Mientras que la \u00faltima pregunta es relativamente f\u00e1cil de responder (y de conseguir), la primera es la dif\u00edcil, y suele ir seguida de estas dos preguntas: C\u00f3mo seducir a una chica<\/a>? C\u00f3mo seducir a la chica que quieras<\/a>?<\/p>\n Too many how to’s and not a single answer. Do you know what? I think it’s high time we change that!<\/p>\n My fellow friend, I daresay that you’re in luck because if there’s anyone in the world who can teach you how to get a girl’s attention<\/a>, it is a woman, or should I say – myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n I suppose I have already captured your attention with the second question where I mentioned (almost) every guy’s Holy Liquid known as beer. (Don’t get me wrong, I’m a female and I enjoy beer just as any other Holy Liquid lover.)<\/p>\n So, I think we shall get along pretty well. If you wanted to get my attention, a pint of beer would (probably) do the job, BUT (“prepare for disappointment”), this doesn’t work on every girl out there (or should I say on the girl you like).<\/p>\n Por eso, amigo m\u00edo, tienes que intensificar tu juego y aprender lo que una chica quiere de ti y c\u00f3mo puedes haz que te desee<\/a> mal en persona, en Instagram, en Snapchat \u00a1y a trav\u00e9s de mensajes de texto!<\/strong><\/p>\n And, don’t worry… in case you fail at mastering the art of capturing her attention and conseguir novia<\/a>Recuerda que siempre tienes una cerveza. (Lo s\u00e9, deber\u00eda dejar de intentar ser tan humor\u00edstica y reconfortante).<\/p>\n If anyone ever said to you that girls don’t care much about your looks, outfits, and similar, I feel obliged to tell you that this is a BIG lie!<\/p>\n Preg\u00fantate qu\u00e9 es lo primero que notas en una chica. \u00bfSu sonrisa, su atuendo y otros detalles captan tu atenci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n Pues lo mismo se te puede aplicar a ti. So, if you want to get a girl’s attention, you need to make a good first impression!<\/strong> (I’m so excited about this sentence because it even rhymes!).<\/p>\n Get yourself a cool jacket, along with t-shirts and jeans. Spice your outfit up with a powerful watch, scarf, or ring (my, my\u2026 Johnny Depp surely knows how to rock those rings!).<\/p>\n En otras palabras: Don’t just wear the first thing that comes to your mind, but rock your own style!<\/strong><\/p>\n This doesn’t mean that you need to follow the latest fashion, but at least make an effort to find some interesting accessories and pieces of clothing to impress the girl you like!<\/p>\n \u00bfCu\u00e1l es su mayor pasi\u00f3n en la vida? \u00bfTienes alguna afici\u00f3n interesante? Si respondes que ver el f\u00fatbol, beber cerveza y jugar a videojuegos, entonces hay que cambiar algo cuanto antes.<\/p>\n Truth be told, I have nothing against any of it. I like beer, I like video games, and I tolerate football. But, do you think that this is interesting and exciting enough and that it will surely capture her attention? And… I thought so.<\/p>\n Si sabes tocar alg\u00fan instrumento (preferiblemente la guitarra), la mitad de tu trabajo de captaci\u00f3n de atenci\u00f3n est\u00e1 hecho.<\/strong><\/p>\n Y, si sabes c\u00f3mo llevar tu propio estilo, \u00a1te juro que ya puedo ver a la chica enamor\u00e1ndose de ti a la velocidad del rayo!<\/p>\n Todas las chicas saben que los hombres apasionados son los mejores compa\u00f1eros, <\/a>as\u00ed que si quieres conseguir novia<\/a> en un tiempo r\u00e9cord, esfu\u00e9rzate por adquirir nuevas perspectivas y aprender cosas nuevas. Disfruta de la vida y la har\u00e1s lo bastante atractiva como para que ella quiera unirse a ti.<\/p>\n Girls love scents! If you want to get that one girl’s attention, then you will need to find your signature scent.<\/p>\n Find a perfume that perfectly describes your personality and lifestyle. I think that won’t be a challenging task given that the media is doing a great job describing every single perfume and the message behind it to us.<\/p>\n The reason why you need to do this is to implement the scent into the girl’s mind so whenever she smells something close to your scent, it will instantly remind her of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, if you’re not really sure which perfume suits you best (or if you don’t have your favorite one and you know you never will), then just smell nice.<\/p>\n Any scent is better than no scent. I’m sure the character from the movie Perfume: la historia de un asesino<\/em> estar\u00eda de acuerdo conmigo en esto.<\/p>\n When you walk into the room, do you have a feeling that you’re invisible and other people don’t notice you and don’t even try to do so? Perhaps there’s a valid reason behind this.