{"id":11418,"date":"2020-09-05T14:52:13","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T14:52:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11418"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:31:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:31:02","slug":"el-tiempo-deja-de-importar-a-uno-no-le-importa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-tiempo-deja-de-importar-a-uno-no-le-importa\/","title":{"rendered":"Es hora de dejar de preocuparse por quien no se preocupa por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfC\u00f3mo dejar de preocuparte por alguien que hace que tu coraz\u00f3n lata a mil por hora? \u00bfPor alguien que te alegra el d\u00eda con su sola presencia? \u00bfEs humanamente posible hacerlo? <\/i><\/p>\n

Me hice las mismas preguntas una y otra vez hasta que lo descubr\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Like most of us, the only way to figure things out is to experience them on your own skin\u2014to fail miserably so you could go back up. Sometimes there is no other way to move forward than to experience pain.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed puedes aprender de ello. Puedes darle una vuelta de tuerca a ese dolor para que tenga un resultado positivo.<\/p>\n

El momento de epifan\u00eda para m\u00ed fue esa peque\u00f1a fracci\u00f3n de segundo en la que me di cuenta de que la vida es demasiado corta para relaciones a medias, promesas a medias y hombres a medias. <\/b><\/p>\n

The moment when I finally came to my senses and realized I deserve more\u2014I deserve better than this. I deserve someone who cares about me the same way I care about him and nothing less. <\/b><\/p>\n

That moment didn\u2019t come easily. It took its time. It took draining me of emotions to the point all I felt was complete numbness.<\/p>\n

Mi cabeza estaba llena de promesas incumplidas, mentiras y juegos a los que jugaba conmigo s\u00f3lo porque sab\u00eda que pod\u00eda hacerlo. Dej\u00e9 que se acercara demasiado sin obtener nada a cambio.<\/p>\n

I thought time will do its thing\u2014he will grow, he will change, he will make me his priority, he will step up his game and be the man I always considered him to be under that boyish fa\u00e7ade he was carrying around. I thought wrong.<\/p>\n

Esperar a que el tiempo resolviera mi relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l s\u00f3lo empeor\u00f3 las cosas. En realidad no era m\u00e1s que un ni\u00f1o que estaba poniendo a prueba mis l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

Decidi\u00f3 jugar con mis sentimientos hasta que llegu\u00e9 a mi punto de ruptura.<\/p>\n

Cuando finalmente me quebr\u00e9, I learned how to stop caring about somebody who doesn\u2019t care<\/a> sobre m\u00ed. <\/b> That’s why I want to share the things I\u2019ve learned with you.  <\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 te ayuden tanto como me ayudaron a m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que lo que mereces es m\u00e1s importante que lo que quieres<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really difficult to make that cut. To make a decision that you are your own priority and that you shouldn\u2019t settle for anybody who treats you like you are not enough.<\/p>\n

But trust me\u2014after the initial blow of sadness and loneliness, things start to look up. You find a way to rebuild yourself and demand the things that you deserve.<\/p>\n

Abre los ojos y m\u00edralo por lo que realmente es<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Estar enamorado a menudo nubla nuestro juicio. Nos hace crearnos una idea en la cabeza sobre la persona que nos importa que no tiene ninguna relaci\u00f3n real con ella.<\/p>\n

If he is manipulating you, playing games, lying and avoiding commitment of any kind, he is surely not the \u2019Prince Charming\u2019 you made him out to be.<\/p>\n

Una vez que te haces una idea real de qui\u00e9n es y de lo que te est\u00e1 haciendo, sus encantos empiezan a desaparecer. Ya no es tan incre\u00edble como te lo imaginabas y cada d\u00eda te importa menos.<\/p>\n

Prioriza tu felicidad<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Si \u00e9l hace las mismas cosas una y otra vez y t\u00fa sigues d\u00e1ndole infinitas oportunidades, nada cambiar\u00e1. Seguir\u00e1 haciendo lo mismo porque confiar\u00e1 en que le perdones cada vez.<\/p>\n

He will look at you as his safety net\u2014someone he can rely on to always be there.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be a simple safety net to somebody you care so much about. Especially when he is something so inconstant in your life.<\/p>\n

He is not concerned with your happiness; he is concerned with his own. That\u2019s the lesson you have to take from him\u2014dar prioridad a tu propia felicidad. <\/a><\/p>\n

Put yourself first. Make yourself happy and make your own dreams come true. Don\u2019t depend on anybody else to do it for you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look for him to provide you with the happiness he never will. It\u2019s in your hands.<\/p>\n

Sigue a tu coraz\u00f3n pero escucha a tu cerebro<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

If your heart and brain aren\u2019t in sync, you are in a bad relationship. The heart feels what it feels there is no questioning that, but the heart can be deceitful, too, which is why there are so many bad relationships out there.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we often settle for less than we deserve.<\/p>\n

So, when you finally decide it\u2019s time to stop caring about him, make sure to listen to your brain when he starts texting and calling. Don\u2019t buy into his lame excuses\u2014you\u2019ve heard it all before.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jale hablar y observa lo aburrido que se vuelve todo. Nunca oir\u00e1s nada nuevo, s\u00f3lo las mismas excusas tontas cada vez. T\u00fa eres mejor que eso.<\/p>\n

Establecer normas<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Demand that the love, respect and validation you give to someone be given back. The mistake I made is that I wasn\u2019t clear with myself about my own standards.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t value myself enough. Out of fear of losing him, I let him make a puppet out of me. I should\u2019ve never done that\u2014I am nobody\u2019s toy.<\/p>\n

Tuve que mantener una larga y significativa conversaci\u00f3n conmigo misma y establecer cu\u00e1les deber\u00edan haber sido las normas. Decid\u00ed que nunca dejar\u00e9 que nadie me d\u00e9 por sentado.<\/p>\n

Me ayud\u00f3 en el futuro y me hizo ver todas las cosas que estaba dejando pasar a la ligera.<\/p>\n

Establecer normas proporciona a los hombres un conjunto claro de l\u00edmites que no deben traspasarse.<\/p>\n

No, you don\u2019t have to act bitchy and make somebody feel like you are their boss, but you have to make sure that both of you know which things can\u2019t and never will be tolerated.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00e1ndolo ganar\u00e1s mucho m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

There is that thing called harmony\u2014that state of inner peace that is priceless. That\u2019s the first thing you will gain when you say your final good,bye to him.<\/p>\n

Al despedirte de \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n te est\u00e1s despidiendo de todo el dolor que te est\u00e1 causando, de todo el estr\u00e9s, de todas esas noches sin dormir esperando que te devuelva el mensaje y de todo tipo de manipulaciones y malos comportamientos que te ha hecho pasar.<\/p>\n

Al despedirte de \u00e9l, te est\u00e1s saludando a ti misma. <\/a><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop caring about those who clearly don’t care about you.<\/b><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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