{"id":113967,"date":"2020-11-19T12:22:14","date_gmt":"2020-11-19T12:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113967"},"modified":"2022-06-01T20:25:55","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T20:25:55","slug":"cuando-es-demasiado-pronto-para-mudarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-es-demasiado-pronto-para-mudarse\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo es demasiado pronto para irse a vivir juntos? 15 aspectos a tener en cuenta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hooray, are you ready for another huge milestone in your relationship? But, wait… how soon is too soon to move in together?<\/p>\n

Mudarse con la pareja es un gran paso en cualquier relaci\u00f3n, pero saber cu\u00e1ndo es el momento adecuado puede ser una decisi\u00f3n dif\u00edcil de tomar.<\/p>\n

Si te mudas demasiado pronto, corres el riesgo de arruinar tu relaci\u00f3n incluso antes de que empiece oficialmente.<\/p>\n

Deciding to move in together depends on so many factors from finances to the way you’re dealing (or not dealing) with relationship problems.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every couple’s relationship is unique and develops at a different pace, so learning how soon is too soon to move in together is an individual thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Usually, couples agree to move in together after they’ve known each other for six months or a year.<\/p>\n

La cohabitaci\u00f3n ofrece muchas ventajas, como dividir las tareas dom\u00e9sticas, compartir la econom\u00eda, poder abrazar a la persona amada siempre que se quiera y muchas m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Now, it wouldn’t be realistic of me if I only focused on the pros of cohabiting, so I’ll be honest with you: Living with your significant other can (at times) be a real nightmare.<\/p>\n

BUT, it’s nothing that can’t be fixed with an open and honest conversation.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, living together is all about compromising, respecting each other’s differences, supporting one another, and being willing to work on improving yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you think you and your partner are ready for all that? Let’s find out together!<\/p>\n

5 Warning Signs It’s Too Soon To Move In Together<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

You’re using it as a way to test the strength of your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Do you feel deep down in your heart that moving in with him or her might be a bad decision because it’s too soon, but you’re still determined to do it?<\/p>\n

\u00bfLa raz\u00f3n por la que quer\u00e9is iros a vivir juntos es vuestro deseo de poner a prueba la solidez de vuestra relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

If the person you’re in love with is giving you mixed signals or if you have some underlying issues in your relationship, it’s natural for you to start suspecting that things aren’t as they seem or as they should be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Still, this doesn’t mean that you should force yourself to move in with someone just for the sake of testing your relationship.<\/p>\n

Si lo haces, lo m\u00e1s probable es que ambos acab\u00e9is decepcionados cuando empec\u00e9is a enfrentaros a todas esas banderas rojas que deber\u00edais haber abordado de antemano.<\/p>\n

You haven’t had a conversation about your financial goals<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 lo que piensas: Hablar de finanzas es muy aburrido y nada sexy.<\/em> Pero, \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? Si tienes intenci\u00f3n de vivir con tu pareja, es necesario mantener una conversaci\u00f3n sobre vuestros objetivos financieros.<\/p>\n

Si evitas este tipo de conversaciones, te arriesgas a tener muchas discusiones futuras con tu pareja en caso de que decid\u00e1is vivir juntos.<\/p>\n

Configuraci\u00f3n objetivos de pareja<\/a> es la clave de toda relaci\u00f3n feliz.<\/p>\n

No hace mucho, estaba salir con un jugador<\/a> chico durante seis meses. Pas\u00e1bamos mucho tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n

Era mi mejor amigo, amante y compa\u00f1ero de fechor\u00edas, pero cuando hablamos de irnos a vivir juntos, por primera vez, yo era esc\u00e9ptica en todo (sobre todo cuando pensaba en las finanzas).<\/strong><\/p>\n

Since his main job was playing games 24\/7, I knew I wouldn’t be able to rely on him when it came to financial goals, so I politely rejected the idea of moving in together.<\/p>\n

El caso es que toda nueva relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 llena de emoci\u00f3n, pero tambi\u00e9n de presi\u00f3n. Cuando la fase de luna de miel<\/a> termina, la realidad empieza a golpear.<\/p>\n