<\/p>\n If you’re having difficulties making your presence known and felt, this will reflect on how others perceive you as well.<\/p>\n If you don’t let others know that you’re being there at that moment, you will not get their attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n Peor a\u00fan, \u00a1no llamar\u00e1s su atenci\u00f3n! Si quieres que se fije en ti, habla con dignidad y confianza, camina con seguridad como un jefe y piensa como tal.<\/p>\n Show to the world that you know how to get any girl’s attention effortlessly and naturally. Until you become a master of this game, fake it till you make it!<\/p>\n They say that men fall in love with a woman’s absence, and not her presence. I’m sure the same thing can be applied to women as well.<\/p>\n I assume you already know what I’m talking about. Yes, I’m talking about the art of jugando duro<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ll\u00e9nala de cumplidos, s\u00e9 todo un caballero, escucha con atenci\u00f3n cada una de sus palabras, env\u00edale mensajes de texto con frecuencia, y luego, s\u00f3lo por un momento, un d\u00eda (o unos cuantos), deja de hacer todo eso.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00bfSabes lo que pasa entonces?<\/p>\n She will start asking herself what she has done wrong, she will feel like she lost something she didn’t even have, and she will become the one fighting for your attention!<\/p>\n Aunque este juego de psicolog\u00eda inversa suena brillante, como soy un pensador exagerado, lo odio desde lo m\u00e1s profundo de mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n And, even though I perfectly know how it works, I fall into the same trap every single time. “The perks” of being a woman overthinker.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: How To Win A Girl’s Heart: 9 Legit Ways To Make Her Yours<\/a><\/p>\n No matter what your hobbies are, or what your manners are, if you don’t take good care of yourself, the girl will not notice you.<\/p>\n Por cuidarse bien me refiero a tener una buena higiene, dormir lo suficiente, comer alimentos sanos, hacer ejercicio y cosas similares.<\/p>\n If you’re feeling brave and determined, you might want to start practicing a estilo de vida hol\u00edstico<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n Take a shower, brush your teeth, apply deodorant (but don’t overdo it), put clean clothes on, add a dash of perfume, and you’re ready!<\/strong><\/p>\n You’re ready to conquer the world with your unique outfit, your great hygiene, and your aura! The thing is, taking good care of yourself will make you feel better about yourself.<\/p>\n Tendr\u00e1s m\u00e1s posibilidades de captar su atenci\u00f3n con una mentalidad positiva que con una negativa.<\/p>\n En c\u00f3mo conseguir que una chica te bese<\/a>? Entonces, aprenda c\u00f3mo hacer re\u00edr a una chica<\/a>!<\/em><\/p>\n If you ask any girl out there whether they like to laugh at a guy’s jokes, their answer will be affirmative. Yes, we like to laugh at good, witty jokes and we praise this quality in every man.<\/p>\n En serio, el sentido del humor juega un papel importante a la hora de captar su atenci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Todos queremos pasarlo bien y re\u00edrnos a carcajadas, as\u00ed que estar con alguien que nos lo pueda transmitir no tiene precio.<\/p>\n And, don’t worry, you don’t need to be a stand-up comedian in order to make a girl laugh.<\/p>\n Todo lo que tienes que hacer es ser creativo y buscar nuevas formas de demostrar tus dotes humor\u00edsticas. Pero, como con todo lo dem\u00e1s, aseg\u00farate de no exagerar.<\/p>\n \u00bfHa visto alguna vez a una persona caminando por la calle de forma precipitada? \u00bfO apresur\u00e1ndose para responder a una pregunta? \u00bfEs usted esa persona?<\/p>\n If yes, then it’s high time you learn how to be perfectly effortless and attractive. Everything is about the little things (the way you talk, walk, treat others, and so on).<\/p>\n If you’re capable of doing all those things in an effortless manner, then you will be noticed.<\/strong> Sin duda se fijar\u00e1 en ti, porque es un rasgo poderoso.<\/p>\n There’s something truly magical about people who are capable of doing everything with little or no effort. They look spontaneous and inviting!<\/p>\n If you want to look that way, too, then it’s time to implement this effortless style into your daily life.<\/p>\n A lot of guys make the common mistake where they shower the girl they like with full attention to the extent of spoiling her. Trust me, you don’t want that to happen to you.<\/p>\n Yes, it’s true: If you want to keep her, treat her like you’re still trying to win her<\/a>. But, always make some space for her to doubt whether you’re still winning her or she’s the one winning you.