{"id":11497,"date":"2020-08-08T11:49:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T11:49:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11497"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:35:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:35:14","slug":"gracias-no-elegir-hacer-elegir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gracias-no-elegir-hacer-elegir\/","title":{"rendered":"Gracias por no elegirme y hacer que me elija a m\u00ed mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ten\u00edamos una buena relaci\u00f3n. \u00c9ramos felices, re\u00edamos juntos y llor\u00e1bamos juntos, pero al final decidiste no elegirme y quiero darte las gracias por ello.<\/p>\n

Even though we lasted for only a short time, I will never forget you because you\u2019ve set me free. You\u2019ve allowed me to be happy again. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When we were together, we had our ups and downs, but in the end when everything was over, when I cried out the tears that I\u2019d been keeping inside and when I finally healed, I remembered only the good things we had together.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, gracias por romperme el coraz\u00f3n. Gracias por dejarme sola para curarme. Gracias por ense\u00f1arme una lecci\u00f3n. Gracias por no elegirme.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Toda mi vida estuve buscando el amor. Luch\u00e9 por la felicidad con todo lo que ten\u00eda.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I came to you and thank God I did because you were the one who failed to give me what I deserve.<\/p>\n

You are the one who showed me I was missing out on something\u2014love.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda tantas ganas de amar que me entregu\u00e9 al primer hombre que mostr\u00f3 inter\u00e9s por m\u00ed. No ten\u00eda ni idea de que hay algo m\u00e1s que un inter\u00e9s que se desvanece, un flechazo.<\/p>\n

No ten\u00eda ni idea de que el amor es mucho m\u00e1s que puro enamoramiento y qu\u00edmica pasajera.<\/p>\n

Supongo que lo que quiero decir es gracias por hacerme comprender lo que es realmente el amor.<\/p>\n

Me ense\u00f1aste que tengo que respetarme a m\u00ed misma. Me ense\u00f1aste que primero tengo que amarme a m\u00ed mismo para poder amar a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

When you didn\u2019t choose me, you made me choose myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me hiciste hacer las paces conmigo misma y mirar mi vida desde otra perspectiva. En mi dolor, en el dolor que me diste, crec\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Me ca\u00ed en un pozo oscuro y pens\u00e9 que no hab\u00eda forma de salir de all\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I dwelled in my own fear, choking on my tears, looking for answers. I was so frustrated and sad because you didn\u2019t choose me.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I was thinking what is wrong with me and why you don\u2019t love me.<\/p>\n

Days and months passed and I still didn\u2019t find an answer until I finally realized that you not choosing me is the best thing that has ever happened to me.<\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize I\u2019m good enough for myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize I don\u2019t need to be chosen because I\u2019m the one who has the right to choose. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize that I\u2019m just perfecto como soy.<\/a> I don\u2019t have to change for anybody because that is not real love. That is not the real me.<\/p>\n

And with you, I wasn\u2019t the real me. I was something you wanted me to be. I was something you wanted to love.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que era digno de amor y t\u00fa al no amarme me lo demostraste. Gracias.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know I deserve someone who will look at me like I\u2019m the only one in the world for him. I know I deserve someone who will think I\u2019m pure magic\u2014the magic only he knows to use.<\/p>\n

Merezco a alguien que est\u00e9 hecho para m\u00ed. Merezco ser feliz el resto de mi vida con alguien que me quiera por lo que soy.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t that person and I get it now. I\u2019m not angry you\u2019ve hurt me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m happy you didn\u2019t choose me and I\u2019m happy you didn\u2019t see me the way I deserved because that means I won\u2019t make this mistake every again.<\/p>\n

Thank you for making me fall in love\u2014fall in love with myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel guilty for not choosing me. Don\u2019t be sad because I\u2019m not sad.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so grateful to you because you made me see how much I was worth and how much I have to give to the world.<\/p>\n

Me lo ense\u00f1aste al no actuar como deb\u00edas conmigo. Gracias por hacer que me ame a m\u00ed misma y a todos los que me rodean. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Thank you for letting me go and choosing yourself, thus showing me it\u2019s okay for me to choose myself, too. <\/i><\/p>\n

Ambos merecemos ser felices. Gracias por hacerlo realidad.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"Gracias<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We had a good thing going. We were happy; we laughed together and we cried together but in the end, you decided not to choose me and I want to thank you for that. Even though we lasted for only a short time, I will never forget you because you\u2019ve set me free. You\u2019ve allowed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Thank-You-For-Not-Choosing-Me-And-Making-Me-Choose-Myself-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11497","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11497"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11497\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}