You still haven’t had your FIRST big argument<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

How soon is too soon to move in with someone? Well, if you haven’t had your first argument yet, then I’m sorry to disappoint you, but this means it’s too soon to move in with someone.<\/p>\n

Cuando empiezas a vivir con alguien, you will have more arguments than ever before because you’ll be spending more time together than ever before.<\/strong> Esto es totalmente saludable e incluso deseable.<\/p>\n

Cada uno de nosotros tiene un enfoque diferente a la hora de discutir.<\/strong> Algunos somos testarudos hasta la m\u00e9dula, mientras que otros son m\u00e1s realistas y est\u00e1n dispuestos a transigir.<\/p>\n

If you still haven’t had your first big argument, then it’s hard to know how it will look. The last thing you need is having to end your long-term relationship right after you’ve had an argument.<\/p>\n

Ambos miembros de la pareja tienen que estar dispuestos a admitir cuando se equivocan y afrontar las cosas de una forma sana (o deber\u00eda decir no t\u00f3xica).<\/p>\n

You’re using it as a way to fix problems in your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"imagen<\/p>\n

\u00bfUsted o su pareja tienen problemas de confianza<\/a> because you’ve been hurt before and now it is reflecting on your current relationship?<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfTiene usted cuestiones de compromiso<\/a> o cualquier otro problema caracter\u00edstico de las relaciones modernas?<\/em><\/p>\n

If yes, then you shouldn’t rush into moving in together.<\/strong> Si crees que la cohabitaci\u00f3n arreglar\u00e1 m\u00e1gicamente todos tus problemas, pi\u00e9nsalo otra vez.<\/p>\n

Bas\u00e1ndome en mi experiencia personal, puedo asegurarte que irse a vivir juntos antes de afrontar problemas en tu relaci\u00f3n es lo peor que podr\u00edas hacerte a ti mismo y a tu pareja.<\/p>\n

By rushing to move in together, even though you know there are some things in your relationship you need to deal with first, you’re huir de los problemas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sus problemas no desaparecer\u00e1n, sino que ser\u00e1n a\u00fan mayores y m\u00e1s complejos que antes.<\/p>\n

Te sientes presionado a hacerlo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Normalmente, cuando uno de los miembros de la pareja est\u00e1 preparado para irse a vivir juntos y el otro no, los niveles de presi\u00f3n aumentan considerablemente.<\/p>\n

If your partner is constantly reminding you that you should start living together with him or her and you’re not really sure whether it’s a good idea, then they are subconsciously pressuring you to make a decision.<\/p>\n

Si \u00e9ste es tu caso, olv\u00eddate por un momento de lo que quiere tu pareja y piensa qu\u00e9 es lo que realmente quieres t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you want to move in with them? Do you think you’re not ready for it? Or, do you need more time to make a decision?<\/em><\/p>\n

Whatever your answer is, keep in mind that you shouldn’t move in just because you feel forced to do it.<\/p>\n

Be honest with yourself and you’ll find an answer to the question: \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo es demasiado pronto para mudarse?<\/em><\/p>\n

10 Signs You’re Ready To Move In With Your Partner<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve had an honest conversation about your budget and finances<\/h2>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

Mucha gente evita tener esta conversaci\u00f3n porque puede resultar muy inc\u00f3moda, pero la convivencia no es s\u00f3lo Netflix y relax.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas cosas serias que deben discutirse de antemano.<\/p>\n

Una de esas cosas es hablar de presupuesto y finanzas. Si vas a buscar una nueva vivienda, primero tienes que acordar un precio. Como siempre, llegar a un compromiso es la mejor opci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 realista y piensa si la convivencia ser\u00e1 posible o no teniendo en cuenta tus ingresos. \u00bfSu pareja gana m\u00e1s dinero que usted? \u00bfVais a compartir gastos?<\/em><\/p>\n

Hay muchas otras preguntas que debes hacerte antes de decidir irte a vivir juntos.<\/p>\n