<\/p>\n If you give a girl everything at once, she will not know how to appreciate it. The same thing goes for you guys. It’s just how human beings are wired.<\/p>\n You need to find the balance between spoiling her and showering her with attention. It will be hard (especially if you like her a lot), but it’s something that needs to be done.<\/p>\n Un caballero. Creo que los futuros diccionarios explicar\u00e1n la palabra caballero como un unicornio que nadie ha visto todav\u00eda, pero que todo el mundo cree que existe.<\/p>\n Si quieres hacer del mundo un lugar mejor y devolver la esperanza a las generaciones futuras, s\u00e9 un caballero. La moda va y viene, pero los buenos modales siempre estar\u00e1n de moda.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you’ve seen the series Peaky Blinders<\/em>, then you know what I’m talking about. Ask any woman whether Thomas Shelby (from the series) caught their attention.<\/p>\n Apuesto a que todas las mujeres del mundo que vieron la serie (incluida yo misma) se casar\u00edan con \u00e9l de inmediato si \u00e9l se lo pidiera.<\/p>\n Being a gentleman is no longer a matter of manners, it’s about being different. In a world full of selfishness, disrespect, and impoliteness, choose to be different and treat girls like un verdadero caballero<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n This doesn’t only include opening doors for them, but it also includes being honest with them, finding time for them, protecting them, and making them feel special.<\/p>\n This will most DEFINITELY catch any girl’s attention. I can promise you that.<\/p>\n Here’s one of the most valuable pieces of consejos sobre citas<\/a> de m\u00ed para ti, amigo m\u00edo: \u00a1Prot\u00e9gela! En realidad, \u00e9ste est\u00e1 en estrecha relaci\u00f3n con el signo anterior.<\/p>\n If you want to catch her attention, then protect her with both your actions and your words. Don’t let other people take her for granted… ask her how her day was and just listen to her.<\/p>\n B\u00e1sicamente, hazle saber que si alguien intenta hacerle da\u00f1o, tendr\u00e1 que v\u00e9rselas contigo primero.<\/strong> Girls LOVE that. And, how wouldn’t we?<\/p>\n Siempre que pienso en un tipo que es protector, me imagino al instante a alguien con esa actitud machista de no importarle lo que los dem\u00e1s piensen de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Me imagino a alguien que es a la vez sensible con los que le caen bien y un malote con los que desprecia (por razones v\u00e1lidas). Trust me, there’s nothing more powerful than that.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you’re that guy (or if you become one), then you will not only succeed in catching her attention, but she will stick to you like glue!<\/p>\n Many guys are scared of showing their feelings because they don’t want to appear weak in front of a girl they like. But, do you know what?<\/p>\n Girls don’t see you that way.<\/strong> Si les muestras tu lado sensible, no te juzgar\u00e1n, sino que se sorprender\u00e1n de lo fuerte que eres en realidad, porque hace falta valor para mostrarle a alguien c\u00f3mo te sientes.<\/p>\n Another reason why you should do that is that you don’t want her to think that she’s dealing with an hombre emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>. If I suspect that I’m dealing with such a man, I instantly run away for life.<\/p>\n Embrace your masculine side, but don’t be afraid to show your sensitive side as well. If you do that, then every girl will see you as a real man and not as a boy who is scared of his own feelings.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: C\u00f3mo impresionar a una chica: las 15 mejores maneras de conquistarla<\/a><\/p>\n One of the fastest ways to get a woman’s attention is to tease her! No matter what she tells you and no matter how mad she is when you’re teasing her, know that she (secretly) enjoys it!<\/p>\n We love being teased because it’s fun and it gives us the opportunity to feel special and to pretend that we’re mad at you. Sounds silly, I know, but this is the truth.<\/p>\n Si quieres llamar su atenci\u00f3n, prueba a ponerle un apodo gracioso o puedes se\u00f1alar algo especial\/interesante en ella.<\/strong><\/p>\n You can also mimic her. Pretend that you’re treating her like a child, or playfully disagree with her.<\/strong><\/p>\n Y, lo mejor de todo (obviamente mi favorito): \u00a1Desaf\u00edala!<\/strong> Desde retos mentales hasta f\u00edsicos, disfrutar\u00e1 cuando tenga la oportunidad de demostrarle lo ingeniosa, inteligente y fuerte que es.<\/p>\n Porque s\u00e9 que quieres hacerlo. De hecho, todo hombre quiere demostrar a una chica que le gusta lo fuerte y poderoso que es.