{"id":113364,"date":"2020-11-16T00:50:02","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T00:50:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113364"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:31:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:31:37","slug":"dile-a-mi-yo-soltero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dile-a-mi-yo-soltero\/","title":{"rendered":"13 cosas que mi yo casado desear\u00eda poder decirle a mi yo soltero"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTienes alg\u00fan sue\u00f1o o meta incumplidos, los que deber\u00edas haber alcanzado antes de casarte? \u00bfTe arrepientes de algo relacionado con tu solter\u00eda?<\/p>\n

Me arrepiento. Bueno, tal vez no arrepentimientos, m\u00e1s bien algunos mensajes que con gusto volver\u00eda atr\u00e1s en el tiempo y le dir\u00eda a mi yo soltera, para que esa pobre e ingenua chica no permitiera que nadie la lastimara o la maltratara.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n me gustar\u00eda decirle que nunca ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s descuidada que ahora. Si lo hubiera sabido entonces, quiz\u00e1 habr\u00eda aprovechado mejor ese tiempo.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s too late for me now. Unfortunately, I can\u2019t travel back to the past and change it, but maybe this can help you.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, t\u00fa, una soltera guapa y sorprendente que sue\u00f1a con ponerse un vestido blanco muy pronto.<\/p>\n

Well, stop dreaming. You\u2019re only wasting your time. Stand up and enjoy your vida de soltero<\/a>. Hay muchas cosas que deber\u00edas hacer antes de casarte.<\/p>\n

Embrace your single life and don’t waste a second of it because time flies so fast. If you don\u2019t use that precious time well, you\u2019ll definitely regret it one day.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You will never be perfect and that’s perfectly okay<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I was always trying to be the best at everything, so I could find someone who\u2019d also be the best. I was trying to find the perfect man.<\/p>\n

Bueno, eso fue un gran error.<\/p>\n

There is no perfect person. You can neither find one nor can you become one, and that\u2019s the truth. This delusion made me suffer a lot and miss many good people.<\/p>\n

Disfruta de cada momento de tu solter\u00eda<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tick tock, tick tock, tick tock… El reloj no para de sonar y el tiempo pasa demasiado r\u00e1pido<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

La vida es realmente una bala acelerada<\/em>. Antes de que te des cuenta, te encuentras casado y con hijos, y as\u00ed, todo cambia en un segundo.<\/p>\n

Of course, this is also a beautiful period of life, but it is definitely more challenging. Your single life is much more careless and that’s why you should embrace, use and enjoy every second of it.<\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9rete t\u00fa primero<\/h2>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

Don’t ever love another human being more than you love yourself. That’s how you give them the power to control you and your life.<\/p>\n

Also, if you love yourself, you\u2019ll be aware of your self-worth, too, and you\u2019ll never allow others to treat you any less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

Amor propio<\/a> es mucho m\u00e1s importante de lo que crees. Cualquiera puede entrar y salir de tu vida, pero t\u00fa eres la \u00fanica constante en tu vida, la \u00fanica que estuvo y estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed hasta el final.<\/p>\n

Cuidar de tu salud debe ser siempre tu prioridad<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La verdad es que todos descuidamos un poco la salud en nuestra juventud. Siempre tenemos prisa, perseguimos nuestros sue\u00f1os y objetivos de futuro, y damos prioridad a otras cosas antes que a nuestra salud.<\/p>\n

Lo cierto es que lo mejor que podemos hacer por nuestro futuro es priorizar siempre el cuidado de la salud, tanto mental como f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n

Valora siempre todo lo que tienes<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

It’s good to always strive for more in life, but you must also cherish and dar las gracias por<\/a> todo lo que tienes en cada momento.<\/p>\n

Aprecie su tiempo a solas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In our youth, we don’t like to be alone often because we feel too lonely in those moments. This is only because we aren\u2019t aware of the importance of pasar tiempo a solas<\/a> ocasionalmente.<\/p>\n

Once you marry, especially when you have kids, you won’t have a lot of time for yourself and you’ll regret not enjoying that time when you were single. You’ll see, then you’ll be thankful for every minute of your ‘alone time’.<\/p>\n

Mantener la mente abierta<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

You’re so afraid to step out of your comfort zone from time to time. You don’t know what you are missing. Go, grab your life by the horns and explore it.<\/p>\n

Todav\u00eda hay muchas cosas, nuevas experiencias y aventuras esper\u00e1ndote ah\u00ed fuera.<\/p>\n

Don’t be cheap with yourself<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Buy those beautiful shoes you were looking at for so long, but you think they’re a little bit expensive. Stop overthinking it. Click that ‘buy’ button.<\/p>\n

Treat yourself as much as you can. You can be cheap on so many other things, but don’t ever be cheap on yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Once you marry and have kids, you’ll have many other obligations and then you’ll have to think hard before you buy something for yourself.<\/p>\n

That’s why you should use your single life to treat yourself more often.<\/p>\n

Mant\u00e9n tus principios<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter what happens, no matter who tells you you’re wrong, you should stand by your beliefs and principles.<\/p>\n

Never allow your partner to affect your opinion too much or make you change it. By doing so, you’re giving them the power to control you, and by giving them that power, you’re slowly losing your identity in the relationship.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00ede m\u00e1s en su intuici\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"las<\/p>\n

There is something with women and their intuition and it’s almost never wrong. That’s why you should believe it more often.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t silence that inner voice every time it\u2019s telling you something about your partner.<\/p>\n

You can’t change a person by loving them harder<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La verdad es que, por mucho que lo intentes o por mucho que quieras a alguien, nunca podr\u00e1s cambiar a esa persona.<\/p>\n

A person can change only if they want to. Your love can be their motive, but that’s it. And, don’t even think about changing your partner because it would be a huge waste of your time.<\/p>\n

Todo es temporal en la vida excepto el amor verdadero<\/h2>\n

\"silenciosa<\/p>\n

Your life will have ups and downs, and it\u2019s the same with your relationship. The important thing is that you don’t give up after just one fight.<\/p>\n

No importa cu\u00e1ntas veces caigas, debes encontrar la manera de levantarte y seguir luchando. Tanto la felicidad como el dolor son temporales, como todo lo dem\u00e1s en nuestras vidas, todo excepto amor verdadero<\/a> de hecho.<\/p>\n

Viajar, viajar, viajar<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Siempre que tengas una buena oportunidad de viajar a alg\u00fan sitio y visitar un lugar nuevo, aprov\u00e9chala. Conoce gente nueva, visita lugares nuevos y conoce culturas diferentes.<\/p>\n

You can’t be sure if you’ll be able to travel with your spouse or if they\u2019ll like it, so use this chance before you have to beg someone to go with you, and travel as much as you can because that’s true wealth.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you have any unfulfilled dreams or goals, the ones you should have achieved before you got married? Do you have any regrets related to your single life? I do. Well, maybe not regrets, more like a few messages I would gladly go back in time and tell my single self, so that poor, naive…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":113386,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/13-Things-My-Married-Self-Wishes-I-Could-Tell-My-Single-Self-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113364","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113364"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113364\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}