You’re not doing it just because of finances<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I’m not a relationship expert, but I can tell you for sure that moving in just because of finances is a surefire way to doom your relationship.<\/p>\n

Yes, sharing your expenses with another person is a huge advantage, but you shouldn’t base your decision on that.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s realmente interesado en vivir con tu pareja porque crees que es lo correcto? \u00bfCrees que iros a vivir juntos es la secuencia natural de vuestra relaci\u00f3n? T\u00f3mate un tiempo para reflexionar sobre todo esto.<\/p>\n

You’ve already practiced living together for a few days<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Are they a long-distance person you met on social media or have you been dating them in real life so far? There’s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\n

If you’ve been dating for some time now, chances are that you have already spent some time living together. For example, they come to your place or you come to theirs and spend a few nights there.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo te sentiste cuando te despertaste a su lado? \u00bfSentiste ansiedad por tenerlos cerca o te pareci\u00f3 totalmente natural y como debe ser?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Antes de decidirte a irte a vivir con alguien, es aconsejable pasar unos d\u00edas de prueba.<\/p>\n

Te sorprender\u00eda saber cu\u00e1ntas cosas puedes aprender sobre tu pareja en tan s\u00f3lo un breve periodo de tiempo que pases con ella.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Los 6 problemas de pareja m\u00e1s comunes que no tienen arreglo<\/a><\/p>\n

You’ve successfully traveled together<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Viajar es mi parte favorita de una relaci\u00f3n. Imagino al instante la emoci\u00f3n en los ojos de ambos al descubrir cosas nuevas, visitar nuevos lugares y hacer cosas divertidas<\/a> juntos.<\/p>\n

But, sometimes, traveling with your significant other can be frustrating. For example, let’s say that your partner is interested in visiting one place while you’re interested in visiting another.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 har\u00eda usted? \u00bfComprometer\u00edas o les obligar\u00edas a hacer lo que deseas?<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’ve successfully traveled together, then you know how to deal with this and similar situations, and there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/p>\n

You’re completely honest with each other<\/h2>\n

\"dulce<\/p>\n

Honesty is the best policy. You’ve probably heard this saying multiple times and there’s a reason why it’s so popular. Honesty and trust are the two most important things in every relationship.<\/p>\n

Piensa si tienes alg\u00fan secreto financiero como deudas, pr\u00e9stamos estudiantiles, etc., o alg\u00fan otro secreto que tu pareja deba conocer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mucha gente piensa: Oh, this is not a big deal and it’s none of my partner’s concern.<\/em> Pero bueno, vivir\u00e9is juntos y, en ese caso, tambi\u00e9n es asunto suyo.<\/p>\n

If you feel that you’re having difficulty being honest with your partner, or if you are dealing with some other relationship issues, then consider visiting a relationship therapist.<\/p>\n

You don’t feel pressured to move in together<\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

Hay muchos factores que pueden hacer que os sint\u00e1is presionados a iros a vivir juntos, como el bloqueo mundial debido al coronavirus, vuestras finanzas y otros.<\/p>\n

A veces, tu pareja puede ser quien te presione para compartir espacio vital.<\/p>\n

If you don’t feel any kind of pressure to move in together, then this is a good sign. It means that you want to do it because you feel it’s the right thing to do and not because you HAVE TO.<\/p>\n

There’s nothing worse than making decisions on the fly. Whatever you’re experiencing in life at the moment, know that moving in together is not a solution to your personal or relationship problems.<\/p>\n

You’ve had your first big argument (and you survived it)<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When it comes to dating and relationships, one thing is for sure: You won’t experience your first argument on your first date, your second date, or even after a few weeks.<\/p>\n

Pasar\u00e9is mucho tiempo juntos antes de que surja la primera gran discusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And, when it happens, you want to make sure that you’re capable of surviving it and dealing with it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Living together means facing plenty of arguments on a daily basis (or on a weekly basis), so it’s good to know that this won’t affect the quality of your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perhaps your partner enjoys longer showers, which might annoy you, especially when you’re in a hurry. Or, they have different self-care practices and other habits that you might find annoying.<\/p>\n