<\/p>\n Quieren competir con otros hombres y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, todo hombre quiere SER EL GANADOR (o al menos sentirse como tal). \u00bfEstoy en lo cierto? Por supuesto que la tengo.<\/p>\n If you want to catch a girl’s attention, you need to show her your talents, skills, and things you’re passionate about.<\/strong> And no, the fact that you can’t drink several beers in twenty seconds doesn’t count.<\/p>\n Show off your cooking skills, DIY skills, problem-solving skills, or anything else that you’re good at. If she needs help with lifting something heavy, be her Superman because I know how much you want it!<\/p>\n But, make sure that your showing off doesn’t turn into boasting. You don’t want girls to think that you’re superficial. Keep it classy.<\/p>\n Y, por el amor de Dios, \u00a1destaca entre la multitud!<\/strong> I think the rhyme is not a matter of coincidence here. Let me tell you something…<\/p>\n Todas las chicas (a partir de la adolescencia) tienen en la cabeza la imagen de un chico conocido en los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n como El Elegido.<\/p>\n Y, \u00bfsabe qui\u00e9n es ese Alguien misterioso? Alguien que har\u00e1 su vida, que estar\u00e1 a su lado, que sabr\u00e1 exactamente qu\u00e9 hacer en un momento determinado y que NUNCA la dar\u00e1 por sentada.<\/p>\n Alguien que sepa hacerla sentir especial y que le devuelva la fe en las citas.<\/strong> You can be the One, too. If you want to become that mythical creature, all you need to do is stand out from the crowd and show girls that you’re not like the rest of the guys.<\/p>\n La forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de hacerlo es siendo un caballero (porque esos tipos se han convertido en una verdadera escasez<\/strong>). Piensa en c\u00f3mo puedes hacerla sentir especial, \u00a1y ella se fijar\u00e1 en ti!<\/p>\n Esto suena como un anuncio para el gimnasio. En realidad, si fuera para el gimnasio, sonar\u00eda as\u00ed: Habla menos, m\u00edrate menos en el espejo y levanta m\u00e1s peso.<\/p>\n Where were we? No, I’m not a certified dating coach, but I can tell you from my female perspective that women appreciate your actions more than your words!<\/p>\n You can tell them that you love them, adore them, that you’ll do anything for them, but if you don’t show it with your actions, then they will not believe a single word you have said to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, my friend, the only way to get a girl’s attention is to do something nice for her, to keep your promises, to give her a compliment, and to do all those little things that are often overrated.<\/p>\n Recuerde que real men don’t make excuses<\/a>. En cambio, hacen un esfuerzo. \u00a1S\u00e9 ese HOMBRE!<\/p>\n La confianza en uno mismo es muy excitante. Cuando aumenta tu confianza en ti mismo<\/a>, you’ll instantly become more successful in dating (or online dating) and your love life will flourish.<\/p>\n Ten en cuenta que tu lenguaje corporal (o la falta del mismo) puede revelar mucho sobre tu confianza.<\/p>\n To show her that you’re feeling confident in your skin, you need to look into a girl’s eyes, keep your shoulders back, and keep your chin up.<\/p>\n Contacto visual prolongado<\/a> es una de las formas m\u00e1s eficaces de seducir a una chica que te gusta<\/a>. Esto har\u00e1 que una chica se sienta especial y conectada contigo. Le demostrar\u00e1 lo seguro de ti mismo que eres.<\/p>\n If you want her to notice you, here’s a simple thing you can do right now: Follow her! And, if she follows back, boy, you’re ahead of the game!<\/p>\n Todos y cada uno de nosotros queremos tener tantos seguidores como podamos en Instagram. Aparentemente, cuantos m\u00e1s seguidores tienes, m\u00e1s popular eres.<\/p>\n Even though I don’t really agree with this statement, I cannot deny the truthfulness of it. As\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de que tu perfil de Instagram sea atractivo cuando ella lo consulte.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you follow her before sliding into her DMs, then you\u2019ll have greater chances that she’ll text you back because you’ll be approved and you’ll be one of her people \u2013 her followers.<\/p>\n Yes, I know, Instagram abounds in attractive women of all shapes and sizes, but please, don’t like every single photo they post! Why?<\/p>\n Simple. Porque grita DESESPERADOS<\/strong> and she’ll start assuming that you’re head over heels for her. You: Pero yo s\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n Well, even if you are, you mustn’t show it to her (at least not so early). You don’t want her to friend-zone you or classify you as a creep. The thing is, women pay more attention to those who ignore them.