{"id":112706,"date":"2020-11-13T16:48:33","date_gmt":"2020-11-13T16:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=112706"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:21","slug":"revele-su-atractivo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/revele-su-atractivo\/","title":{"rendered":"Cu\u00e1ndo revelar su atractivo y cu\u00e1ndo hacerse el dif\u00edcil"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe sientes un poco perdido en el juego de las citas?<\/strong> I hear you, you\u2019re not the only one.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to lie, citas en el siglo xxi<\/strong><\/a> puede obtener un peque\u00f1o<\/em> rid\u00edculo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t ignore the fact that we live in a world that\u2019s completely different from the world people experienced even just twenty years ago.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s just so much going on!<\/strong> People are sharing their experiences everywhere and it\u2019s easier than ever to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to other people.<\/p>\n

That also means trying different methods of flirting based on someone else’s experiences.<\/p>\n

En lo que respecta a las citas, por un lado tenemos a los defensores a ultranza de hacerse el duro. Por otro lado, hay gente que defiende mostrar vulnerabilidad<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s the right way to go?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no right answer. It all depends on what YOU want and how YOU feel. It depends on the person you\u2019re pursuing, it depends on the phase of the relationship you\u2019re in\u2026<\/p>\n

However, there are some things that can help you decide which route to take, so let\u2019s start.<\/p>\n

No strings attached or…?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Playing \u2018hard to get\u2019<\/a> s\u00f3lo funciona si la persona ya est\u00e1 interesada en ti.<\/p>\n

Eso por s\u00ed solo demuestra que t\u00fa o la otra persona ya os sent\u00eds atra\u00eddos por el otro si segu\u00eds comunic\u00e1ndoos a pesar del juego. As\u00ed que, si tienes eso cubierto, podemos seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante de este m\u00e9todo es que realmente<\/em> does work. There is actual psychological research to prove this but I don\u2019t want to bore you with facts, so let\u2019s keep it short.<\/p>\n

Why does it work? It creates mystery, it sparks interest, it\u2019s exciting.<\/strong> It says, \u201cI\u2019m desirable<\/a> and you need to work for my attention.\u201d<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las cosas valiosas en cualquier \u00e1mbito de la vida no son f\u00e1ciles de conseguir.<\/strong> That\u2019s why luxury exists.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something addicting about \u2018hunting\u2019 for what you want and\/or being the prize.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dicho esto, tambi\u00e9n hay que decirlo: While excitement is addictive, fun and great… it doesn\u2019t last long.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de la fase de excitaci\u00f3n, las personas se contagian o pierden el inter\u00e9s, una vez que consiguen lo que quieren.<\/p>\n

A big mistake many people make is when they go on with the \u2018hard to get\u2019 attitude too far into a relationship, even after they both develop deeper feelings for each other.<\/p>\n

Esto es lo que a veces da lugar a un relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a>, where partners never stop conditioning each other’s attention and affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In other words, playing hard to get is a fun way to flirt at the beginning of the relationship but ultimately, it’s pretty immature.<\/p>\n

El amor y la importancia de ser aut\u00e9ntico<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you want real love and a long-term relationship, BE HONEST. It\u2019s as simple as that. If you like somebody, say it, if you want their attention, find a way to show it.<\/p>\n

La franqueza y la honestidad garantizan un relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean you should walk around expressing your undying love for a person you barely know… it just means that if you\u2019re honest about the way you feel, you\u2019re closer to a genuine relationship.<\/p>\n

You have nothing to lose because if they don\u2019t like you or care for you, you\u2019re better off anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Piensa en ello. Visite usted<\/em> \u00bfquieres a alguien que juegue con tus sentimientos o a alguien que sienta algo de verdad por ti?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Visite usted<\/em> \u00bfQuiere una persona que oculte sus sentimientos para parecer m\u00e1s fr\u00eda o alguien que se comunique con confianza y madurez?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esc\u00fachate, escucha tu intuici\u00f3n. Don\u2019t give in to societal pressure.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly, don\u2019t ever feel bad about expressing your feelings to someone, even if they don\u2019t react how you\u2019d expect.<\/p>\n

Vulnerability isn\u2019t wrong<\/strong><\/a>. It\u2019s not weak, it\u2019s not something to be ashamed of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, lo que hace que una persona se sienta atra\u00edda por ti y se quede contigo eres t\u00fa, tal y como eres, no una versi\u00f3n inventada de alguien que quiere llamar la atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si quieres jugar, prep\u00e1rate para el juego. Si quieres amor, prep\u00e1rate para algo real.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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