Discutir una y otra vez por las mismas cosas no es la soluci\u00f3n. As\u00ed que, antes de empezar a buscar una nueva vivienda, preg\u00fantate una de las cuestiones m\u00e1s importantes preguntas sobre relaciones<\/a>:<\/p>\n

\u00bfTen\u00e9is estilos de discusi\u00f3n saludables? \u00bfDiscuten de forma sana o de forma t\u00f3xica?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don’t sweep your relationship problems under the carpet<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

How do you know you’re ready to move in together? Well, if you don’t sweep your relationship problems under the carpet, but instead, face them, then you’re definitely ready for cohabitation with your partner.<\/p>\n

Muchas parejas creen que negarse a reconocer sus problemas har\u00e1 que desaparezcan por arte de magia. Esto nunca ocurre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you don’t address your relationship issues, you’re subconsciously helping them to grow bigger and bigger until they explode and turn into a big, toxic argument. Don’t let that happen.<\/p>\n

If you’re ready to be open and honest about everything, then you have nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Gu\u00eda sobre c\u00f3mo afrontar los estados de \u00e1nimo dif\u00edciles en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a><\/p>\n

You’ve had a conversation about your future<\/h2>\n

\"encantadora<\/p>\n

Have you talked to your partner about your big step – moving in together? Deciding to live together is not something that you choose to do on impulse.<\/p>\n

Antes de vivir juntos, ten\u00e9is que mantener una conversaci\u00f3n sobre vuestro futuro y vuestras expectativas de convivencia.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me voy a vivir con otra persona? \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa para m\u00ed vivir juntos? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son nuestros planes de futuro?<\/em><\/p>\n

These are the questions that you need to ask yourself. If you or your partner wants to start living together for the wrong reasons, then it’s better to talk about it on time.<\/p>\n

Tienes un plan B<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Many people think that having an exit strategy or a plan B is for pessimistic individuals. I don’t see it that way, and here’s why.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you two love each other, there’s no guarantee that you won’t face some hardships in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Problemas de pareja que no tienen arreglo<\/a> puede arruinar incluso las relaciones m\u00e1s s\u00f3lidas.<\/p>\n

When that happens, it’s good to know that you have a plan B. Talk to your partner about what would happen in case things didn\u2019t work out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 t\u00fa o tu pareja os qued\u00e9is en el piso o uno de los dos decida ahorrar algo de dinero para comprar uno nuevo.<\/p>\n

Lo peor que te puede pasar es quedarte atrapado en el mismo piso s\u00f3lo porque no tienes otras opciones debido a un mal plan financiero.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1is preparados para iros a vivir juntos o necesit\u00e1is m\u00e1s tiempo para tomar una decisi\u00f3n?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1ndo es demasiado pronto para irse a vivir con tu nueva pareja? Decidir cu\u00e1ndo es el momento adecuado para empezar a convivir con tu pareja es algo individual.<\/p>\n

Algunas parejas est\u00e1n preparadas a los pocos meses de estar juntas, mientras que otras (por diversas razones) necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo para tomar esa decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If you’re having second thoughts about moving in with your partner, you need to be honest with yourself and take a look at every aspect of your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You need to focus on the reason(s) why you are insecure about that move. It’s perfectly normal if you need more time to think about all the pros and cons of such an important decision.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, la convivencia no es algo que pueda decidirse de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana. Hay muchos factores que pueden influir en la calidad de tu relaci\u00f3n y convivencia.<\/p>\n

Si los dos sois responsables, est\u00e1is dispuestos a llegar a acuerdos y a afrontar los problemas cotidianos en lugar de esconderlos debajo de la alfombra, pod\u00e9is estar seguros de que iros a vivir juntos es la decisi\u00f3n correcta.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hooray, are you ready for another huge milestone in your relationship? But, wait… how soon is too soon to move in together? Moving in with your significant other is a big step in any relationship, but knowing when the right time is to do it can be a challenging decision to make. If you move…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":114158,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/How-Soon-Is-Too-Soon-To-Move-In-Together_-15-Things-To-Consider-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113967"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113967\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114158"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}