<\/p>\n Not liking her every photo doesn’t exactly mean ignoring her, but it might motivate her to start asking herself why you aren’t liking her photos.<\/p>\n That fact will surely capture her attention! Also, she will see that you’re not desperate, but classy.<\/p>\n Y, una vez que decidas mandarle un mensaje, \u00a1hazlo como un jefe! \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa esto?<\/p>\n It means that you shouldn’t be generic and send her corny pick-up lines like “I am not a photographer, but I can picture us together”<\/em> o mensajes sexting para ella<\/a> (when it’s still too early for that). Seriously? Don’t send that.<\/p>\n Instead, send her a thoughtful direct message where you ask her something about her life (something interesting you’ve noticed in her photos or in her captions).<\/strong><\/p>\n By doing this, you’ll show her that you’re paying attention to details, and that you’re genuinely interested in her, not just her looks.<\/p>\n However, if you really “need to” send her a pick-up line, then melt her heart with frases rom\u00e1nticas para ligar<\/a> como “My friend over there thinks you\u2019re cute, but I disagree. I think you\u2019re gorgeous.”<\/em> Text a girl in an interesting way and you’ll win her in no time!<\/p>\n Please, don’t be creepy or desperate because this is a huge turn-off and I’m sure you already know that. Don’t be creepy on dating apps, social networks, in person, you name it.<\/p>\n Una forma segura de convertirte en un aut\u00e9ntico cretino en Instagram es enviarle varios mensajes sin recibir ni una sola respuesta por su parte.<\/strong> If she hasn’t texted you back, then there must be a reason behind it.<\/p>\n Since we are pros at overthinking, trust me, we’re doing everything for a reason. If you see the word “Seen,” but no response, then don’t be tempted to send her multiple texts to get her attention.<\/p>\n You won’t get her attention, you will only make things worse. To sum it all up: Don’t be creepy and you’ll get her attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n Instagram abounds with creeps and other not-so-inviting people, so showing her that you’re not one of them will certainly capture her attention. Sad, but true.<\/p>\n “Cute girl.” “Pretty.” “Beautiful.”<\/em><\/p>\n If a guy compliments me using one of the above words (or similar to them), I immediately think of him as being totally uncreative, unoriginal, and boring. I mean, everyone can write “pretty.” What does that even mean?<\/p>\n The word “pretty” has become so overused that it has almost lost its original meaning.<\/p>\n Sure, every girl wants to know that she’s pretty, but she also wants to feel special and noticed for other reasons apart from her physical look.<\/p>\n How to compliment a beautiful girl’s picture<\/a>?<\/p>\n Pay attention to all the details on her picture like what she is doing in the photo, compliment her choice of accessory and her natural beauty (but first, make sure she’s not wearing tons of makeup in the pic.).<\/p>\n Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, felic\u00edtala por algo que la haga destacar del resto. As\u00ed se sentir\u00e1 m\u00e1s que ESPECIAL.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: Si realmente la quieres, arrem\u00e1ngate y g\u00e1natela<\/a><\/p>\n Here’s another “expert tip” written by a humble female: Don’t be repetitive.<\/strong> S\u00e9 interesante e imprevisible. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque a las chicas les ENCANTA.<\/p>\n Todas las chicas sue\u00f1an con conocer a ese chico que las impresionar\u00e1 por su creatividad, su interesante perspectiva y su excitante estilo de vida.<\/p>\n We don’t like repetitive guys, especially those who always start a conversation with “Hey, what are you up to?”<\/em><\/p>\n To me, there’s nothing more annoying than that in the whole wide world. Hay tantas preguntas interesantes que hacer a alguien, y tantos temas apasionantes, desde el sentido de la vida hasta el cine.<\/strong><\/p>\n Talk about things that provide scope for the imagination (yes, I’ve been watching the series Ana Con E<\/em> desde hace alg\u00fan tiempo).<\/p>\n Don’t be superficial or shallow, but always have something exciting, thought-provoking, and funny in store.<\/p>\n Selfies have become the most important tool for seducing and getting someone’s attention, BUT only if you do it right.<\/p>\n When you’re taking a selfie, are you looking into the camera or at yourself?<\/p>\n If you’re looking into the camera, then you’re doing it right.<\/strong> Why? Because you’re focusing on the person who is receiving the picture and not on yourself.