{"id":11503,"date":"2020-07-08T12:12:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T12:12:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11503"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:19:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:19:01","slug":"read-youre-tired-waiting-love-happen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/read-youre-tired-waiting-love-happen\/","title":{"rendered":"Lee esto si est\u00e1s cansado de esperar a que llegue el amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Me pasaba todo el tiempo. Estaba tan cansado de esperando el amor<\/a> para llamar a mi puerta.<\/p>\n

Pero eso es porque esperaba que entrara en mi vida. Me presion\u00e9 para deseando tanto el amor<\/a> que perd\u00ed toda l\u00f3gica que ten\u00eda y busqu\u00e9 ciegamente el amor.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t wait for love. Love will happen to you when you don\u2019t ask for it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Love will happen to you when you relax and accept the fact that things aren\u2019t going to go your way every time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly how it was for me. Now, I catch myself staring at the love of my life when he\u2019s doing stupid, everyday things. I catch myself staring at him like he\u2019s doing something impossibly beautiful.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how much I love him. I love every normal and ordinary move he makes. I love how he puts butter on his toast in the morning. I love every fiber of his being.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Y consegu\u00ed todo eso porque dej\u00e9 de esperar a que surgiera el amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca me imagin\u00e9 diciendo estas cosas de nadie. Quer\u00eda decirlas pero era demasiado surrealista. Esperaba compartir el amor que ten\u00eda para dar con alguien, pero nunca supe que me corresponder\u00eda.<\/p>\n

My whole life I was aching for love. I thought I was patient and I was always ready to love someone and to be loved. But now I get it that I wasn\u2019t patient at all.<\/p>\n

Estaba tensa y agitada porque el amor nunca llamaba a mi puerta. Deseaba tanto que viniera, pero no se ve\u00eda amor alguno.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda relaciones, pero mis excusas eran que el momento no es el adecuado<\/a>, or I had some issues of my own and I didn\u2019t want to unleash my problems on someone else. Or, I was in a relationship, but that wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

That wasn\u2019t the feeling of butterflies in your stomach. I didn\u2019t go to bed thinking about him or waking up doing the same. That just wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Our whole lives we are searching for our soulmate. That\u2019s what it all comes down to.<\/p>\n

Queremos a alguien con quien acurrucarnos, alguien con quien compartir nuestros problemas y alguien con quien volver a casa al final del d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Eso nos lleva a conformarnos con la primera persona que llega en el momento adecuado, en realidad completamente equivocado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of giving our own lives some meaning and devotion to ourselves\u2014working on ourselves, making ourselves better\u2014we ache for something that will come, but not yet.<\/p>\n

We lose most of our lives wanting something that we shouldn\u2019t have to want yet.<\/p>\n

El amor te encontrar\u00e1 cuando est\u00e9s preparado para aceptarlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estamos solteros por una raz\u00f3n<\/a>. Por algo nos rompen el coraz\u00f3n. Todo esto forma parte del viaje que nos convierte en personas m\u00e1s completas, m\u00e1s inteligentes y mejores, que un d\u00eda estar\u00e1n preparadas para amar con todo su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Y porque anduvimos por los caminos llenos de baches de nuestra vida, porque nos ca\u00edmos y nos magullamos, nos hacemos m\u00e1s fuertes despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Nos hacemos m\u00e1s fuertes y por fin estamos preparados para el hermoso reino del amor verdadero.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Keep waiting and be patient. Believe me\u2014it will pay off in the end. Don\u2019t fool yourself that you are becoming desperate because you really have plenty of time.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t convince yourself that you\u2019ve met your true love because that person will keep you from conocer al elegido<\/a> que se supon\u00eda que te ibas a encontrar.<\/p>\n

Cuando por fin hagas las paces contigo misma y te dejes llevar por la magia de la vida, \u00e9l vendr\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I wish someone had told me this. I wish someone had told me I have to be alone to figure out my personal \u2018manuals\u2019 and the way I operate.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ojal\u00e1 alguien me hubiera dicho que la soledad me traer\u00e1 la mayor felicidad que jam\u00e1s haya experimentado.<\/p>\n

Ojal\u00e1 hubiera sabido que primero ten\u00eda que quererme y respetarme a m\u00ed misma si quer\u00eda que otra persona hiciera lo mismo.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I thought I was unlovable. I thought that I am never going to find love because I\u2019m broken. I was born with a mistake that can\u2019t be undone.<\/p>\n

I thought that\u2019s just the way life is. I wanted to change so many times.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que me quisieran, as\u00ed que me amold\u00e9 a lo que los dem\u00e1s quer\u00edan.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eso nunca dur\u00f3 porque yo no era as\u00ed. Y pens\u00e9 que era una causa perdida. Pens\u00e9 que nunca iba a tener un final feliz. Pero entonces encontr\u00e9 a un hombre cuando menos lo esperaba.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Everything was so easy with him. I didn\u2019t have to pretend to be something that I\u2019m not. I was the person who I always was. I was finally myself and someone loved me for that.<\/p>\n

I really didn\u2019t see him coming. I thought I was supposed to be alone a few more years because frankly, Yo era feliz solo.<\/a><\/p>\n

I found myself and I was happy with my life and with whom I have become. I didn\u2019t think I was ready to love.<\/p>\n

But there he came\u2014barging in at the apparently right time.<\/p>\n

No era nada de lo que esperaba que fuera. Era completamente diferente de lo que hab\u00eda imaginado. Y el tuyo tambi\u00e9n lo ser\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have the features you\u2019ve imagined, but he\u2019ll have that special \u2018something\u2019 that will sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n

Merece la pena esperar al hombre adecuado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you ever settle for someone just because you are scared or lonely. He will never love you the way you were made to be loved. He will never make you happy the way you were meant to be happy.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for the mediocre feeling when the right one is waiting for you. The right love is waiting for you to stop waiting for it to happen.<\/p>\n

Me detuve.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Lee<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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