and perky when talking to him (just don\u2019t overdo it), and don\u2019t let him see a single tear. Trust me, this is going to freak him out big time.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll be wondering how come you\u2019ve managed to be so okay in such a short period of time, and if he even meant anything to you. God knows he\u2019s nowhere near where you are.<\/p>\n<p>And this will draw him closer to you. This positive attitude and your optimism about life is going to remind him of what an amazing, fun, and capable girl he\u2019s let go, and he\u2019ll wish to get you back.<\/p>\n<p>See? You practically don\u2019t even need to do anything drastic. Just keep it happy and joyful, and he\u2019ll find his way back to you.<\/p>\n<p>And then it\u2019s up to you whether you want to rekindle the flame or keep moving forward knowing your mission here is done.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ampl\u00ede su c\u00edrculo social<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97938\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/friends-laughing-and-drinking.jpg\" alt=\"amigos riendo y bebiendo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/friends-laughing-and-drinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/friends-laughing-and-drinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/friends-laughing-and-drinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/friends-laughing-and-drinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/friends-laughing-and-drinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It seems that whenever we\u2019re really focused on someone and persistently trying to make something happen, it just keeps getting harder and harder to get it done.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, lo mejor que puedes hacer es alejarte durante un tiempo y centrarte en conocer gente nueva.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, it\u2019s vital that you keep the support system around you that you\u2019ve had for years and nurture it at all times, but also let yourself expand your horizons as well.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando conoces a gente nueva, autom\u00e1ticamente tienes nuevos planes y cosas nuevas marcadas en tu calendario, \u00a1lo que te deja muy poco tiempo para estar pendiente de tu ex!<\/p>\n<p>And don\u2019t think for a second he won\u2019t notice you mingling with a new crowd.<\/p>\n<p>This will make him a little uneasy because he\u2019ll know that you can easily find someone new to replace him, and he\u2019ll end up wondering if breaking up was a good idea in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Esto le acercar\u00e1 m\u00e1s a ti, ya que acabar\u00e1 un poco celoso, vi\u00e9ndote salir con tus nuevos amigos y disfrutando de tu vida como si \u00e9l nunca hubiera existido.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Qu\u00edtale la amistad en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97939\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-on-cellphone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer escribiendo en el m\u00f3vil\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-on-cellphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-on-cellphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-on-cellphone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-on-cellphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/woman-typing-on-cellphone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Social media is a great way to stay-up-to-date with people you care about without having to text and call at all times to see what they\u2019re up to.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just too easy to see anything you want with just one click on your mouse.<\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019re still friends with your ex on any of your social media accounts, you might want to consider clicking the \u2018unfriend\u2019 button.<\/p>\n<p>Why? Because what he can\u2019t see will end up killing him on the inside.<\/p>\n<p>He will no longer have access to your private thoughts, your status updates, your photos, and most importantly \u2013 seeing WHO you\u2019ve been spending your time with.<\/p>\n<p>Y esto ser\u00e1 una pesadilla para \u00e9l. Su imaginaci\u00f3n va a volar.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll keep imagining you with a new man and thinking that is the reason you no longer want him on your friend list. And it won\u2019t feel good at all.<\/p>\n<p>By not being able to see what you\u2019re up to on a daily basis, he\u2019s going to seriously think about reconciling because he\u2019s just going to miss seeing your face too freaking much.<\/p>\n<p>He wasn\u2019t aware of it before because he was so used to seeing you at least in his online world, but this is going to be too much.<\/p>\n<p>If you ask me \u2013 this is hands down the best way to make him miss you.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-te-echa-de-menos\/\">10 se\u00f1ales claras de que te echa mucho de menos (pero no lo admite)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t acknowledge him on his birthday or any of the holidays<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97940\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-woman-thinking-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven que piensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-woman-thinking-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-woman-thinking-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-woman-thinking-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-woman-thinking-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-woman-thinking-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de una ruptura, una de las cosas m\u00e1s jodidas con las que tienes que lidiar es si debes o no desearle un feliz cumplea\u00f1os a tu ex en su d\u00eda especial y tambi\u00e9n en todos esos d\u00edas festivos que se avecinan.<\/p>\n<p>You know his day of birth by heart ,and it\u2019s only natural for you to text him or even call on that day because it\u2019s something you\u2019re both so used to.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda si esta vez, de repente, dejaras esta tradici\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s used to getting attention from you on all those important days, and it\u2019s never been a question as to whether or not he\u2019s going to hear from you, until now.<\/p>\n<p>Si de verdad quieres que tu ex te eche de menos, tienes que darle donde m\u00e1s le duele (s\u00f3lo metaf\u00f3ricamente).<\/p>\n<p>Do not text him on his birthday. Do not wish him a Merry Christmas, and don\u2019t even think about calling him while you\u2019re buzzed on New Year\u2019s!<\/p>\n<p>And when you\u2019re the only person he hasn\u2019t heard from on all those special dates when you used to be his first call\u2026 he\u2019s going to feel a hole in his chest.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s finally going to hit him. You\u2019re really, truly, out of his life, and he\u2019ll be beyond bummed about it.<\/p>\n<p>There are no more cute, witty remarks about how old he\u2019s getting on his birthday, no more Christmases with you by his side, and no more spending New Years together.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s going to suck. He\u2019s going to miss your presence and your infectious smile. He\u2019s going to miss your positive, happy-go-lucky attitude, and your long hugs.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s going to miss seeing your name light up his screen if you\u2019re not celebrating together.<\/p>\n<p>And guess what all that means? He\u2019s going to be missing you a lot!<\/p>\n<p>And once he realizes that you\u2019re the only one he wants to see and the only one he wants to hear from, he\u2019s going to come crawling back.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s going to want to get back together after finally realizing what an idiot he was for letting you go.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ll be the only one who decides whether this is something you want to embark on again or not.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you decide \u2013 follow your gut feeling. It\u2019s never going to fail you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97921\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Make-Your-Ex-Miss-You-10-Easy-Ways-To-Get-It-Done-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo hacer que tu ex te eche de menos 10 maneras f\u00e1ciles de conseguirlo\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Make-Your-Ex-Miss-You-10-Easy-Ways-To-Get-It-Done-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Make-Your-Ex-Miss-You-10-Easy-Ways-To-Get-It-Done-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Make-Your-Ex-Miss-You-10-Easy-Ways-To-Get-It-Done-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Make-Your-Ex-Miss-You-10-Easy-Ways-To-Get-It-Done-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to make your ex miss you? First you need to ask yourself why exactly you want him to miss you in the first place, and when you\u2019ve got that figured out\u2026 you can start doing something about it. If you\u2019ve just been dumped or if you were the one doing the dumping, once a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":97941,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11269","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/How-To-Make-Your-Ex-Miss-You-10-Easy-Ways-To-Get-It-Done.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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