<\/p>\n Puedes elegir salir guapo o malote en los selfies. Las chicas prefieren ambas versiones, as\u00ed que quiz\u00e1 la mejor opci\u00f3n sea darles las dos, pero no al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n Don’t overdo the selfie thing. Send her one interesting selfie and wait for her to reply to you. Who knows, perhaps she will send you a cute selfie back.<\/p>\n Las historias se han convertido en una forma de vida, as\u00ed que seguro que tu chica publica muchas en Snapchat. \u00bfAdivina qu\u00e9? Esta es tu oportunidad perfecta para escribir algo creativo cuando escribas una respuesta a su historia.<\/p>\n Avoid texting something like “LMAO” or “HAHA”. This is not funny and neither is it interesting.<\/p>\n Si quieres captar su atenci\u00f3n, tienes que destacar entre la multitud.<\/strong> Escribe algo divertido, como un breve pie de foto para su foto o algo ingenioso que le haga pensar.<\/p>\n If you do that, then she will surely remember you because you’re not one of those guys throwing “haha’s” wherever they (virtually) go.<\/p>\n You need to show her that you’re capable of making interesting conversations, and also making her laugh. More than anything in the world, girls like to feel connected to others, so give your best to make that happen.<\/p>\n Enviar selfies es una forma estupenda de captar su atenci\u00f3n, y deslizarte a sus DMs puede ser igual de efectivo. Pero, como siempre, no exageres.<\/p>\n Don’t send her multiple texts if she’s not responding. Ser coqueto<\/a>, but don’t be too flirtatious because you don’t want to scare her off.<\/p>\n Don’t ask too many questions, but also don’t send one-word texts because you want to keep the conversation going.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don’t give her too much info about yourself because she might lose interest in you. Keep it light with a dash of mystery and excitement.<\/p>\n Una vez que empiece a entablar una conversaci\u00f3n, sugi\u00e9rale que se acerque a la cafeter\u00eda (o bar) m\u00e1s cercano y siga hablando all\u00ed. Al fin y al cabo, \u00e9ste es tu objetivo principal, \u00bfverdad? Pues s\u00ed.<\/p>\n Here’s one of the most valuable dating tips: Be creative! I know I repeated this multiple times so far, but I just want to make sure that you memorize the importance of being creative and original.<\/p>\n Cuando se trata de Snapchat, puedes mostrar tu lado creativo de muchas maneras.<\/strong><\/p>\n You can change your voice, add some fun stickers, draw, you name it. You can play with a wide array of creative tools until your heart’s content.<\/p>\n Y, ahora viene la parte divertida (\u00a1pero s\u00f3lo para los valientes!). Probablemente ya conozcas Snapchat Maps, que te permite ver d\u00f3nde est\u00e1n tus amigos en ese momento.<\/p>\n Well, this feature can let you know where your crush is right now, see with whom they are, and also what they’re doing.<\/p>\n Now, here’s the challenge for the brave ones:<\/strong> Puedes preguntarle si puedes acompa\u00f1arla.<\/p>\n Perhaps she’ll like the originality of your idea and she will admire your courage. But, be prepared for potential rejection as well.<\/p>\n Don’t send multiple snaps (especially if you know she won’t be very interested in seeing them in the first place). Be careful of the content you’re sharing with her.<\/p>\n If you know that she’s a feline lover, then you can record yourself playing with a cute cat, or take a selfie with that fluffy creature and send it to the girl you dig.<\/p>\n Si lo haces, es muy probable que se derrita al instante y te env\u00ede un mensaje de texto del tipo “Omg, you two look so cute!”<\/em><\/p>\n Cr\u00e9eme, si una chica te dice que est\u00e1s guapo, ya te la has ganado. En un mundo en el que todos los chicos intentan imitar a un macho, estar guapo es mucho m\u00e1s atractivo para las chicas.<\/p>\n It will show them that you’re different, sentimental, and that you love cats (just like she does)!<\/strong><\/p>\n El secreto est\u00e1 en encontrar lo que ten\u00e9is en com\u00fan. Una vez que lo encuentres, c\u00ed\u00f1ete a ello y \u00a1seguro que consigues llamar su atenci\u00f3n!<\/p>\n Regla n\u00famero uno: Don’t text a girl when you’re in a negative mood.<\/strong> Imagina que le env\u00edas a una chica que te gusta un mensaje como \u00e9ste: “My day was so boring and I feel so lonely right now…”<\/em><\/p>\n Si me enviaras este mensaje, te responder\u00eda lo siguiente: “Okay.”<\/em><\/p>\n First of all, keep in mind that the girl you like is not your venting buddy, so you shouldn’t text her when you’re in a negative mood because it will also make her feel down.<\/p>\n Por el contrario, hay que mantener una actitud positiva. Quieres que sonr\u00eda cada vez (vale, casi cada vez) que lea tu mensaje y que asocie el env\u00edo de mensajes contigo con una actividad divertida y emocionante.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tell her about that funny situation at your job, surprise her with your unique way of thinking, or share funny GIFs (when appropriate) and you’ll get her attention (and keep it)!<\/p>\n Regardless if you’re texting her on Tinder, Instagram, or something else, remember to keep things light. Stay away from serious conversations and focus on making the conversation as playful as possible.<\/p>\n Piensa en algunos preguntas coquetas para hacer a una chica<\/a> quieres impresionar, evita ser repetitivo y mant\u00e9n las cosas emocionantes.<\/p>\n Even if she texts you something like “How was your day?” this doesn’t mean that you should reply to her in a serious, a.k.a., boring manner.<\/p>\n Keep in mind that the reason why she asked you that is because she’s the one who is feeling bored at the moment and she’s waiting for you to entertain her!<\/strong><\/p>\n As\u00ed que s\u00e9 juguet\u00f3n y coqueto. Entretenla y seguro que llamar\u00e1s su atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Also, when she sees that you’re not taking yourself seriously and that you’re all laid-back and jockey, she will be more than willing to share everything with you.<\/p>\n If a woman is ready to share her thoughts and feelings with you, then you know you’ve done a great job, so keep up the good work.<\/p>\n I completely understand the fact that guys are not chat lovers… the only reason why they decide to text a girl is that they like her and they want to get her attention.<\/p>\n If you want to succeed in that attempt, then consider using plenty of Emojis (but don’t overdo it!).<\/p>\n Honestly, whenever I’m texting with un tipo que usa Emojis<\/a>, I instantly feel more relaxed and, let’s say, special because he actually made an effort to express how he’s feeling at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n No todos los hombres est\u00e1n preparados o dispuestos a hacerlo.<\/p>\n Los emojis dan la impresi\u00f3n de que eres informal, relajado y coqueto. Tienen el poder de animar cualquier conversaci\u00f3n, lo cual es estupendo.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: C\u00f3mo hacer que te persiga: 18 trucos que siempre funcionan<\/a><\/p>\n Una forma segura de que tus textos parezcan aburridos es no utilizar palabras descriptivas. Piensa en los mensajes como si escribieras un libro.<\/p>\n Of course, you’re not a legit writer (or maybe you are), but still, you need to keep in mind that the girl you’re texting is your reader.<\/p>\n Si leyera un libro carente de descripciones v\u00edvidas, \u00bfcontinuar\u00eda ley\u00e9ndolo? Supongo que no. Lo mismo ocurre con los mensajes de texto.<\/p>\n Describiendo las cosas con detalle, la ayudar\u00e1s a imaginarse todo eso sin mucho esfuerzo. Antes de lo que imaginas, estar\u00e1 deseando recibir tus mensajes y responderte. Puedes aplicar esta t\u00e9cnica siempre que quieras ponla a tono<\/a> en el futuro.<\/p>\n Don’t worry too much about punctuation. Don’t be one of those people who have the uncontrollable urge to correct their every single misspelled word.<\/p>\n It’s okay if you do it from time to time, but doing it constantly will only let her know that you’re either seeking perfection or you’re una persona reservada.<\/a><\/p>\n You don’t want her to think that of you. You want her to see you as a spontaneous person who doesn’t care about one letter extra or a misspelled word.<\/p>\n En efecto, hay algo especial en los chicos que saben estar sin esfuerzo.<\/p>\n You certainly don’t want to talk about politics with the girl you like.<\/p>\n Of course, you can talk about that later once you get to know each other better, but avoid such things and similar topics when you’re texting her for the first time or if you haven\u2019t known her for a long time.<\/p>\n En su lugar, elige temas de conversaci\u00f3n interesantes sobre la vida, las mascotas, tal vez el trabajo de sus sue\u00f1os, etc. Aseg\u00farese de que su preguntas para la primera cita<\/a> tambi\u00e9n son interesantes.<\/p>\n DON’T KEEP TEXTING HER IF:<\/strong><\/p>\n Dominar el arte de How to get a girl’s attention<\/em> no se trata s\u00f3lo de llevar el mejor atuendo o de enviarle mensajes de la forma m\u00e1s creativa posible, sino tambi\u00e9n de ser uno mismo.<\/p>\n Yes, you should definitely follow the above “rules,” but you should also keep in mind that the only way to win a girl is to be genuine. 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Impresi\u00f3nala con tu estilo<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-holding-hands-12.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHaz que tu vida sea interesante y emocionante<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-playing-guitar.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEncuentre su aroma caracter\u00edstico (o simplemente huela bien)<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-at-table-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHaga sentir su presencia<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-8.jpg\")
<\/p>\nJugar a la psicolog\u00eda inversa<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCu\u00eddese<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-running-on-treadmill.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHazla re\u00edr (siempre que puedas)<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-talking-9.jpg\")
<\/p>\nSin esfuerzo<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-standing-on-the-street-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nShower her with attention (but don’t overdo it!)<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-giving-flowers-to-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nS\u00e9 un caballero<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-giving-jacket-to-woman-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nSea protector con ella<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-dock-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\nAdem\u00e1s, mu\u00e9strale tu lado sensible<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-hugging-man-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\nMol\u00e9stala como un profesional<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-laughing-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDemuestra tus habilidades<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-looking-at-phone.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDestaque entre la multitud<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-cars-trunk.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
\nB\u00e1sicamente, lo que las chicas quieren es alguien que sea DIFERENTE. Alguien que las trate de forma diferente.<\/p>\nHABLAR menos, HACER m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-sitting-on-rooftop.jpg\")
<\/p>\nTenga confianza<\/h2>\n
![\"un](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/couple-making-eye-contact-9.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHow To Get A Girl’s Attention On Instagram<\/h2>\n
S\u00edguela antes de deslizarte en sus DMs<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-using-smartphone-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
\nAdem\u00e1s de contar el n\u00famero de nuevos seguidores, querr\u00e1 saber qu\u00e9 tipo de personas la siguen.<\/p>\nDon’t like every single photo she posts<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-sitting-on-chair.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEnv\u00edale un DM atento e interesante<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-5.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDon’t be creepy<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-drinking-coffee.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHazle un cumplido \u00fanico y creativo<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-smartphone.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDon’t be repetitive<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-holding-smartphone-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHow To Get A Girl’s Attention On Snapchat<\/h2>\n
Tome el selfie perfecto<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-smiling-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nIdeas originales para las historias de Snapchat<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-using-smartphone-5.jpg\")
<\/p>\nM\u00e9tete en sus DMs<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-using-smartphone-6.jpg\")
<\/p>\nS\u00e9 creativo<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-holding-smartphone-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nRecuerde que menos es m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHow To Get A Girl’s Attention Over Text<\/h2>\n
Mant\u00e9ngase positivo<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-near-wall-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\nSea juguet\u00f3n y coqueto<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-bed-6.jpg\")
<\/p>\nUtilizar emojis<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-phone-6.jpg\")
<\/p>\nSea descriptivo<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-phone-7.jpg\")
<\/p>\nS\u00e9 espont\u00e1neo<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-on-the-street-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nElija temas de conversaci\u00f3n interesantes<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-ground-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\n\n
(And, don’t forget to) Just Be Yourself!<\/h2>\n